My husband and I had this convo a few days ago. Dating was hard for me! I can’t say it enough. I thought we all were dating to be married- not fuxk for food! But that’s what you all have made it! But that’s the only reason! 💌💌💌💌 • •
When I was in college I had my own car and spot. After college I got my “dream job” at a radio station and became well known in the entertainment industry. So you know I was #Unapproachable and “men were scared of me” 🙄! That’s when I realized—- they don’t want a Bitxh to win Championships with- they just want a #TrophyWife ! They wanted me because of THE IDEA OF ME! I was young, hot, and flashy so the admiration was there for some #GroupieLove , but nothing else. They didn’t have the type of love for me that would make them rise to the occasion and leave a lot of shit behind. The one boyfriend I had was insecure and always yelling, “you’re around these Celebs all day I don’t know what/who you could be doing!” •
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But of course I didn’t let that stop me. I just stayed single until I finally made it to the level where my husband was located! You see... when you’re out here having fun, most time you’re just slummin with bums and the temporary so #WrapItUp ! Remember who you are and that the next level (where you husband is) is waiting... 💌💌💌💌💌 #OpenDiscussion#CouplesTherapy#BlackLoveExists#BlackLoveDoc#GoodHusband#CouplesTherapy#NoMoreBoyfriends#WifeyMaterial#HealthyLove#LoveLetters#PowerCouples#RelationshipGoals#FemaleHustlers
We all know that ONE person who will still come at you with the small talk while you got your ear buds in though 🙄😒✌🏾✌🏻p.s. I’m happy because I’m wearing my DEFINED APPAREL while I get my workouts done ✅ 😉
PEOPLE: “You look so unapproachable.”
ME: “And yet, here you are.”🙄
I’m not going to walk around with a big, fake smile all day and night💁🏻♂️ Especially at the gym. Don’t confuse “serious” and “focused” for mean or dickish.
I have never gone to the gym to look for new friends, or to start up conversations with random strangers. The gym has these big, heavy pieces of equipment, used to stress your muscles, not a lounge, or a bar, or a podium to announce your dirty laundry. So my sole purpose of going to the gym, is to use and abuse those heavy pieces of equipment... Period.
This doesn’t mean you can’t approach me and ask me questions, feel free, ask away, but not while I’m in the middle of a set🤨 and not if you are the type who is lazy and inconsiderate AF, by not re-racking your weights!... It doesn’t even make sense. You put the weights on to “weight train”, but you won’t even consider taking them back off? —————
You obviously aren’t overly exhausted, so you can’t... say that. Which leaves one absolute conclusion... You’re a rude, inconsiderate, selfish, arrogant, self-absorbed, piece of💩🤷🏻♂️ What?
#re -rack, #unapproachable#igfit#sayingitlikeitis#patsnation#patriotsforlife#livinglife#livinglifetothefullest elarge #bostonian
2005. Maliq’s first winter concert.
It was miserable and I dislike most children, so ya, unimpressed. (My kid is great though)
My expression hasn’t changed much since then.
That whole, not smiling thing I do, has kept me looking youthful, and unapproachable, just the way I like it.
My personality is also real hard to take, but it’s why people love me, sorta...
I don’t understand. Maybe it’s my face. People have labeled me as “mean” before even getting to know me SINCE FOREVER... they say I have resting bitch face, I say I look like I’m minding my own fucking business... my life’s motto has become I JUST LOOK LIKE THIS! the funny part is I always get the “omg, you’re so cool” after they’ve summoned the courage to actually talk to me. 🙄 if you think me just chillin is mean, do you really wanna ever get on my bad side?
If you're skinny, you're on drugs. If you're fat, you need to lose weight. If you're dressed up, you're conceited and superficial. If you're dressed down, you've let yourself go. If you speak your mind, you're a aggressive. If you don't say anything, you don't have a backbone! If you cry, you are weak. If you’re sociable you're a party animal. If you stay to yourself, you’re detached or antisocial. If you have a nice life, you're a snob. And if you’re educated and successful, you’re unapproachable.
We can't do anything without being criticized. We live in a society where people can't survive if they're not judging the next person. Love me or hate me, I am who I am and there is no bigger judge of me, than ME. Believe that....Get to know people before judging... If you're proud of who you are and love yourself, copy and paste this with a pic of you.
#loveyourself#bffs#love you #nomatterwhat#superficial#dressedup#dresseddown#speakyourmind#cry#weak#keeptoyourself#nobackbone#snob#unapproachable#skinny#sociable#partyanimal
Some of my #KINGS blessed with the opportunity to train with some incredible trainers over at @gymratzperformance As a coach, it's awesome to sit back and see your guys out of their comfort zone being pushed by someone other than yourself.. Huge believer in #IronSharpensIron . Shoutout to @gymratzcoachryan and @gymratzcoachd for the hospitality...