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{slipper} that moment when you give your puppy a slipper to bite and you’re pretty sure she’ll think she has one of the toddler shoes and she’s being a naughty puppy 😂
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It’s working so far 💕
{slipper} that moment when you give your puppy a slipper to bite and you’re pretty sure she’ll think she has one of the toddler shoes and she’s being a naughty puppy 😂 . It’s working so far 💕
{thanksgiving week 🍁
Home is where the heart is
So let this heart beat strong
May everyone who enters here
Rest in knowing they belong
May the sound of joyful laughter
Echo sweetly through each room
From the moment sunrise floods the Earth
To the rising of the moon
Then into the quite moments
Of each evening may you hear
The whispers of the angels
Singing softly in your ear
- by a Waldorf teacher {so pretty}
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Sitting in a space of gratitude as much as I can this week and beyond
{thanksgiving week 🍁 Home is where the heart is So let this heart beat strong May everyone who enters here Rest in knowing they belong May the sound of joyful laughter Echo sweetly through each room From the moment sunrise floods the Earth To the rising of the moon Then into the quite moments Of each evening may you hear The whispers of the angels Singing softly in your ear - by a Waldorf teacher {so pretty} . Sitting in a space of gratitude as much as I can this week and beyond
{control} Many times we believe we’re safer when we’re able to control everything... only it turns out there isn’t much we can control and we get frustrated {and lose control}. The idea of letting go and trusting feels scary. The unknown... the what if’s... the feeling that we have to take action all the time.
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It’s crazy hard to let go of control... how is anything gonna get done, how will I get the things I want, how will I accomplish anything by letting go...?
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Friends, LET GO. Let go and see what happens. Do like the ocean with its gentle rocking of the waves... take inspired action and then relax and let things come to you... allow space for doing, and space for receiving.
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Don’t try to control the what, the how, the who or the when... it will limit you, it will keep you from all the things. The universe has bigger imagination then you, so don’t get in the way. Just let go and follow what feels good. Trust that your path is already laid out for you. All you gotta do is take the tiny steps {the inspired action}, stay in alignment with who you are and find ways to feel good and joyful as much as possible. This is a great place to practice eft tapping... releasing what doesn’t serve you to make room for receiving all that you desire. .
This is YOUR time! Are you ready to let go to receive, to live your best life? I got you! 
I have a couple eft tapping one on one programs available! Message me to set up a chat 💭
{control} Many times we believe we’re safer when we’re able to control everything... only it turns out there isn’t much we can control and we get frustrated {and lose control}. The idea of letting go and trusting feels scary. The unknown... the what if’s... the feeling that we have to take action all the time. . It’s crazy hard to let go of control... how is anything gonna get done, how will I get the things I want, how will I accomplish anything by letting go...? . Friends, LET GO. Let go and see what happens. Do like the ocean with its gentle rocking of the waves... take inspired action and then relax and let things come to you... allow space for doing, and space for receiving. . Don’t try to control the what, the how, the who or the when... it will limit you, it will keep you from all the things. The universe has bigger imagination then you, so don’t get in the way. Just let go and follow what feels good. Trust that your path is already laid out for you. All you gotta do is take the tiny steps {the inspired action}, stay in alignment with who you are and find ways to feel good and joyful as much as possible. This is a great place to practice eft tapping... releasing what doesn’t serve you to make room for receiving all that you desire. . This is YOUR time! Are you ready to let go to receive, to live your best life? I got you! I have a couple eft tapping one on one programs available! Message me to set up a chat 💭
{going with the flow} when you bring out Christmas decorations and make gingerbread houses before thanksgiving...
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Yeah... not really sure what’s gotten into us this year... I’m thinking it’s the long week off and the cold snowy weather...
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Basically I don’t have a good reason, except, it just feels right 🤷🏼‍♀️ so I’m going with it lol
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When do you bring out your Christmas stuff? {we usually do this mid December}
{going with the flow} when you bring out Christmas decorations and make gingerbread houses before thanksgiving... . Yeah... not really sure what’s gotten into us this year... I’m thinking it’s the long week off and the cold snowy weather... . Basically I don’t have a good reason, except, it just feels right 🤷🏼‍♀️ so I’m going with it lol . When do you bring out your Christmas stuff? {we usually do this mid December}
{Saturday} dear little one, standing there’s so beautiful. Do you even know what you’re made off? You’re made from stars and things that create universes. You are magnificent and kind. You have the light inside you to brighten up the dark. That’s how powerful you are dear.
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Little one , do you know me? Do you know that inner voice, the gut feeling, the emotions... that’s me, your higher self, your other half, your true self. If you listen to me, I will guide you. How? Just follow your heart, follow the good emotions and please little one, don’t worry about how to get there, I know where we’re going and I can’t wait for you to see.
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Dear little one, don’t lose trust in me, in us... never grow to old to hear my whispers. When you feel a spark, a pull, a guidance and when you’re joyful and everything feels light, remember me, remember it means you’re on your path. 
Your path is already written in the stars, there are no wrong turns for it was already planned. The fun is in the journey.
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Dear one, hang in there. Don’t give up. Not ever. 
Each step is taking you closer and closer.
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This was some automatic writing from last night... it typed it up just the way I wrote it... kinda cool.
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Have you ever done automatic writing?
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Don’t dim your light, you were born to shine from the inside out. No matter what! It’s not selfish, I promise... it’s self love and it helps everyone around you rise too!!
{Saturday} dear little one, standing there’s so beautiful. Do you even know what you’re made off? You’re made from stars and things that create universes. You are magnificent and kind. You have the light inside you to brighten up the dark. That’s how powerful you are dear. . Little one , do you know me? Do you know that inner voice, the gut feeling, the emotions... that’s me, your higher self, your other half, your true self. If you listen to me, I will guide you. How? Just follow your heart, follow the good emotions and please little one, don’t worry about how to get there, I know where we’re going and I can’t wait for you to see. . Dear little one, don’t lose trust in me, in us... never grow to old to hear my whispers. When you feel a spark, a pull, a guidance and when you’re joyful and everything feels light, remember me, remember it means you’re on your path. Your path is already written in the stars, there are no wrong turns for it was already planned. The fun is in the journey. . Dear one, hang in there. Don’t give up. Not ever. Each step is taking you closer and closer. . This was some automatic writing from last night... it typed it up just the way I wrote it... kinda cool. . Have you ever done automatic writing? . Don’t dim your light, you were born to shine from the inside out. No matter what! It’s not selfish, I promise... it’s self love and it helps everyone around you rise too!!
{creative juices} when you get together with beautiful souls like this one {and her sister} to create a movement to help kids tap into their inner rainbow, know their worth and get really good at receiving.
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Yeah, we’re up to something goooood
{creative juices} when you get together with beautiful souls like this one {and her sister} to create a movement to help kids tap into their inner rainbow, know their worth and get really good at receiving. . Yeah, we’re up to something goooood
{🧡} hi Friday and almost thanksgiving break!!
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A rough morning doesn’t need to predict the rest of the day. It’s ok to feel it all, let it move through and back out... it doesn’t have to take root, I doesn’t have to pull you in.
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Breathing, finding better feeling thought, going for a run and then getting really present is my strategy today.
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Excited to do some family things this week and have my littles near me for days and days.
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What are you up to?
{🧡} hi Friday and almost thanksgiving break!! . A rough morning doesn’t need to predict the rest of the day. It’s ok to feel it all, let it move through and back out... it doesn’t have to take root, I doesn’t have to pull you in. . Breathing, finding better feeling thought, going for a run and then getting really present is my strategy today. . Excited to do some family things this week and have my littles near me for days and days. . What are you up to?
{✨} when you’re 3 and unstoppable. Super powers are, climbing, jumping and swinging from curtains... yeah he did that
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I have nothing more to say...🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
{✨} when you’re 3 and unstoppable. Super powers are, climbing, jumping and swinging from curtains... yeah he did that . I have nothing more to say...🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
{ta tas} I am stronger then I’ve ever been before. I see myself with a brighter light then ever. This previvor journey with my brca1 mutation has in many ways been exactly what I needed to look within and find my strength and purpose.
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I am strong. I am health. I am lit up from the inside out. I do brave things. I do hard things. I fall apart. I pick myself up. I start over. I know how to sit in the pain and sadness. I know how to move through it. I know how to feel safe. I am an ever changing, growing beam of light. I am here to help others who are walking this same path.
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Finish this sentence below ⬇️
My fears around my being a previvor are...
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With a brave and vulnerable spirit I have created and uploaded a free Eft tapping round on all the ups and downs of being a previvor. The shock, the guilt, the fear of the unknown... the what if’s and self image thoughts... it’s in my link just for you PREVIVOR babes!!
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Yeah having a double mastectomy, reconstruction and a hysterectomy is HARD physically and it’s even harder emotionally. If you’re struggling or just need a positive boost, click the link in my profile, then hit the YouTube tab, there you will find the PREVIVOR video. Let me know how you feel after please.
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PREVIVORS, you got this!! You know where to find me if you need me. I also do one on one sessions... those are extremely powerful bc I get to hold a very special space for you and make it more personal, and that’s where the powers at.
{ta tas} I am stronger then I’ve ever been before. I see myself with a brighter light then ever. This previvor journey with my brca1 mutation has in many ways been exactly what I needed to look within and find my strength and purpose. . I am strong. I am health. I am lit up from the inside out. I do brave things. I do hard things. I fall apart. I pick myself up. I start over. I know how to sit in the pain and sadness. I know how to move through it. I know how to feel safe. I am an ever changing, growing beam of light. I am here to help others who are walking this same path. . Finish this sentence below ⬇️ My fears around my being a previvor are... . With a brave and vulnerable spirit I have created and uploaded a free Eft tapping round on all the ups and downs of being a previvor. The shock, the guilt, the fear of the unknown... the what if’s and self image thoughts... it’s in my link just for you PREVIVOR babes!! . Yeah having a double mastectomy, reconstruction and a hysterectomy is HARD physically and it’s even harder emotionally. If you’re struggling or just need a positive boost, click the link in my profile, then hit the YouTube tab, there you will find the PREVIVOR video. Let me know how you feel after please. . PREVIVORS, you got this!! You know where to find me if you need me. I also do one on one sessions... those are extremely powerful bc I get to hold a very special space for you and make it more personal, and that’s where the powers at.
{11.11.11} umazing meditation on Sunday, so much shedding, so much new. .
Sometimes something big has to happen for us to feel the immense pull to take action... inspired action. There are no coincidences, it’s a map already laid out for us, the unknown organized for us and when we see it unfold it all makes so much sense. We don’t know why the things happen that lead us on our path, and when we follow it step by step, continuing to do the things that tug at our heart strings... we will end up at our purpose.
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This is how I feel right now in this moment. Looking back I can see how I got here, with the passion I have... I can see how I got lead here and how it’s unfolding... so beautifully and easy... even through the pain, I see it. .
My purpose is clear, at least part of it is. I’m taking inspired action, letting go of the ors and trusting the journey. It’s the most powerful yet calming feeling ever. How lucky I am to be at this place, to see it so clearly with such big possibilities.
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Working on so many amazing things right now and enjoying the unfolding of it all.
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How about you?
{11.11.11} umazing meditation on Sunday, so much shedding, so much new. . Sometimes something big has to happen for us to feel the immense pull to take action... inspired action. There are no coincidences, it’s a map already laid out for us, the unknown organized for us and when we see it unfold it all makes so much sense. We don’t know why the things happen that lead us on our path, and when we follow it step by step, continuing to do the things that tug at our heart strings... we will end up at our purpose. . This is how I feel right now in this moment. Looking back I can see how I got here, with the passion I have... I can see how I got lead here and how it’s unfolding... so beautifully and easy... even through the pain, I see it. . My purpose is clear, at least part of it is. I’m taking inspired action, letting go of the ors and trusting the journey. It’s the most powerful yet calming feeling ever. How lucky I am to be at this place, to see it so clearly with such big possibilities. . Working on so many amazing things right now and enjoying the unfolding of it all. . How about you?
{to be seen, heard and understood} when one of her worries is “if I hear about something sad or scary, my anxiety will come back and I’ll struggle like before”
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Stepping out of the car yesterday morning she found herself not able to go inside to start her school day. A fear of panic and tears hit her face as she desperately wanted to protect herself from feeling too weak to handle the unknown.
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I said “girl, back in the car, let’s figure this out and we’ll try again tmrw, lets take today off.”
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We spend the morning talking, tapping and painting. There’s a part of her that fears hearing about sad or scary incidents, that it will bring her big worries and anxiety back to surface... because it has happened before.
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My girl is brave, she’s resilient and she is capable of letting go of her current worries and tap in new beliefs {creating new pathways in the brain}
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We wrote down the affirmations that she felt really hit the spot and we focused on them all day.
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“I can’t control what happens to me or around me, but I can control how I feel about it and how I allow it to affect me”
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“My new normal is letting worries go”
Because even tho hearing something scary used to cause her anxiety, it doesn’t have to anymore, she can allow it to move through and out again.
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“Worries don’t take root inside me”
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And we played around with “what if”’statements. If she’s thinking “what if I’ll get worried, what if I can’t do this, what if I get scared”... we changed it to “what if I am ok hearing about worrisome things, what if I barely notice them, what if I have the best day ever, what if I move through my day feeling light and flowy”.
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She has been scared of the unknown and she’s doing amazing giving these fears a voice, they lose their power and she can let them go... now she’s tapping in new beliefs, a new truth and she’s rewriting her own story.
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This morning she BOUNCED into school feeling unstoppable, safe and with a deep knowing that she’s in control of how she feels, worries don’t have to take root and she’s so incredibly strong.
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mom goals!!!
{to be seen, heard and understood} when one of her worries is “if I hear about something sad or scary, my anxiety will come back and I’ll struggle like before” . Stepping out of the car yesterday morning she found herself not able to go inside to start her school day. A fear of panic and tears hit her face as she desperately wanted to protect herself from feeling too weak to handle the unknown. . I said “girl, back in the car, let’s figure this out and we’ll try again tmrw, lets take today off.” . We spend the morning talking, tapping and painting. There’s a part of her that fears hearing about sad or scary incidents, that it will bring her big worries and anxiety back to surface... because it has happened before. . My girl is brave, she’s resilient and she is capable of letting go of her current worries and tap in new beliefs {creating new pathways in the brain} . We wrote down the affirmations that she felt really hit the spot and we focused on them all day. . “I can’t control what happens to me or around me, but I can control how I feel about it and how I allow it to affect me” . “My new normal is letting worries go” Because even tho hearing something scary used to cause her anxiety, it doesn’t have to anymore, she can allow it to move through and out again. . “Worries don’t take root inside me” . And we played around with “what if”’statements. If she’s thinking “what if I’ll get worried, what if I can’t do this, what if I get scared”... we changed it to “what if I am ok hearing about worrisome things, what if I barely notice them, what if I have the best day ever, what if I move through my day feeling light and flowy”. . She has been scared of the unknown and she’s doing amazing giving these fears a voice, they lose their power and she can let them go... now she’s tapping in new beliefs, a new truth and she’s rewriting her own story. . This morning she BOUNCED into school feeling unstoppable, safe and with a deep knowing that she’s in control of how she feels, worries don’t have to take root and she’s so incredibly strong. . mom goals!!!
{ hi monday} I’ve been waiting all weekend for you 💕 I love a new week, a new day, a new beginning...
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Why, because I get to choose the way I want it to go and how I want to feel... I get to create and color it anyway I want.
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I snuck away from my toddlers grip on me early this morning, meditated and did a round of affirmation tapping... it’s amazing what that can do to light you up from the inside out. After last nights 11.11.11 meditation I’m feeling whole, balanced and lit up. This energy is gonna take me into this new week and continue to work on me physically and spiritually.... feels so good.
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What do you love about Mondays?
{ hi monday} I’ve been waiting all weekend for you 💕 I love a new week, a new day, a new beginning... . Why, because I get to choose the way I want it to go and how I want to feel... I get to create and color it anyway I want. . I snuck away from my toddlers grip on me early this morning, meditated and did a round of affirmation tapping... it’s amazing what that can do to light you up from the inside out. After last nights 11.11.11 meditation I’m feeling whole, balanced and lit up. This energy is gonna take me into this new week and continue to work on me physically and spiritually.... feels so good. . What do you love about Mondays?
{🦈} when you’re felling icky, or like you’ve been swallowed up by a shark.... you stay snuggled up, play board games, follow moms crazy naturopathic orders and drink hot cocoa {😂}
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The snow is falling outside, I have a feeling it will be a mix of snuggles, snow time and hot cocoa for everyone anyways ❄️
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I love how much he loves this shark blanket... I made it 2 years ago along with the girls mermaid fin blankets... I’m definitely gonna make one for the toddler this Christmas too.
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What’s your snuggle style?
{🦈} when you’re felling icky, or like you’ve been swallowed up by a shark.... you stay snuggled up, play board games, follow moms crazy naturopathic orders and drink hot cocoa {😂} . The snow is falling outside, I have a feeling it will be a mix of snuggles, snow time and hot cocoa for everyone anyways ❄️ . I love how much he loves this shark blanket... I made it 2 years ago along with the girls mermaid fin blankets... I’m definitely gonna make one for the toddler this Christmas too. . What’s your snuggle style?
{them} a frequent group of cousins and friends who spend lots of time together... and even tho they’ve been through a lot this week as a school community I want them to know, “you are loved, you are safe, you are fully supported”. I’m so proud of their school and so insanely in love with all the teachers and staff who held such big love for them and allowed space for them to feel heard, to process and to move through a heartbreak together... the love here is massive.
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This is a reminder to hug your littles a bit tighter and a bit longer 💕 to let them know they are amazing just the way they are. That there’s lots of people who are will listen, support and love on them.  That they don’t need to be perfect or be someone to please others, they came here to be uniquely themselves and live out their purpose and dreams.
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We have a chance to do this differently, so let’s do it differently.
{them} a frequent group of cousins and friends who spend lots of time together... and even tho they’ve been through a lot this week as a school community I want them to know, “you are loved, you are safe, you are fully supported”. I’m so proud of their school and so insanely in love with all the teachers and staff who held such big love for them and allowed space for them to feel heard, to process and to move through a heartbreak together... the love here is massive. . This is a reminder to hug your littles a bit tighter and a bit longer 💕 to let them know they are amazing just the way they are. That there’s lots of people who are will listen, support and love on them. That they don’t need to be perfect or be someone to please others, they came here to be uniquely themselves and live out their purpose and dreams. . We have a chance to do this differently, so let’s do it differently.
{saturday} no matter what choices we make, it’s important to feel good about them. If we choose to eat ice cream for example, it’s a good idea to feel happy about it, to enjoy it and savor it... not to feel guilty about it. Just like if we choose to eat a salad while everyone around us chooses pizza, feel good about the salad and enjoy it, don’t feel frustrated and irritated that you “have” to eat a salad. It’s all about how you feel about it. {you can apply this to anything of course}
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I tell the kids this and my oldest says “great, I’m gonna eat all the ice cream and the pizza and feel amazing about it, and still be healthy because I have positive thoughts about it”...
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Ugh lol
{saturday} no matter what choices we make, it’s important to feel good about them. If we choose to eat ice cream for example, it’s a good idea to feel happy about it, to enjoy it and savor it... not to feel guilty about it. Just like if we choose to eat a salad while everyone around us chooses pizza, feel good about the salad and enjoy it, don’t feel frustrated and irritated that you “have” to eat a salad. It’s all about how you feel about it. {you can apply this to anything of course} . I tell the kids this and my oldest says “great, I’m gonna eat all the ice cream and the pizza and feel amazing about it, and still be healthy because I have positive thoughts about it”... . Ugh lol
{grease} Friday hair, don’t care! when mom life hits you hard, time is limited and you have to be out in public... the only way to save it is dry shampoo!!
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Pretty sure dry shampoo is the best invention ever.
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My favorite is the homemade kind. You probably already have the ingredients in your cabinet. And honestly, I think my dry shampoo hair days are my best hair days! You?
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DIY dry shampoo:
• a mix of arrowroot powder and cocoa powder {add the coco to match your hair shade}
• 3 drops each of peppermint, lavender and rosemary doterra essential oil.
• mix
• apply using a makeup brush.
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Peppermint is refreshing and energizing, I love the way it tingles.
Lavender is amazing on skin.
Rosemary is supportive for scalp health and stimulates growth.
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Happy hair day and happy Friday!!
{grease} Friday hair, don’t care! when mom life hits you hard, time is limited and you have to be out in public... the only way to save it is dry shampoo!! . Pretty sure dry shampoo is the best invention ever. . My favorite is the homemade kind. You probably already have the ingredients in your cabinet. And honestly, I think my dry shampoo hair days are my best hair days! You? . DIY dry shampoo: • a mix of arrowroot powder and cocoa powder {add the coco to match your hair shade} • 3 drops each of peppermint, lavender and rosemary doterra essential oil. • mix • apply using a makeup brush. . Peppermint is refreshing and energizing, I love the way it tingles. Lavender is amazing on skin. Rosemary is supportive for scalp health and stimulates growth. . Happy hair day and happy Friday!!
{puppy love} when you’re about to get all the puppy kisses 👅
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one of my favorite pictures ever, so fun! {from last weekend} if the 2 missing kiddos were in it, I’d definitely be our Christmas card 🎄
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Also...
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“It’s not just that your purpose is joy, it is that you are joy. You are love and joy and freedom and clarity expressing. Energy-frolicking and eager” Abraham Hicks
{puppy love} when you’re about to get all the puppy kisses 👅 . one of my favorite pictures ever, so fun! {from last weekend} if the 2 missing kiddos were in it, I’d definitely be our Christmas card 🎄 . Also... . “It’s not just that your purpose is joy, it is that you are joy. You are love and joy and freedom and clarity expressing. Energy-frolicking and eager” Abraham Hicks
{am I ok?} Do you ever get that uncomfortable feeling that someone has an opinion about you...?
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Did you know it has nothing to do with them at all? It’s all about you...
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When you’re experiencing emotion that you have caused someone to have a reaction to you and what you’re doing, that’s your own reflection of how you feel about yourself. It could be an insecurity you have about yourself that is being pointed out to you, or a behavior you’d like to change or let go of.
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This is a great opportunity for growth. Yes it’s uncomfortable and it might even seem unfair that they’re not responsible for how you feel... Ask yourself some simple questions and you’ll find a belief that you’re holding onto, a belief that’s holding you back and keeping you small.
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Maybe it’s like mine that creeps up at times, a fear of standing out and taking up space. When I start to feel like I’ve over done it or I feel like I’m annoying someone, it’s my sign that I still have work to do here... because I know those emotions make me want to shrink and hide. And that’s what I used to do. Not anymore tho. I know this emotion is something I’m projecting onto others and when I feel it, I sit with it. I allow it to get uncomfortable and I work it out. And since I know it’s my own projection I can work on it internally without involving the other person.
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I love making a blend of Bergamot {the oil of self-acceptance} Cassia {the oil of self-assurance} and frankincense {the oil of truth} in a roller ball or in the diffuser. And then I do some tapping and I allow myself to state all the things that I’m feeling in that moment and I start to feel a relief... then I tap some more and I see new possibilities, I forgive myself for believing I can’t stand out or take up space and I change it to things like, I am a vessel of light, I stand out in the most beautiful way, I am safe, I have so much to give and people love being around me, people get what they need from me and I am a blessing.
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You guys, it’s safe to take up space and share yourself and your gifts with the world. Know that when you feel like hiding or shrinking because of someone else, that it’t time to expand. You are the light!
{am I ok?} Do you ever get that uncomfortable feeling that someone has an opinion about you...? . Did you know it has nothing to do with them at all? It’s all about you... . When you’re experiencing emotion that you have caused someone to have a reaction to you and what you’re doing, that’s your own reflection of how you feel about yourself. It could be an insecurity you have about yourself that is being pointed out to you, or a behavior you’d like to change or let go of. . This is a great opportunity for growth. Yes it’s uncomfortable and it might even seem unfair that they’re not responsible for how you feel... Ask yourself some simple questions and you’ll find a belief that you’re holding onto, a belief that’s holding you back and keeping you small. . Maybe it’s like mine that creeps up at times, a fear of standing out and taking up space. When I start to feel like I’ve over done it or I feel like I’m annoying someone, it’s my sign that I still have work to do here... because I know those emotions make me want to shrink and hide. And that’s what I used to do. Not anymore tho. I know this emotion is something I’m projecting onto others and when I feel it, I sit with it. I allow it to get uncomfortable and I work it out. And since I know it’s my own projection I can work on it internally without involving the other person. . I love making a blend of Bergamot {the oil of self-acceptance} Cassia {the oil of self-assurance} and frankincense {the oil of truth} in a roller ball or in the diffuser. And then I do some tapping and I allow myself to state all the things that I’m feeling in that moment and I start to feel a relief... then I tap some more and I see new possibilities, I forgive myself for believing I can’t stand out or take up space and I change it to things like, I am a vessel of light, I stand out in the most beautiful way, I am safe, I have so much to give and people love being around me, people get what they need from me and I am a blessing. . You guys, it’s safe to take up space and share yourself and your gifts with the world. Know that when you feel like hiding or shrinking because of someone else, that it’t time to expand. You are the light!