I'm a firm believer in learning, unlearning and relearning. I believe it's our collective duty to create a safe environment for the next generation and if we must prepare for the children of tomorrow, it's only wise to start teaching, mentoring and moulding the children of today into the men and women we want them to be tomorrow. It is a great honor to be representing the wonderful @standtoendrape initiative ❤️on Friday, 22nd June, 2018 at Jita Covenant school, Ogun state where I will be speaking to students and teachers on Child sexual abuse and developing action plans as regard abuse and rape. #standtoendrape#nomeansno#consent#MeToo#rapeisacrime
#Crime : Principal allegedly rapes 17-year-old male student to coma in Anambra
The principal of Seat of Wisdom Secondary School, Okija, Mr Modestus Eze has allegedly had carnal knowledge of one of his male students (name withheld), to coma.
The act which was gathered happen on Sunday in the community who as a source who got information of the act reported to the police, leading to some officers storming the residence of the principal, but he fled before their arrival.
The source said that the principal fled from his house after residents of the area suspected his act on the young student and decided to call in the police.
this act of violence happens more than you think on the casting couches 🛋 around the world. When I moved to Los Angeles in 2004 and I started recording in recording studios, I was horrified to find out that they didn’t want my money to record 🎶they wanted to have sex with me instead and would not take my money 💲they wanted me to give them sex instead to record my songs 🎤 😖
As a result 🧐I would not go into anymore recording studios unless I was accompanied by someone. 🤷🏽♀️ The casting couch is a real true thing and these devils take advantage of very naïve men and women who think they want to go to #Hollywood to be a big #star & have no clue what they are going to have to do for stardom 🤷🏽♀️ #drgoddessmona#goddessmona#god#metaphysical#metaphysicalscience#castingcouch#rapeisnotokay#rapeisacrime#rapeisungodly
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❌Mâine ne vedem în faţa sediului PSD Cluj, din Strada Eroilor numărul 2 pentru a protesta împotriva eliberării autorilor din cazul violului care a marcat România!! Rupe-ți 30 de minute din timp și hai să fim o voce pentru toate victimele abuzurilor!
Magistraţii Judecătoriei Vaslui au aprobat prima eliberare condiţionată în cazul celor şapte violatori din Vaslui, condamnaţi în 2015 la pedepse cuprinse între 6 şi 10 ani de închisoare. Decizia nu a fost încă contestată de procurori.
My name is Esther Pushe .I was 7 years old when HE RAPED ME!!!
I was brought up by a single mother,since my father disappeared. My mother was a working class woman who make sure, I was ok.I was raped by a chemist boy.
My mother left me in the hands of neighbours after school, but unfortunately that faithful day I was raped by this guy called Chima or Chi something.
The owner of the chemist store was a family friend to my mother, his boy was the one that raped me that faithfulday,he asked me to go get something for him at the backyard,on getting there ,he came and held me tight and raped me,I was very small I felt pain but didn't understand what was going on until my mother came back from work and noticed I wasn't happy, when she was about to give me a bath she noticed there was blood on my pant,then she asked me,I told her the chemist boy forced his thing on my hole.My mother went mad after I told her .
My mother called our family friend that this is what his boy could do to her daughter just because she left her with him.Neighbours were begging my mother that night.The Landlord of where we were living sons heard what happened and took advantage of me.
Two of the Landlord son took advantage of me,one was continually raping me,the other son was pressing my breasts each times,he noticed I was alone.I couldn't speak out,I didn't want people to abuse me ,so I kept it to myself.
The rape experience made me harden, stubborn, aggressive to men.
I will stand tall and join the fight against rape any day,it's has to stop,parents should be vigilant to their female kids,don't leave them to strangers.
MY NAME IS ADEOLA AND HE RAPED ME,
This is my story.
I met d guy in 2011,we were working in d same place, coz am a nurse and he is a doctor,i was also a virgin then, so naive... He came in a subtle way,I never knew he was a rapist, he said he wanted a relationship with me, that he loves me, bla bla.... I was someone reluctant coz he is Igbo, while am Yoruba, he assured me that his mum even wanted him to settle down with a Yoruba lady. At this point, I told him, I will be thinking about it, that he should give me time... Exactly 1 week after, he said, he would like me to visit him, in his house, coz I judged him based on his innocent look, I accepted to visit him.On this fateful day, I got to his house, (he was living with one of his friends then),we exchanged greetings ,took me to his room, served me food and we started talking, gisting. So he started touching me, I was scared, coz we were d only one in d flat, I told him straight away, that I am a virgin, that I don't wanna do such,that was how he pinned me down ,coz he is d hefty type, forcefully removed my clothes and pant, and had his way, while doing it,i was really crying under him, I was in serious pain. I was crying till he forced himself in, after he had satisfied himself, I was so ashamed of myself... When his face was clear, u know what this guy said? He said he wanted to know if am really a virgin, that, he has finally confirmed it, I avoided him at work,whenever I see him at work back then, I wish I cld just kill him... For months, I was lonely and ashamed of myself. Ashamed of myself coz I was vowed to remain virgin till I marry coz I was 24 years old. I felt cheated and used, thereafter, the incidence made me hate men. Thank God am married now, coz I just had to let it go. RAPE IS REAL.
#Repost @bolatinubu (@get_repost)
This appears to be the largest verdict ever awarded for a sexual assault case. Hope Cheston, who was raped when she was 14 years old, said that the judgment offered a symbolic win for all sexual assault victims, and hopes that her story can bring comfort or guidance to other survivors.
According to her lawyer: “A jury, from now on, will know there is no ceiling on the damage that rape causes to a woman. They literally thought a billion dollars was the value of a 14-year-old being raped in public.”
IF YOU SHOUT OR STRUGLE, I WILL CUT YOU INTO PIECES AND PUT YOU IN A BAG AND I WILL THROW YOUR REMAINS INTO THE CANAL WHERE NO ONE WILL EVER FIND YOU.
I was so scared and I started to cry and I begged him to let me go. I promised him that I won't breathe a word to anyone if he let me go. He did not listen. I took of my clothes and lay on the bed crying so badly. He took out one of the knives and demanded that when he lays on me I must act like I am enjoying it. He asked me to make sounds of enjoyment. ( I believe he was only trying to make himself to believe he wasn't RAPING ME.) He RAPED ME until he was satisfied. He asked me to tell him I enjoyed it and with tears running down my chicks I told him I did. I still believed I will not come our of the room alive as I thought he was going to chop me into pieces and throw me into the canal. I wept bitterly.
He suddenly asked me to put my clothes back on; I did and he held on to my hand, opened the door and walked me out of the room like nothing had happened. We got to the street and he stopped a commercial bike (okada) to take me back to my hostel. I CRIED LIKE NO TOMMOROW ( I BELIEVE HE IS A SERIAL RAPIST)
I cried and cried for days in my room and I washed and washed my self with loads and loads of soaps and water to get rid of him but he didn't as he his part of my STORY.
I Managed to blank his memory of him but I only was able to forget his name and facial appearance. How it happened I do not know but I can never forget it happened.
I blamed my self for years for letting it happened. I never disclosed it to anyone and I suffered the pain alone.
MY NAME IS SEYI AND HE RAPED ME😓😓 #herapedme#saynotorape#mybodymydecision#itsnotyourfault#sisterslove#womensupportingwomen#healing#love#rapeisacrime#shareyourstory#rapestories#dontblameuourself#sisterslove#africans#western#world#wsw#females#consent#togetherwearestronger#rapevictim#victimofrape
I STRONGLY BELIEVE EVERYONE NEEDS TO WATCH #iamevidence @iamevidencethemovie @therealmariskahargitay #rapekits#RAPE#assault#endthebacklog#iamevidencethemovie#rapeisreal#rapeisacrime how many rapes and assaults could have been prevented if law enforcement would have tested the rape kits, anyone? IF MEN WERE ASSAULTED AT THE RATE WOMEN ARE THERE WOULD BE MORE THAN ENOUGH MONEY TO TEST EVERYTHING. Most men ARE NOT RAPISTS BUT THE ONES WHO ARE - ARE SERIAL RAPISTS AND ASSAULTERS #WATCHITNOW#timesup#nomeansno#WOMEN#NOW maybe all those rich folks who got a ridiculous #taxcut can donate some fucking money #GETITDONE @jeffbezos @thisisbillgates @realdonaldtrump @zuck @oprah @madonna 1 in 4 PEOPLE GET AWAY WITH IT BECAUSE WE LET THEM. TRUTH BE TOLD I DID NOT WANT TO WATCH THIS DOC BUT I KNEW I HAD TO AND YES IT DID TRIGGER ME, BUT WE MUST KNOW AND CONFRONT THE TRUTH AS WOMEN THIS IS UNIQUE TO US. WE MUST ADVOCATE FOR OURSELVES - IT IS CLEAR NO ONE ELSE WILL.🖕💪✊👊 @mikabrzezinski
Since then I saw her and listened the incident till now m suffering in great anxiety the same I felt a few months earlier in Zainab's incident and I here accept that I was much depressed and gone in serious religious malikholia, annoyed and fought with my sister on dressing yes i have dressing issues now and in zainab case it shivered me from inside and out and I used to weeping in washroom seriously that's hurting and the reason behind that was a raped of a seven years old child and the same scene repeated again with #Asifa a #Kashmiri child what's going on in our society? They have reached on the heights of cruelty seriously that's a very inhuman act Rape is itself a crime but here this happened with young children plus their murder this is highly disgusting it's OK to raise voice but more than that is to save our more daughters and children from this and it can only reduce if the rapists and murderers hang and not only hang they will punished in such order that others also get advise not to ever do this act again hope hope hope with the tears in my eyes #justiceforAsifa#hangtheRapists#rapeisacrime#protectourchild#childabuse#rapecase#india#indiarapecase#newDelhi#up#mp#bombay#Feelingpain#pain#death#insideout#nowords#tearsineyes#rapistsshouldpunished
My dressing is an expression of my femininity not and excuse for you to assault me or undress me with your perverted gaze.
“Asking women to respect themselves in order to “earn” the right to be treated like a human being is total horseshit. But suggesting you have the right to treat her as you please because she didn’t adhere to your archaic views of feminine propriety is misogyny, plain and simple.” - Clementine Ford It’s sexual Assault Awareness month! Let us take this opportunity to raise awareness about sexual violence and speak out against victim blaming. @speak.out.ke #endrapeculture#sexualassault#ok2share#rapeisacrime#girlpower#noisno
I was a virgin, raped and infected with STI by an entertainer – Ifu Ennada
BBNaija reality tv star.
Ifu Ennada has revealed that she got infected with an STI after she got raped by an entertainer whose name she didn’t disclose.
Read her story below. ”My Virginity Story; Rape & Depression
When I was in the Big Brother House emotions were raised when during a Truth or Dare game I said I’d not really had sex.
People interpreted that as me claiming to be a Virgin.
The truth is in 2016 I was raped by someone in the entertainment industry, before then I was a Virgin. This person also infected me with an STI… I was also threatened by this person and was very scared of social media’s bashing with the usual questions of “what was she wearing!” ” why did she go to his house ?”… so in all my sadness and depression I decided to tell the world what had happened to me using film as a medium.
I was inspired to write and produce my film – Tears of A Broken Virgin. I got a lot of help from social media – people volunteered to work for me free of charge even my director – Benny Atagame Alli
Though some parts of my film is fiction, the bulk of it was inspired by my story. The lead character’s name is Ada which is a short form of my name Adanne- popularly pronounced as Ennada.
Because of my sad experience I battled depression, developed trust issues and found it hard to connect with people especially men.
I wanted to tell my story and also pass a strong message to rape victims and rapists…I hope I was able to do that with my film.
I intend to expand this into a feature length film. I hope everyone out there is inspired to stand up against rape”.
@Regrann from @cassieakinde - I was so glad to be able to lend my voice and support this worthy cause to end this menace called Rape.Boys,girls,adult women and even men have been victims of such heinous crime and it saddens my heart that more often than not the victim becomes the accused.During the walk I met lots of men and even women who named indecent dressing as an excuse for rape.Obviously this W.A.R has just begun and more work needs to be done @projectalertvawng
@tifesoloye @globalchildhealth @thenigerianchildinitiative @executivesinitiative @sheleadsafrica @shewriteswoman @shenomicsafrica 💪💪💪💪 Thank you to @walkagainstrape @girlhubafrica @ghav_lagos @sabrocka @efemena_u @gusi_tobby for giving me an opportunity to partake in this worthy cause😘#Walkagainstrape#SayNotoRape#RapeIsACrime#BreaktheSilence#EndRape#W .A.R 2018
I was so glad to be able to lend my voice and support this worthy cause to end this menace called Rape.Boys,girls,adult women and even men have been victims of such heinous crime and it saddens my heart that more often than not the victim becomes the accused.During the walk I met lots of men and even women who named indecent dressing as an excuse for rape.Obviously this W.A.R has just begun and more work needs to be done @projectalertvawng
@tifesoloye @globalchildhealth @thenigerianchildinitiative @boyup_campaign @executivesinitiative @sheleadsafrica @shewriteswoman @shenomicsafrica 💪💪💪💪 Thank you to @walkagainstrape @girlhubafrica @ghav_lagos @sabrocka @efemena_u @gusi_tobby for giving me an opportunity to partake in this worthy cause😘#Walkagainstrape#SayNotoRape#RapeIsACrime#BreaktheSilence#EndRape#W .A.R 2018
We love our team @Regrann from @tifesoloye - As I was walking, I came across different groups of people, men and women alike who seemed to tell us to ‘Dress better’ and ‘Cover up’ to avoid rape.
I lost my cool when a grown man, capable of having children told me ‘Why won’t they rape you, look at what you’re wearing, that jeans is making your body shoot out’ and I told him to his face that he’s a rapist.
And to the woman who was supporting that, a rape apologist.
It’s so sad that in this day and age we are still victim blaming and shaming, the focus is still what the woman is wearing and not that the man being RESPONSIBLE for his actions.
What about women in full hijabi clothing, or babies less than 2 years old getting raped? Were they asking for it too?
If I’m wearing a gold necklace, am I asking for a thief to snatch it?
Does that justify the thief’s actions because I’m wearing a gold necklace? I thought not.
As we are raising responsible daughters, let’s raise responsible sons too.
NO MEANS NO.
If I were jollof, you would ensure I'm perfectly cooked before you eat me.
If I were a bottle of beer, you would rather have me chilled for your enjoyment.
If I were a Ferrari, you would probably wash me twice a day and drive carefully to avoid stories that touch.
If I were your favourite meal, you would never eat me in the gutters.
If I were an iPhone X, you would protect me with a screen guard and a pouch.
What evil have I done by being a female human? I thought you would protect me like you do to your phone. I thought you would pamper me like you do to your Ferrari. I thought you would rather have me when I'm ready.
Alas! I was wrong.
You think I'm not deserving of sexual satisfaction. You force yourself on me even while I cry and beg you to stop. You blame it on my short skirt. You blame it on the devil.
Dear husband, why do you continue when I say I'm tired and stressed out? Shouldnt sex be enjoyed by both parties? Uncle what attracts you to me..I'm only 2 years old Uncle...am I not too tender?
Mother, why won't you listen to me when I say daddy touched me? How come your marriage has become so important to you that you protect your Husband's image at the detriment of my future?
Do I not have the right to be ready before the act? Don't I have a right to sexual satisfaction or is it now one sided? If I say no, why don't you just stop?
You've hurt me beyond words. This act you have done would forever linger in my heart.
Don't blame the devil. Don't blame my skirt. Blame it on yourself. You are a rapist.
My name is Lekwa Victoria Ijeoma and I stand against rape.