A form of abuse which for most of us is not very clear. There is no
Violence no angry behaviour.. just a few simple words which makes us wonder .. why do I feel manipulated .. why did I just agree to this when I did not even want to.. Do they see your weakness or are they the ones who are weak. “If you really love me then you would definitely done this for me” “
It’s fine. I know u don’t care about me. “ “U think u can lose weight that fast. Forget it.” “I am only doing this for you and no one else so why can’t u do this for me”
I have lot of things to do but I am being here for you so u have to be grateful for that.
You are being a drama queen and I think you need to change your personality.
There is many
More and most of us will brush this under the carpet.
If you feel like you have been manipulated before please comment below.. we would love to know the words they say to cause such self doubt ,harm and most of all making us feel disappointed with ourselves
There’s a psychological term called cognitive dissonance. If someone knows something to be true for an extended period of time, their brain will reject all proof of evidence otherwise. They will not be able to accept the new belief challenging the old. You see this in the media how both sides become totally polarized. Polarization of this level isn’t normal. Just recently I mentioned a political view where I mostly sided with a leftist perspective but mentioned a couple of points that challenged the total narrative. People threatened and attacked me with one person saying “bring her down”! And I was almost 90% agreeing with them lol. They couldn’t stand any truth being presented that may have altered their ideology. We are in a trying time where we must push ourselves to question everything we are being told. Not in a neurotic, paranoid way but in a deep contemplative spiritual way. Most people can not see how they are being framed or cajoled into a perspective. Beliefs are like larger energies that can be quite invested in you feeding them and passing them on to others like a virus. It’s important we begin to understand how we can be used in bigger or smaller ways to support agendas. This doesn’t just pertain to people but to larger groups like the media. Next time someone is offering a differing yet challenging perspective try and listen. Ask yourself how your perspective was created in the first place. Intuition and meditation will enlighten you more to what’s going on than any thing you can watch or read. #payattention#manipulation#manipulators#media#awakening#spirituallife#spiritualpath#spiritualitycoach#cognitivedissonance#belief#polarization#lifecoaching#eyeswideopen#wakingup#sendinglove
I never talked about this in my daily life. People ask me more and more why I am still single. Kim you are a beautiful women, so kind and lovable. Why? Men are interested in you but you don’t see it... (off course I do). I normaly don’t talk about this because nobody will understand unless you expierenced the same thing. People who new me in that period will not even believe me because people only believe what they see and this is never been seen for the outside world. I am someone who does not judge so I’ll try to put it out in the hope you do the same. I don’t see myself as a victim (and never acted like that) so I will appreciate you don’t either.
If you are mentally or emotionally abused or in this moment in an abusive relationship, I hope you get some strenght out of my words.
The first year I was single, I couldn’t have any relationship because 1) I didn’t want to, I was scared 2) I needed to heal myself before I could ever give my heart again to someone. I was paralyzed and didn’t feel anything at that moment, not even the pain. I stood at some points in my life that I wanted to jump of a bridge and hoped they never found me, so they could have a funeral without me. The only thing that was preventing me to do so was my daughter. She was and still is my light. I wasn’t myself anymore, didn’t have any selfrespect, felt weak and had anxiety attacks. It became a part of my life where nobody knew and everybody thought I was fine. I read a lot and when I was not Reading I forced myself to plan every day something, like do something with your friends or just do the hack whatever you want. I even had a tinder date! You are in a state that nobody have to tell you “you should do this or you should’t do that”. I became allergic to these reactions. In one year I learned a lot about myself and to let go after of what I thought was love. My father dropped death almost 12 years ago and because of that I had seperation anxiety. I had no boundaries and said Yes to everyone and everything because when I would have say no, people would leave me... see the pattern? Believe me, at that time I wasn’t aware of it.
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I can’t stand a liar that tell so many lies that he/she can’t keep up with, then try to Manipulate you into thinking you’re remembering wrong or you’re just crazy and making stuff up...I’ve always had a good memory with proof so STOP trying to Manipulate folks...at least keep a journal of your lies so you don’t repeat them...
#liars #🤥🤥🤥 #keepupwithyourlies#manipulators#ihaveagoodmemory#whoyoufooling#ohdevil
I am grateful to all the people (family, friends and lovers) who have been amazing teachers for me showing me by example how I don’t want to be.
Walking away from people hurts at first, but then you realize you’re free.
Free to create your own thoughts, your own vibe and attract the right people, the people who inspire you to be better.
It is on reflecting on these people, that I realize how far I’ve come and how much I’ve grown.
When you’re in it, you don’t see how sick it is, because if you’re anything like me you’re too busy trying to “fix everything” and taking it all on as if it’s yours.
It’s not. Sometimes, they serve to show you exactly what parts of yourself you can let go off too.
We don’t talk bad about others in my tribe. We just know when someone is not our people, and we let it go.
#MathDontLie please tell me you know houses price will keep going 😂 and pump and dumps dont happen to big company's with hype factor #stay#woke or #goBroke the last chart is bitcoin right now!!! #buyTheDip#BTFD#dontBuyHype#housing only for necessity not for max #invest#outcome#getRich or #CryTrying
dont be left holding #bags when bubble burst
bitcoin is money +smart + contracts it wont die like clothing hype and wont be unnecessary expensive like housing because banks and brokers own the industry by being the lender and the seller/mediator #manipulators#monopolies giving you a false freedom 🤔 ponder on my #conspiracy#eyesWideShut
i got into bitcoin 2011 but i got in after the first bare trap 1year ago 😂😝 china Bann #FUD *first picture is for concept not actual index
this is the collective human mind putting a price on things , its all just meaningless data until you study it and connect the dots