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Today was not good. Missed my appointment to meet with my new grief counselor about my suicidal thoughts, can't find my emergency money, almost got a ticket for my taillight, again, and Khalid's still not brought up any of his Fs. We're just not okay. Days like this, I just want to start over or end. Trying to stay positive and whole, but I just want to be done with todaying for today

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Today was not good. Missed my appointment to meet with my new grief counselor about my suicidal thoughts, can't find my emergency money, almost got a ticket for my taillight, again, and Khalid's still not brought up any of his Fs. We're just not okay. Days like this, I just want to start over or end. Trying to stay positive and whole, but I just want to be done with todaying for today Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #SelfCare  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #BadDay 
The papers are in... after I've been fondled and violated for the second time, this week without a drink or being told I was cute. Since I didn't tell anyone, last surgery, I'll let you in, this time:
Surgery's scheduled for December 26th at 6am in Dyersburg, if anybody wants to take me; otherwise, I'll drive myself home, again

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The papers are in... after I've been fondled and violated for the second time, this week without a drink or being told I was cute. Since I didn't tell anyone, last surgery, I'll let you in, this time: Surgery's scheduled for December 26th at 6am in Dyersburg, if anybody wants to take me; otherwise, I'll drive myself home, again Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #SelfCare  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #SurgeryPrep 
When your doctor on Tuesday refers you to your surgeon on Thursday, and your results aren't back, yet. Good Grief!

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When your doctor on Tuesday refers you to your surgeon on Thursday, and your results aren't back, yet. Good Grief! Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #SelfCare  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #SurgeryPrep 
So, I'm driving in the snow to Dyersburg with no heat, to find out my doctor won't be in the office until 1, then once I U-turn, my doctor's nurse calls to say he'll drive in to see Me! I'm grateful and everything, but Damn! Another U-turn?

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So, I'm driving in the snow to Dyersburg with no heat, to find out my doctor won't be in the office until 1, then once I U-turn, my doctor's nurse calls to say he'll drive in to see Me! I'm grateful and everything, but Damn! Another U-turn? Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #SelfCare  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #SurgeryPrep 
Little resident said I was his first poly-pan patient. I mean, you Gotta learn Sometime, Kid!
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#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #SelfCare #WishCraft #BlackGirlMagic #Enlightenment #Elevation #Evolution #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #StopStigma #FollowUp
Little resident said I was his first poly-pan patient. I mean, you Gotta learn Sometime, Kid! Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #SelfCare  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #FollowUp 
Update: Still not okay. Still sad and frustrated with life and waiting.
I'll never get why you can get to the doctor 20 minutes early, to only end up waiting over an hour. Like, what's the Point? I'm ready to go, Bruh
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#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #SelfCare #WishCraft #BlackGirlMagic #Enlightenment #Elevation #Evolution #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #StopStigma #FollowUp
Update: Still not okay. Still sad and frustrated with life and waiting. I'll never get why you can get to the doctor 20 minutes early, to only end up waiting over an hour. Like, what's the Point? I'm ready to go, Bruh Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #SelfCare  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #FollowUp 
Just a quick recap of Harry Potter, Lenny Kravitz, and the Yolicorn: I was cute, they didn't wanna take pictures, and then we got stuck at the mall during the tornado warning. There's full bags of candy, tho. I hope this is the last Trick-or-Treat duty for me
Our Halloween experience... πŸŒ€πŸ™ˆπŸŒ€
Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss
Jewelry and glitter by @HobbyLobby
#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #AutismMom #Aspergers #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #WishCraft #Bitchcraft #Samhain #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #Halloween2018 #TornadoSelfie
Just a quick recap of Harry Potter, Lenny Kravitz, and the Yolicorn: I was cute, they didn't wanna take pictures, and then we got stuck at the mall during the tornado warning. There's full bags of candy, tho. I hope this is the last Trick-or-Treat duty for me Our Halloween experience... πŸŒ€πŸ™ˆπŸŒ€ Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss Jewelry and glitter by @HobbyLobby #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #AutismMom  #Aspergers  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #WishCraft  #Bitchcraft  #Samhain  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #Halloween2018  #TornadoSelfie 
Our Halloween experience... πŸŒ€πŸ™ˆπŸŒ€
Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss
Jewelry by @HobbyLobby
#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #AutismMom #Aspergers #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #WishCraft #BlackGirlMagic #Evolution #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #Halloween2018 #TornadoSelfie
Our Halloween experience... πŸŒ€πŸ™ˆπŸŒ€ Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss Jewelry by @HobbyLobby #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #AutismMom  #Aspergers  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #Halloween2018  #TornadoSelfie 
Quick update: my infection was removed from my arm... just a small abcess along with my birth control implant, which probably caused it. I drove myself home after recovery to not bother anyone. I'm still very drowsy and sore, but I have a client this evening, so I'm back in business, as usual. No stopping, over here. Thanks for checking on me. I'm good
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#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #SelfCare #WishCraft #BlackGirlMagic #Enlightenment #Elevation #Evolution #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #StopStigma #Surgery
Quick update: my infection was removed from my arm... just a small abcess along with my birth control implant, which probably caused it. I drove myself home after recovery to not bother anyone. I'm still very drowsy and sore, but I have a client this evening, so I'm back in business, as usual. No stopping, over here. Thanks for checking on me. I'm good Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #SelfCare  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #Surgery 
"How does one get over domestic violence?"
You don't. It becomes a part of your journey. The key is getting thru it, so you don't make the mistakes of meeting a wolf of a different dressing, or going back to the comforts of the same. I don't have all the answers, because I'm still in the process of healing, and not everyone's experience it's the same, but here's a few things I'm working on:
Celebrate surviving- I try to congratulate myself. Even in days off regret and resentment, I've made it out of hard circumstances. Accomplishing stepping out is major and many don't make it this far, so there's power in trying.
Making choices- I don't know about any of you, but in lots of relationships, I wasn't always allowed to think for myself. So many years went by that I didn't decide the tv shows, the dinner, what to wear, and how I got to enjoy milestones. I notice myself asking others what do they need from me, or what should I do. It's not healthy. I justify it with it just being what I'm used to. I can do what I want. I belong to no one, but it can be years before some people stop the habit of letting others always decide everything for you, but you gotta be in love with the freedom of... Freedom!
Self care- This one is my biggest challenge. In abusive relationships, you find you put everyone's needs before your own. We do it compensate the pain at home or the fear of the future. People notice by mood, exertion, weight loss/gain, reactions to successes and failures, and addictions. Begin cleaning yourself. Eat and sleep more/less, exercise more/less. Treat myself. Go outside and look at the world and the Vitamin D I missed out on.
This is a start. I have a few more to talk about, so stay tuned
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Jewelry by @earthboundtrading
#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #WishCraft #BlackGirlMagic #DomesticViolence #Enlightenment #Elevation #Evolution #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #StopStigma #MyStory
"How does one get over domestic violence?" You don't. It becomes a part of your journey. The key is getting thru it, so you don't make the mistakes of meeting a wolf of a different dressing, or going back to the comforts of the same. I don't have all the answers, because I'm still in the process of healing, and not everyone's experience it's the same, but here's a few things I'm working on: Celebrate surviving- I try to congratulate myself. Even in days off regret and resentment, I've made it out of hard circumstances. Accomplishing stepping out is major and many don't make it this far, so there's power in trying. Making choices- I don't know about any of you, but in lots of relationships, I wasn't always allowed to think for myself. So many years went by that I didn't decide the tv shows, the dinner, what to wear, and how I got to enjoy milestones. I notice myself asking others what do they need from me, or what should I do. It's not healthy. I justify it with it just being what I'm used to. I can do what I want. I belong to no one, but it can be years before some people stop the habit of letting others always decide everything for you, but you gotta be in love with the freedom of... Freedom! Self care- This one is my biggest challenge. In abusive relationships, you find you put everyone's needs before your own. We do it compensate the pain at home or the fear of the future. People notice by mood, exertion, weight loss/gain, reactions to successes and failures, and addictions. Begin cleaning yourself. Eat and sleep more/less, exercise more/less. Treat myself. Go outside and look at the world and the Vitamin D I missed out on. This is a start. I have a few more to talk about, so stay tuned Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss Jewelry by @earthboundtrading #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #DomesticViolence  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #MyStory 
I'm okay! No... I'm not okay... But I'm okay! Y'all that know me know I'm Always running. It's never just one thing in a day. Today was hair, makeup, #PMP, runway. I was underfed and illprepared; all my fault by rushing. My folks loved on me and checked on me and cheered me on, but y'all... I was Ti'ed! My anxiety was running like nobody's business when I'm overwhelmed, and yeah.. I fell at the show and Then fell right before I left for home... I didn't drive home, tho. I'm resting... And Yes! I'm eating, too! Stop being so Damn Judgy! Sheesh! Love you all!
Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss
Jewelry by @earthboundtrading
#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #WishCraft #BlackGirlMagic #Enlightenment #Elevation #Evolution #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #StopStigma #PurpleMeetsPink
I'm okay! No... I'm not okay... But I'm okay! Y'all that know me know I'm Always running. It's never just one thing in a day. Today was hair, makeup, #PMP , runway. I was underfed and illprepared; all my fault by rushing. My folks loved on me and checked on me and cheered me on, but y'all... I was Ti'ed! My anxiety was running like nobody's business when I'm overwhelmed, and yeah.. I fell at the show and Then fell right before I left for home... I didn't drive home, tho. I'm resting... And Yes! I'm eating, too! Stop being so Damn Judgy! Sheesh! Love you all! Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss Jewelry by @earthboundtrading #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #PurpleMeetsPink 
Just a few minutes til Showtime!
Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss
Jewelry by @earthboundtrading
#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #PurpleMeetsPink #BlackGirlMagic #Enlightenment #Elevation #Evolution #KillEm #IEnvy #BeatFace #KissCosmetics #NYXCosmetics #Fash #Morphe #HipDot #BHCosmetics #StudioPro #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #StopStigma #PMP
Just a few minutes til Showtime! Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss Jewelry by @earthboundtrading #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #PurpleMeetsPink  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Fash  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #PMP 
If you happened to see this gift-wrapped loc bun at the #MemphisComedy Weekend, that was designed by mΓ³i. @sir8383 needed a Touch-up with something extra, and since I Finally had pins on me, we did it up! I don't get to do designs much, so I'm lucky I have clients like this to trust me to practice 
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#Depression #Bipolar #CarpalTunnel #Loctician #Dreadlocks #BrownLocs #HealthyLocs #NaturalHair #LocLove #GoddessLocCharms #LocStars #LocStyles #LongHair #LocPetals #LocBun #BarrelRoll #Natural #NaturalCutie #NaturalHairstyles #Twists #YoliOyayo #Unicorn #UnicornHair #Moonstoner #Evolution #Growth #GrownWithLove
If you happened to see this gift-wrapped loc bun at the #MemphisComedy  Weekend, that was designed by mΓ³i. @sir8383 needed a Touch-up with something extra, and since I Finally had pins on me, we did it up! I don't get to do designs much, so I'm lucky I have clients like this to trust me to practice https://www.facebook.com/YoliOyayo/ #Depression  #Bipolar  #CarpalTunnel  #Loctician  #Dreadlocks  #BrownLocs  #HealthyLocs  #NaturalHair  #LocLove  #GoddessLocCharms  #LocStars  #LocStyles  #LongHair  #LocPetals  #LocBun  #BarrelRoll  #Natural  #NaturalCutie  #NaturalHairstyles  #Twists  #YoliOyayo  #Unicorn  #UnicornHair  #Moonstoner  #Evolution  #Growth  #GrownWithLove 
I got Very busy for #NationalComingOutDay, but it doesn't mean I'm not going to forget to discuss how Domestic Violence affects relationships in alternate lifestyles. When we think of DV, we usually look at men verses women. Ever wonder why? Abusers threaten secrets: orientation, Lovestyle preference, gender identity, HIV status, and survivors can't access services, cuz society first looks at it like individuals having a fight, and Not as a case of a loved one being abusive to their partner, to having to out themselves before being ready, and looked at as moral justice. Which brings me to my next: survivors also hide abuse, to eliminate condemnation of non-hetero, non-monogamous relationships as unhealthy and dangerous. Survivors of same sex, non-monogamous relationships worry about the reaction of the masses within and outside the continuity. If a 3rd is abused, people tend to ignorantly take sides, assuming the tactic is to destroy the structure of the primary relationship, thus met with prejudice and judgement instead of gaining understanding. Technological abuse happens extremely often in #LGBTQIA relationships. Abusive threats, damaging comments are said in code, that appear as playful banter between friends, ignored by others as clearly a sign of harassment, potential outing and prevent revealing signs of help, not to mention frequent calls, texts, and posts to force attention. Surprisingly,  stopping the survivor of being honest about the relationship means outing the abuser forces them deal with the loss of employment, family dynamic, religious and social status, thus threatens their silence. Lastly, just as Any abusive relationship, alternative lovestyles have abusers that no one will love them or treat them better than the abuser, remind them how every one else has left them, and no one will need them as much. Those are few off the top of my head. I hope you start watching the signs of those you know and those you don't
Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss
#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #Suicide #MentalHealth #InvisibleIllness #ReprogramYourThoughts #DomesticViolence #Prevention #Moonstoner
I got Very busy for #NationalComingOutDay , but it doesn't mean I'm not going to forget to discuss how Domestic Violence affects relationships in alternate lifestyles. When we think of DV, we usually look at men verses women. Ever wonder why? Abusers threaten secrets: orientation, Lovestyle preference, gender identity, HIV status, and survivors can't access services, cuz society first looks at it like individuals having a fight, and Not as a case of a loved one being abusive to their partner, to having to out themselves before being ready, and looked at as moral justice. Which brings me to my next: survivors also hide abuse, to eliminate condemnation of non-hetero, non-monogamous relationships as unhealthy and dangerous. Survivors of same sex, non-monogamous relationships worry about the reaction of the masses within and outside the continuity. If a 3rd is abused, people tend to ignorantly take sides, assuming the tactic is to destroy the structure of the primary relationship, thus met with prejudice and judgement instead of gaining understanding. Technological abuse happens extremely often in #LGBTQIA  relationships. Abusive threats, damaging comments are said in code, that appear as playful banter between friends, ignored by others as clearly a sign of harassment, potential outing and prevent revealing signs of help, not to mention frequent calls, texts, and posts to force attention. Surprisingly, stopping the survivor of being honest about the relationship means outing the abuser forces them deal with the loss of employment, family dynamic, religious and social status, thus threatens their silence. Lastly, just as Any abusive relationship, alternative lovestyles have abusers that no one will love them or treat them better than the abuser, remind them how every one else has left them, and no one will need them as much. Those are few off the top of my head. I hope you start watching the signs of those you know and those you don't Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #Suicide  #MentalHealth  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #DomesticViolence  #Prevention  #Moonstoner 
More than 57 million people in the United States (age 18 and older) suffer from a mental illness. Over 50% of women who live with a mental illness have previously experienced some sort of trauma such as physical or sexual abuse (either during childhood or adulthood). Domestic violence can cause an adverse ripple effect on the emotional and psychological state of a survivor. Panic attacks, post traumatic stress disorder, substance abuse, depression and anxiety are often ignited by domestic violence and/or other severe forms of abuse. Issues surrounding poor mental health are often ignored or go unaddressed by society. Coping with emotional and psychological traumas often becomes burdensome for survivors. Stabilizing basic resources can become strenuous and tedious. Persons living with mental illness are overrepresented in homelessness populations, prisons, and often experience economic injustices. Suicidal tendencies, substance abuse and psychotic episodes can all be sparked by violence and maltreatment. Individuals may simultaneously suffer from more than one mental illness. Children exposed to domestic violence are at risk for developmental delays, psychiatric disorders, school difficulties, aggressive behavior, and low self-esteem. While being exposed to a traumatic experience can trigger mental health problems, living with a severe mental illness is likely to increase the vulnerability of a person being abused. In others words, check on yo folks, today, Bruh
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More than 57 million people in the United States (age 18 and older) suffer from a mental illness. Over 50% of women who live with a mental illness have previously experienced some sort of trauma such as physical or sexual abuse (either during childhood or adulthood). Domestic violence can cause an adverse ripple effect on the emotional and psychological state of a survivor. Panic attacks, post traumatic stress disorder, substance abuse, depression and anxiety are often ignited by domestic violence and/or other severe forms of abuse. Issues surrounding poor mental health are often ignored or go unaddressed by society. Coping with emotional and psychological traumas often becomes burdensome for survivors. Stabilizing basic resources can become strenuous and tedious. Persons living with mental illness are overrepresented in homelessness populations, prisons, and often experience economic injustices. Suicidal tendencies, substance abuse and psychotic episodes can all be sparked by violence and maltreatment. Individuals may simultaneously suffer from more than one mental illness. Children exposed to domestic violence are at risk for developmental delays, psychiatric disorders, school difficulties, aggressive behavior, and low self-esteem. While being exposed to a traumatic experience can trigger mental health problems, living with a severe mental illness is likely to increase the vulnerability of a person being abused. In others words, check on yo folks, today, Bruh Makeup by @oyayothestorm, @bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @lagirlcosmetics, @hipdot, @ienvybykiss #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #Suicide  #MentalHealth  #InvisibleIllness  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #KillEm  #IEnvy  #BeatFace  #KissCosmetics  #NYXCosmetics  #Morphe  #HipDot  #BHCosmetics  #StudioPro  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #Prevention  #DomesticViolenceAwareness 
Yeah... So This happened, this morning. I'm Really hate to ask for anything, but I'm Hella broke and only a mere hustler. Y'all know I'm blind as a bat in direct sunlight, so if you can with a dollar or two... I'd appreciate it
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#Anxiety #Depression #PTSD #Bipolar #InvisibleIllness #MiStory #BlindAF #LegallyBlind #Bifocals #OldEyes #WhoDis #ReprogramYourThoughts #FindTheLight #LightAndLove #WishCraft #BlackGirlMagic #Enlightenment #Elevation #Evolution #Bloom #Lotus #InkedUnicorns #Moonstoner #StopStigma #BeABlessing
Yeah... So This happened, this morning. I'm Really hate to ask for anything, but I'm Hella broke and only a mere hustler. Y'all know I'm blind as a bat in direct sunlight, so if you can with a dollar or two... I'd appreciate it https://paypal.me/YoliOyayoBusiness #Anxiety  #Depression  #PTSD  #Bipolar  #InvisibleIllness  #MiStory  #BlindAF  #LegallyBlind  #Bifocals  #OldEyes  #WhoDis  #ReprogramYourThoughts  #FindTheLight  #LightAndLove  #WishCraft  #BlackGirlMagic  #Enlightenment  #Elevation  #Evolution  #Bloom  #Lotus  #InkedUnicorns  #Moonstoner  #StopStigma  #BeABlessing