About a week ago, I quit my job, I let somebody I care about, down...I just couldn’t take the public anymore...when you’re trans and not very passable, retail is the worst place you could be...you are basically on display for everyone to examine, poke, prod, humiliate, laugh at, disrespect and basically take your humanity away, you are seen as a novelty, an anomaly, a circus side show, and I’m not even talking about the haters, if you can imagine.
I loath all of you who would come in the store and be sweet as muthafuckin’ pie, but end the convo by asking what’s in my pants or am I “going all the way?” You may think you are supportive, and that you have good intentions, but you are actually the epitome of ignorance...don’t apologize, go get educated so you don’t spend the rest of your life as an ignorant fool
I’m 43 years old, spent decades in retail, where do I go now? Who knows, but I’ll tell you I am officially done with retail and the public, y’all can go to hell
I spent more or less a week in bed trying to regain my energy...only to come out of it angry as hell...so watch out people, this bitch is on the war path 👊💥💣🔪 Yeah yeah, it’ll get better, sure, but in the meantime...I will not hesitate for a second, to put you in your place if you fuck with me 😊
And now, time to start again, and again, and again...
Happy #transformationtuesday ! Gosh you guys.. it’s so hard to describe everything I feel when I see this picture of me on the left. 😳 I don’t even recognize that girl anymore. She was a shell of a person living in denial and just going through the motions in life.. man oh man. 🤦🏻♀️ I am so incredibly thankful that one day I decided to buck up and make some changes. .
Right now I am focused on ending the year strong and continuing to implement the healthy habits I’ve developed that have gotten me my results and I am inviting you to join me. I will teach you how to live a healthy & sustainable lifestyle that gives you the freedom to still enjoy life but find the proper balance. 🥰Together we will work on daily 30 minute exercises, an eating plan that shows you how to enjoy all the foods from each food group, and be apart of an amazing community of women that have built solid friendships because we share one thing in common.. living healthier and happier lives. I’m proof that we all start somewhere. My wellness community is proof that it doesn’t matter your age, weight, body type, or schedule.. we make it work and together we help each other push through. I’m ready to pour myself into 5 women that are ready to do the damn thing. Ready for change, and ready to work for it. What do you say? Will you join me? 👯♀️
About last night! I was invited to my very first celebration of life party. This amazing 82 year old man spent two long years battling a lung infection that kills most within six months and just a couple of months ago he finally won his battle and is now a living testimony of just how effective a strong will and determination to live can be. He has a love for life that I rarely see in people even half his age. There is so much we can learn from people who are not of our generation, social class, nationality, race or creed. There is wisdom everywhere if you’re willing to look for it. In my opinion a true sign of intelligence is in ones ability to be opened minded, to think freely and cultivate and enjoy all the multiple facets of life. There are diamonds everywhere to be found if your eyes are open 😏😍😘