and made the woman that I am vanish into thin air.
All the things I thought he loved about me he despised and made it certain to show his disdain.But at the end of the day my heart was heavy and it hurts because I loved him with all my heart. The sad thing is I still do.
Never let anyone tell you who you should be, how you should act , that your “ways” are not normal. If only you were “normal” .
YOU ARE ENOUGH and so much more .
being sensitive is NOT a sign of weakness
Love yourself first , be in love with you. you are enough .
From here on out I want to help people who are dealing with any form of abuse big or small.
pearlanddotvintage is going to donate a portion of your orders to a charity we hold dear to us. Even just a little bit is going towards a positive tomorrow ,a positive future and you are also reducing waste and helping the planet by shopping vintage.
You. Are . Amazing
You. Are. Enough
a lot has changed for me in a year. a lot of heartbreak , a lot of things one person cannot endure. people say pick your self up , don’t dwell . it’s damn hard. But I am going to make a small change that hopefully helps someone out there even in a small way.
this past year has been filled with a lot of ups and downs. So much heartbreak so much loss, but sadly a loss of self is the most heartbreaking.
to have to deal with emotional abuse even in its slightest sense is still abuse and no woman should ever deal with feeling so vulnerable, unsafe mentally and small.
something you thought was true love feels like empty promises now.How can someone say they love you and treat you like they can just take your heart time and time again and leave it shattered on the floor with all the hurtful words that came with it. belittle me , condescend ,gaslight me,make me feel like I was going crazy . then ask “didn’t I support you?” your words cut me like a knife and your anger was like a volcano.
sadly love isn’t enough, you need friends you need a career that you love . If your significant other isn’t letting you find that again it’s not your fault he isn’t supportive. if you continually show the person you “love” how disappointed you are how I did him wrong and how he felt and how he didn’t deserve this , how I owed him how I was deceiving making it my fault but in the end he did all those things to me.
you decided to have the same change of heart in your career path and expect it to be like it’s nothing and you don’t need to explain yourself that’s not OK that’s selfish and manipulative.
how can you be selfless and selfish in a relationship?
I am doing the best I can dealing with my mental health going to therapy , group therapy , reading self care books trying to get on the right track. But he looked down and called me lazy & didn’t think I was “doing anything to better yourself you are a burden to me” “you are useless , you don’t make enough money , your so tiring to be around”. I started to believe maybe he was right . Your narcissistic ways held my heart hostage .-(contd next post)
Such a fruitful experience today, thank you so much for the dope convo, beyond amazing painting, and just the all around vibe❗️You have such a beautiful soul, continue to walk in your light. 🎨 @brittney_the_vibe
What do you see when you look in the mirror? ...... Well let me tell you what I see. I see QUEENS, I SEE KINGS. My eyes are not trained to see the weaknesses, the failures, the times you almost made it. They are trained to see what can be, what is meant to be and what is suppose to be. Dont lower your value based off off what someone else thinks of you. Your value is determined by what YOU see when you look at yourself. You may not be where you want to be but GOD will place you where you need to be. Just have some FAITH, and until then I will be your cheerleader 💋 #begreat#beawesome#beyou#befabulous#beyourself#loveyourself#loveyourselffirst 💋 #women#womenimpowerment#womenimpoweringwomen
💜Behind Every Successful Woman is a Tribe of other Successful Women Who Have Her Back💜 “No thanks”
“Not for me”
All phrases previously spoken by myself, fellow Stylists and Executives in Color Street that many are now earning six figures yearly. $129 that’s IT!
No monthly minimums, No weird fees, just an amazing product and an opportunity of a lifetime!
All women need to be more KIND to other women. Let each be their own and do their thing without need to judge. Unless anyone is personally harming you or your loved ones, who cares, right? Let’s build each other up and teach our daughters the same! 💥#nojudgements#womenimpoweringwomen#selfconfidence
My arms are shaking from holding myself up!
I’m dripping in sweat!
BUT IM STILL SMILING? Why you ask?
It’s because I can go to school all day and sit on my ass.. and then come home and between doing my homework I can fit a workout in without leaving my house!
I’m getting stronger everyday! And feeling AMAZING!!
Want to feel that happiness?
Invest in yourself! Make that change! What’s stopping you?
YOU ARE WORTH IT! Don’t let anyone else tell you other wise!
Send me a message if you want to know more!
Love it!! Something to think about on this beautiful Thursday! Tag someone that has been that person for you!! I have so many amazing selfless women in my life I don't know how I can just name one! And they probably wouldn't want me too either, its just the kind of women they are. ❤❤❤ @whimzicalwoods you killed it again!❤
I'm excited to announce the dates for the 2019 IGNITE YOUR BEST LIFE retreat. ✨ ∞ IGNITE YOUR BEST LIFE 2019 ∞
Save the Date - January 25, 26, & 27, 2019
A 3 Day Retreat in Tropical Panama —
To ACTIVATE and IGNITE your BEST LIFE in 2019
Join me in paradise for this 3 day FUN yet intensive New Year's experience for developing your personal roadmap for navigating the unique journey into your fulfilled life. ✨ ∞ Leave behind the self-sabotage so you can fulfill your greatest dreams. ✨ ∞ Let go of procrastination so that you can own everyday like a rockstar. ✨ ∞ Release the self-doubt so that you can have the confidence that's yours to claim. ✨ ∞ Say goodbye to your limiting beliefs so that you can master your value and self worth. ✨ ∞ Leave the retreat knowing that you have set solid intentions and have the roadmap necessary to steer 2019 into YOUR BEST YEAR yet. ✨
Limited spaces available — type "2019" in the comments below if you would like to be notified of the details FIRST!
Sacred Sunday in Action.
Sunshine here on the farm this morning. I’ve taken my daily practice outside to journal and tarot and stretch into the day. ✨
Immediately upon shuffling the deck (Dali Universal Tarot) this card fell out. ✨
Three of Swords: Most problems arise out of separation of abstract thoughts and your real feelings. Obsessive use and rigid ideas refuse to be checked against actual experience, paralyzing your mental and emotional faculties. Like a thorn in the side, they are a source of constant pain and irritation. Shed light on your memories and expectations. Do not be afraid of painful truths. All wounds heal if you tend to them. ✨
This card reminds us not to give up. To risk being more honest and authentic. To let go of our preconceived ideas. And to know that great relief will be yours when your heart is set free again. ✨
As I look back over the August of Awesome time we spent together I see how many of you dared yourself to step into more vulnerability, including myself. This is freedom my friends. This is authenticity in action. And as we move into this beautiful month of September I encourage you all to keep the Conversation going and continue to dive deep into your truth and vulnerabilities because this is where the relief will come from. ✨
//Satur-yay or Satur-nay?// •
When we are young we hurry to grow up. We wonder what it's like to be independent and make our own choices. We can't wait. That's how excited we are. It kinda reminds me of med school. When you start, you dream big. You dream being at the right place at the right time- making the calls. •
You want to be responsible for someone's life. Take matters into your own hands.
And that, dear med student, makes you special. But there is no reason to rush the process.
Because once you get there, once you make the call...your world is going to change.
It's not that you are in charge now or responsible, neither the fact that it got real.
It just got personal.
Two claps for @slg882007 for walking into the @burnbootcamplexingtonsc doors for the first time today 🙌🔥 We used to be on the colorguard together at WKHS where she would inspire me to become better every single day. Here we are today where the roles have flipped. When Shana came in, she told me my social media post inspired her to walk in and began her fitness journey at burn boot camp! How incredible is that?! She crushed her workout, and gave 100% of what her body was able to give. Who is the real inspiration here? 💙 #firstcamp#anothersurvivor#postyourprogress#womenimpoweringwomen#burnbootcamplexingtonsc
Holding the gifts of wisdom
The Australian culture is immersed with complaining, whining and overwhelming blame and shame. The Tall Poppy syndrome still runs rampant through the fabric of our communities. Imagine if you flipped the switch and embraced the moments you are truly thankful for. The gratitude for your experiences, for the people around you and the ability to create in a world where so many are struggling.
Humility recognizes that you own nothing. Everything around you is a gift. Your life, your presence and your experiences are all gifts of wisdom. A humble person appreciates the fact that the world does not revolve around him or her and accepts their position as just a tiny piece in the giant puzzle.
Women have been trained to speak softly and carry a lipstick. Those days are over. 💄
Women month have come to an end and I hope every women had the chance to feel like a women and that any man treated you the way you deserve to be treated. It broke my heart to know in this month there were still many women that have been abused and been treated like she had no worth. Just because this month is over doesn't it mean you can treated us different. Treat a women everyday as if it's everyday women's day.
Ladies we need to back each other and support each other instead of bad-mouthing each other and stab each other in the back !! -EMPOWERED WOMEN, EMPOWER WOMEN 💪- And on this note ladies remember males also deserve respect 💯
#WCW goes out to @fatianar today 😘 not only is she an awesome friend, she is an amazing mother, wife, and business woman. She just committed herself to my 3 week challenge group and I know she’s going to crush her goals. She’s on a path to reclaim her confidence & power and I know her incredible strength will get her there. 5 kids y’all, this woman is a badass👊🏼
Goooood Lawrrrrd 🤦🏻♀️
It has taken me 3 years to come to terms with working out at home 🤫
A friend introduced me to the at home programs and I tried it for a month or two.
And thought I ain’t going to get any results. • Fast forward 3 years....3 years of me being a creeper watching these crazy at home workout ladies I finally gave back in. I’ve let it sink in.... and I frigin LOVE it!! •
Group of women supporting each other through virtual workouts, support through life’s challenges and daily grind
What better way than to wake up in the morning and press play with other women! 👯♀️ RADAR going off? Shoot me a 👯♀️ or send me a message and let’s TALK •
Wow, let me just say that the Intention Setting Ritual in early August was a potent ritual that reactivated our collective intentions. Because it was so popular and so powerful I'm hosting it again LIVE on Saturday August 25 for those of you who were not able to attend or want to attend again ✨
And, I'm gifting everyone who attends my 15 page Ultimate Guide to Intention Setting ebook. ✨
August 25 is the FULL MOON. We'll harness this energy to let go of all that has held us back and kept us stuck in inaction towards our deepest intentions. We'll celebrate closing the cycle of inertia, and let go of that which no longer serves us moving forward. ✨
Based on the feedback from past participants, I know so many of you are READY to reignite your 2018 intentions and get yourself back on track to manifest your biggest, boldest desires. Join me under the energy of August's Full Moon as we gather together again to move out of stagnation, to get clear, to feel it, and to rekindle your passion to manifest it. ✨
REGISTER IN MY PROFILE LINK ABOVE ✨
Mark the date on your calendar:
Saturday August 25 from 12:30pm - 1:30pm Panama | 6:30PM LONDON | 1:30PM EDT, 12:30PM CDT, 11:30PM MDT, 10:30PM PDT. ✨
See you Saturday
🦋 MONDAY FEELS 🦋
I ALWAYS told myself that getting what I wanted was... •Challenging •I wasn’t deserving •Exhausting 🦋
But living my life out of alignment was ACTUALLY much more difficult.
And since I've aligned my habits with my goals, I feel so much more at peace 🙏. Who knew that this type of lifestyle shift could actually be the kind of positive I've always been looking for. And deserving of after all. 🦋
I don’t know about you, but I’m a bath super fan. Friday night flower bathing is the perfect way to unwind and let go of the stress of a busy week. FEAT pink torch ginger and beehive ginger. ✨
Pink Torch Ginger can help to dislodge old patterns and heal core wounds. It helps us reevaluate difficult situations from our past and to liberate and transform them into new insights with compassion. ✨
Beehive Ginger can assist in taking action and Increasing motivation as well as to move stuck and stagnant energy from the body. ✨
Do you have a bath ritual? Share it in the comments below.
Sometimes we need to slow down and get out of the fast lane. Just like sloth, we need to take life at our own pace. My favorite ways to be like sloths are to take a nap, read a book, or enjoying a hot bath. ✨
how do you express your inner sloth. Share in the comments below.
“women support women “ it’s like this shirt was made for me !😍❤️🖤 last nights class we got their panels into prime and tonight we will do a quick block session where I can show them the difference between the durablocks and these amazing acrylic block set that @lucky_matts donated to our class !thank you sooo much ! we have been blessed a lot recently with tons of support from businesses and pretty much everyone ! these classes are only made possible with sponsorships and donations and everything is needed and appreciated!! tonight we will also paint and clear the panels ! next week is the final class where we will wetsand and buff ! thanks to @dustystolp1017 for coming to lend her extreme talents for that class !! also i’m rocking my nessy’s kustoms headbands mmhmm gotta protect that hair girls !!! lol.. wish me luck tonight will be a long one .. @bogisgarage #nessyskustoms#womenimpoweringwomen#bogisgarageworkshops#staytunedforgreatness @basfrefinish @singlesourceinc @sturino2777 @larry.laws99 @frankastrain @tinamnelles @3mcollision @theprofessionalwhogivesashit @snapon_official @theragcompany thank you all soo much