I can’t believe he is already 8! I literally forgot last week and said, nah I think you’re 7. He said, “mom I was born in 2010”! I love his mind and curiosity about life. He is obsessed with Science, Math, History, and Fortnite
There was this one time where I stopped taking photos of my work and posting it to the gram because I didn’t need to because I wasn’t taking new clients. Then I took an extra step to delete all my work because well duh, I thought I wasn’t going to do hair any more and be a life coach.
Once I moved to KC, I transformation took place I woke up one day exhausted from trying to create this other business and realized what the f am I doing? I don’t want to hustle anymore. I don’t want to make shit happen. I don’t give a damn about making six figures, I’ve already done it and still had the same problems (I created in my head) with or without the money.
I want to make women feel beautiful. Be a fun, happy, lovable, easy going gf/mom/friend. I want to create a dream life with no resistance. I want to see what The Universe has to offer if I allow it all to flow to me without forcing it.
Seeing someone take a photo of my work has made me realize what I wasn’t seeing for the past couple of years. Being a hairdresser is MY gift. It comes easily to me, I don’t have to work hard to get results. I absolutely love it and I’m damn good at it because I’ve been taught by some of the best in the business.
So here I repost some of my work that has been turned over to the lovely hands of @heatherpaints_hair , she did a base retouch, brightened some of the ends in front and toned. I randomly heard about Heather from a coworker, and have sent a lot of my clients to her. I knew she could give my clients the results I’ve been giving them for years.
Thank you Heather!!! 😍😍 Warm my heart that all my clients #hairgoals are taken care of!
What if you had no other option, but to sit back and allow opportunity to flow to you? Would you trust it? I really think this is the biggest illusion in our culture that we have to FORCE, HUSTLE, GRIND things for a outcome that reinforces who we think we are. Yah, yah... I hear you saying then nothing would ever get done. But is that really true? We would only take action because we were inspired and guided my intuition. To be continued...
You can’t manifest a new experience if you’re focusing on the experience you’re having in the PRESENT moment (especially if it’s one you’re not absolutely loving)
If you don’t like your physical experience right now, you have to visualize the one in the future you want to create. While you go through every day life choose the thoughts that make you feel good. Yes, negative thoughts will still show up, but DON’T give them any attention and tell them to F off.
These thoughts can be so basic…these are some I use to get me back in alignment
I love the weather today it makes me feel so happy!
I love the feeling of having a clean home, it makes me feel so satisfied.
I love the heater in my car, I’m so lucky to have this.. Yah, see these are basic thoughts that I’m silently rehearsing in my mind.
I definitely could think of some funky negative ones at this exact moment in my life, but why? I don’t want to feel like shit all day.
I’m going through a MAJOR contrast moment in life and I’ve recently chosen to soak it in. Contrast moments allow you to become clearer on what you DO WANT in the future.
The mistake most make is that they get caught up in the contrast moments and they create a limited belief story behind it.
Example: “Oh this would happen to me, I have the worst luck”. “I feel so worthless, what am I supposed to do with my life”. “I’m not worthy of my dream life”. Being positive is not enough. You have to reprogram the voice in your head, the one no one hears. THAT is the place were true transformation can happen!
✨ AFTER swipe ➡️➡️ for BEFORE. I did this color correction right before my move to KC, and man was it worth it! Chunky Highlights and Choppy layers are a girls worst nightmare! 😲⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ With clients like these you can’t do too much because their hair is ALREADY fragile. I add a few highlights then added a shadow root. Then I added some tape in extensions for filler. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Tape In’s are great for this because it gives you an instant fix and sanity for your client while she grows out her hair.
Always focus on the feeling of being SATISFIED to create an over all well being (raise your vibration). You have the power in each moment to choose if you’re satisfied or unsatisfied.
You CREATE the thoughts that make you FEEL more SATISFIED. This smoothie is satisfying purely bc the ingredients I put in it and how it makes me feel. So think of your thoughts as ingredients that you feed your body. Can you upgrade those ingredients?
✨ Maybe, you’ve thought about looking into spirituality or knew there has to been something more to this life. There definitely is... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Most hustle and grind to find their purpose. The more you let go of what you think is and live, you will see the strings that hold you to your limited beliefs.(I definitely have seen my surface over the past few weeks) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ You might feel like you don’t belong here and that’s normal if you’re a lightworker. There is a whole other community of spiritual beings that are into convos that spark your interest...(like me, duh) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Stop focusing on being alone in this journey ask to be guided to a particular group of people to help support you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ You never were meant to do this alone.
I was thinking Nature always reminds us of how to be…
Trees always TRUST. They know there will be changes of seasons and leaves fall because they KNOW they will grow brighter and bigger ones. They don’t care what other trees are doing or how far along they are.
I doubt trees are like oh shit, my leaves are not as orange as I thought they were going to be this year. Damnit, how am I going to compete with that other tree two rows over?
Oh no, what if my leaves don’t come back? What if Spring never comes and it’s just Winter for forever!! I will never grow new leaves and show off to all my friends my potential.
Yah so this is how dumb our ego sounds. Compare, compare, and compare some more until you feel like shit.
The moment you LOOK off your path and do something that someone else is doing because it worked for them. You are out of alignment with YOUR path.
The truth is YOU, yes you have a purpose here on earth. That might be to love at your fullest or to own a million dollar company. The truth is it’s none of your business which one it is.
All you need to do is do the things that LIGHT you up. Do the things that make you feel whole and be aware of these things.
Buying these flowers light me up so I thought I’d share.
#wholefoods I feel like you should have a #selflove flower day for your customers. Maybe offer 40% off a flower purchase once a week. It will make your customers feel good which makes them come to your store more often. Just a thought…#awakenedfemale
Whew I’ve been going through the emotions the past few days. This was a pic from the morning after I had a breakdown while eating chips and salsa with my bf and son (real classy Danielle). The past 4-Weeks I’ve let go of a lot of income and beliefs that I thought made ME, me. All my ego chanted back was, how the f did you end up here again? You worked so hard to avoid this place and to be back at zero? Where did you go wrong?
The past several months I’ve been lucky enough to coach some amazing women that transformed their lives. I decided to take it to ONLY hairdressers. Being in the industry for almost ten years, I have seen women STRUGGGLLLEEE all because of who they think they are.
While on the other hand, I was able to scale my business to six figures, work 3-4 days a week and be my own boss in only 2 years. Sure I was lucky, but I also used some witchery up my sleeve (kind of kidding). I wanted to go out and help hairdressers create their dream life and career until I realized most people believe they don’t deserve that. I was hitting wall after wall and investing in creating content etc. I officially quit 4 days ago. I humbly and embarrassingly accepted that maybe it’s too soon for this concept in the industry.
I feel like The Universe minced my ego. Loaded it into a confetti gun and unloaded it in my face. To say the least, it’s been intense and all the while a relief to know it’s okay because I have a loving and supportive partner, friends and family.
Hustling and grinding does not fit me anymore. I’ve been doing it out of lack and scarcity. Not out of passion. I was scared to lose it all and BAM, I did.
So here I am starting at zero, I’m going to walk my humbled self into a salon and start all over because I know The Universe guided me to this EXACT moment. Does it look like how I thought it would Nah… does it feel like I thought it would…ABSOLUTELY NOT. However, I know the truths from these experiences.
#theawakenedfemale is back and all I want to do is share my life, consciously made products, and food that fills my soul. I’ll be human here because all I am is a mirror for you.
✨ What part of you is holding you back in creating your dream hair business?I imagine a business for your that is over flowing with clients and money. One that fills your soul with each client you meet One that over all supports your well being and higher self. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Is this something you’ve dreamed about too? I’m curious to find hairdresser’s that believe in law of attraction and manifesting. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Or even ones that have heard of all this spirituality things, but don’t know how to use it to support their hair business. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ If this is you or you think it might be you, drop a ♥️ in comment!
•I have hairdresser’s reach out to me all the time and the number one question is how do I get more clients… •You will never be handed a clientele. You will work for it, and once you get it you will nurture it because you will remember the day of not having one. •Being a hairdresser is not for anyone that thinks success is going to be handed to them. It takes a lot of blood (scissor cuts) sweat (hot blow dryer) and tears ( feet hurting) that eventually pays off. •If you are building your clientele right now think of creative ways to make your art of hair more visible. You live in 2018 and have social media at your finger tips. •USE IT •Get creative, have fun, and authentically show up! •Stop making excuses. Stop waiting around to be successful. Chase after it…
⬇️⬇️ Tag YOUR hair bestie that needs a lil love shove in the right direction. You got this!
Hey girl, stop doing client’s hair that you don’t like and who don’t want to pay your prices. Tag In Comments ⬇️⬇️ your hair bestie that needs to let go of that “one psycho client” 🤪😉 #highvibehairdresser#thehairbossbabe
I sat down and took a look at what type of hairdressers I want to represent #thehairbossbabe and #highvibehairdresser 👑 And this is who she is… ✨She knows what she wants
✨She never sees competition. There is no one above or below her. She understands that all hairdressers stand next to each other.
✨She knows when to say “NO”
✨She knows she is worthy af
✨She does not allow the action of others to effect creating her dream life
✨She has no time to gossip about other people because she’s too focused on her OWN life and being her best self.
✨She believes that she has the best luck and everything goes her way
✨She takes time out of her life to take care of herself
✨She always knows that money is generously flowing to her 💥If this is what YOU want to represent or eventually become then COMMENT 🙋🏼♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️ BELOW!!
Balance is always there. First you have to surrender to it...where is there balance in your hair business? Are you drained and over booked? How is this serving you to show up as your best self behind the chair?
✨ As you scroll through everyone’s perfect feed and think why not me, like I use to I hope you remember this. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ No ones life is perfect, even if the gram makes it look that way. I remember only six years ago, I was smoking a cigarette and eating a cupcake on my apartment balcony contemplating why my life sucked so bad, and how the hell I was going to manage another human being physically and financially by myself. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Mind you at this exact moment my son was in his terrible 2’s and I was questioning a lot in my life then lol, gah what mom doesn’t! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Fast forward to NOW and holy shit I have everything I’ve have ever dreamed of in my life!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ One thing that has always kept me in alignment is being truly grateful for the NOW and surrendering 100% to the future while taking action to create my dream life. ✨ That is all and A LOT of f*cking trust in YOURSELF and THE UNIVERSE. Ever single struggle, heart break, fear, debt, scared sh*tless has got me here. I knew it would, I still know everything I go through is for a purpose. ✨ You are no different and remember you are always worthy.