I used to make fun of coaches. There was one girl I knew from high school that did it for a while and I would seriously judge HARD.
When I was with mutual friends we’d mention how it was a little “too much...” those transformations and sweaty selfies…good lord.
So becoming ONE-OF-THEM last year wasn’t easy. I was extremely afraid of the judgement I’d receive. #smalltownprobs
I figured I would do it differently. I would be better. I wouldn’t create the judgement.
I started off learning the basics through my coach and she taught me how to be tasteful with what I shared, but also how not to give a f*** what people thought.
Whether you’re the person that is in the "I’ll NEVER do that" bubble or the person that’s 1% curious, do yourself a massive favor and picture where you could be a year from now if fear of being judged wasn’t an issue.
Imagine if I had clung to that fear and opinion.
I would not be standing on day 364 of my coaching journey with a full-time job of freedom, flexibility, and room for massive growth.
Consider this your sign to move past the eye-rolls and go after what you want.
나도 사람인지라 인간관계에서의 마찰이나 감정 싸움은 생길 수 밖에 없고, 또 상처를 받기도 하고 그 상처에 빠져 우울해지기도 한다.
이럴 때, 나를 붙잡아주고 힘을 주는 가족과 남자친구, 친구들과 지인들이 없었다면 어떻게 다시 웃고 버텨냈을까 싶다.
언제나 사랑만을 주는 가족, 남자친구, 내 지인들 모두모두 고맙습니다.
그 동안 말로 못할 수많은 고통과 어려움을 다 겪을 때마다 다시 긍정적으로 이겨낸 내 자신에게 오늘은 고생했다고 위로해주고싶다.
🙄I dont post pictures of myself much. Dont really know why, dont find my outside image very interesting I guess. This is the way I look when I am properly presentable🤔Hmmmm, that sounds weird, but there you go. I am one of those people with #BodyDysmorphicDisorder ...another syndrome to add to the list...😒...but, it is what it is and I have accepted it all. I donot recognize this person in the photograph. I also had a very hard time with weight and food as a teen which continued until my early 30's. I think I inherited it from my mom, she had the same. I started dieting at 13 and officially became anorexic at 27. I lived alone and could do as I pleased, so I did. I stopped eating altogether. My longest trial was 8.5 days without food, which I found too short. A personal failure. Long story short, my body fought me and eventually won. I still have issues, but my meds keep those demons at bay. Now I just focus on remembering to eat atleast once a day. I am by no means thin!!! My body holds on to every calorie it can and I have pretty much ruined my gut. But, it's ok. It is what it is. I have had a very long journey with too many bumps in the road to look back in sadness and regrets. It's now only: Today😊 And this woman? You can call her Miki...I just see a person I dont know. To me, I am just a soul with a cumbersome body. Again, now, its ok. At my age, you accept, you accept all of what you are, even the bits that dont fit. Live for Today...tomorrow may never come and weeping over yesterdays will only break your heart💔 Today, you are right Here...Fighting, Progressing and Living the Best you can...and thats More than Anybody can Ever do💖 You all should be so Proud...so, so very PROUD...💖🙌🏼💖 NOBODY is perfect, but You are Perfect just the way you are😍💖🌹💖 #youarebeautiful#youareperfectthewayyouare#youarewarriors#beveryproud#livingwithchronicillness#livefortoday 💝 #blessyouall 💝
Sometimes you might think that being yourself isn't enough.
Everyone expects something completely different from you and no matter what you do - it seems like it's never good enough.
But the most important thing is that this is your own life and you can decide by yourself who you want to be.
Trying to be someone you're not, never works out though... So remember! If people don't like the real you, they clearly don't deserve you.
Never forget that you're perfect the way you are!
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Don’t you know that you are magical? That you are powerful beyond belief? That you can achieve anything your heart desires? That any doubt or confusion you have about your path or life are cues for you to tune in and listen to the truth you already so deeply know? Don’t you know that you are worthy? That you are perfect exactly as you are? Because you are? Don’t you know that you can change the world? That you can make anyone’s day better or worse depending on your actions and words? Don’t you know we are all connected? That the actions of one effect the lives of many? Don’t you know you have a responsibility to be and do the best that you can? To build the world that you dream of?
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I wish I could see myself through your eyes ...
Over and over you hear people tell you "but you're beautiful!", yet you don't feel it to be true. ( 🙋, This is me!) You look in the mirror and can't see what all those people are talking about so you start to believe that they are lying just to spare your feelings.
Let me break it to ya sister, they are NOT lying! You ARE beautiful! You are uniquely you and for that you deserve the world. I know it may not be easy to believe this (I still struggle from time to time!), but the reality is is that no one can be you and the world NEEDS you.
Never let what is "normal" or what you seen plastered all over social media change who you are. And stop comparing yourself to those people. You can't compare your chapter one to someone else's chapter twelve. ✌️