When the narcissist is in company they engage in becoming the greatest social performer to ever live. Be it a father or a mother it matters not. This causes great confusion as the child will identify with the better behaved attentive projection of a parent, excitedly only to be crushed when the company leaves the group. Hiding in plain sight. Vigilance and education are of the greatest importance to protect our future generations. All that is needed for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing. ✌🏻️
This is an act of EMOTIONAL ABUSE....no matter how the person with narcisstic tendencies displays the insults...even social media posts...disguised....its how they get out their extreme sociopath hidden tendencies at the same time if popular gaining social media false love from fans....that feeds the egotistical child like parts of themselves.....masking the true SOUL they were BORN to be....this can come out in twinflame relationships because twinflames are transmutting and healing mental health issues...that our ancestors manifested through there trials and tribulations....past incarnations....being bound or enslaved they passed the genetics on through our d.n.a....and divine awakened souls....#twinflames ...some...#divine#partners have to mimic some of these triggered behaviors through our own neglect and or abuse or simply reenact our ancestoral nature....and once highlighted through a reflection of reflections in our realities....especially if we are the rare #twinflame ....#soulmate or even classic #karmic relationship....one has to identify these issues....once one starts healing....the energy for the other partner....family members...and soul groups....will begin healing and BREAKING GENERATIONAL CYCLES....as well...for our world to be free of narcissism and covert narcissism...and narcissistic enablers(MYSELF)...the #narcissist is superbly confident...the #covert narcissist is extremely insecure....not confident....and needs constant reassurance from people....which feeds their false sense of LOVE....instead of just working on LOVING THEMSELVES....by dropping the masks...and Being GENUINELY kind to others....instead cannibalizing off innocent energy....at any cost....a sick....cycle....that can be broken....through not only awareness....but steps to STOP THE EMOTIONAL ABUSE
Let’s talk about healing from a toxic relationship. -
I want to start by saying it’s not going to be easy. I understand every situation is different and has it’s own complexities, especially if we’re talking about abuse.
If you want to heal from a toxic relationship, first and foremost, you need to focus on YOURSELF (and your kids if you have any.)
Set personal goals. It will keep your mind occupied on a healthier and happier future. Where do you want to be 3 months, 6 months, 1 year from now? WRITE IT DOWN. BE DETAILED. -
Go to the gym and get strong. Getting fit will not only make you physically strong, it will help you become confident and strong mentally as well. Don’t know what to do at the gym? PM me, I got you. -
Read books and learn something new. This will open your mind and help you not focus on him. -
Surround yourself with positive and inspiring people. Follow people on social media who share positive information. -
Find a therapist if you need to. Getting professional help is nothing to be ashamed of! Getting help and creating a “health care” team is extremely beneficial in the healing process. If you don’t have health insurance or don’t know how to get help, go to loveisrespect.org.
Pursue legal action if necessary! Restraining orders, or even talking to a domestic violence advocate to ask questions can help if you’re unsure how to proceed with legal action. -
Now, more details on what NOT to do:
You must stop looking at what he’s doing, or who his new girlfriend is. This happens in the form of Facebook/Instagram stalking him. Do NOT message his new girlfriend to “warn her.” He’s probably already painted you as the “crazy ex girlfriend,” so if you message her it will only reaffirm his lies. Block him.
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