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When I posted this photo today on my personal account, I got a text from someone who I love and who cares about me asking me to “take my boob off Instagram.”
The comment crushed me. This photo is about SO much more than a boob. In fact it’s not about it at all. Or maybe it is, but not in the way that you think.
Growing up in a male-dominated household, I was often told to “cover up” once I got curves. ⠀
I learned to feel ashamed of my curves. I couldn’t hide them unless I wore a high-necked bathing suit that was totally not optimal for tanning and hello, boob sweat!
In High-school. I got a breast reduction. I couldn’t wait to feel better in a bikini.
Obviously I still have big breasts, and I’ve made my peace with it. Honestly now it’s just another thing I love about my body. Truly loving your body means releasing shame for any part of it…the rolls, the stretch marks, the cleavage. And I’m so relieved to be in a place where I feel that way. Believe, it took WORK. It takes work.
The text created a visceral, physical reaction—it brought me back to being 15 and feeling like I wanted to run into the corner and die. Except this time, I refused to feel shame. Instead I felt disappointment of the person and a strong desire to protect myself. I politely told him that I am a women and have boobs and love my body and that’s just something he’s going to have to deal with. If that photo makes him uncomfortable I’m sorry but that’s really more his problem to deal with than mine.
There are a lot of things in this world that people will try and make your problem, that really aren’t. Part of growing up is recognizing those things and setting yourself free from them.
This photo is about LOVE. It’s about happiness, openness, peace, relaxation, comfort, exhales, joy, acceptance. This photo is NOT about sex, about sex appeal, about boobs or cleavage or attention. This photo is about femininity, authenticity, strength, resilience, letting go, embracing, and accepting. This photo is a triumph for me and a testament to what I’ve been through, who I’ve learned from, and where I’m going. I couldn’t want to take it down less.
דרושים ☘️ מלצר/ית - 3-5 משמרות בשבוע - משמרות צהריים/ערב - אווירה של חו״ל - ממוצע שעתי גבוה
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