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The moment you realize that people are so full of themselves is when you need to walk away. People will play victim and try and bring you down with their nonsense. They love to say that they stopped talking to you when the truth is....you walked away from a toxic person. Don’t look back!!! Life is so much better without negativity. #unbothered #sorrynotsorry #iwillalwaysspeakmymind #mytruth #truthhurts #thatswhyyouwillneversucceed #stophatingoneveryone #youarenotthevictim #youmadeyourbed #setexamplesforyourkids #youcantlietoyourself #overemotional #outoftouchwithreality #growup #stopcryingoveryourmistakes #imtooreal #owell #youarenotmissed #watchmecontinuetowin #sucessfulwomen
The moment you realize that people are so full of themselves is when you need to walk away. People will play victim and try and bring you down with their nonsense. They love to say that they stopped talking to you when the truth is....you walked away from a toxic person. Don’t look back!!! Life is so much better without negativity. #unbothered  #sorrynotsorry  #iwillalwaysspeakmymind  #mytruth  #truthhurts  #thatswhyyouwillneversucceed  #stophatingoneveryone  #youarenotthevictim  #youmadeyourbed  #setexamplesforyourkids  #youcantlietoyourself  #overemotional  #outoftouchwithreality  #growup  #stopcryingoveryourmistakes  #imtooreal  #owell  #youarenotmissed  #watchmecontinuetowin  #sucessfulwomen 
Don't let fear drive your emotions.
Simple rule to live by: WORK HARDER!! #emotionaldistress #selfregulation #thefeargeneration #calmdown #stopblamingothers  #youarenotthevictim #straightenup 
#iAmYourAdvocate
*puff puff* What do y’all think?
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Kinda crazy that the battle over $15/Hour Minimum Wage has as much pushback as it does, and from so-called “experts” who are convinced it would hurt the national economy on a whole.
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As grandpa 👴🏻 would say, “Thts a bunch of Malarkey!”
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What do you think?
*puff puff* What do y’all think? . Kinda crazy that the battle over $15/Hour Minimum Wage has as much pushback as it does, and from so-called “experts” who are convinced it would hurt the national economy on a whole. . As grandpa 👴🏻 would say, “Thts a bunch of Malarkey!” . What do you think?
I am the one @legrawan has been talking about.  Yeh.  He is referring to me.  The one who hasn’t have to prove my loyalty and all actions for him and towards him speaks louder than his slanderous words.  He can call me everything, but HE KNOWS THE TRUTH.  I would rather leave it alone than to lie on someone who did more for him than his fan club likes have ever done, despite of his past behavior of STICKING MIDDLE FINGERS UP to the ones who supported him the most.  Yes.  I give you these scriptures and I pray that you don’t call these words a lie.  Speak truth and watch how the tables will turn for you.  I still want you to win because that’s what GOOD PEOPLE WISH FOR.  Not to wish that you will kill yourself, or to wish that you will die.  Those are not words of a hurt person that’s words of straight evil and malice.  CHANGE WORDS and watch the music change for you.
#knowyourworth 
#stoppublichumiliation #youarebetterthan #maybeyouarenot #almost50 #really #reciprocity #stoplying #youarenotthevictim #iamnotasaint #spellcheckyourhashtags #footinyourmouth #rashdownyourthroat #thisiswhywedidntwork #gladtoseetherealG #NotaG #apologizetoyourself
I am the one @legrawan has been talking about. Yeh. He is referring to me. The one who hasn’t have to prove my loyalty and all actions for him and towards him speaks louder than his slanderous words. He can call me everything, but HE KNOWS THE TRUTH. I would rather leave it alone than to lie on someone who did more for him than his fan club likes have ever done, despite of his past behavior of STICKING MIDDLE FINGERS UP to the ones who supported him the most. Yes. I give you these scriptures and I pray that you don’t call these words a lie. Speak truth and watch how the tables will turn for you. I still want you to win because that’s what GOOD PEOPLE WISH FOR. Not to wish that you will kill yourself, or to wish that you will die. Those are not words of a hurt person that’s words of straight evil and malice. CHANGE WORDS and watch the music change for you. #knowyourworth  #stoppublichumiliation  #youarebetterthan  #maybeyouarenot  #almost50  #really  #reciprocity  #stoplying  #youarenotthevictim  #iamnotasaint  #spellcheckyourhashtags  #footinyourmouth  #rashdownyourthroat  #thisiswhywedidntwork  #gladtoseetherealG  #NotaG  #apologizetoyourself 
😆uɹɐǝl ɹǝʌǝu llᴉʍ noʎ lɹᴉƃ ʇuǝƃoɹɹɐ no⅄😆 ======================== #cutthebullshit #youarebroken #stayaway #shesgonemad #seeya #selfexpression #youarenotthevictim #truthhurts
It’s easy to try and make yourself feel better about all the,lies,pain and discontent you caused. The truth always has a way of slapping you in the face.
It’s easy to try and make yourself feel better about all the,lies,pain and discontent you caused. The truth always has a way of slapping you in the face.
#youarenotthevictim! #stoplayingthevictim UGH! I know way too many people that are constantly playing the victim and playing the poor me card!
Today I realized this as I sat down and had a long conversation with my new health provider about things that have been on my mind regarding my privacy rights being violated and exposed by a very sad individual who clearly have no ethics and is willing to risk their only source of income to be in my business . Some people are just not worth my time and will let this slide . But won’t hesitate if provoked. ✌🏼#bethankful #beprofessional #dontfuckwithme #hippa #donttakemykindnessforweakness #youarenotthevictim #karmawillgetyou but not me #followforfollowback #likeforlikes #like4follower #following #followtrain #follower #follow4like #follow_me #followyou #quotes #memes #sotrue #likeforlikes #likesforlikesback #likes4like #likes #likes4tags #funnymemes @worlds.quotes
Today I realized this as I sat down and had a long conversation with my new health provider about things that have been on my mind regarding my privacy rights being violated and exposed by a very sad individual who clearly have no ethics and is willing to risk their only source of income to be in my business . Some people are just not worth my time and will let this slide . But won’t hesitate if provoked. ✌🏼#bethankful  #beprofessional  #dontfuckwithme  #hippa  #donttakemykindnessforweakness  #youarenotthevictim  #karmawillgetyou  but not me #followforfollowback  #likeforlikes  #like4follower  #following  #followtrain  #follower  #follow4like  #follow_me  #followyou  #quotes  #memes  #sotrue  #likeforlikes  #likesforlikesback  #likes4like  #likes  #likes4tags  #funnymemes  @worlds.quotes
#tbt Back to 10 years ago, when the unhealthy relationship I was stuck in was affecting every part of my life... leaving me an unhealthy, unhappy, shell of a person. I was the victim. I allowed ONE person to define who I was. I remember crying every day, I remember living in fear, I remember hating myself, I remember feeling worthless, I remember feeling like there was no way out, I remember all of it..... I remember the day it all changed, the day that something inside clicked, changing my perspective, changing who I was as a person, changing my life..... for me, it was in the heat of another fight, when a situation arose that forced me to have to kick open a bolted door. That is the moment that I changed. That is the moment that I stopped being the victim,  and started being the heroine in my own story. I remember standing there, looking at the broken door thinking, "I can break down a door with one kick.... what am I doing here?" It was in that moment that I found my self worth. I left. I never looked back. I went from a scared, self-loathing, overweight little girl to a strong, self-confident, independent, powerful woman.... and I am so proud of what I've become! 
If you are feeling stuck today, if you are feeling like the victim in your own story, TODAY is the day to make a change! You are NOT the victim.... you are the HERO!! It's time to break down that door and change your life!!! #sheneededaherososhebecameone #empoweredwomenempowerwomen #tbt #mystory #transformation #fitmom #fitgirls #domesticviolence #youarenotthevictim #beyourownhero #yourlife #yourchoice #bethehero #superherostrong #fitness #girlswholift #instafit #girlsgonestrong #girlpower #powerfulwomen #strongwomen #readyforanything #feminism #strongisbeautiful #breakdownthedoor  #breakthecycle #bestrong #bebold #beconfident #neverapologizeforbeingapowerfulwoman
#tbt  Back to 10 years ago, when the unhealthy relationship I was stuck in was affecting every part of my life... leaving me an unhealthy, unhappy, shell of a person. I was the victim. I allowed ONE person to define who I was. I remember crying every day, I remember living in fear, I remember hating myself, I remember feeling worthless, I remember feeling like there was no way out, I remember all of it..... I remember the day it all changed, the day that something inside clicked, changing my perspective, changing who I was as a person, changing my life..... for me, it was in the heat of another fight, when a situation arose that forced me to have to kick open a bolted door. That is the moment that I changed. That is the moment that I stopped being the victim, and started being the heroine in my own story. I remember standing there, looking at the broken door thinking, "I can break down a door with one kick.... what am I doing here?" It was in that moment that I found my self worth. I left. I never looked back. I went from a scared, self-loathing, overweight little girl to a strong, self-confident, independent, powerful woman.... and I am so proud of what I've become! If you are feeling stuck today, if you are feeling like the victim in your own story, TODAY is the day to make a change! You are NOT the victim.... you are the HERO!! It's time to break down that door and change your life!!! #sheneededaherososhebecameone  #empoweredwomenempowerwomen  #tbt  #mystory  #transformation  #fitmom  #fitgirls  #domesticviolence  #youarenotthevictim  #beyourownhero  #yourlife  #yourchoice  #bethehero  #superherostrong  #fitness  #girlswholift  #instafit  #girlsgonestrong  #girlpower  #powerfulwomen  #strongwomen  #readyforanything  #feminism  #strongisbeautiful  #breakdownthedoor  #breakthecycle  #bestrong  #bebold  #beconfident  #neverapologizeforbeingapowerfulwoman 
Own it, move on and stop your whining. It’s how life works #youfuckedup #yesyoudid #youarenotthevictim as you were a wiling participant #lifegoeson #lifelessons
Most importantly, you must remember that the bullies are more interested in your direct responses to them. Hence, you must never give them the satisfaction by taking the bait. Me talking to a friend about a friend being harass by a bully disguise as a female #youarenotthevictim #stopcyberlynch #bulliesaretheworst #dontplaythefemalecard that's not #feminism
Everything is connected. Every action a reaction. Where is hate there is love. Throw a stone and it causes a ripple. Everything is connected #thoughtoftheday #quoteoftheday #connection #causeandeffect #lawofattraction #whatyouputoutcomesback #youarenotthevictim #livehonestly #buddhism #rippleeffect
Always the victim, never the reason the same things keep happening to you. The same reason people believe what’s said about you. Maybe one day you own your part things might start to take better decisions #youarenotthevictim #ownyourmistakes #onedayyourlieswillcatxhyouv
Where you fit in? 👀 
It’s funny to mock the nice guys. Fuck you for caring. Ha ha. 🙄 
TAKE A NUMBER. Fill out your report; read over it, and shove it up your butt. Lol jk.
No seriously though. This is epic!! I get made fun of ALL the time. I literally don’t care what anyone thinks about me except for my dog, so that doesn’t even matter. I talk more shit than anyone I know anyways. Lol

But this incident report should make you think a little bit. It’s funny, but its insanely true. My ex got back at me by checking the 3rd box under Follow-up action, and he truly believed the 2nd box as well. Lol Consume triple the amount of animal products to get back at me for caring so much about animals. How dare me be upset that he lied about being vegan for two years. Lol Fuck me. Sooo, in return he punished me again and cheated on me with someone named after Cheese. How ironic. People are weird. Lmao

I think I’ve got some dope stand-up comedy routines I could do from those four years of trying to help a sociopath learn how to Human properly. 
Some humans are a lost cause. They’ll beg and cry for you months later though, so stay beautiful. Once you make it through the hurricane you’ll be doper than you ever could have imagined. Trust me.

Dogs are the f’n dopest though; spell dog backwards. It’s not an accident. That’s why @_chicolove is A plant pup too. No one needs to die for us to live. We’re too dope to be walking cemeteries. Have you seen a cow play in the grass? Fucking Grass puppies. These animals have the purest, dopest souls on the planet. They’re like unconditioned children. They are perfect beings that we should be learning from. Not exploiting!! They are closest to the divine truth. ✨ 
Be the change you’d like to see in the world. Just live it. People will follow suit. I promise.. Keep educating everyone when they ask questions, promote the lifestyle; promote love. And help guide your human friends. We’ve been lied to for hundreds of years. There’s a lot to unlearn. 😉

#repost : @austinc7g ;; #incidentreport #iwasoffendedbyavegan #whaaaa #killtheego #youarenotthevictim
Where you fit in? 👀 It’s funny to mock the nice guys. Fuck you for caring. Ha ha. 🙄 TAKE A NUMBER. Fill out your report; read over it, and shove it up your butt. Lol jk. No seriously though. This is epic!! I get made fun of ALL the time. I literally don’t care what anyone thinks about me except for my dog, so that doesn’t even matter. I talk more shit than anyone I know anyways. Lol But this incident report should make you think a little bit. It’s funny, but its insanely true. My ex got back at me by checking the 3rd box under Follow-up action, and he truly believed the 2nd box as well. Lol Consume triple the amount of animal products to get back at me for caring so much about animals. How dare me be upset that he lied about being vegan for two years. Lol Fuck me. Sooo, in return he punished me again and cheated on me with someone named after Cheese. How ironic. People are weird. Lmao I think I’ve got some dope stand-up comedy routines I could do from those four years of trying to help a sociopath learn how to Human properly. Some humans are a lost cause. They’ll beg and cry for you months later though, so stay beautiful. Once you make it through the hurricane you’ll be doper than you ever could have imagined. Trust me. Dogs are the f’n dopest though; spell dog backwards. It’s not an accident. That’s why @_chicolove is A plant pup too. No one needs to die for us to live. We’re too dope to be walking cemeteries. Have you seen a cow play in the grass? Fucking Grass puppies. These animals have the purest, dopest souls on the planet. They’re like unconditioned children. They are perfect beings that we should be learning from. Not exploiting!! They are closest to the divine truth. ✨ Be the change you’d like to see in the world. Just live it. People will follow suit. I promise.. Keep educating everyone when they ask questions, promote the lifestyle; promote love. And help guide your human friends. We’ve been lied to for hundreds of years. There’s a lot to unlearn. 😉 #repost  : @austinc7g ;; #incidentreport  #iwasoffendedbyavegan  #whaaaa  #killtheego  #youarenotthevictim 
"Do something, YOU have choices!" SM Delgado @chacara59 #accountability #BeResponsible #OwnIt #YouAreNotTheVictim
When the awareness short film u made for rape victims gets recognized ! Actor first ! Beauty next !And yes that is me with zero make up ‘ Beauty alone  will never make u a good actor 🙂. A friend of mine told me I am not fair enough and i should try to work on my complexion ! All I have to tell u woman is get out of india atleast once ,U ll know that the only Whites in the world are Caucasian’s ! Everyone else is either Asian or brown or black . While I embrace my ethnicity ,our country is becoming a bunch of plastic white porcelain dolls 😂😂. #embraceyourflaws #actorfirstthough #beautynext  #youarenotthevictim
When the awareness short film u made for rape victims gets recognized ! Actor first ! Beauty next !And yes that is me with zero make up ‘ Beauty alone will never make u a good actor 🙂. A friend of mine told me I am not fair enough and i should try to work on my complexion ! All I have to tell u woman is get out of india atleast once ,U ll know that the only Whites in the world are Caucasian’s ! Everyone else is either Asian or brown or black . While I embrace my ethnicity ,our country is becoming a bunch of plastic white porcelain dolls 😂😂. #embraceyourflaws  #actorfirstthough  #beautynext  #youarenotthevictim 
I do not like liars and fakers and haters
I do not like liars and fakers and haters
Regrann from @vegan4life616 -  @Regrann from @vegancam_pt - I hear a selection of these every day 🙄 When you realise it’s not about you, that you are not the victim, living vegan becomes easy as 🌱🥧 #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #veganiseasy #youarenotthevictim #crueltyfree #vegan #govegan #veganhumour #trysomethingnew repost @m_animallover @belinda_vegan 💚@imaZnowflake - #regrann
@Regrann from @vegancam_pt - I hear a selection of these every day 🙄 When you realise it’s not about you, that you are not the victim, living vegan becomes easy as 🌱🥧 #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #veganiseasy #youarenotthevictim #crueltyfree #vegan #govegan #veganhumour #trysomethingnew repost @m_animallover @belinda_vegan 💚
I hear a selection of these every day 🙄 When you realise it’s not about you, that you are not the victim, living vegan becomes easy as 🌱🥧 #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #veganiseasy #youarenotthevictim #crueltyfree #vegan #govegan #veganhumour #trysomethingnew repost @m_animallover @belinda_vegan 💚
I've been asked this before... Do you miss eating meat? Or do you every cheat and eat like a hamburger??? Gross! No.
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From @vegancam_pt
Do I miss being complicit in animal slavery, torture and murder you mean? No, I don’t miss that. #govegan #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #livelikeyougiveafuck #vegan #youarenotthevictim repost from @fat_hippie_vegan
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#veganweightlossjourney #veganweightloss #veganfortheplanet #veganfortheanimals #vegansofig #vegan #veganisthefuture #veganism #meatlover #meateaters #bananaaddict #leonardodicaprio
I've been asked this before... Do you miss eating meat? Or do you every cheat and eat like a hamburger??? Gross! No. . . From @vegancam_pt Do I miss being complicit in animal slavery, torture and murder you mean? No, I don’t miss that. #govegan  #veganeverydamnday  #veganforlife  #livelikeyougiveafuck  #vegan  #youarenotthevictim  repost from @fat_hippie_vegan . . #veganweightlossjourney  #veganweightloss  #veganfortheplanet  #veganfortheanimals  #vegansofig  #vegan  #veganisthefuture  #veganism  #meatlover  #meateaters  #bananaaddict  #leonardodicaprio 
@Regrann from @indica.vegan - Regrann from @vegancam_pt -  Do I miss being complicit in animal slavery, torture and murder you mean? No, I don’t miss that. #govegan #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #livelikeyougiveafuck #vegan #youarenotthevictim repost from @fat_hippie_vegan - #regrann
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#vegan #vegano #veganism #veganismo #veganguy #plantbased #vegangirl #plantstrong #love #veganfortheanimals#why #maketheconnection #veganbodybuilding #govegan #vegansofig #animalactivist #animallover #crueltyfree
@Regrann from @indica.vegan - Regrann from @vegancam_pt - Do I miss being complicit in animal slavery, torture and murder you mean? No, I don’t miss that. #govegan  #veganeverydamnday  #veganforlife  #livelikeyougiveafuck  #vegan  #youarenotthevictim  repost from @fat_hippie_vegan - #regrann  • • • #vegan  #vegano  #veganism  #veganismo  #veganguy  #plantbased  #vegangirl  #plantstrong  #love  #veganfortheanimals #why  #maketheconnection  #veganbodybuilding  #govegan  #vegansofig  #animalactivist  #animallover  #crueltyfree 
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Regrann from Repost @indica.vegan @vegancam_pt -  Do I miss being complicit in animal slavery, torture and murder you mean? No, I don’t miss that. #govegan #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #livelikeyougiveafuck #vegan #youarenotthevictim repost from @fat_hippie_vegan
Regrann from @vegancam_pt -  Do I miss being complicit in animal slavery, torture and murder you mean? No, I don’t miss that. #govegan #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #livelikeyougiveafuck #vegan #youarenotthevictim repost from @fat_hippie_vegan - #regrann
Do I miss being complicit in animal slavery, torture and murder you mean? No, I don’t miss that. #govegan #veganeverydamnday #veganforlife #livelikeyougiveafuck #vegan #youarenotthevictim repost from @fat_hippie_vegan
@Regranned from @elwingbling -  The victimizers see themselves as the victims ••• the beneficiaries see themselves as the cheated ••• the centralized see themselves as excluded ••• the entitled see themselves as deserving ••• simply because others are able to access some of what has always been kept from them #privilege #equality #oppression #systems #power #representation #zerosumgame #notazerosumgame #victim #youarenotthevictim #clouds #sky #photography #artist
@Regranned from @elwingbling - The victimizers see themselves as the victims ••• the beneficiaries see themselves as the cheated ••• the centralized see themselves as excluded ••• the entitled see themselves as deserving ••• simply because others are able to access some of what has always been kept from them #privilege  #equality  #oppression  #systems  #power  #representation  #zerosumgame  #notazerosumgame  #victim  #youarenotthevictim  #clouds  #sky  #photography  #artist 
The victimizers see themselves as the victims ••• the beneficiaries see themselves as the cheated ••• the centralized see themselves as excluded ••• the entitled see themselves as deserving ••• simply because others are able to access some of what has always been kept from them #privilege #equality #oppression #systems #power #representation #zerosumgame #notazerosumgame #victim #youarenotthevictim #clouds #sky #photography #artist
Some people LIVE in the drama! Time to grow up! You made your bed, now you are stuck in it! #notsorry #karmaisabitch #youdidthistoyourself #nobodycares #youarenotthevictim #growup
You are 100% responsible for all of your actions. Instead of blaming others for the position you are in, reflect on what YOU have done to make your life that way. It’s nobody’s fault but your own. #sorrynotsorry #youarenotthevictim #selfreflection #liecheatandsteal #fuckyou #honeyimgood #realtalk
Non stop! Years worth of proof of who someone REALLY is, and what they REALLY have done, documented and seen by many, many people. Yet they will attempt to put who they really are and their actions off on the person they want to make out as the one doing exactly what they have done.  That is the perfect definition of a sociopath and someone obsessed. It is time for you to GO.  God bless you and yours. #seriouslyneedhelp #emotionallyunstable  #youarenotthevictim #youarethepersonyoutalkabout
Non stop! Years worth of proof of who someone REALLY is, and what they REALLY have done, documented and seen by many, many people. Yet they will attempt to put who they really are and their actions off on the person they want to make out as the one doing exactly what they have done. That is the perfect definition of a sociopath and someone obsessed. It is time for you to GO. God bless you and yours. #seriouslyneedhelp  #emotionallyunstable  #youarenotthevictim  #youarethepersonyoutalkabout 
I've never read or experienced anything more true!! I don't know what it is about weddings, but boy oh boy do you find who your "real" people are!!!! #dumbpeople #youarenotthevictim #liars #fake #sooverit #bewaretheperson #notmyproblem #stopacting #pathetic #growup #backstabber #gotohell
There are people in this world that will knock you down and prey on your happiness. Those toxic people could have excuses as to why that is, but my belief is that the better person will not find excuses, but instead own up to the things they have done wrong. 
#dontpreyontheweak #iwillbiteback #believewhatyouwant #spreadyourstories #blurthefacts #youarenotthevictim #truthwithin #truthwilltriumph #youknowwhoyouare
"I'm busy" is a sad, sorry, tired and piss poor excuse. 
Stick to your day job cuz you suck at being a liar! It's time for the lot of your to grow up and tell the truth. Part of growing up is owning YOUR 💩 not the parts you conveniently remember or what makes you look/feel good or leaves YOU blameless. Not a soul is without a spot or blemish, that means nobody's perfect and YOU are NOT the exception! 
Stop selling people dreams to make yours come true, time is the one thing people can't get back after it's stolen. Stop playing with people's lives and playing mind games! What you've done to someone else always comes back to YOU. So make sure whatever YOU do you're ready to pay the same price you've taken from someone else later.  Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. So if your heart hides lies, deceit, trickery, evil, vanity, selfishness, pride... What makes you think your actions will speak louder than your words? 
#YOUareNOTtheVictim
#WakeUp 
#OwnYOUR💩
#ImBusyism
#truth
"I'm busy" is a sad, sorry, tired and piss poor excuse. Stick to your day job cuz you suck at being a liar! It's time for the lot of your to grow up and tell the truth. Part of growing up is owning YOUR 💩 not the parts you conveniently remember or what makes you look/feel good or leaves YOU blameless. Not a soul is without a spot or blemish, that means nobody's perfect and YOU are NOT the exception! Stop selling people dreams to make yours come true, time is the one thing people can't get back after it's stolen. Stop playing with people's lives and playing mind games! What you've done to someone else always comes back to YOU. So make sure whatever YOU do you're ready to pay the same price you've taken from someone else later. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. So if your heart hides lies, deceit, trickery, evil, vanity, selfishness, pride... What makes you think your actions will speak louder than your words? #YOUareNOTtheVictim  #WakeUp  #OwnYOUR 💩 #ImBusyism  #truth 
Here's the thing you should think about before you think someone "deserves" or "has rights to" children -

Someone who abuses someone in every way possible because of their own incompetence is NOT the victim.

Someone who violates a young child in ways even an adult would cringe at is NOT the victim.

Someone who steals and takes and uses others because they refuse to do for themselves is NOT the victim.

Someone who releases their emotions by physically hurting another human being is NOT the victim.

Someone who manipulates and blackmails someone in order to hide their own actions is NOT the victim.

Someone who exposes their children to their own dangerous and irresponsible actions instead of protecting them at all costs is NOT the victim. 
Someone who creates chaos, turmoil and pain in others lives repeatedly because of their own inability to take responsibility for their actions is NOT the victim. 
And when that person loses their family, their spouse and their children because of years of destroying their lives, that person is NOT the victim. 
The victims are the strong ones who prayed endlessly, loved unconditionally, but eventually found the courage to stand up for themselves and what was right and create a safe space to thrive again.  And the ironic part is - they are typically NOT the ones to see themselves as the victim.
Here's the thing you should think about before you think someone "deserves" or "has rights to" children - Someone who abuses someone in every way possible because of their own incompetence is NOT the victim. Someone who violates a young child in ways even an adult would cringe at is NOT the victim. Someone who steals and takes and uses others because they refuse to do for themselves is NOT the victim. Someone who releases their emotions by physically hurting another human being is NOT the victim. Someone who manipulates and blackmails someone in order to hide their own actions is NOT the victim. Someone who exposes their children to their own dangerous and irresponsible actions instead of protecting them at all costs is NOT the victim. Someone who creates chaos, turmoil and pain in others lives repeatedly because of their own inability to take responsibility for their actions is NOT the victim. And when that person loses their family, their spouse and their children because of years of destroying their lives, that person is NOT the victim. The victims are the strong ones who prayed endlessly, loved unconditionally, but eventually found the courage to stand up for themselves and what was right and create a safe space to thrive again. And the ironic part is - they are typically NOT the ones to see themselves as the victim.
If one good thing came out of the drama and hell, it was seeing John Mayer on Thursday night & he kicked ass 🤘🏻 @johnmayer #thesearchforeverything #thesearchforeverythingtour #JohnMayer #London #whatafewdays #drama #youarenotthevictim #concert #o2arenalondon
Some people will always continue to put down and critizes others and i truley feel sorry for them. Especially when this sort of behavior continues for years on end. I sometimes feel like saying, you are traped in your own mind my dear and you Landed yourself here. only you can get yourself out of this distructive, nasty hatered, ego minded hell you have landed yourself at. And all  because of your own self doubt. You have to burn fire everywhere you go!! Perhaps its just time to seek the right proffessional help  instead of going around sabbataging and destroying others lives dragging people through mud,  because this shit is not normal. And sadly it is everywhere. We are all human just battling along. We are meant to lift each other not bury each other. #peaceandlove #saynotobullying #stopblamming #mimdbodyspirit #mumlife #antibullying #youarenotthevictim #antibullyingcampaign
Some people will always continue to put down and critizes others and i truley feel sorry for them. Especially when this sort of behavior continues for years on end. I sometimes feel like saying, you are traped in your own mind my dear and you Landed yourself here. only you can get yourself out of this distructive, nasty hatered, ego minded hell you have landed yourself at. And all because of your own self doubt. You have to burn fire everywhere you go!! Perhaps its just time to seek the right proffessional help instead of going around sabbataging and destroying others lives dragging people through mud, because this shit is not normal. And sadly it is everywhere. We are all human just battling along. We are meant to lift each other not bury each other. #peaceandlove  #saynotobullying  #stopblamming  #mimdbodyspirit  #mumlife  #antibullying  #youarenotthevictim  #antibullyingcampaign 
Treating someone like shit makes you the attacker not the victim. Unless said other person is being an attacker as well. In that case, you're both whiney and stupid. #kindadumbshitisthat #truth #preach #probablypreachingtothechoir #youarenotthevictim #youmightbeabitchtho #thatsnotsomethingtobeproudof
You don't check on me. I don't check on you. We even! #dontactlikethat #youarenotthevictim #treatyouthewayyoutreatme #ijs #thisgoesbothways #nolovelost