It was Saturday night in the early days of Quest and Tom and I were going on a romantic date. We didn’t get many of them, so I spent hours getting all “hottied” up! We were both SO excited.... until... until his phone rang! We were literally backing out of the drive and he got a call saying there was a problem with the production line. Now back then, losing a batch and having employees stand around for hours was a very costly issue that we just couldn’t afford. Tom looked at me and without missing a beat he said “We gotta go to work”! So, in a sexy dress and stilettos, we went to the facility. Because of my outfit I wasn’t allowed on the production floor so I sat in the car for close to 2hrs while Tom went in and fixed the problem.
While I was sitting there I was going back and forth with emotions. I was horrified that the business had come into conflict with my relationship with my husband again. I was frustrated that I was taking a back seat to our time together... again. And I was upset that I had to sacrifice... again! All these thoughts played over and over in my head. But then I reminded myself of 3 fundamental truths:
1) I realized I wasn’t being fair! Tom wanted to go to dinner too and so he wasn’t working because he wanted to. He was doing it because he needed to. And I needed to support that!
2)I reminded myself that we had consciously discussed and agreed to go all in! We knew what we were aiming for and what it required. When we spoke about it, we didn’t say, we were going to go all in... except on date nights!
3) And finally, I reminded myself that to achieve your goals, you can’t just stop when things get hard. You need to be willing to do the tough things. Push yourself when you don’t want to. You need to Do More... to Be More!.
And so in case you were wondering... I greeted Tom with a big smile and a kiss and we still managed to have an amazing evening! Just much later then expected ☺️
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Image, style, color and confidence is a great start to building your success but then it goes beyond those things. These are important pieces to building the whole package for success. This is the first thing people see when they meet you. The way you look gives people an idea of who you are or what you do. Your body language and confidence is next can attract the right people to you. It’s like a putting together a puzzle. First you have to define who you are and what image you want to portray. Then put the puzzle together. The bigger the puzzle the more time it takes. It may even take you a while to find some pieces, that’s the journey. It may not be easy but challenges will push you out of your comfort zone and into the next level. Embrace it! That’s when you grow and great changes happens here.
Your success is a puzzle where you have to find the pieces. Learning phases of how to build success on a deeper level. Learning new things, learning the models of business or your job, new trades, emotional levels, physical changes, changing your mindset and figuring out what works to build YOUR success; because it’s different for everyone.
Start with your image, because that’s what they see first. Just remember how you look matters. You never know who you will meet when your going out the door. Keep that in mind! xoxo 😘
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Exactly why you have control over every aspect of your life but you can’t seem to get him out of your head... You have it all..
✨ the 6-figure business
✨ regular vacations to Mexico
✨ the best group of gal pals to pick you up when you’re down
You’re successful in so many areas but you can’t figure out why this break-up is so hard.
You devote all of your time and energy into bettering yourself 💕 you’re taking care of your body and eating right
💕 you’re spending QT with your family on the weekends
💕 you’re going to therapy every week
But NOTHING is working— you still can’t get him out of your head.
No matter how hard you try.
No matter how many dates you go on.
No matter how many times you read “Why Men Love Bitches”
You’re ready to be done with it already!! You’re SO frustrated because you’ve been through so many things in your life that are way worse and you made it through no problem. But these feelings just won’t go away.
If you’re ready to FINALLY move forward and let go of your past, drop a 🦋 in the comments. I’m giving away complimentary strategy sessions to help you figure out your next steps to becoming a girl on top of the world.
Silence that voice in your head that keeps telling you that you can figure it out on your own. This is your time. You’re ready for the next step. And you SO SO deserve it 💜
We cannot always be motivated, so we must always be disciplined! The sun is shining here in Vancouver and adventure is calling, but we are busy busy at our desk wrapping up client work! And tonight we’ll celebrate another productive Monday with patio champs 🥂💃. What’s on your agenda today?
Let’s put some things in there proper perspective so that you can stop discounting your social media success. Just because someone has a larger following and “seemingly” more engagement doesn’t mean they have a greater level of success. Do the math but more so... stop comparing yourself and just do you.
Dry Shampoo... I know it is a staple for many ladybosses. It saves you time, stretches out your style from days to daaayyyyssss, and frees you up to hustle more.
I’ve always had a love hate relationship with it.
Actually, I’ve always loved to hate it.
Many have drying alcohols, flammable propellants, and talc.
None of those things are a friend of your strands. Talc seems safe enough, but do you know what it is? It is ground up rock.
Talc in your hair is like sandpaper on your cars paint. It will cause damage!
If you are going to use a dry shampoo, use one without talc, butane, or drying alcohols.
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We often say our goal is to be successful, but what does successful mean?.
How you define success is going to be very different to how I define success, which again is going to be very different to how my dentist defines success. I mean - you get the picture right?.
Start getting specific on what success looks like to you. Does it include:.
• Earning X amount of money per year.
• Being on the cover of Variety magazine.
• Establishing a movement that inspires positive change.
• Being able to spend time with your family.
• Working remotely from anywhere in the world.
• Growing the perfect Pumpkin.
I want to know bellow, how do you define success? 👇🏻
Why being selfish equals success🤘🏻⠀
I used to think that in order to be (and look) successful I had to uphold this image of perfection, of constant improvement, and risk (but not too risky) taking😅⠀
I was living my life to fulfill someone elses expectations of me, not my own. I was stuck. I was anxious. I was done😩⠀
The moment I started focusing on what I actually wanted out of life and stopped worrying about what other people would think about it, I was free💃🏼⠀
It wasn’t until then, until I made the decision to live my life on MY terms, that i was able to finally feel like I was successful. I finally felt like my life meant something🎯⠀
I basically just woke up one day and said “fuck this, I deserve so much more” and decided my life was going to be different🏆⠀
I quit my comfortable, stable, high paying job in the medical field to follow my dream and passion that is mentorship. I quit toxic relationships and set boundaries like a boss in new ones. I quit hiding behind the “normal” life that was making others comfortable👋🏼⠀
I no longer have shame in taking care of my soul and my well-being. I no longer waste my energy on things that do not add value to my life.. I am more ME than I have ever been🦋⠀
And hey, sister.. this is available to you too. You’re so capable of living the life of your dreams. You’re brave enough to take that next scary leap. ⠀
Don’t know where to start? Let’s chat, girl💖⠀
We can figure this out together. Comment on this post or shoot me a direct message to set up a FREE discovery call. I gotchu babe 👯♀️⠀
Most people want to be successful, but they’re not willing to sacrifice what they need to in order to get there. That’s not you! You’re different. Success isn’t reserved for the lucky or the select few. It’s for the taking if you’re willing to make changes. So what do successful people all have in common?
This... ✅ They Use Positive Self-Talk - you don’t have to wait for anyone or anything to pump you up. Be your own best friend and talk yourself up. ✅ They Make Choices, lots of them -only you have all the pertinent information to make the right choice at the right time for yourself. Do it! ✅ They Take Care of Themselves!!! - we cannot stress how important this is. Taking some time to take care of yourself each day is like watering a plant. It wilts of you don’t. Even if it’s something simple like a 10 minute meditation, do it. ✅They Dream - dreaming allows the mind to open to new possibilities, which leads to the richness of life. ✅ They Live Life to the Fullest - for some this can be as simple as deep breathing and greeting the sun each morning.
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“When you start something on your own, it's almost like, treading water without a float - like you can sink at any time. And that can be very unnerving for a lot of people. You just have to really believe in what you’re doing to continue moving forward.” Meet Allison Daroie, Founder of @paridaez and named “Best Designer in Boston!” You can shop Paridaez online and in her new retail store in Cambridge, Boston, MA. Huge congrats @daroie!! See Link in bio for full profile 😄
"Successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities. They vary in their DESIRES to meet their potential." I have a desire to live well with my family - well in heart, health, attitude, and finances. Recognizing and naming this desire is shaping my daily decisions and actions. I know I have limitless potential to be successful with this vision.
I also have a desire to help others recognize their potential. To help them dream and name the desires of their heart, to create wellness and wholeness in their lives.
Where you are starting from today is just that, your starting point.
It says nothing about your potential to achieve those things you desire.
Health? Financial security? Improved relationships? Spiritual health?
I don't have answers for all (or perhaps any) of your current challenges, but I believe you are capable of overcoming them.
How big is your desire to succeed?♥️
OMG it’s so hot today…. Better stay inside (insert a really sarcastic SJ here 🤬) ⠀
For those followers I have who aren’t local to me, I live way up North. Not as north as Santa, but he feels really close in the winter ❄️ ⠀
During the winter its dark, snowy, and SUPER cold. Summers last maybe 3 months, tops! During the winter you will rarely see me outside for ‘fun’. I don’t find frost bite to be on the top of my fun list 🙈
Taking all of this into consideration, I find it really confusing at the lack of people soaking up this lovely summer we are having. ⠀
What’s even more perplexing to me, is the amount of people who claim they want to live a healthier life, or improve their body comp, but can’t because of 2 common reasons; it’s expensive 💰 and they don’t have time ⏰….. Ya, no, those aren’t the problem. ⠀
Getting outside and moving your body is actually 100 percent free. Hell there are even multiple outside gyms in GP which don’t cost a dime.😯
And as far as time, if you have time to scroll social media for more than 5 minutes, you have time to go for a walk 🤯⠀
Lets cut the 💩 excuses and start taking responsibility for our health, our happiness and our lives. ⠀
If you consistently are waiting for someone else to make your helath and wellbeing a priority you are going to remain a damsel in distress till YOU step up and take action first 🤷🏼♀️⠀
Rant over😂 ⠀
What have you been doing to make the most of this summer? I am really curious because I have made it my mission to actually partake in summer this year vs having my old sabotaging thoughts that Canadian summers are the worst 😱⠀
The first day of the week doesn’t always get a good feel for some.
So many people dread going into work or school on a Monday, production and efficiency is often rated the lowest and it’s even said that people avoid going on a first date on a Monday ! 🤣
But I LOVE Monday’s 💜💜
Monday’s bring a new sense of enthusiasm for me to start the week by putting plans in place, accomplish new goals , explore new ideas and get excited about getting stuff done ✅ .
Also helps having my Monday meeting with @simonecrowleycounsellor In the sunshine !!🌞 🌞 .
How’s your Monday been ? 💜
I used to live for the weekends... Then I realised I was doing it all wrong 💕✨ To find out more about what I do - how you can run your own online business - and ultimately how YOU can quit the 9-5 if you want to... head over to my Facebook business page >>> The Boss It Movement. Link in my bio 💖