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    Thomas Gagliano, MSW
    @theproblemwasme

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This podcast will explain why addiction becomes an intimacy substitute to some people. We will discuss what egocentricity and fragmentation is and why they are the true causes of addiction. The podcast will also explain why addicts push away love and help when family and friends offer it. The podcast will help educate the co-addict in learning the difference between loving the addict to health and enabling them to stay in their addiction.

This podcast will demonstrate the need for fellowship and structure, through group dynamics,  as the key to not only stopping the addiction but to stay sober throughout the addicts life.

The impact childhood messages have, verbal and non- verbal, in determining the reason why addicts chose addiction will be explained and discussed in detail.
Hit link in Bio to listen. 👂🏻
This podcast will explain why addiction becomes an intimacy substitute to some people. We will discuss what egocentricity and fragmentation is and why they are the true causes of addiction. The podcast will also explain why addicts push away love and help when family and friends offer it. The podcast will help educate the co-addict in learning the difference between loving the addict to health and enabling them to stay in their addiction. This podcast will demonstrate the need for fellowship and structure, through group dynamics, as the key to not only stopping the addiction but to stay sober throughout the addicts life. The impact childhood messages have, verbal and non- verbal, in determining the reason why addicts chose addiction will be explained and discussed in detail. Hit link in Bio to listen. 👂🏻
In this podcast we will discuss seven key parenting skills designed to enhance self- awareness. Strengthening self- awareness will help bring the best of ourselves to parenting to help raise healthy, strong, confident children and grand children. Understanding which area of our parenting skills is strong and which areas need attention. The listener will be given poll questions to rate himself or herself in each area.

Childhood messages will be discussed in great detail.

Is the child viewing the world the way we think they are?
How do we know for sure?
What are the handed down messages we are giving our children that we may not be fully aware of?
This podcast will also discuss the messages the child gets from society, peers, and the media as well. How do all these messages impact the child’s thinking and emotional state? Hit Link in Bio to listen 👂🏻
In this podcast we will discuss seven key parenting skills designed to enhance self- awareness. Strengthening self- awareness will help bring the best of ourselves to parenting to help raise healthy, strong, confident children and grand children. Understanding which area of our parenting skills is strong and which areas need attention. The listener will be given poll questions to rate himself or herself in each area. Childhood messages will be discussed in great detail. Is the child viewing the world the way we think they are? How do we know for sure? What are the handed down messages we are giving our children that we may not be fully aware of? This podcast will also discuss the messages the child gets from society, peers, and the media as well. How do all these messages impact the child’s thinking and emotional state? Hit Link in Bio to listen 👂🏻
This podcast will discuss the ways childhood messages impact every aspect of our lives, to the intimacy we have or don’t have, our parenting skills, even the careers we choose. I believe that experience and expertise go hand in hand. My experience in overcoming my own issues, revealed the process for self- improvement.

As a child I turned to bullying as an outlet; and as an adult, towards addiction. I sabotaged the intimate relationships in my life. I then realized I had to fix the damage within me in order to fix the damage I caused in my relationships.
Hit the link in my bio to listen!
This podcast will discuss the ways childhood messages impact every aspect of our lives, to the intimacy we have or don’t have, our parenting skills, even the careers we choose. I believe that experience and expertise go hand in hand. My experience in overcoming my own issues, revealed the process for self- improvement. As a child I turned to bullying as an outlet; and as an adult, towards addiction. I sabotaged the intimate relationships in my life. I then realized I had to fix the damage within me in order to fix the damage I caused in my relationships. Hit the link in my bio to listen!
Very excited to be on ‘Me Time with Frangela” Monday 10/22 and Thurs. 10/25. You don’t want to miss it ! Be sure to subscribe to their YouTube channel! 
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When you say #sorry too much #dontapologize #sorrytoomuch #sayingsorry #oops #badhabits #talkshow #metimewithfrangela
A pattern of good choices, over time, leads to healthy habits and helps you take control of your life. Many men and women select a partner they think they can change. Many men and women select someone they think they can fix or control.  #Theproblemwasme
A pattern of good choices, over time, leads to healthy habits and helps you take control of your life. Many men and women select a partner they think they can change. Many men and women select someone they think they can fix or control. #Theproblemwasme 
Knowing your truth to maintain sobriety.
Knowing your truth to maintain sobriety.
The importance of passing down healthy messages down to our children.
The importance of passing down healthy messages down to our children.
Only when we permit the window into our past to be opened, exposing the core of our adult difficulties, can we begin the healing process. #Theproblemwasme
Only when we permit the window into our past to be opened, exposing the core of our adult difficulties, can we begin the healing process. #Theproblemwasme 
How Far Is Too Far When Dealing With Your Kid's Bully. Back on "Me Time w/ Frangela' on Monday, Oct 15 at 1:15pm EST. Subscribe to their Youtube channel to watch!!
How Far Is Too Far When Dealing With Your Kid's Bully. Back on "Me Time w/ Frangela' on Monday, Oct 15 at 1:15pm EST. Subscribe to their Youtube channel to watch!!
Very excited to announce my *NEW* podcast “The Problem Was Me” Now up on ITunes! Hit the link in bio to listen! 🎧🎤
Very excited to announce my *NEW* podcast “The Problem Was Me” Now up on ITunes! Hit the link in bio to listen! 🎧🎤
Les Moonves, Harvey,  Kevin Spacey, Matt Lauer, and Who Knew? Why would male celebrities that have seemingly everything you could want in life act in such self- destructive ways. Tune into the “Popoff Live” tomorrow AM-950 KAHI Radio
Northern CA 4:30 -5:00 est or 1:30- 2:00 Pst
Les Moonves, Harvey, Kevin Spacey, Matt Lauer, and Who Knew? Why would male celebrities that have seemingly everything you could want in life act in such self- destructive ways. Tune into the “Popoff Live” tomorrow AM-950 KAHI Radio Northern CA 4:30 -5:00 est or 1:30- 2:00 Pst
And three times a charm. Back at it with Frangela. "Are You Living Beyond Your Means?" Sounds relatable? If so, tune in at 2:00pm EST today!
And three times a charm. Back at it with Frangela. "Are You Living Beyond Your Means?" Sounds relatable? If so, tune in at 2:00pm EST today!
Back on with “Frangela” Thursday, Sept. 27th at 11:50am EST. We will be talking about “What are 10 things you shouldn't say to your kids?!” .
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What are some things YOU wouldn’t say to your children? 🤔 I want to hear some of yours! Comment Below 👇
Back on with “Frangela” Thursday, Sept. 27th at 11:50am EST. We will be talking about “What are 10 things you shouldn't say to your kids?!” . . What are some things YOU wouldn’t say to your children? 🤔 I want to hear some of yours! Comment Below 👇
Tune into tomorrow to "Me Time" w/ Frangela as we will discuss Helicopter & Lawnmower Parents.
Tune into tomorrow to "Me Time" w/ Frangela as we will discuss Helicopter & Lawnmower Parents.
We don’t practice a fire drill when there is a fire. Instead, we practice a fire drill before the actual fire so we are prepared for what might happen. Similarly, when setting boundaries, the person needs to practice what boundaries they need to set before they implement them. 
Without healthy boundaries, relationships cannot reach their full potential. Couples will suffer confusion and will be unable to establish their responsibilities in the relationship. This includes both physical and emotional areas. Without healthy boundaries, we hurt each other and we allow ourselves to be hurt by others. #Theproblemwasme
We don’t practice a fire drill when there is a fire. Instead, we practice a fire drill before the actual fire so we are prepared for what might happen. Similarly, when setting boundaries, the person needs to practice what boundaries they need to set before they implement them. Without healthy boundaries, relationships cannot reach their full potential. Couples will suffer confusion and will be unable to establish their responsibilities in the relationship. This includes both physical and emotional areas. Without healthy boundaries, we hurt each other and we allow ourselves to be hurt by others. #Theproblemwasme 
Caretakers feel responsible for everyone else’s needs. This often happens when a child assumes the responsibilities of taking care of the parent, instead of the parent taking care of the child. The child will carry this learned behavior to adulthood.
An adult Caretaker will rarely ask for help, feeling guilty if they aren’t able to be everything for everybody. Caretakers allow their partners to become dependent upon them for their every need. #theproblemwasme
Caretakers feel responsible for everyone else’s needs. This often happens when a child assumes the responsibilities of taking care of the parent, instead of the parent taking care of the child. The child will carry this learned behavior to adulthood. An adult Caretaker will rarely ask for help, feeling guilty if they aren’t able to be everything for everybody. Caretakers allow their partners to become dependent upon them for their every need. #theproblemwasme 
If you are in New Jersey tonight @jennymccarthy is doing a meet and greet with author JB Handley on his groundbreaking book “How to end the Austism Epidemic“. One reviewer stated “The perils and prevalence of vaccine injury are real and avoidable, with conditions like Autism that countless families have had to unnecessarily endure from environmental toxins being injected without prior genetic screening for vulnerabilities—including the author's own family with his son—just needs to stop before further collateral damage is done. Just like Big Tobacco hid and stamped out narratives that didn't align with their business objectives (and harnessed the influence of their large advertising budgets with media outlets to steer clear from any real reporting), so too have Big Pharma companies hid, squashed and obstructed true research and reporting with vaccines....”
If you are in New Jersey tonight @jennymccarthy is doing a meet and greet with author JB Handley on his groundbreaking book “How to end the Austism Epidemic“. One reviewer stated “The perils and prevalence of vaccine injury are real and avoidable, with conditions like Autism that countless families have had to unnecessarily endure from environmental toxins being injected without prior genetic screening for vulnerabilities—including the author's own family with his son—just needs to stop before further collateral damage is done. Just like Big Tobacco hid and stamped out narratives that didn't align with their business objectives (and harnessed the influence of their large advertising budgets with media outlets to steer clear from any real reporting), so too have Big Pharma companies hid, squashed and obstructed true research and reporting with vaccines....”