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Work's not all fun and games... Guess I'll bring fun and games to work 😎🤣🎮
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30 days ago I made a commitment to write a post each day with the intention of putting myself out there to build an awareness of the life coaching business I'd been building and to share any lessons I've gained from my own life to help anyone who read the posts.
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But my own internal fears around putting an honest 'me' out there freaked me the fuck out. So the posting was also a way to force me to face my fears head on. A lot has happened since the. but these were my main fears at day 1:
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- I'm not good enough to help others.
I've since picked up as many clients as I can probably handle right now
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- I didn't have enough experience.
it turns out I knew a lot more than I gave myself credit for. My own coaches, teachers, and mentors have also been invaluable sources of wisdom and experience
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-  I'm not successful enough.
It's not actually about me, but rather how I can help others
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- fear that I'll be disliked or avoided for what I say or do.
The opposite has actually been true. All this opening up has brought me new friends and existing relationships have gotten deeper.
30 days ago I made a commitment to write a post each day with the intention of putting myself out there to build an awareness of the life coaching business I'd been building and to share any lessons I've gained from my own life to help anyone who read the posts. • But my own internal fears around putting an honest 'me' out there freaked me the fuck out. So the posting was also a way to force me to face my fears head on. A lot has happened since the. but these were my main fears at day 1: ° - I'm not good enough to help others. I've since picked up as many clients as I can probably handle right now ° - I didn't have enough experience. it turns out I knew a lot more than I gave myself credit for. My own coaches, teachers, and mentors have also been invaluable sources of wisdom and experience ° - I'm not successful enough. It's not actually about me, but rather how I can help others ° - fear that I'll be disliked or avoided for what I say or do. The opposite has actually been true. All this opening up has brought me new friends and existing relationships have gotten deeper.
Love and Happiness.
It's what everything always comes back to. Sounds so basic, yet it's taken me over 33 years to truly comprehend.
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#lifecoach #lifelessons #love #happiness #life #meaningoflife
I spoke with a client who wants to learn how to start "letting go" of the things that cause stress and pain in her life but has been struggling her whole life with how to do that. So how does one learn how to start doing that?
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We often think that we need to learn something new or expand our knowledge to overcome something that's holding us back. However, take a second to consider that it's not a lack of knowledge that holds us back, but is instead what we already know but just isn't true that holds us back.
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Imagine one day a young boy notices that he's bigger than his friends. Over the next few weeks he discovers that he's slower than his friends. Before long the boy starts believing he's fat. This belief then closes him off from taking up physical activities, creating a life pattern that supports that belief. Now imagine a bunch more similar events occurring and you get emotional baggage.
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Can you see how learning something new to fight something we dont know the cause of would be very overwhelming? Healing or letting go is actually about looking back over events with wiser eyes so we can actually UNLEARN subconscious patterns or beliefs that may no longer be true or just aren't beneficial for us anymore.
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So the first thing I would do for this client is clear out any limting beliefs that are no longer serving her so we can put a stop to the negative behaviour patterns. Then we can start practicing letting go.
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#lifecoach #nlp #nlpcoach #personalgrowth #coaching #lifelessons #happiness #lettinggo #movingon #personalstrength
I spoke with a client who wants to learn how to start "letting go" of the things that cause stress and pain in her life but has been struggling her whole life with how to do that. So how does one learn how to start doing that? • We often think that we need to learn something new or expand our knowledge to overcome something that's holding us back. However, take a second to consider that it's not a lack of knowledge that holds us back, but is instead what we already know but just isn't true that holds us back. • Imagine one day a young boy notices that he's bigger than his friends. Over the next few weeks he discovers that he's slower than his friends. Before long the boy starts believing he's fat. This belief then closes him off from taking up physical activities, creating a life pattern that supports that belief. Now imagine a bunch more similar events occurring and you get emotional baggage. • Can you see how learning something new to fight something we dont know the cause of would be very overwhelming? Healing or letting go is actually about looking back over events with wiser eyes so we can actually UNLEARN subconscious patterns or beliefs that may no longer be true or just aren't beneficial for us anymore. • So the first thing I would do for this client is clear out any limting beliefs that are no longer serving her so we can put a stop to the negative behaviour patterns. Then we can start practicing letting go. • • • #lifecoach  #nlp  #nlpcoach  #personalgrowth  #coaching  #lifelessons  #happiness  #lettinggo  #movingon  #personalstrength 
Post no. 27 out of 30, which means I'm 90% of the way through and on the final stretch. It was only because I was asked that I realised where I was at. It really shows how effective small consistent steps.can be toward achieving a goal.
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I can understand why people make big changes or big leaps forward, it's so much easier to identify and reward. But what was once "big" progress would then become the norm and the only way to feel like you're making progrss is by doing "even bigger" things. It doesnt take long before "bigger" and "more" become unsustainable, leading to burnout or avoidance.
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Post no. 27 out of 30, which means I'm 90% of the way through and on the final stretch. It was only because I was asked that I realised where I was at. It really shows how effective small consistent steps.can be toward achieving a goal. • I can understand why people make big changes or big leaps forward, it's so much easier to identify and reward. But what was once "big" progress would then become the norm and the only way to feel like you're making progrss is by doing "even bigger" things. It doesnt take long before "bigger" and "more" become unsustainable, leading to burnout or avoidance. •
A few weeks ago I had one of the worst runs in my business career. It had been slowly building up throughout the year and culminated at a particularly low point. I felt completely defeated and empty. Turns out it may have been one of the best things that could've happened.
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In the weeks since, I've been working on a new business project that builds on the lessons I've learnt so far. It's got a great energy behind it, with a cool team who are just as excited as I am, and most importantly I'm having a ton of fun with it. I actually couldn't be happier with the way things are turning out. What a pleasant surprise.
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The irony is that if my original idea had "succeeded" I wouldn't of been open to this possibility. It literally took failing and being turned down to allow me the emptiness to have the space for this new opportunity. Sometimes failing is what's necessary to cleanse us of our baggage.
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Quick sidenote for my life coaching business:
I currently have one more life coaching space open to take on a pro-bono client. If you feel that something has been holding you back from where you want to be in life, or if you just want to end the year on a high note so you can start next year strong, PM me. Let me help 🙂 it'll help me grow as a life coach too.
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A few weeks ago I had one of the worst runs in my business career. It had been slowly building up throughout the year and culminated at a particularly low point. I felt completely defeated and empty. Turns out it may have been one of the best things that could've happened. • In the weeks since, I've been working on a new business project that builds on the lessons I've learnt so far. It's got a great energy behind it, with a cool team who are just as excited as I am, and most importantly I'm having a ton of fun with it. I actually couldn't be happier with the way things are turning out. What a pleasant surprise. • The irony is that if my original idea had "succeeded" I wouldn't of been open to this possibility. It literally took failing and being turned down to allow me the emptiness to have the space for this new opportunity. Sometimes failing is what's necessary to cleanse us of our baggage. • Quick sidenote for my life coaching business: I currently have one more life coaching space open to take on a pro-bono client. If you feel that something has been holding you back from where you want to be in life, or if you just want to end the year on a high note so you can start next year strong, PM me. Let me help 🙂 it'll help me grow as a life coach too. • • #grateful 
My "unique" staff hiring process.
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One of the lesser talked about yet super crucial things for any business is company culture. If a business were a person then the culture would be their personality. Whilst intangible, it's one of the foundational pillars of any organisation.
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Company culture should stem from the director and trickle throughout the rest of the organisation. If the director doesn't set a culture, then what typically happens is the company culture becomes formed by the employees. While that doesn't seem like a big deal, it actually has gigantic repercussions.
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Having a company culture created by employees would be akin to a person having their personality determined by their peers, family, and social group. Not only would there be a loss of self, but there would be so much conflicting values and beliefs you'd never be able to understand who they are or what they're about. The person would seem wishy washy and unreliable. It's the same for businesses.
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#myhrprocesscouldusesomework #entrepreneur #business #businesslife #boss #employer #hiringprocess #lifeskills #businessadvice #businesstips #entrepreneurlife #lifecoach #nlpcoach #businessowner
My "unique" staff hiring process. • One of the lesser talked about yet super crucial things for any business is company culture. If a business were a person then the culture would be their personality. Whilst intangible, it's one of the foundational pillars of any organisation. • Company culture should stem from the director and trickle throughout the rest of the organisation. If the director doesn't set a culture, then what typically happens is the company culture becomes formed by the employees. While that doesn't seem like a big deal, it actually has gigantic repercussions. • Having a company culture created by employees would be akin to a person having their personality determined by their peers, family, and social group. Not only would there be a loss of self, but there would be so much conflicting values and beliefs you'd never be able to understand who they are or what they're about. The person would seem wishy washy and unreliable. It's the same for businesses. • • • #myhrprocesscouldusesomework  #entrepreneur  #business  #businesslife  #boss  #employer  #hiringprocess  #lifeskills  #businessadvice  #businesstips  #entrepreneurlife  #lifecoach  #nlpcoach  #businessowner 
There's two types of fear - real fear and illusory fear. Both feel the same in our minds and in our bodies, and can be very hard to distinguish.
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I just found out that my friend was burgled late last night. In her home. She's a single mother. With young kids. It happened while they were in bed. She chased the burglar out with a baseball bat.
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I came home once to a burgled home. The house had been broken into and anything of value was stolen. I slept with a knife under my pillow for weeks afterwards.
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In both events fear was there to protect us, but one was in response to a VERY real and immediate threat. The other was an anxious fear toward an imagined event sometime in an ambiguous future that never came to pass.
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Sidenote: if you live in CHCH around Parklands and noticed anything strange around midnight of the 30th can you please report it. This criminal needs to be caught.
There's two types of fear - real fear and illusory fear. Both feel the same in our minds and in our bodies, and can be very hard to distinguish. • I just found out that my friend was burgled late last night. In her home. She's a single mother. With young kids. It happened while they were in bed. She chased the burglar out with a baseball bat. • I came home once to a burgled home. The house had been broken into and anything of value was stolen. I slept with a knife under my pillow for weeks afterwards. • In both events fear was there to protect us, but one was in response to a VERY real and immediate threat. The other was an anxious fear toward an imagined event sometime in an ambiguous future that never came to pass. • Sidenote: if you live in CHCH around Parklands and noticed anything strange around midnight of the 30th can you please report it. This criminal needs to be caught.
Why have I been offering pro bono life coaching sessions to a limited number of people when I know I could (and probably should) be charging? To fast track my experience and to pay it forward.
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There's a saying that when you teach, both parties grow. Many lifetimes ago I taught stats at uni. One semester I was asked if I could help out this young girl who absolutely freaked out about doing stats because she had dropped out of maths in high school. What was meant to be a one off revision became weekly tutoring sessions.
On Friday evenings.
For the whole semester.
For free.
FML.
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Needless to say the girl passed with flying colours and went on to complete her degree. The funny thing is, because I needed to be better prepared for those private tutoring sessions my own stats abilities improved massively. So when it came time to work on the statistical analysis for my own masters research a year later, it was a breeze, while many of my peers struggled.
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This hasn't been exclusive to coaching either. I trained my current staff at the smoothie bar in basic cafe skills so she could say she had some experience when applying for other cafe jobs. I remember how shit it was in the beginning when people only wanted someone with experience but weren't willing to train me up. It was just coincidental that a spot to work with me opened up not long after.
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Truth is I'm only able to be in a position to write about this because of the kindness of people who gave me their time and support without asking for anything in return. So I guess this is my weird little way of reminding myself to stay humble and to pay it forward.
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#payitfoward #lifecoach #lifecoaching #nlp #nlpcoach #masters #mastersdegree #teaching #humble #giveback #teach #appliedpsychology #personaldevelopment
Why have I been offering pro bono life coaching sessions to a limited number of people when I know I could (and probably should) be charging? To fast track my experience and to pay it forward. • There's a saying that when you teach, both parties grow. Many lifetimes ago I taught stats at uni. One semester I was asked if I could help out this young girl who absolutely freaked out about doing stats because she had dropped out of maths in high school. What was meant to be a one off revision became weekly tutoring sessions. On Friday evenings. For the whole semester. For free. FML. • Needless to say the girl passed with flying colours and went on to complete her degree. The funny thing is, because I needed to be better prepared for those private tutoring sessions my own stats abilities improved massively. So when it came time to work on the statistical analysis for my own masters research a year later, it was a breeze, while many of my peers struggled. • This hasn't been exclusive to coaching either. I trained my current staff at the smoothie bar in basic cafe skills so she could say she had some experience when applying for other cafe jobs. I remember how shit it was in the beginning when people only wanted someone with experience but weren't willing to train me up. It was just coincidental that a spot to work with me opened up not long after. • Truth is I'm only able to be in a position to write about this because of the kindness of people who gave me their time and support without asking for anything in return. So I guess this is my weird little way of reminding myself to stay humble and to pay it forward. • • • #payitfoward  #lifecoach  #lifecoaching  #nlp  #nlpcoach  #masters  #mastersdegree  #teaching  #humble  #giveback  #teach  #appliedpsychology  #personaldevelopment 
The more active I've been with posting on social media the less I've wanted to use it recreationally.
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Once something becomes 'work' it can easily rob the stress relief, escapism, or enjoyment that activity once provided. This is one of the reasons why I discourage people from turning their hobbies or passions into their careers.
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Enjoy what you do for a career, but be very very careful about mixing passion into that mix.
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If you'd like to receive some pro bono life coaching sessions, PM me, I'm wanting to gather a wider variety of client testimonials and scenarios.
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#career #lifecoach #lifecoaching #coaching #mentoring #passion #life #lifelessons #personaldevelopment #selfgrowth #growth #nlpcoach #nlp #entrepreneurship #business #businessdevelopment #selfemployed
The more active I've been with posting on social media the less I've wanted to use it recreationally. • Once something becomes 'work' it can easily rob the stress relief, escapism, or enjoyment that activity once provided. This is one of the reasons why I discourage people from turning their hobbies or passions into their careers. • Enjoy what you do for a career, but be very very careful about mixing passion into that mix. • If you'd like to receive some pro bono life coaching sessions, PM me, I'm wanting to gather a wider variety of client testimonials and scenarios. • • • #career  #lifecoach  #lifecoaching  #coaching  #mentoring  #passion  #life  #lifelessons  #personaldevelopment  #selfgrowth  #growth  #nlpcoach  #nlp  #entrepreneurship  #business  #businessdevelopment  #selfemployed 
In a recent session with a new client they relayed to me how it seemed like they've encountered nothing but sharks in the business world. From my own experience, I would have to agree more often than not.
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It's not that people are bad or set out to harm others. Just like a shark doesn't set out to ruin anyone's day, people are just looking out for themselves. It's why I always always ALWAYS encourage that people seek support and help from those that have no personal stake in what's going on.
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 If you feel like there's been something holding you back or a goal that you wish to achieve, feel free to get in touch. I'm currently taking on a few pro bono clients to work with. Full disclosure: I'm doing to further develop my niche and increase my testimonial pool. If that's all good, PM me.
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#lifecoach #entrepreneur #lifelesson #entrepreneurship #businesscoach #nlpcoach #realworld #motivation #whatdoesntkillyoumakesyoustronger #personaldevelopment #growth #obstacles #obstacleistheway #stoic #stoicism #marcusaurelius #challenges #mindset #coaching
In a recent session with a new client they relayed to me how it seemed like they've encountered nothing but sharks in the business world. From my own experience, I would have to agree more often than not. • It's not that people are bad or set out to harm others. Just like a shark doesn't set out to ruin anyone's day, people are just looking out for themselves. It's why I always always ALWAYS encourage that people seek support and help from those that have no personal stake in what's going on. • If you feel like there's been something holding you back or a goal that you wish to achieve, feel free to get in touch. I'm currently taking on a few pro bono clients to work with. Full disclosure: I'm doing to further develop my niche and increase my testimonial pool. If that's all good, PM me. • • • #lifecoach  #entrepreneur  #lifelesson  #entrepreneurship  #businesscoach  #nlpcoach  #realworld  #motivation  #whatdoesntkillyoumakesyoustronger  #personaldevelopment  #growth  #obstacles  #obstacleistheway  #stoic  #stoicism  #marcusaurelius  #challenges  #mindset  #coaching 
While I've had my share of staff, these two girls stuck with me the longest and were integral to my smoothie business. Although they have both moved onto new stages in their lives, this photo is a stark reminder that no one ever gets anywhere on their own.
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EVERYONE needs support to get anywhere in life. They can also come in the strangest of packages. Anytime you hear someone say that they achieved something great completely on their own, they're either lying, blind, or just plain ignorant. Stay far far away from those people.
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If you're looking to have someone on your team who supports you and challenges you to grow, hit me up. I'm still taking on a few coaching clients fully pro-bono. Let's create an awesome tribe together 💪
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#lifecoaching #coaching #mentorship #mentor #nlp #nlpcoach #entrepreneurship #tribe #team #teambuilding #support #supportgroup #growth #beingbetter #betheexception #payitforward #beingabetterperson #spreadinglove #compassion #honesty #teamwork
While I've had my share of staff, these two girls stuck with me the longest and were integral to my smoothie business. Although they have both moved onto new stages in their lives, this photo is a stark reminder that no one ever gets anywhere on their own. • EVERYONE needs support to get anywhere in life. They can also come in the strangest of packages. Anytime you hear someone say that they achieved something great completely on their own, they're either lying, blind, or just plain ignorant. Stay far far away from those people. • If you're looking to have someone on your team who supports you and challenges you to grow, hit me up. I'm still taking on a few coaching clients fully pro-bono. Let's create an awesome tribe together 💪 • • • #lifecoaching  #coaching  #mentorship  #mentor  #nlp  #nlpcoach  #entrepreneurship  #tribe  #team  #teambuilding  #support  #supportgroup  #growth  #beingbetter  #betheexception  #payitforward  #beingabetterperson  #spreadinglove  #compassion  #honesty  #teamwork 
Committing fully is scary, especially when there are absolutely no guarantees or assurances that things will work. That actually sums up what entrepreneurship feels like a lot of the time. A fuck load of blind faith.
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The lease on my smoothie business ends mid next year. I won't renew. •
After spending the majority of this year constantly on the cusp of packing it all in and running off to move away, travel, and start fresh elsewhere. I've used my remaining funds to cover the lease for the next few months. I'm leaving no room for running away or distractions, it's only eyes forward from here.
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Now why would I do that? Because I believe the business has so much unmet potential. I've seen it.  And when I put it up for sale next year I want it to be the best I could've possibly made it, and so that the next owners can carry that momentum onto even greater heights.
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Side note: taking a very limited number of pro bono clients for my life coaching business start up. PM me for details.
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#burnyourboats #massiveaction #nogoingback #noretreat #notakebacksies #lifecoach #nlpcoach #courage #runtotheflames #runtotheroar #daretomoveforward #feelthefear #eyesforward #nolookingback #myway #doingitmyway #slightlycrazy #entrepreneur #allin #gameface
Committing fully is scary, especially when there are absolutely no guarantees or assurances that things will work. That actually sums up what entrepreneurship feels like a lot of the time. A fuck load of blind faith. • The lease on my smoothie business ends mid next year. I won't renew. • After spending the majority of this year constantly on the cusp of packing it all in and running off to move away, travel, and start fresh elsewhere. I've used my remaining funds to cover the lease for the next few months. I'm leaving no room for running away or distractions, it's only eyes forward from here. • Now why would I do that? Because I believe the business has so much unmet potential. I've seen it. And when I put it up for sale next year I want it to be the best I could've possibly made it, and so that the next owners can carry that momentum onto even greater heights. • Side note: taking a very limited number of pro bono clients for my life coaching business start up. PM me for details. • • • #burnyourboats  #massiveaction  #nogoingback  #noretreat  #notakebacksies  #lifecoach  #nlpcoach  #courage  #runtotheflames  #runtotheroar  #daretomoveforward  #feelthefear  #eyesforward  #nolookingback  #myway  #doingitmyway  #slightlycrazy  #entrepreneur  #allin  #gameface 
First juggling class results!!! 🤹‍♂️
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This is what learning something new actually looks like in real life. I feel that what we see on social media tends to misrepresent this and what we usually see is the highlight reel. In this bizarro world, everything seems "successful" and "perfect". But it can have quite a negative effect on how "perfect" we feel we need to be just to keep up.
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It's a game you'll never win because the "goal" is always shifting and moving out of reach. - You're not always going to know what to do
- There will always be someone better
- You'll not always going to be picked
- You're going to fuck up.
And all of that will be perfectly normal. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other ❤
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PSA: I've got a handful of spaces left to take on for pro bono life coaching sessions. If you would like to find out more, feel free to PM me and we'll chat.
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#juggling #lifecoach #nlp #nlpcoach #circus #learning #growing #personaldevelopment #ittakestime #patience #perserverance #failtosucceed
First juggling class results!!! 🤹‍♂️ • This is what learning something new actually looks like in real life. I feel that what we see on social media tends to misrepresent this and what we usually see is the highlight reel. In this bizarro world, everything seems "successful" and "perfect". But it can have quite a negative effect on how "perfect" we feel we need to be just to keep up. • It's a game you'll never win because the "goal" is always shifting and moving out of reach. - You're not always going to know what to do - There will always be someone better - You'll not always going to be picked - You're going to fuck up. And all of that will be perfectly normal. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other ❤ • • PSA: I've got a handful of spaces left to take on for pro bono life coaching sessions. If you would like to find out more, feel free to PM me and we'll chat. • • • #juggling  #lifecoach  #nlp  #nlpcoach  #circus  #learning  #growing  #personaldevelopment  #ittakestime  #patience  #perserverance  #failtosucceed 
I tried being a more "serious" business person this year. Placing way more emphasis on things like systems and processes, which is a fancy way of saying 'control' and 'profit'. Neither of which are bad, in fact they're essential not just for business but in life too.
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Except I focused on those at the expense of fun. And it didn't work well for me. You need to enjoy what you do (but not passionate, that'll kill ya). There are a lot of great reasons for that:
- it keeps the energy high
- it's welcoming - it creates positive energy
- it encourages creativity
- it opens our minds to learning - it's... well... fun
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I'm going to make some sweeping changes across my life and businessre over the coming months with the key factor being based around fun. Because at the end of the day, the only true success in life is love and happiness.
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#sosappy #sappy #mystaffarebetterthanme #whenstaffoutdoyou #whatwedoatwork #lifecoach #nlpcoach #coaching #success #happiness #entrepreneur #business #personaldevelopment #growingup #maturing #lifelessons #businesscoach #businesslesson #entrepreneur #fun #maturity
I tried being a more "serious" business person this year. Placing way more emphasis on things like systems and processes, which is a fancy way of saying 'control' and 'profit'. Neither of which are bad, in fact they're essential not just for business but in life too. • Except I focused on those at the expense of fun. And it didn't work well for me. You need to enjoy what you do (but not passionate, that'll kill ya). There are a lot of great reasons for that: - it keeps the energy high - it's welcoming - it creates positive energy - it encourages creativity - it opens our minds to learning - it's... well... fun • I'm going to make some sweeping changes across my life and businessre over the coming months with the key factor being based around fun. Because at the end of the day, the only true success in life is love and happiness. • • • @mikscottorn #sosappy  #sappy  #mystaffarebetterthanme  #whenstaffoutdoyou  #whatwedoatwork  #lifecoach  #nlpcoach  #coaching  #success  #happiness  #entrepreneur  #business  #personaldevelopment  #growingup  #maturing  #lifelessons  #businesscoach  #businesslesson  #entrepreneur  #fun  #maturity 
Due to a string of setbacks and heartbreaks, most of this year I've plagued myself with basically wanting to cut ties and run.
Run away from my life here.
Run away from my problems.
Run away from my responsibilities.
Run away from my baggage.
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Because of that I've walked through this year with one foot out the door, not wanting to commit to anything. The paradox is that that non-committal vibe actually just caused things to die, slooooooowly. Nothing is more powerless than indecision and stagnation.
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So it's time I said, "Fuck It! Commit." What truly matters is getting back up and keeping on going.
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I'm currently taking a very limited number of life coaching clients fully pro-bono to help get testimonials and develop my niche. PM for details.
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#commit #commitment #inspiration #lifecoaching #lifecoach #nlp #nlpcoach #coach #coaching #mentor #mentorship #keepgoing #babysteps #dontgiveup #nevergiveup #riseabove #falling #failure #success
Due to a string of setbacks and heartbreaks, most of this year I've plagued myself with basically wanting to cut ties and run. Run away from my life here. Run away from my problems. Run away from my responsibilities. Run away from my baggage. • Because of that I've walked through this year with one foot out the door, not wanting to commit to anything. The paradox is that that non-committal vibe actually just caused things to die, slooooooowly. Nothing is more powerless than indecision and stagnation. • So it's time I said, "Fuck It! Commit." What truly matters is getting back up and keeping on going. • I'm currently taking a very limited number of life coaching clients fully pro-bono to help get testimonials and develop my niche. PM for details. • • • #commit  #commitment  #inspiration  #lifecoaching  #lifecoach  #nlp  #nlpcoach  #coach  #coaching  #mentor  #mentorship  #keepgoing  #babysteps  #dontgiveup  #nevergiveup  #riseabove  #falling  #failure  #success 
Did I ever mention how geeky I am? 😂😂 Have always enjoyed board games ever since I was little. Doing some of the things that brought us great joy as kids helps remind us about the simple pleasures in life. And isn't that what truly matters? 🤓🤓
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Quick reminder - I'm taking on a few life coaching clients fully pro bono to help jump start my business and get some testimonials. Sessions can be held online for those who can't make it in person. PM me for details 😊
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Did I ever mention how geeky I am? 😂😂 Have always enjoyed board games ever since I was little. Doing some of the things that brought us great joy as kids helps remind us about the simple pleasures in life. And isn't that what truly matters? 🤓🤓 • Quick reminder - I'm taking on a few life coaching clients fully pro bono to help jump start my business and get some testimonials. Sessions can be held online for those who can't make it in person. PM me for details 😊 • • #innerchild  #lifecoach  #nlp  #nlpcoach  #boardgames  #childhood  #funtime  #simplethings  #simplethingsinlife  #happiness  #gametime  #coaching  #lifecoaching  #development  #mentor  #mentorship  #mentoring  #help  #helping  #support 
A third of the way through my 30 day posting challenge and I totally cannot be arsed. The voice in my head is telling me that it won't matter if I skip today, that no one will notice anyway.
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Except, we do notice. By letting it slide we unconsciously hurt our integrity and accountability which then lowers our self esteem. The big changes don't come in splashes, they develop over time via gradual waves. Slow and steady wins the long game.
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On a side note I'm wanting to gain additional life coaching experience and feedback to help identify my key strengths witj clients and further develop my niche. So I'm looking to take on a small handful of clients to work with, fully pro-bono. PM me for details.
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#lifecoach #nlp #nlpcoach #coach #lifelessons #growingup #whatadeal #mentor #mentorship #personalcoach #coaching #lifecoaching #betterman #betheexception #bebetter
A third of the way through my 30 day posting challenge and I totally cannot be arsed. The voice in my head is telling me that it won't matter if I skip today, that no one will notice anyway. • Except, we do notice. By letting it slide we unconsciously hurt our integrity and accountability which then lowers our self esteem. The big changes don't come in splashes, they develop over time via gradual waves. Slow and steady wins the long game. • On a side note I'm wanting to gain additional life coaching experience and feedback to help identify my key strengths witj clients and further develop my niche. So I'm looking to take on a small handful of clients to work with, fully pro-bono. PM me for details. • • • #lifecoach  #nlp  #nlpcoach  #coach  #lifelessons  #growingup  #whatadeal  #mentor  #mentorship  #personalcoach  #coaching  #lifecoaching  #betterman  #betheexception  #bebetter