We accept the love we think we deserve. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Originally from one of my favourite books, ‘Perks of being a Wallflower’, it has completely revolutionized the way I approach the idea of romance and love. It seems almost like an idea in its own, like it’s describing something so much bigger. Turns out, it is. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
How we allow our better halfs to treat us is a reflection of the treatment we think we deserve. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Anyone with a high esteem, self confidence and love for oneself wouldn't tolerate someone to draw in from the pool of our inner power.
It all boils down to our CHOICE that is in turn determined by the self-worth we attach with ourselves.
It's as simple actually: ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We think low of ourselves : We will resort to someone who will treat us badly. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We think highly of ourselves: We will wait for someone to raise us to that pedestal. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
People with a low self esteem think no one cares about them, when in reality they just cant accept the love of those who do because it feels undeserved and surreal. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Whenever you find yourself judging someone for their CHOICES, or find yourself being treated in a manner worse than you'd like, step back, and think of the quote.
Stiniva beach in Vis Island, Croatia was named the top beach in Europe for 2016. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Its inaccessibility is part of its allure. Vis is the farthest inhabited island from the Croatian mainland; beyond Brac and Hvar. The beach itself can only be reached by hiking down a steep and narrow path or by taking a taxi boat from the nearby cove at Rukavac. And only those vessels small enough to pass through a gap of a few metres in the cliffs can reach it. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Been lucky to have had a chance to swim here today, the water is crystal and the pebbles stone white. Definitely agreed.