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And we are the Mothers of Expectation 😅 In my short time as a mother I have found that every frustration and disappointment have been the result of unmet expectations. I expect my husband to do things my way, but I also expect him to know my way even though I do not communicate it to him. I expect my son to love books, to walk, to talk, to learn baby ALS, to listen to my every word, and to eat and sleep when I want. My son is a year old 🤦🏻‍♀️ and I’ve had very high expectations for him since he was about zero days old. I expect my family and friends to be perfect when caring for my son even though I, myself, loose my patience more than I’de like to and remain in a very far from perfect Motherly state. 🧐 Just yesterday, I yelled at my son (who let me remind you is ONE year old) to stop screaming at me. He wanted his bottle and I was warming it up. He was crying and screamed at the top of his lungs right in my ear. After I yelled at him, his face was that of complete heartbreak and his cry intensified in a way I can only describe painful. In that moment I felt like the crappiest mom, but after hugging him, feeding him, and loving him to sleep, I sat back and realized where I had gone wrong. I reached out to my tribe of two 😘 and after gaining much clarity I realized I had too many expectations. Not only of my husband, son, and family, but of MYSELF. I expect to be a graceful mother. One who does not yell and does not become overwhelmed and raises a tiny human in a perfectly perfect environment. LOL. I say, fuck expectations and just LOVE. Love your husband, your children, your family and friends, AND YOURSELF unconditionally because when you replace your expectations with unconditional love, you live a life free of frustrations and overwhelm. Do good, communicate your wants and needs, and know that no mother is perfect and no child is perfect AND no life is perfect. #expectationsvsreality #momprobs #fuckexpectations  #dearmama #inmymotherlyfeelings
And we are the Mothers of Expectation 😅 In my short time as a mother I have found that every frustration and disappointment have been the result of unmet expectations. I expect my husband to do things my way, but I also expect him to know my way even though I do not communicate it to him. I expect my son to love books, to walk, to talk, to learn baby ALS, to listen to my every word, and to eat and sleep when I want. My son is a year old 🤦🏻‍♀️ and I’ve had very high expectations for him since he was about zero days old. I expect my family and friends to be perfect when caring for my son even though I, myself, loose my patience more than I’de like to and remain in a very far from perfect Motherly state. 🧐 Just yesterday, I yelled at my son (who let me remind you is ONE year old) to stop screaming at me. He wanted his bottle and I was warming it up. He was crying and screamed at the top of his lungs right in my ear. After I yelled at him, his face was that of complete heartbreak and his cry intensified in a way I can only describe painful. In that moment I felt like the crappiest mom, but after hugging him, feeding him, and loving him to sleep, I sat back and realized where I had gone wrong. I reached out to my tribe of two 😘 and after gaining much clarity I realized I had too many expectations. Not only of my husband, son, and family, but of MYSELF. I expect to be a graceful mother. One who does not yell and does not become overwhelmed and raises a tiny human in a perfectly perfect environment. LOL. I say, fuck expectations and just LOVE. Love your husband, your children, your family and friends, AND YOURSELF unconditionally because when you replace your expectations with unconditional love, you live a life free of frustrations and overwhelm. Do good, communicate your wants and needs, and know that no mother is perfect and no child is perfect AND no life is perfect. #expectationsvsreality  #momprobs  #fuckexpectations  #dearmama  #inmymotherlyfeelings 
#helpamamaout  I had this great #fbf post planned, but I’m not feeling it right now. So I’ll just post a sweet photo of my Liam when he wasn’t a soon to be toddler who screams at his Mama and only wants to say Dada 🙄 today I do not want to parent. I want to be in fetal position under tons of blankets with a box of donuts on the bed and Netflix in the background. Maybe it’s the toddler transition or #auntflow knocking at my door. Idk, but what do you do when you’ve had enough? When you don’t want to mom, but you gotta keep mommying and no cup of coffee or glass of wine can fix you? Oh, Liam’s First Birthday party is on Sunday and I haven’t put anything together. #oneofthosedays #momneedsatimeout #toddlerhood
#helpamamaout  I had this great #fbf  post planned, but I’m not feeling it right now. So I’ll just post a sweet photo of my Liam when he wasn’t a soon to be toddler who screams at his Mama and only wants to say Dada 🙄 today I do not want to parent. I want to be in fetal position under tons of blankets with a box of donuts on the bed and Netflix in the background. Maybe it’s the toddler transition or #auntflow  knocking at my door. Idk, but what do you do when you’ve had enough? When you don’t want to mom, but you gotta keep mommying and no cup of coffee or glass of wine can fix you? Oh, Liam’s First Birthday party is on Sunday and I haven’t put anything together. #oneofthosedays  #momneedsatimeout  #toddlerhood 
Mom matters too. Our sanity is just as important as baby being fed. I can testify to everything getting easier as the months pass by, but are we becoming to complacent? Are we thinking, "I am exhausted, but this is my life now and baby is all that matters?" Well I am here to tell you that Mom matters too. You matter, love, and you deserve what ever it is that you are craving. Whether it be ten uninterrupted hours of sleep or a weekend at the beach with a romance novel. Make it happen. #benevolentmotherhood #mommatters #selfcarefirst #firsttimemama #selflovewarrior #motherhoodslens
Mom matters too. Our sanity is just as important as baby being fed. I can testify to everything getting easier as the months pass by, but are we becoming to complacent? Are we thinking, "I am exhausted, but this is my life now and baby is all that matters?" Well I am here to tell you that Mom matters too. You matter, love, and you deserve what ever it is that you are craving. Whether it be ten uninterrupted hours of sleep or a weekend at the beach with a romance novel. Make it happen. #benevolentmotherhood  #mommatters  #selfcarefirst  #firsttimemama  #selflovewarrior  #motherhoodslens 
We want a brick home in a beautiful town surrounded by tall mountains and deep seas. We want our children to breath in that mountain air and splash around the ocean blue waters. We haven't found that perfect spot yet, but we are searching and we will continue to search because my husband and I want to give our children and ourselves the lifestyle of our dreams. Where is your perfect home? Or better yet where is your perfect land? Hills? Lakes? Seas? Skyscrapers? #searchingforahome #dreamhomefinder #buildingafamily #dreamlifestyle
We want a brick home in a beautiful town surrounded by tall mountains and deep seas. We want our children to breath in that mountain air and splash around the ocean blue waters. We haven't found that perfect spot yet, but we are searching and we will continue to search because my husband and I want to give our children and ourselves the lifestyle of our dreams. Where is your perfect home? Or better yet where is your perfect land? Hills? Lakes? Seas? Skyscrapers? #searchingforahome  #dreamhomefinder  #buildingafamily  #dreamlifestyle 
I did it, ladies! ✨ I rebranded my blog and changed focus to a set of topics that I have been passionate about for some time now. Family Lifestyle Design and Personal Growth For Mothers 💁🏻‍♀️ I will still write on all things motherhood and parenting, but I will mostly focus on the things we can do to be the mothers we always dreamt of being. I uploaded my very first IGTV episode on Morning Pages. An exercise that has changed my mindset for the better. Be gentle on my soul 😅 this was my very first “formal” video. I also added the link to my Morning Pages Sample PDF to the description of the episode and to my bio. Enjoy! #simplifiedmotherhood #benevolentmotherhood #mothersunite
I did it, ladies! ✨ I rebranded my blog and changed focus to a set of topics that I have been passionate about for some time now. Family Lifestyle Design and Personal Growth For Mothers 💁🏻‍♀️ I will still write on all things motherhood and parenting, but I will mostly focus on the things we can do to be the mothers we always dreamt of being. I uploaded my very first IGTV episode on Morning Pages. An exercise that has changed my mindset for the better. Be gentle on my soul 😅 this was my very first “formal” video. I also added the link to my Morning Pages Sample PDF to the description of the episode and to my bio. Enjoy! #simplifiedmotherhood  #benevolentmotherhood  #mothersunite 
My wish for you; a sense of wander and wonder that is everlasting. ✨ To see more #fridayfacelessportrait inspiration go to @itsjustjulzz next to continue following our loop ✨
My wish for you; a sense of wander and wonder that is everlasting. ✨ To see more #fridayfacelessportrait  inspiration go to @itsjustjulzz next to continue following our loop ✨
Ok. Read these words and think about what they mean to you. ✨ Find what you love to do, do a lot of it, and give it all away. 🤯 What?! These sixteen words speak volumes to me. I LOVE to be a mother, I do A LOT of it, and I want to GIVE IT ALL AWAY. I am constantly trying to be a better mom and learn all the new methods of doing things. I research all the products and I read through countless studies just to find what is best for my son and our family. I don’t just want all that information to go to waste. I want to share it with all of the mothers of the world. I want to give it all away because even though I do not know you all, I love you all. If you are a mother, you understand. 😌 #motherhoodunite #mywhy Thank you to @jadedarmawangsa for introducing me to those words. They have changed my life.
Ok. Read these words and think about what they mean to you. ✨ Find what you love to do, do a lot of it, and give it all away. 🤯 What?! These sixteen words speak volumes to me. I LOVE to be a mother, I do A LOT of it, and I want to GIVE IT ALL AWAY. I am constantly trying to be a better mom and learn all the new methods of doing things. I research all the products and I read through countless studies just to find what is best for my son and our family. I don’t just want all that information to go to waste. I want to share it with all of the mothers of the world. I want to give it all away because even though I do not know you all, I love you all. If you are a mother, you understand. 😌 #motherhoodunite  #mywhy  Thank you to @jadedarmawangsa for introducing me to those words. They have changed my life.
We are a month shy of Liam’s First Birthday 🤯 that blows my mind. As I scroll through his baby photos, I can’t help but feel so much gratitude for the season we are currently living. He is so attached to both mama and dada and I wouldn’t have it any other way. But, it wasn’t always like this. At first, I had a hard time bonding with my little one and transitioning into my new role. If you are having a rough time bonding with your newborn, tap the link in my bio and go read my article. Also, it will get better. I promise, everything will get better. I love you, Mama. #postpartumdepressionawareness
We are a month shy of Liam’s First Birthday 🤯 that blows my mind. As I scroll through his baby photos, I can’t help but feel so much gratitude for the season we are currently living. He is so attached to both mama and dada and I wouldn’t have it any other way. But, it wasn’t always like this. At first, I had a hard time bonding with my little one and transitioning into my new role. If you are having a rough time bonding with your newborn, tap the link in my bio and go read my article. Also, it will get better. I promise, everything will get better. I love you, Mama. #postpartumdepressionawareness 
To brighten up your Monday I want to introduce you to my hubby, Jay Jay and our son’s #babymanbun 💁🏻‍♀️ if you have any tips on managing unruly baby hair PPLLEEAASSEEE send them my way.
To brighten up your Monday I want to introduce you to my hubby, Jay Jay and our son’s #babymanbun  💁🏻‍♀️ if you have any tips on managing unruly baby hair PPLLEEAASSEEE send them my way.
Looking back on old photos and I’m in all my feels with his gummy smile. #forevermyboy
Looking back on old photos and I’m in all my feels with his gummy smile. #forevermyboy 
Six months ago, I shared my thoughts on balancing Marriage and Motherhood. Definitely two of the most important roles I’ve ever played. Today, I came across that article and as I read it, I noticed how much I’ve changed and how, with time, my postpartum hormonal imbalance has stabilized. When I wrote those words, I was in somewhat of a dark place, but I tried to stay positive and be as understanding as I possibly could of my hardships and my husbands. I want to write an updated post now that we will have been parents for a year 🤯 So tell me, in what ways do you balance marriage and motherhood? #motherhood_squares #marriedlife
Six months ago, I shared my thoughts on balancing Marriage and Motherhood. Definitely two of the most important roles I’ve ever played. Today, I came across that article and as I read it, I noticed how much I’ve changed and how, with time, my postpartum hormonal imbalance has stabilized. When I wrote those words, I was in somewhat of a dark place, but I tried to stay positive and be as understanding as I possibly could of my hardships and my husbands. I want to write an updated post now that we will have been parents for a year 🤯 So tell me, in what ways do you balance marriage and motherhood? #motherhood_squares  #marriedlife 
#flashbackfriday to a smiley happy baby. Tomorrow my little bean makes 11 months out of the womb. I thought I had such a calm baby. 🤦🏻‍♀️ The transition to toddlerhood has proven otherwise.  He’s still such a good boy and I wouldn’t want him any other way. He’s perfect. But, boy oh boy, I didn’t know the strength of a child’s scream until now. #prayformysanity #toddlertobe #mynewbornforever
#flashbackfriday  to a smiley happy baby. Tomorrow my little bean makes 11 months out of the womb. I thought I had such a calm baby. 🤦🏻‍♀️ The transition to toddlerhood has proven otherwise. He’s still such a good boy and I wouldn’t want him any other way. He’s perfect. But, boy oh boy, I didn’t know the strength of a child’s scream until now. #prayformysanity  #toddlertobe  #mynewbornforever 
#throwbackthursday to the days when his hair was manageable. If only he would stay still enough to get pictures like this now. #asianbabyboy
I’m back. Liam is back. My heart was aching for the outlet I had with my blog and my mama related IG account. I love the motherhood community and I miss it dearly. I hope to connect and grow with every one of you. ✨ #motherhoodunite
I’m back. Liam is back. My heart was aching for the outlet I had with my blog and my mama related IG account. I love the motherhood community and I miss it dearly. I hope to connect and grow with every one of you. ✨ #motherhoodunite