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"It's like wearing shoes two sizes too big" Polyamory for me is NOT a choice, it's who I am!  Just some thoughts. 
I didn't choose to be poly. Perhaps others have,  as there are definitely different flavors on the open relationship spectrum. 
But for me it's not a choice, it's who I am. So being with one partner feels like I'm wearing shoes two sizes two big, when I'm with two EQUAL partners, the fit is perfect. 
So when people say " at least you have a husband " when I'm upset losing a partner it really bugs me and I know it bothers others as well. I've been doing a lot of thinking about it and I think when one says that, it means  they really don't " get it". My core, the person I am inside needs, wants and desires multiple connections. For me the magic number is two for others it may be four. But the number doesn't matter. What does matter is by saying at least I have a husband you're negating a core need for me. I feel whole when I have two people to share love with equally, I'm better for myself and my partners when I'm in that balance because it's WHO I AM, NOT WHAT I'M CHOOSING.  It's also so important to remember that monogamous people who choose to get in relationships with people like me are amazing beings who step out of their comfort zone for love and connection too, and when you have a friend or family member who wants to build a relationship with a poly person just SUPPORT them, don't discourage it. Isn't being loved and loving others the most beautiful thing in the world? We need more of it. I just wanted to take a minute after reflecting on it to say please be careful with words and statements. It's really important 😊 Heres a great article on the subject. Here's a great article I read just now. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201610/is-polyamory-form-sexual-orientation%3famp.  #love #lovemote #polyamoury #polyamorous #polyamorousrelationship #behappy #openmarriage #morelove #morethantwo #sexatdawn #estherperel #dansavage
"It's like wearing shoes two sizes too big" Polyamory for me is NOT a choice, it's who I am! Just some thoughts. I didn't choose to be poly. Perhaps others have, as there are definitely different flavors on the open relationship spectrum. But for me it's not a choice, it's who I am. So being with one partner feels like I'm wearing shoes two sizes two big, when I'm with two EQUAL partners, the fit is perfect. So when people say " at least you have a husband " when I'm upset losing a partner it really bugs me and I know it bothers others as well. I've been doing a lot of thinking about it and I think when one says that, it means they really don't " get it". My core, the person I am inside needs, wants and desires multiple connections. For me the magic number is two for others it may be four. But the number doesn't matter. What does matter is by saying at least I have a husband you're negating a core need for me. I feel whole when I have two people to share love with equally, I'm better for myself and my partners when I'm in that balance because it's WHO I AM, NOT WHAT I'M CHOOSING. It's also so important to remember that monogamous people who choose to get in relationships with people like me are amazing beings who step out of their comfort zone for love and connection too, and when you have a friend or family member who wants to build a relationship with a poly person just SUPPORT them, don't discourage it. Isn't being loved and loving others the most beautiful thing in the world? We need more of it. I just wanted to take a minute after reflecting on it to say please be careful with words and statements. It's really important 😊 Heres a great article on the subject. Here's a great article I read just now. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201610/is-polyamory-form-sexual-orientation%3famp. #love  #lovemote  #polyamoury  #polyamorous  #polyamorousrelationship  #behappy  #openmarriage  #morelove  #morethantwo  #sexatdawn  #estherperel  #dansavage 
I’ve just started reading this book and I’m already blown away by the information! Who would have known...the absolute #1 main thing that changed society the most was the development of AGRICULTURE! #foodforthought #peaceloveandbooks #knowlegeispower #sexatdawn
"Human beings will be happier - not when they cure cancer or get to Mars or eliminate racial prejudice but when they find ways to inhabit primitive communities again. That's my Utopia" .
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This book is very interesting (it’s also, at times, quite hilarious). It brings up some very interesting questions, concepts and theories. As someone who has never really felt the urge to chase the nuclear family ‘ideal’, it is comforting to read that, despite social construct, I may not be crazy after all. 🧐 {Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá}
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#readingissexy #sexatdawn #portland #foodplantsbooks #weareallbonobos #bookstagram #quoteoftheday #educateyourself #keeplearning #dailyread #abookadaykeepsthedoctoraway #trustyourjourney
This book is very interesting (it’s also, at times, quite hilarious). It brings up some very interesting questions, concepts and theories. As someone who has never really felt the urge to chase the nuclear family ‘ideal’, it is comforting to read that, despite social construct, I may not be crazy after all. 🧐 {Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá} ———————————————————————————— #readingissexy  #sexatdawn  #portland  #foodplantsbooks  #weareallbonobos  #bookstagram  #quoteoftheday  #educateyourself  #keeplearning  #dailyread  #abookadaykeepsthedoctoraway  #trustyourjourney 
Book of the week 157: “Sex At Dawn” by @thatchrisryan and Cacilda Jetha #sexatdawn #bookoftheweek #book #reading #chrisryan
😇 Daddy's Little Girl, picnic kit. #saintandsinner .
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These & Co. are at the store.
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Reminder that The Shop's closed on Mondays
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#frenchgirlstyle #liveloud #troublemaker #daddysgirl😘 #firestarter #sexatdawn #bookworms #freespirits #funnygirl #smartgirls #strongertogether #trini #trinigirls
Stoked to finally read this book! It’s been in my list for ages. #sexatdawn #christopherryan #anthropology
Sex, love, relationships, marriage and evolution. Man I enjoyed this read. Not because I agree with everything written but the challenge of monogamous social norms was something worth reading. The array of cultures, various species and many examples used in this book helped me put contexts to thoughts, personal feelings and sparked new notions. 
Due to life it took me forever to finish this book, thanks to today’s flight it was possible. Couldn’t speak more highly of #SexAtDawn. #RecommendedRead
#ChristopherRyan 
#SlingThatPipe #ItsEvolution #LadiesToo #DoYourThang lol
Sex, love, relationships, marriage and evolution. Man I enjoyed this read. Not because I agree with everything written but the challenge of monogamous social norms was something worth reading. The array of cultures, various species and many examples used in this book helped me put contexts to thoughts, personal feelings and sparked new notions. Due to life it took me forever to finish this book, thanks to today’s flight it was possible. Couldn’t speak more highly of #SexAtDawn . #RecommendedRead  #ChristopherRyan  #SlingThatPipe  #ItsEvolution  #LadiesToo  #DoYourThang  lol
What I’m reading now.
Thanks to this book, I now know more about the (sexual) similarities between humans and bonobos than I ever needed to know. 🙈🙉🙊
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#bookaddict #readingissexy #sexatdawn #bonobos #abookadaykeepsthedoctoraway #pdx #portland #goodreads #foodplantsbooks #keeplearning
I sometimes get inspired to make tshirts as well. This one was made when I listened to the audiobook "Sex at Dawn" and I think I got a little bit inspired by what I heard.
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#sexatdawn #bleached #meditating #bonobo #infinity #tshirt #craft #painting #tshirtart #freelove #bononer
“Sassy and confident, a Mosuo girl will grow up cherished in a circle of male and female relatives...when she joins the dances and invites a boy into her flower room, it will be for love, lust, or whatever people call it when they are operating on hormones and heavy breathing. She will not need that boy - or any other - to have a home, to make a “family”. She already knows that she will always have both”. - #sexatdawn
“Sassy and confident, a Mosuo girl will grow up cherished in a circle of male and female relatives...when she joins the dances and invites a boy into her flower room, it will be for love, lust, or whatever people call it when they are operating on hormones and heavy breathing. She will not need that boy - or any other - to have a home, to make a “family”. She already knows that she will always have both”. - #sexatdawn 
Gramma met @thatchrisryan today and for only the 3rd time ever became a preteen fangirl.
#authorsgetmehot #sexatdawn #grannysadventures #pedantic #idontgetoutmuch #letstalkaboutsex #starstruckaf #idontnormallydothisbut #whosyourfriend
Thema Eifersucht!
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Für mich ist Eifersucht seit Jahren ein großes Thema. Tatsächlich habe ich mir mein erstes Selbsthilfebuch dazu gekauft, als ich noch ein Teenie war. 😉 Seitdem ist viel passiert und ich habe einige fundamentale Dinge verstanden:
- Das Konzept von "Own your feelings", das heißt die andere Person ist nicht für meine Gefühle verantwortlich (natürlich erwarte ich dennoch respektvollen Umgang)
- Eifersucht hat NICHTS mit Liebe zu tun, dafür ganz viel mit Unsicherheit und Angst, etwas zu verlieren - Ein bisschen eifersüchtig gibt es bei mir nicht. Entweder ich bin ein feuerspeiender Eifersuchtsdrache oder ein friedliches Lamm. 😄
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Gerade hatte ich wieder eine eifersüchtige Phase und lese deshalb dieses Buch, in dem die gängigen Denkkonstrukte zu heterosexueller Monogamie und Beziehungen auseinander genommen werden. Bisher extrem spannend und sehr zu empfehlen! 💫
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 Seid ihr eifersüchtig und wie geht ihr damit um? Hilft es euch, Bücher zum Thema zu lesen oder macht ihr lieber alles mit euch selbst aus? ͏
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#eifersucht #eifersüchtig #liebe #sex #beziehungen #partnerschaft #sexatdawn #männerundfrauen #heteros #dekonstruktion #wissenschaft #monogamie #polyamorie #kommune #zusammenleben #freundschaft #familie
Thema Eifersucht! ͏ Für mich ist Eifersucht seit Jahren ein großes Thema. Tatsächlich habe ich mir mein erstes Selbsthilfebuch dazu gekauft, als ich noch ein Teenie war. 😉 Seitdem ist viel passiert und ich habe einige fundamentale Dinge verstanden: - Das Konzept von "Own your feelings", das heißt die andere Person ist nicht für meine Gefühle verantwortlich (natürlich erwarte ich dennoch respektvollen Umgang) - Eifersucht hat NICHTS mit Liebe zu tun, dafür ganz viel mit Unsicherheit und Angst, etwas zu verlieren - Ein bisschen eifersüchtig gibt es bei mir nicht. Entweder ich bin ein feuerspeiender Eifersuchtsdrache oder ein friedliches Lamm. 😄 ͏ Gerade hatte ich wieder eine eifersüchtige Phase und lese deshalb dieses Buch, in dem die gängigen Denkkonstrukte zu heterosexueller Monogamie und Beziehungen auseinander genommen werden. Bisher extrem spannend und sehr zu empfehlen! 💫 ͏ Seid ihr eifersüchtig und wie geht ihr damit um? Hilft es euch, Bücher zum Thema zu lesen oder macht ihr lieber alles mit euch selbst aus? ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ #eifersucht  #eifersüchtig  #liebe  #sex  #beziehungen  #partnerschaft  #sexatdawn  #männerundfrauen  #heteros  #dekonstruktion  #wissenschaft  #monogamie  #polyamorie  #kommune  #zusammenleben  #freundschaft  #familie 
Monogamy or Monogamish? Over-caffeinated vs being Brain-dead. Natural Curls > Blowdrying. Sirens and/or Mermaids!  Friends Forever or Acquaintances? So many opinions zooming around in our bubble! Won’t you take a listen, and feel free to add in yours?! Link in Bio! 🧜🏾‍♀️🧜🏼‍♀️🧜‍♀️🧜🏿‍♀️🧜🏼‍♀️#shriekingsirens #shriekingsirenspodcast #sirensandmermaids #sendusaquestion #sexloveanddating #datinggotmelike #toxicmasculinity #feministcomedypodcast #foreveralone #monogamyormonogamish #friendshipgoals💕 #weirdmood #curlyhairdontcare #curlcare #toomuchcoffee #samplesalehell #friesbeforeguys🍟 #myfriendsdonttouchmyboobs #supportourart #sexatdawn #matingincaptivity #advicepodcast
Monogamy or Monogamish? Over-caffeinated vs being Brain-dead. Natural Curls > Blowdrying. Sirens and/or Mermaids! Friends Forever or Acquaintances? So many opinions zooming around in our bubble! Won’t you take a listen, and feel free to add in yours?! Link in Bio! 🧜🏾‍♀️🧜🏼‍♀️🧜‍♀️🧜🏿‍♀️🧜🏼‍♀️#shriekingsirens  #shriekingsirenspodcast  #sirensandmermaids  #sendusaquestion  #sexloveanddating  #datinggotmelike  #toxicmasculinity  #feministcomedypodcast  #foreveralone  #monogamyormonogamish  #friendshipgoals 💕 #weirdmood  #curlyhairdontcare  #curlcare  #toomuchcoffee  #samplesalehell  #friesbeforeguys 🍟 #myfriendsdonttouchmyboobs  #supportourart  #sexatdawn  #matingincaptivity  #advicepodcast 
#Read #SexAtDawn Now the world won't move to the beat of just one drum. What might be right for you, might not be right for some.
#Read  #SexAtDawn  Now the world won't move to the beat of just one drum. What might be right for you, might not be right for some.
New Shoes. Thanks @northern_republic_mags for the great Kicks! 🤘😎🔥 Thanks @altamaboots for making such a bad ass shoe! Super light, comfy, breathable and when you lace them up, the sole feels like it’s glued to your foot. Highly recommend them. Also has a thin sole, which I like because you can feel what you’re stepping on more. They’re wider than Converse Chuck Taylors too. 🤘😎🔥
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#shoes #tactical #tacticalshoes #multicam #milspec #thepewpewlife #thePPL #PewPewAndChill #2eh #instacool #instagood #sexatdawn #somuchpew #allthepews
New Shoes. Thanks @northern_republic_mags for the great Kicks! 🤘😎🔥 Thanks @altamaboots for making such a bad ass shoe! Super light, comfy, breathable and when you lace them up, the sole feels like it’s glued to your foot. Highly recommend them. Also has a thin sole, which I like because you can feel what you’re stepping on more. They’re wider than Converse Chuck Taylors too. 🤘😎🔥 . . #shoes  #tactical  #tacticalshoes  #multicam  #milspec  #thepewpewlife  #thePPL  #PewPewAndChill  #2eh  #instacool  #instagood  #sexatdawn  #somuchpew  #allthepews 
Literally jumping up and down to read these! I’ve been following @gabyherstik Ritual Reads, and looking at books she recommends, and these tie in perfectly for further empowerment and sexuality reads ❤️ GIVE ME ALL THE KNOWLEDGE ❤️ #books #reading #sex #sexuality #polyamory #theethicalslut #sexatdawn #ritualreads #read #paper #knowledge #smart #feminism #feminist #women #bookworm #witchy #witch
Got to meet @chuckpalahniuk yesterday.. Contrary to the picture, he was a very nice man. Got to show him my #fighclub #tattoo 
#tattoos by @joshbodwell 
#yourenotyourfuckingkhakis
@chrisryanphd
#civilizedtodeath
#sexatdawn
Episode 4 with @carsieblanton is LIVE. We talk songwriting, sex, non-monogamy, New Orleans, card games, John Prine, and a whole lot more. Hope you dig it. Link in bio.
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#podcast #podcasts #newmusic #nonmonogamy #sexatdawn #songwriting #music #relationships
On our coffee table right now: 
12 rules for life, a book Aidan got from his sister, and that I was told I’m not allowed to read before he has 😅
Sex at dawn (about the prehistoric origins of modern sexuality) which I picked up instead and is amazing! 
A yoga related book that still needs to make it back to its owner @sarahbyrneyoga 🙈
Sapiens & Deus, waiting for Aidan to finish them so he can crack on with the first mentioned 😇,
A little history lesson for the immigrant 🙋🏼‍♀️
and GC, because I couldn’t resist Dave Grohl. ♥️
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#coffeetable #books #bookrecommendations #rainyday #england #gentlemansquarterly #davegrohl #sexatdawn #homodeus
On our coffee table right now: 12 rules for life, a book Aidan got from his sister, and that I was told I’m not allowed to read before he has 😅 Sex at dawn (about the prehistoric origins of modern sexuality) which I picked up instead and is amazing! A yoga related book that still needs to make it back to its owner @sarahbyrneyoga 🙈 Sapiens & Deus, waiting for Aidan to finish them so he can crack on with the first mentioned 😇, A little history lesson for the immigrant 🙋🏼‍♀️ and GC, because I couldn’t resist Dave Grohl. ♥️ . . . #coffeetable  #books  #bookrecommendations  #rainyday  #england  #gentlemansquarterly  #davegrohl  #sexatdawn  #homodeus 
“Everyone has the power to be a sex educator in their own community. You don't have to be an expert – I would know because I'm not one either. I'm just obsessed with learning about sex and helping others learn too.
And I'm still learning and the world is still learning and that makes me really excited.” #doingit by @hannahwitton #doingitbook #letstalkaboutsex #sex #feminism #feminist #books #nonfiction #everydaysexism #delusionsofgender #bonk #sexatdawn #askingforit #kateharding #rapeculture #bookquotes #booklover #bookaddict #bookaholic #bookstagram #blackandwhite #booknerd #bookworm #reading #read #paperback #book #booklove #sexeducation
“Everyone has the power to be a sex educator in their own community. You don't have to be an expert – I would know because I'm not one either. I'm just obsessed with learning about sex and helping others learn too. And I'm still learning and the world is still learning and that makes me really excited.” #doingit  by @hannahwitton #doingitbook  #letstalkaboutsex  #sex  #feminism  #feminist  #books  #nonfiction  #everydaysexism  #delusionsofgender  #bonk  #sexatdawn  #askingforit  #kateharding  #rapeculture  #bookquotes  #booklover  #bookaddict  #bookaholic  #bookstagram  #blackandwhite  #booknerd  #bookworm  #reading  #read  #paperback  #book  #booklove  #sexeducation 
#movedalot #lostboys #lostinnocence #roots when I was a #child i was always on the move. Lived with grams aunts uncles homeless rehabs hospitals tent in the yard, rocks in my sleeping bag in a garage, whatever. Maybe nine elementary schools, 10 high schools. #juniorwithonecredit and a #stomacheache #affraidandalone but I never thought of it as 
#loss or abuse but that is what I feel my life has been about. I’ve had four stepdads, for instance. That’s allot of loss and confusion right there. No wonder why I’m so tired and have no time nor any bullshit. If your hanging out with me I’m lucky and please be aware, I might act casual but in my mind your already gone. #iloveyou #lostfriends #theovon #sexatdawn #chrisryan #selfawareness #goodmorning happy 💯 th episode playboy!!! #thispastweekendpodcast
#movedalot  #lostboys  #lostinnocence  #roots  when I was a #child  i was always on the move. Lived with grams aunts uncles homeless rehabs hospitals tent in the yard, rocks in my sleeping bag in a garage, whatever. Maybe nine elementary schools, 10 high schools. #juniorwithonecredit  and a #stomacheache  #affraidandalone  but I never thought of it as #loss  or abuse but that is what I feel my life has been about. I’ve had four stepdads, for instance. That’s allot of loss and confusion right there. No wonder why I’m so tired and have no time nor any bullshit. If your hanging out with me I’m lucky and please be aware, I might act casual but in my mind your already gone. #iloveyou  #lostfriends  #theovon  #sexatdawn  #chrisryan  #selfawareness  #goodmorning  happy 💯 th episode playboy!!! #thispastweekendpodcast 
#AnnaKendrick47 has read #SexatDawn . She posed for @playboy . Curses like a sailor. She watches porn. And she is a very strong feminist.  No, never a Polly-Anna 😁 Just your modern, badass, all woman 🙌🏽 So, I say good night to all you #weirdos. If I have offended anyone I say, “GET A LIFE! You bore me 😝” #scrappylittlenobody
#AnnaKendrick47  has read #SexatDawn  . She posed for @playboy . Curses like a sailor. She watches porn. And she is a very strong feminist. No, never a Polly-Anna 😁 Just your modern, badass, all woman 🙌🏽 So, I say good night to all you #weirdos . If I have offended anyone I say, “GET A LIFE! You bore me 😝” #scrappylittlenobody 
attending to my long awaited reading list 📚 #summerreading #sexatdawn #books
I was very honoured to meet Chris Ryan this week who is one of my favourite human beings in the world. Thank you for giving me this book I can’t wait to go through it. His other more famous and important book is “Sex at Dawn” (co-written with Cacilda Jetha) which I highly recommend to all my friends to read (especially the Iranians). Not only was that book informative and helpful in terms of understanding a history of human sexuality but it also helped open my eyes in terms of dealing with the shame and taboo surrounding sex. If you haven’t read it yet grab a copy here: 
https://chrisryanphd.com/

And if you’re into podcasts I highly recommend you listen to his called :
“Tangentially Speaking”

#chrisryan #sexatdawn #tangentiallyspeaking #tangentiallyreading 
@thatchrisryan
I was very honoured to meet Chris Ryan this week who is one of my favourite human beings in the world. Thank you for giving me this book I can’t wait to go through it. His other more famous and important book is “Sex at Dawn” (co-written with Cacilda Jetha) which I highly recommend to all my friends to read (especially the Iranians). Not only was that book informative and helpful in terms of understanding a history of human sexuality but it also helped open my eyes in terms of dealing with the shame and taboo surrounding sex. If you haven’t read it yet grab a copy here: https://chrisryanphd.com/ And if you’re into podcasts I highly recommend you listen to his called : “Tangentially Speaking” #chrisryan  #sexatdawn  #tangentiallyspeaking  #tangentiallyreading  @thatchrisryan
If you love reading about evolutionary psychology.....and who doesn’t? This is a great book. We humans are really great at over complicating life even when it comes to our own sexuality. Spoiler alert!! We’re basically bonobos. #sexatdawn
If you love reading about evolutionary psychology.....and who doesn’t? This is a great book. We humans are really great at over complicating life even when it comes to our own sexuality. Spoiler alert!! We’re basically bonobos. #sexatdawn 
Seriously every single page turn so far has me picking my jaw up off the floor. It’s weird to read a book that you feel like a 5th dimensional version of yourself wrote... HIGHLY recommended for ALL readers. It will expand your mind. #requiredreading #sex #history #community #exploration #growth #SexAtDawn
One of the great quotes from “Sex at Dawn” 🌸 #sexatdawn #books #quots #life #esens #is #inside #of #us
"Why the electrified high-security razor wire fence to contain a kitty cat?" 🤷‍♀️ 🤔
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I love the book "Sex at Dawn" by C. Ryan and C. Jethá. It makes you intrigued, confused, uncomfortable and laugh at loud repeatedly! Highly recommend!
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#gowrihatalks #gowrihajeyalingam #goddessrising #alternativehealth #sex
#sexatdawn #woman #women #empowered #strongwomen #kinesiology #risesisterrise #girlpower #femaleentrepreneur #passion #femalebody #womeninbusiness #success #sexualfreedom #freedom #feminism #feminist #patriarchy #matriarch #masculine #feminine #feminineenergy #energy #energyhealing
"Why the electrified high-security razor wire fence to contain a kitty cat?" 🤷‍♀️ 🤔 WHY INDEED? . I love the book "Sex at Dawn" by C. Ryan and C. Jethá. It makes you intrigued, confused, uncomfortable and laugh at loud repeatedly! Highly recommend! . . . . . . . . #gowrihatalks  #gowrihajeyalingam  #goddessrising  #alternativehealth  #sex  #sexatdawn  #woman  #women  #empowered  #strongwomen  #kinesiology  #risesisterrise  #girlpower  #femaleentrepreneur  #passion  #femalebody  #womeninbusiness  #success  #sexualfreedom  #freedom  #feminism  #feminist  #patriarchy  #matriarch  #masculine  #feminine  #feminineenergy  #energy  #energyhealing 
Vacation reading material 🤣 #sexatdawn
@joerogan and @thatchrisryan discussing how people respond emotionally to Ryan's controversial book "Sex at Dawn". It argues that humans are naturally and instinctively sexually promiscuous.
@joerogan and @thatchrisryan discussing how people respond emotionally to Ryan's controversial book "Sex at Dawn". It argues that humans are naturally and instinctively sexually promiscuous.
If you haven’t read Sex At Dawn yet, you really should. Especially if you enjoy cultural anthropology and prehistory or human sexuality theory. .
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#sexatdawn #wellreadblackgirl
If you haven’t read Sex At Dawn yet, you really should. Especially if you enjoy cultural anthropology and prehistory or human sexuality theory. . . . . #sexatdawn  #wellreadblackgirl 
Love Dr. Chris Ryan’s podcast.  Good for all types of curious minds, Health, wellness, science.. you name it. So good #JRE @thatchrisryan #podcasts #sexatdawn #informative #health #wellness #happiness
Here’s a photo of one of my favorite books of all time. Sex At Dawn is the most important book you can read on human sexuality. This is my ALL TIME favorite book and it’s one of the most perspective shifting (and liberating) materials I’ve studied in my career. This book changed the way I view marriage, monogamy, infidelity, relationships, sexual biology, my own sexuality and even testosterone supplementation. It freed me from old beliefs that were unconsciously strangling my natural, vibrant sexuality. This book is not for the faint of heart, especially those who strongly believe that women are meant to be generally non-sexual.
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The science in this book will slap you in the face, but in a ohhhh - I like it - kinda way. 😉
Here’s a photo of one of my favorite books of all time. Sex At Dawn is the most important book you can read on human sexuality. This is my ALL TIME favorite book and it’s one of the most perspective shifting (and liberating) materials I’ve studied in my career. This book changed the way I view marriage, monogamy, infidelity, relationships, sexual biology, my own sexuality and even testosterone supplementation. It freed me from old beliefs that were unconsciously strangling my natural, vibrant sexuality. This book is not for the faint of heart, especially those who strongly believe that women are meant to be generally non-sexual. . The science in this book will slap you in the face, but in a ohhhh - I like it - kinda way. 😉
Was reminded of this today. (#sexatdawn) 😂😂 #omegabytes
Power is the ability to be accepted wherever you go Facts > Fiction link in bio
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“I don’t need an image I already got a vision
Got a dream ima go and get it
Hold up. Who told Elon Musk that the sky is the limit? 
Same ones laughed when I said that rap is my mission” - Shady G
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#humanity #hogake #kingofthepirates #supersaiyan #spiritdetective #godofdeath #ussr #blackpantherparty #behavioranalysis #holocaust #nativegenocide #kingofgames #rapper #hiphop #swayinthemorning #ebrointhemorning #peterrosenberg #georgewbush #911 #thealchemist #sexatdawn #youarenotsosmart #davidmcraney #childishgambino #royceda59 #kinglos #eminem #hollywoodundead #exhale 
If I tagged you I can sense your power level incre...* you just broke the scouter @thaiteamami @vitaminbtwelve @manifestwallace @ozzkiewosky @aicilafajardo @realhickmanla
Power is the ability to be accepted wherever you go Facts > Fiction link in bio . . . . . . . “I don’t need an image I already got a vision Got a dream ima go and get it Hold up. Who told Elon Musk that the sky is the limit? Same ones laughed when I said that rap is my mission” - Shady G . . . . #humanity  #hogake  #kingofthepirates  #supersaiyan  #spiritdetective  #godofdeath  #ussr  #blackpantherparty  #behavioranalysis  #holocaust  #nativegenocide  #kingofgames  #rapper  #hiphop  #swayinthemorning  #ebrointhemorning  #peterrosenberg  #georgewbush  #911  #thealchemist  #sexatdawn  #youarenotsosmart  #davidmcraney  #childishgambino  #royceda59  #kinglos  #eminem  #hollywoodundead  #exhale  If I tagged you I can sense your power level incre...* you just broke the scouter @thaiteamami @vitaminbtwelve @manifestwallace @ozzkiewosky @aicilafajardo @realhickmanla
If they could just be honest and open and fair, we could be okay with really accepting what they want, but they are conditioned not to do that plus they get really jealous if the person they love but don’t necessarily desire is with someone else 🙁 #love #sex #sexatdawn #book
If they could just be honest and open and fair, we could be okay with really accepting what they want, but they are conditioned not to do that plus they get really jealous if the person they love but don’t necessarily desire is with someone else 🙁 #love  #sex  #sexatdawn  #book 
Then again it does suggest that women are suited to having a lot more sex than men in some ways, so that’s nice! #sexatdawn #book
Then again it does suggest that women are suited to having a lot more sex than men in some ways, so that’s nice! #sexatdawn  #book 
I had heard good reviews of Sex at Dawn. But it based the idea that people would be happier sleeping around on the examples of tribal people who still share everything including sexual partners. Examples like the Ache people who also tend to kill each other by fighting with wooden clubs they smack into each other’s heads. They don’t really see that as wrong either. Except when someone does it in jealousy about their sexual partner.
About 50% of them die from this violence so all the sex is what keeps the numbers going I guess.
other tribe examples of sharing sexual partners are the Bonda people who are as famous for sharing sexual partners as they are for casual homicide.
They also tend to like bloody scarification of children and youths, using traditional sharp items, or glass shards. Oh yes and
cannibalism. And from these examples we are supposed to see that agriculture has taken us away from our real selves.
You don’t have to be reliegious to think twice about that .
I had heard good reviews of Sex at Dawn. But it based the idea that people would be happier sleeping around on the examples of tribal people who still share everything including sexual partners. Examples like the Ache people who also tend to kill each other by fighting with wooden clubs they smack into each other’s heads. They don’t really see that as wrong either. Except when someone does it in jealousy about their sexual partner. About 50% of them die from this violence so all the sex is what keeps the numbers going I guess. other tribe examples of sharing sexual partners are the Bonda people who are as famous for sharing sexual partners as they are for casual homicide. They also tend to like bloody scarification of children and youths, using traditional sharp items, or glass shards. Oh yes and cannibalism. And from these examples we are supposed to see that agriculture has taken us away from our real selves. You don’t have to be reliegious to think twice about that .
I had heard a lot of good reviews about the book Sex at Dawn . 
But it bases the idea that people would be happier sleeping around on the examples of tribal people who still share everything including sexual partners. Except if you read about the Ache people you find that they also tend to kill each other by fighting with wooden clubs they smack into each other’s heads, and that is allowed except when someone does it in jealousy about their sexual partner. About 50% of them die from this violence so all the sex is what keeps the numbers going I guess. He doesn’t mention the Bonda people who also share sexual partners but are equally famous for casual homicide. Oh yea and bloody scarification of children and youths, oh and cannibalism, but yeah. 😒
I had heard a lot of good reviews about the book Sex at Dawn . But it bases the idea that people would be happier sleeping around on the examples of tribal people who still share everything including sexual partners. Except if you read about the Ache people you find that they also tend to kill each other by fighting with wooden clubs they smack into each other’s heads, and that is allowed except when someone does it in jealousy about their sexual partner. About 50% of them die from this violence so all the sex is what keeps the numbers going I guess. He doesn’t mention the Bonda people who also share sexual partners but are equally famous for casual homicide. Oh yea and bloody scarification of children and youths, oh and cannibalism, but yeah. 😒
I’ve had @thatchrisryan book #sexatdawn for quite a while but im just getting around to reading it now. So far it’s absolutely fascinating and thought provoking.  Chris and Cacilda may be the most interesting people I follow.
I’ve had @thatchrisryan book #sexatdawn  for quite a while but im just getting around to reading it now. So far it’s absolutely fascinating and thought provoking. Chris and Cacilda may be the most interesting people I follow.
'A hormonal response to novelty isn't love' ahhhhh so good. And once again as Gottman has shown with decades of research: the strongest predictor for a happy long term relationship is the quality , depth and intimacy of a couples friendship 🙏👊🏽 @isobellawolfe @hellopandabelle #sexatdawn
'A hormonal response to novelty isn't love' ahhhhh so good. And once again as Gottman has shown with decades of research: the strongest predictor for a happy long term relationship is the quality , depth and intimacy of a couples friendship 🙏👊🏽 @isobellawolfe @hellopandabelle #sexatdawn 
Sex at dawn...
#lacroix at dusk.
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I learned of this book through a podcast I listened to on my business trip at the end of March. Its premise intrigued me, as did its impact on the person who recommended it during the interview. After a few hiccups (my neighbor's goats ate the cover and some pages out of the first copy that arrived on my doorstep last week while I was at work), I am ready to dig in and surrender some things I had taken for granted about relationships, love, and human sexuality. ... And it's too hot in the house to make tea, so I'm enjoying a tasty #pamplemousse La Croix. 😋
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#currentlyreading #nowreading #sexatdawn #book #readersofinstagram #bookstagram #books #sexuality #humansexuality #pushingmylimits #askingquestions #staycurious
Sex at dawn... #lacroix  at dusk. . . . I learned of this book through a podcast I listened to on my business trip at the end of March. Its premise intrigued me, as did its impact on the person who recommended it during the interview. After a few hiccups (my neighbor's goats ate the cover and some pages out of the first copy that arrived on my doorstep last week while I was at work), I am ready to dig in and surrender some things I had taken for granted about relationships, love, and human sexuality. ... And it's too hot in the house to make tea, so I'm enjoying a tasty #pamplemousse  La Croix. 😋 . . . #currentlyreading  #nowreading  #sexatdawn  #book  #readersofinstagram  #bookstagram  #books  #sexuality  #humansexuality  #pushingmylimits  #askingquestions  #staycurious 
"Free-living Asian primates possess a characteristic I found shocking and confusing the first time I saw it: Self-respect.
If you make the mistake of holding the gaze of a street monkey in India, Nepal, or Malaysia, you’ll find you’re facing a belligerently intelligent creature whose expression says, with a Robert DeNiro–like scowl, “What the hell are you looking at? You wanna piece of me?”" #ChristopherRyan 😂

#Randomgram #Monkey #ScenesFromTheCity  #IncredibleIndia #MonkeyingAround #Bajji #Pakoda #ManAnimalConflict #RobertDeNiro #SexAtDawn #Reverie #MultumInParvo
"Free-living Asian primates possess a characteristic I found shocking and confusing the first time I saw it: Self-respect. If you make the mistake of holding the gaze of a street monkey in India, Nepal, or Malaysia, you’ll find you’re facing a belligerently intelligent creature whose expression says, with a Robert DeNiro–like scowl, “What the hell are you looking at? You wanna piece of me?”" #ChristopherRyan  😂 #Randomgram  #Monkey  #ScenesFromTheCity  #IncredibleIndia  #MonkeyingAround  #Bajji  #Pakoda  #ManAnimalConflict  #RobertDeNiro  #SexAtDawn  #Reverie  #MultumInParvo 
Very interesting exploration of how the narrative history of human sexuality has been shaped by supressing the ways we most likely lived for thousands of years, ways still represented in some of our closest primate relatives. 
Ryan & Jetha offer insight into how governments, religions, early psychologists and medical doctors and other influences created a message that monogamy is a natural human condition. They reflect on several female dominant cultures, paralleling the bonobos, where sexuality and multiple partnerships are encouraged, creating tribal groups where all adults are vested in raising all the children. These societies are significantly happier, and more peaceful, some to the extent their languages don't contain words for war or murder.

IMO, this book is in no way an explicit endorsement of polyamory, as some of its detractors have claimed. It does challenge traditional viewpoints of sexual relationships and intimacy, and in the era we are in, we all need to continue to raise the bar in enlightening and empowering everyone to explore, take ownership of, and feel supremely comfortable in their own sexuality.

#sexatdawn #chistopherryan #human #sexuality #primates #books #bookstagram #bookreview
Very interesting exploration of how the narrative history of human sexuality has been shaped by supressing the ways we most likely lived for thousands of years, ways still represented in some of our closest primate relatives. Ryan & Jetha offer insight into how governments, religions, early psychologists and medical doctors and other influences created a message that monogamy is a natural human condition. They reflect on several female dominant cultures, paralleling the bonobos, where sexuality and multiple partnerships are encouraged, creating tribal groups where all adults are vested in raising all the children. These societies are significantly happier, and more peaceful, some to the extent their languages don't contain words for war or murder. IMO, this book is in no way an explicit endorsement of polyamory, as some of its detractors have claimed. It does challenge traditional viewpoints of sexual relationships and intimacy, and in the era we are in, we all need to continue to raise the bar in enlightening and empowering everyone to explore, take ownership of, and feel supremely comfortable in their own sexuality. #sexatdawn  #chistopherryan  #human  #sexuality  #primates  #books  #bookstagram  #bookreview 
“But with trust we can strive to accept even what we cannot understand.”
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“Societies in which women have lots of autonomy and authority tend to be decidedly male-friendly, relaxed, tolerant, and plenty sexy. Got that, fellas? If you're unhappy at the amount of sexual opportunity in your life, don't blame the women. Instead, make sure they have equal access to power, wealth and status. Then watch what happens.”
~~~Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jethá
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#takeyourpleasureseriously 
#knowledgeispower 
#whywelove 
#liveagreatstory 
#liveonyourterms 
#trust #accept #understand .
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#sexatdawn #sex #evolution #relationships #relationshipgoals #anthropology #monogomy #polyamorous #commitment #openrelationship #sexuality #readingrainbow #readingissexy #christopherryan #cacildajethá #tbtfebruary2017 #crossroadscafe #sanfrancisco
“But with trust we can strive to accept even what we cannot understand.” . . “Societies in which women have lots of autonomy and authority tend to be decidedly male-friendly, relaxed, tolerant, and plenty sexy. Got that, fellas? If you're unhappy at the amount of sexual opportunity in your life, don't blame the women. Instead, make sure they have equal access to power, wealth and status. Then watch what happens.” ~~~Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jethá ❤️📚🙏🏻 . . #takeyourpleasureseriously  #knowledgeispower  #whywelove  #liveagreatstory  #liveonyourterms  #trust  #accept  #understand  . . #sexatdawn  #sex  #evolution  #relationships  #relationshipgoals  #anthropology  #monogomy  #polyamorous  #commitment  #openrelationship  #sexuality  #readingrainbow  #readingissexy  #christopherryan  #cacildajethá  #tbtfebruary2017  #crossroadscafe  #sanfrancisco 
Today is all about Anthropology #beinghuman #sapiens #sexatdawn #freelove #allthesex #bookworm 📚♥🌎
Nipple-ALERT!
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As if these were mass destruction weapons?!
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I understand that banning images of nipples (and other bodily parts) is the easiest solution to keep certain misbehavior out of the realms, yet it doesn’t serve the same goal on a broader scale.
It actually enhances the idea that it’s shameful to have this bodypart seen by others.
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Why would our bodies be shameful? It’s made in all it’s glory to function the way it is. It’s society that has decided that (especially women) need to cover up certain (ever changing from time in history and geographic position) parts.
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Why this topic?
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A friend invited me to join the group exhibition: Fabulous Amazing Breasts.
5 female artists with a wide range of plastic language.
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A bold title asks for bold art!
So let’s provoke like it were the ‘60!!!
I painted one breast of each participating artist... and wow... so much came already up around it... timid feelings when asking the others for photos, posing myself in such way that my breast would not look so small in comparison, guilt when a painted breast didn’t look as good as I wanted it to look, inappropriate comment by a male colleague... all this...and the exhibition hasn’t even started!!!
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Wanna see the total artworks?
Come see us/them during the evening of saturday 12th of May at: Tallercito 3, Gràcia, Barcelona
Nipple-ALERT! 🎨🎨🎨 As if these were mass destruction weapons?! 🎨🎨🎨 I understand that banning images of nipples (and other bodily parts) is the easiest solution to keep certain misbehavior out of the realms, yet it doesn’t serve the same goal on a broader scale. It actually enhances the idea that it’s shameful to have this bodypart seen by others. 🎨🎨🎨 Why would our bodies be shameful? It’s made in all it’s glory to function the way it is. It’s society that has decided that (especially women) need to cover up certain (ever changing from time in history and geographic position) parts. 🎨🎨🎨 Why this topic? 🎨🎨🎨 A friend invited me to join the group exhibition: Fabulous Amazing Breasts. 5 female artists with a wide range of plastic language. 🎨🎨🎨 A bold title asks for bold art! So let’s provoke like it were the ‘60!!! I painted one breast of each participating artist... and wow... so much came already up around it... timid feelings when asking the others for photos, posing myself in such way that my breast would not look so small in comparison, guilt when a painted breast didn’t look as good as I wanted it to look, inappropriate comment by a male colleague... all this...and the exhibition hasn’t even started!!! 🎨🎨🎨 Wanna see the total artworks? Come see us/them during the evening of saturday 12th of May at: Tallercito 3, Gràcia, Barcelona
I cannot recommend this book highly enough - so thankful to @anna_adey_ for the recommendation and subsequent lend! 😍📚 Bit of hot choccie doesn't go astray either 😉☕ #vegan #vegans #veganfood #vegansofig #vegansofsydney #vegansofaustralia #eatvegan #veganeats #whatveganseat #veganfoodporn #veganlife #veganism #healthy #healthyfood #healthyeating #instagood #yum #yummy #love #loveit #delicious #chocolate #friends #books #sexatdawn #research #sex #sexuality #hotchocolate #reading
I cannot recommend this book highly enough - so thankful to @anna_adey_ for the recommendation and subsequent lend! 😍📚 Bit of hot choccie doesn't go astray either 😉☕ #vegan  #vegans  #veganfood  #vegansofig  #vegansofsydney  #vegansofaustralia  #eatvegan  #veganeats  #whatveganseat  #veganfoodporn  #veganlife  #veganism  #healthy  #healthyfood  #healthyeating  #instagood  #yum  #yummy  #love  #loveit  #delicious  #chocolate  #friends  #books  #sexatdawn  #research  #sex  #sexuality  #hotchocolate  #reading 
Finally finished Chris Ryans book after years of procrastination and was not disappointed. "One can choose what to do, but not what to want". Not everyone is suited to be monogamous. The fact that there's so much social pressure for relationships and marriage seems counter productive given that humans are instinctively so promiscuous. Only 3% of all mammals are monogamous. The Homosapien penis is twice the size of all other apes. We got big dicks mayn, (some of us more than others 😢) To what extent people are socially conditioned to marriage or instinctively driven I don't know.
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This book certainly sheds light on why Majority of marriages don't work out.  I've spent a fair amount of time in relationships and although I loved them and learnt a lot, the thought of spending the rest of my life with one person sounds like hell 😂
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Humans have struggled with their sexuality for thousands of years. Circumcision was introduced in the U.S. not for religion, not for health or hygiene reasons but to stop kids from masturbating.
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Its nice when you find a book that helps untie you a little bit from the social conditioning around you. Just thought I’d share some thoughts. Now time for some JP. #12rulesforlife #bookstagram #sexatdawn
Finally finished Chris Ryans book after years of procrastination and was not disappointed. "One can choose what to do, but not what to want". Not everyone is suited to be monogamous. The fact that there's so much social pressure for relationships and marriage seems counter productive given that humans are instinctively so promiscuous. Only 3% of all mammals are monogamous. The Homosapien penis is twice the size of all other apes. We got big dicks mayn, (some of us more than others 😢) To what extent people are socially conditioned to marriage or instinctively driven I don't know. . . This book certainly sheds light on why Majority of marriages don't work out. I've spent a fair amount of time in relationships and although I loved them and learnt a lot, the thought of spending the rest of my life with one person sounds like hell 😂 . . Humans have struggled with their sexuality for thousands of years. Circumcision was introduced in the U.S. not for religion, not for health or hygiene reasons but to stop kids from masturbating. . . Its nice when you find a book that helps untie you a little bit from the social conditioning around you. Just thought I’d share some thoughts. Now time for some JP. #12rulesforlife  #bookstagram  #sexatdawn 
My #eclectic reading taste keeps my #worldview open to #experiencing the #conventional and #unconventional  These are a few books that have #shifted my #perspective on #gender  #sexuality and #relationships Don’t be put off by the titles, in other words don’t judge a book by its cover. I think these are valuable worthwhile books to read or listen to. Enjoy 😉 #Theartofseduction #delusionsofgender #sexatdawn
Monkey Tooth Presents - New York Times Best Selling Author, and host of the Tangentially Speaking Podcast, Dr. Christopher Ryan. @thatchrisryan - Listen in as we discuss vanlife, travel, sex, influential teachers, the dominant cultural narratives guiding our lives, and poop.  Available Tuesday, May 1st!
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#vanlife #campervan #homeiswhereyouparkit #vantastic #camperconversion #sprintervanconversion #sprinter #vanlifecommunity #projectvanlife #alaska #southamerica #travel #instagood #adventure #neverstopexploring #modernoutdoors #monkeytoothpodcast #podcast #travelblogger #patreon #tangentiallyspeaking #sexatdawn
Monkey Tooth Presents - New York Times Best Selling Author, and host of the Tangentially Speaking Podcast, Dr. Christopher Ryan. @thatchrisryan - Listen in as we discuss vanlife, travel, sex, influential teachers, the dominant cultural narratives guiding our lives, and poop. Available Tuesday, May 1st! . . . #vanlife  #campervan  #homeiswhereyouparkit  #vantastic  #camperconversion  #sprintervanconversion  #sprinter  #vanlifecommunity  #projectvanlife  #alaska  #southamerica  #travel  #instagood  #adventure  #neverstopexploring  #modernoutdoors  #monkeytoothpodcast  #podcast  #travelblogger  #patreon  #tangentiallyspeaking  #sexatdawn 
Humans are NOT naturally monogamous. How can they be monogamous when “cheating” is often treated as some great crime against humanity? With threat of being sued for divorce, shunned, ostracized, abandoned, and even stoned to death, why would we take such massive risks only to fulfill what is so obviously very natural to us? If it was natural to be monogamous, why do we stray over and over and over again? • • • • • • •
I am not making a case FOR non-monogamy - as I know plenty of people who are in successful paired partnerships. No, this is only a case against the notion that, as humans, we SHOULD be monogamous. Or that monogamy is the only and ultimate expression of true love. • • • • • • • 
Besides, lovers, you think you’re the only person I ever want to sleep with for the rest of my short ass life on this entire magnificent earth? 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄 Dream on, fools... 😘👅💦💋❤️😍🥀💀👉🏽👌🏽🖕🏽 #nosoulmates #nonmonogamy #humanbehavior #humannature #sex #sexuality #humansexuality #bonobos #apes #ancestors #sexatdawn #smashthepatriarchy #fuckmonogamy
Humans are NOT naturally monogamous. How can they be monogamous when “cheating” is often treated as some great crime against humanity? With threat of being sued for divorce, shunned, ostracized, abandoned, and even stoned to death, why would we take such massive risks only to fulfill what is so obviously very natural to us? If it was natural to be monogamous, why do we stray over and over and over again? • • • • • • • I am not making a case FOR non-monogamy - as I know plenty of people who are in successful paired partnerships. No, this is only a case against the notion that, as humans, we SHOULD be monogamous. Or that monogamy is the only and ultimate expression of true love. • • • • • • • Besides, lovers, you think you’re the only person I ever want to sleep with for the rest of my short ass life on this entire magnificent earth? 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄 Dream on, fools... 😘👅💦💋❤️😍🥀💀👉🏽👌🏽🖕🏽 #nosoulmates  #nonmonogamy  #humanbehavior  #humannature  #sex  #sexuality  #humansexuality  #bonobos  #apes  #ancestors  #sexatdawn  #smashthepatriarchy  #fuckmonogamy 
Date night ended at #chapters buying some books on our mutual reading lists. #sexatdawn #18for2018 #ownthedayownyourlife #aubreymarcus
Representing @thatchrisryan today at the shop. #civilizedtodeath #sexatdawn
So many books, so little time #amediting #booklover #ratherbereading #leanin #thearrangement #sexatdawn #romancebook @sherylsandberg @ashwarlick @thatchrisryan #cacildajetha
“Richard Dawkins, author of The Selfish Gene, coined the term meme to refer to a unit of information that can spread through a community via learning or imitation the way a favored gene is replicated through reproduction.” -Sex at Dawn Ch 12
#meme #history #understanding #culture #gene #sexatdawn #book #anthropology