Let the HATERS hate!✌🏼
Did I get your attention? Good! Let me share something that’s come up a lot in my IG stories when I put up the question to ask me anything.
Several ladies asked “How do you deal with people judging you being so open about your life on social media? Cuz I would love to do what you do just scared of all the judgement”.
You guys, when I decided to work from home and make my career Coaching I had my entire social media on LOCK DOWN! I had sooooo many haters in my life at the time that I felt sick of posting or sharing anything publicly, because I knew it’d be a topic of discussion. .
I had to make a choice. Will I let negative people CHOOSE (yes CHOOSE) MY path in life? THAT is what I was doing. I wanted to create a completely different life for me and my family full of endless possibilities and I wanted to work towards huge scary dreams I had. BUT I was letting those people stop me and instead I was living a mediocre life with no passion. .
Now think about that for a minute…. The POWER you are giving to those people! It’s insane when you really sit and look at it that way, right?
So I made a choice to just F*** it! I was taking BACK control of my life. That started with CLEANING HOUSE 😂 because YOU become like the people you hang out with and I started my little coaching business in health and fitness complete out of shape (yup 70lbs over weight with no clue on what the heck I was doing), from my kitchen table, broke AF because I had lost my job and in between my baby’s nap time from my kitchen table! .
What did I have working for me?
PASSION, BELIEF, and a CLEAR VISION of what I wanted my life to look like!
My life now is not what it was. Not even close and I ain’t done!
So here I am in my sweaty glory after completing this mornings leg day workout. May the haters judge if they’re still on that BS and the mama’s needing inspo get inspiration from someone who decided to go all in to create a life by design.
I love finding women who were or are just like me. I’ve found my tribe and over here we inspire and help each other to the top! Join us!😘
1.05 miles tonight and that makes it 18 miles in total for my @raceatyourpace 25 miles walked in August challenge.
I can feel the difference since starting my walking habit few weeks ago. I can walk faster and longer than before and one thing that amazed me is that I didn't even need to use my asthma inhaler even once today. Normally would need to before and during my walks.
Very happy and proud of progress made. Nearly there now.
Also finding that walking is helping me become more creative as looking to complete the first draft of my first novel.
Have a great weekend everyone.
This morning I changed things up. I put self care first 😊 Instead of rushing to drop my daughter off at school and then to the gym and back, I decided to walk my daughter the 2 miles to school, drop her off and walk 2 miles home. That would save me the drive times and get me my workout and then leave me free to get a mani/pedi before lunch 💅🏻 So this walk was half of what I did this morning 🙌🏼 I was able to shower at home after, stop at Starbucks and get a delicious cold foam coffee for 2 sp 😋 and get pampered at the salon. It is just what this pregnant mama needed 🤰 I found a way to take care of myself without compromising my workout 👊🏻 Self care is so important, don’t forget about You!
MANNERS & RESPECT!😃🆒
We need to do a better job teaching this to our children. It seems old-fashioned to say, “Yes ma’am,” and, “No sir,” or using the words please and thank you. However, it is the right thing.
We need to teach our kids to have a respect for not only elders but a respect for people in general. I know I need to do a better job in this area. We need to help make respecting others a habit for our children. Make sure they know: we respect people and fairness. When we do it consistently life goes a lot better.😃
Baby away to bed - Jake away out - IT’S JUST ME. It’s not often I get alone time so when I do, I fully indulge and make the most of it. Lots of wine and snacks will be consumed tonite and I’m not even sorry.
Друзья, часто ли вы достигаете поставленных целей?😏
Все мы делимся на несколько групп. Одни бьются до последнего пока не получат желаемое, а другие отступают при понимании, что силы на исходе и не всё так просто, как казалось.
Есть ещё "люди-рыбки" 👈😁 Они умею обплывать все трудности и препятствия. Со стороны может казаться, что это везунчики. У них все получается, жизнь полна ярких событий и "полезных" контактов.
Не просто жить всем трём: 👉Первым из-за сложности выбранного пути (а другого они не выбирают).
👉Вторым, как мне кажется, сложнее всего. Столько мечт и надежд разбиваются о реалии нашего мира. Ни чего по-настоящему ценного в этом мире легко не даётся.
👉"Рыбки" - самые разумные, на мой взгляд. Но только подумайте, как не просто думать на несколько ходов вперёд и быть готовым к любому раскладу 🤔
⭐Плюсы, разумеется, тоже есть. Их вы и сами можете придумать. 😀
На самом деле в разных ситуациях мы поступаем по разному (порой сами себя удивляя) всё зависит от приоритетов.
Вот бы ещё знать достичь какую цель🎯 действительно важно, а от какой стоит отступиться.