Day 291 of 365
When the world questions your abilities, respond with your Actions.
One of the easiest things for people to do is try to justify their actions, especially when they don't have a good reason or excuse for a mistake or "perceived" failure. I encourage you to not be one of those that do this consistently. 🔸
There are some who even make excuse for others or make up one for themselves for things that aren't there fault, nor is there a reason to give one. You have to learn the difference between accepting responsibility for your actions and allowing others to accept their own responsibility without making excuse for them, such as a friend or family member.
Here are a couple of things to consider and maybe help you overcome this.
- When you feel yourself start to come up with an excuse, STOP.
- Ask yourself: what really happened? If I'm at fault, I'll take responsibility. If I'm not at fault, let the person know that you want to help (if you can) and see if you can be part of finding a solution.
- When your abilities are in question, write yourself a list of what you have done, what needs to be done, and what you need help getting done, then work on it.
- Don't give in to the temptation of justify yourself to someone to just make yourself look good. Let them know that they can depend on you, and judge the results, not your character.
- And remember, some people are just looking for an excuse to try and put you down. Let the decision makers know of your action plan, without bringing up the negative person, and then get the work done. Your actions and positive results will speak much louder and more effectively than your words can describe.
Enjoy your day, guys and gals. I believe in you. You've got this!
I am a lone wolf, a nomad, an outlaw, anarchist and outsider. Always have been. I'm easy to like but I'm also easy to hate. I do not comform. I live by my own standards. No one else's. People tend to be either attracted to or repelled by me. I'm not the sort you'd say "yeah he's alright" about. For better or for worse I generally leave an impression.
I have no need for large circles of friends, have never been 'popular', and don't enjoy the company of more than a few for any extended time period. I'm not easy going. I'm particular. I know myself and will only make compromises for those who I have allowed into my heart. And I am extremely open hearted but extremely selective. If you are fortune to be counted as one of my pack you have the most caring, loyal and fiercely protective companion you could ever find. I'm a good man. An Alpha man. I don't suffer fools gladly but if you treat me with respect and kindness you can be absolutely assured that I will treat you with the same level of respect no matter what your social or physical status. Cross me or cross anyone I love and you will very swiftly come to know your mistake.
Este es un homenaje a un perro fiel, compañero, un poco peleador, pero jugueton, cariñoso, mimoso y sobre todo un gran protector. Que nos seguira cuidando desde donde esté.
Fallecio el martes 16/10/2018. No sabemos si por causa natural o por causa de algun hdp!! Pero Kenaychu no va a estar mas!
Te vamos a extrañar Kenay (Oso negro)
PD: Lo adoptamos cuando tenia 45 dias, y le dimos una mejor calidad de vida.
"Adoptar y No Comprar"
Doctor Strange is one of finest movie in MCU after Guardian of Galaxy in my opinion
The way @scottderrickson sir imagined this movie in terms of visuals, location choosing, character development,script (don't forget his massive hard work before getting project,he had written 12 page scene for this movie regarding astral plane scene sequences, the way he was paired up with Jon spaihts sir and Robert sir,thousand hugs to them also)
Hell yeah that's y Doctor strange is massive elementary character. He is best superhero(cloak of levitation holder😎😎)
#protector of sanctums (new York, London, hong Kong)
Happy #62nd Birthday to my #mother#shero#superwoman#rock#sponsor and #protector
Today I can only thank God for His faithfulness and His graces that have enabled YOU see today! Your courage and most importantly your #FAITH over the last 4 years have demonstrated how incredible you are. You’ve laughed in the face of death reaffirming that one with God, is one with Majority leaving your doctors amazed!!! Those dear to me know our journey. My mother has weathered storms and fought fierce battles, coming out wiser and stronger each time. From my mother I learned strength and perseverance; a widow who dedicated her life to raising her children.
She taught me of selfless sacrifice by giving up everything to ensure my dreams are actualised, sacrificing even her personal life, simply because she didn’t want her children to feel at competition for her affection with any man.
From my mother I have learned grace under fire most especially by watching her navigate and handle all that accompanied my fathers death.
She has taught me of faith and the power that comes with it, trusting in a purpose and a being greater than myself.
My mother has lived by example with dignity. She is kind, giving, and the most beautiful person inside and out.
My mother through me has built a lasting legacy. She is the best part of me!
Today I celebrate the most important person in my life! The one person whose voice calms my anger, the one who understands every look I make without even speaking, the one person who defends and fights for me, the one person who loves me in spite of every flaw and teaches me to be better.
Today I celebrate the only person I would go to the ends of the earth for. I celebrate the one who inspires me and on whose shoulders I have always stood!! As you turn 62 today my prayer for you is that you live long in health, wealth and happiness, to see your children and your grandchildren as well as your hearts desires come to fruition.
Maami Abisola, omo Egberongbe, aya Folorunsho....Abiyamo tooto!!! E jere omo, e pe layo ati alafia, e jeun omo, ko de ni koro lenu yin! Idunnu lo ma je ti yin ni gbogbo igba, eeni foju sunkun omo! Ayo yin de ma ma kun ni gbogbo ona!
In the morning I think of you.
In the afternoon, I think how to bring
you to more people who need you.
When the evenings fall I feel I've not done
enough to share you.
I love you.
I believe in you.
I am overwhelmed by thoughts of you.
It is irrationally rational.
It is logical.
It is something from deep inside.
I am not doing this but it just springs forth. My love, trust and faith for you is bursting. I feel restless to bring you to others more.
I can't help it.
It is my calling.
It springs naturally from me.
It is who I am.
It is what I need to do.
I want to bring you to more beings.
Help me to do so.
Dorje #Shugden , help me to do this because I can't stop thinking of you and how you can help so many that need you.
So many need you. ~ Tsem Rinpoche
Always show love and respect to those who made you who you are today. Never forget where you came from also give thanks and appreciation to them even if they are not by your side or nowhere to be seen. A true angel will always be watching over you. Happy birthday nan ❤️💋 #Queen#love#bosslady#protector#creator#stength#nanny 👼🏿