Since I have gone through this myself I wanted to share several ways of spotting a fake friend. This may apply to a different number of people you know or for me it applied to only one person. Through her behaviour I noticed there were many similarities between a fake friend and a narcissist (Ex. It's quite common for narcissists to post about morals and values they think they have on their social media account but they never abide with in real life). Here is a brief list of things I noticed and experienced while thinking I was close friends with Michelle Worden for 7 years.
⑴She is never honest with me and constantly tells lies about everything and anything.
⑵She never tries to take some time out of her busy schedules to see me or help me when I needed it most and couldn't care less about my problems or health but still bombards me to help fix hers.
⑶She made up plenty of stories about me behind my back and told it to any other person she knows.
⑷She never respected me and literally found ways to insult, put me down whenever we met. She constantly tried to teach me"Her non-existing morals" such as Living beautifully means to live being inspired and inspiring others, Nothing can measure your beauty or your worth, Live your life counting blessings and realize the greatness of the smallest gestures. etc.
⑸She always treated me like an option. It took her 5 months to answer my messages. She even disappeared for two years without notifying me about what she had been up to.
⑹She made many comments about my facial and physical appearance. She literally compared her bust size to mine in public on purpose.
⑺Finally she blamed all her actions on me when I confronted her about how I've had enough of the way she treated me unfairly.
So everyone remember "We don't need any Fake Friends" and Michelle-sweetie, I am terribly sorry if you didn't like my honesty. But, I didn't like your seven years of sugar-coated bullshit either🖕🖕🖕