Life as a human is like soul school. The only difference is that you get to choose WHEN you learn the lesson you’re meant to learn.
And when a teacher comes along and keeps showing up in your life until you’re ready to be their student, you have to eventually accept the challenge.
With this teacher, I have learned patience, and how to be a friend, and how to slow down, so much more...I can honestly say that I am a much better human having spent the last 13 years with him.
This is so much more than love. .
To struggle and find strength.
To fail and to prepare.
To doubt and seek the truth.
To question and find faith.
To suffer and find peace.
To change and to accomplish.
To love and be vulnerable.
To forgive and to transform.
To let go and to trust.
To listen and to learn.
To smile and be grateful.
To look up and not give up.
The biggest gift we can give anyone is love & compassion. ⠀
Everyone has their story and we never know what someone is going through.⠀
So, let’s rise above judgement and sink into love, sweet friends. Xx
And we're off!! 2 sleepy, happy travellers on the way back to Europe. Bye for now Thailand! 💛
We love you, your energy, the people, the smiles, the food!! It's been a beautiful Journey of twists & turns & most importantly bringing to life our 2nd retreat here on Koh Samui 😉
We'll be back in Feb for Beautiful You 3 & can't wait for it. If you are looking to create massive change in your life, then reach out to me or Denisa Rățulea & we'll see if Beautiful You is the right fit for you.
Next stop London, then Romania!
Travel life, Entrepreneur life, Soul mates. Onwards & upwards 💪💙💙
Whenever something happens in your life that makes you feel any negatively perceived emotion, ask yourself...WHAT IS THE LESSON? Why did/do I need it? What am I supposed to learn or take away from this situation? How do I proceed with this newly acquired knowledge? #vibeorrant 🦋
In every moment we ALWAYS have the choice to respond to any situation (whether faced with conflict, intense emotions, negativity or positivity and comfort) either from our heart space or from our ego.
From our heart-space we are able to respond rather than react. We are able to focus less on being offended & defensive and are able to take a moment to see the situation from a more objective viewpoint which allows us to assert ourselves & communicate honestly and lovingly yet firmly while expressing our intent, actions and feelings, in a way that allows us to respect the other person and take their side into consideration as well as our own. 🎭
From a more ego place, we tend to react rather than respond. We tend to focus so much on our own feelings, feeling up against a wall and in defense mode that we respond moreso in attack mode & often aren't able to consider the other person's viewpoint when we are allowing ourselves to take the situation personally rather than seeing it from a more objective perspective. From the ego place, often don't feel safe and don't know that we are able to explain ourselves, express our feelings and where we stand which is often what causes us to "fight back" essentially. ✨
Remember that no matter how heavy, negative or charged the energy coming at us may feel, we are always capable of responding back from a centered, balanced way. We do this by remembering, in the heat of the moment, to exercise our capacity and ability to communicate our feelings and needs honestly & openly and also remembering that it is just as important to be mindful of where the other person is coming from.
We have grown up much of our lives not recognizing our personal power, responsibility & right that we have always had to explain ourselves & express our feelings and emotions on the matter at hand, openly. In our evolved state of consciousness, we are ready to act assertively, mindfully, powerfully yet lovingly!
The next time you're feeling your emotions bubble up & feel yourself wanting to react, instead of doing what I did, where I acted from the more primitive ego, remember your ability to respond from your heart-space. Where both sides are honored!
“Giving up (FILL IN THE BLANK) can change the worth of your life. Remember, self sacrifice is not denying your needs but rather the selfs decision to willingly sacrifice limitation through action.“ Reflecting with sunsets on this full moon, remembering the good and the bad, but staying strong in the walk foreword while integrating the hard lessons that have graced my path.
Mental health is just as important as physical health. However in most people’s minds mental illness doesn’t exist until its extreme. Until it limits our ability to live a healthy life. So why do we shower and brush our teeth every day while we wait sometimes years before we recognize depression and anxiety?
Just some thought for us to ponder this full moon as we enter fall and the libra season.
If you are wanting to ditch the corporate world or a “regular” job in order to serve a greater purpose, you aren't alone.
If you are seeking greater fulfillment in your work versus just going with what you happen to be good at, you aren't alone.
If you are ready to step into your soul-given purpose and gifts (even if you aren't quite sure what that looks like), you are not alone.
Join the community over in my free Facebook group, Soul Wisdom for Entrepreneurs, where we talk HOW to get the clarity you need to make it happen.
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Libra is relationship. This season has the aire of relating to others in a balanced way. Ruled by Venus there is definitely the love factor but recall Venus is in Scorpio right now, intensifying hidden feelings. Libra opposes Aries because Aries is the “baby” of the zodiac, me-centered and self-focused vs Libra’s “other focused” attitude hence the energy of the full moon in Aries this Monday! Yes we are in the portal right now!🔥
Fun fact: every new moon is the zodiac sign of the current sun sign & full moon will be the opposition of the sun sign. #astrologynerd 😂
In my natal chart, this is intensified for me because I was born at the full moon so in my soul there is this conflict of self vs togetherness that I am learning.
Libra also carries the qualities of air:
🌬multiple interests (air is everywhere)
🌬hard to pin down (you can’t capture air and hold it) 🌬spectrum of surface to depth regarding topics as Libra is the middle of the air signs (between Gemini and Aquarius)
🌬naturally in their head a lot
Seasonal correlation: being born under the Libra sun means I also carry qualities of autumn energy.
🍁beginning to go within
🍁harvest and gathering of lessons and wisdom gained
🍁balance of equal day and night within and without
Libra Season lasts⚖️ 9/23-10/22
These are the things that are helping me go through my challenge
Getting to know myself was an interesting journey towards the deepest corners of my being. Discovering my strength, my spirituality, my self healing ability, unveiling some emotions buried deep inside, learning how to forgive and appreciate everything including the toughest challenges... still learning and discovering every day and making it count.
For years i have tried to define myself by other people. I have seen people shine by doing "their thing" and wanted to shine too.. so i taught myself some cool things like photography, design, art, philosophy, music, yoga and so on.. which are all great and fun, but i couldn't "stick to" non of them. I was good, but i didn't "shine". Lately i understood that what sparked my soul wasn't some new ability i needed to aquire. What sparked my soul came easy to me, but took a lot of #courage to commit to. Because it meant commiting to myself, and taking a leep of faith by being "me" for the first time in my life. And its about damn time 😅
We can always learn new triks, but each of us has their own gifts and abilities. Our soul knows what it wants, all we have to do is cultivate the courage to listen and follow through. Peace.
Pic by my one and only @tom_grinberg_