Day 86 of #100daysofgratitude practice...
I used to think I should do more spiritual shit..
Like carry crystals in my bra, or bury crystals in my yard, or sage EVERYTHING, or do Moon rituals, or wear certain types of clothes.
I used to feel guilt & even shame for enjoying t.v , dancing to offensive rap music, or even taking my anti-depressants cuz if I was REALLY SPIRITUAL I wouldn’t need that shit.
Today I give thanks to my higher self, the Universe, source energy, God , Goddess, and Jesus.. ( or whatever terminology you want to apply) that I no longer give a Flying FUCK what anyone else may believe I need to be or do in order to be “ Spiritual “.
I pole dance & I’m still spiritual, I watch t.v and I’m still spiritual, I eat meat & I’m still spiritual, I have no major crush on rocks or stones of any kind and I’m still spiritual.
I like air conditioning and to shave my legs & I’m still spiritual. I dye my hair and wear makeup & I’m still spiritual.
Being spiritual isn’t a costume you wear, being spiritual means ( TO ME) having an interest and being engaged with the knowing and feeling that there is far more to life then what we can measure ( even with super advanced scientific instruments). It’s a curiosity and willingness to be open to all ideas.
It’s a feeling of something profound and magnificent that runs through all things in this universe and beyond.
It has nothing to do with my clothes, diet, exercise routine, or if I go to church or not.
Let’s let the fuck go of all these very limiting ideas about something that is infinitely unknowable.
Because I don’t fit some version of “spirituality” doesn’t give me any less access to something truly profound.
We all have our own paths to God, whatever that is to you let that be your way.
I love my relationship with God and I don’t feel the need to do any song and dance to feel loved, accepted , and appreciated by something that is absolutely loving and (in my opinion) not needing me to do Anything in particular to be spiritual or feel connected to it. #spirituality#unconditionallove#godiseverything#theuniverse#infinitelove#iamspirtual#itsalllove#doyouboo
happiness has no fixed definition.
it can be anything to anyone at anytime.
it can be fleeting & it can be abundant.
it can be simple & it can be complicated.
or it can just simply... be.
sometimes it’s a fresh af smoothie. 🧡
(best discovery of this little town so far).
sometimes it’s coming home to a camper full of pups that wiggle all over when you get home.
& sometimes it’s just knowing you have someone in the world that cares about you infinitely.
Mon écolière, le sac juste sur une épaule car « ça fait comme les grands mamans »
Ma fille qui grandit si vite!!!
Qui préfère discuter avec l’Atsem de la classe plutôt que de faire un atelier! Mais où est mon bébé??? Je sais qu’il est encore là, planqué derrière ses airs de grande, quand le soir elle réclame le câlin sur les genoux avant de dormir, quand le matin elle réclame un bib au lieu du mug de chocolat au lait, quand elle dort et que son visage s’anime de jolies mimiques rappelant celles involontaire du nouveau né. Non mon bébé n’est pas loin mais plus si près! Je ne me souviens pas de la vie avant toi, du moins je ne me souviens de ce sentiment de vie remplie d’amour à l’infini. ♥️ #mafille#momlife#charlize#love#lovemydaughter#infinitelove#instagram#picoftheday#happiness#schoolbag#frozen#likeabiggirl#grandefille#jetaime#viedemaman#ecole
Antes do ☑SUCESSO você fará essa decisão... ''Há não muito tempo atrás, descobri um pequeno segredo que me fez dar um salto na carreira e nos negócios...'' E lhe digo já: não foi uma questão de ter encontrado a melhor estratégia.
Aliás, estratégia não é a coisa mais importante. Quantas pessoas você já ouviu falar que não sabiam como fazer as coisas, quando iniciaram, e ainda assim cresceram exponencialmente?
Eu vou lhe explicar o que quero dizer. Todo mundo precisa saber disso.
Olha só que simples.
A primeira coisa que você precisa é decidir se...
- Você quer viver para ser aceito e querido pelos outros!
- Ou fazer o que você tem que fazer na vida!
Pois você não vai conseguir cuidar de dois senhores. Ou você escolhe a aprovação das pessoas ou cumpre a sua missão. Isso é o que mais trava a vida das pessoas e o que mais liberta elas.
Isto é o seu céu, ou isto é o seu inferno. E você vai ter que escolher.
E vou te dizer: quase ninguém vai entender e te apoiar. Muito pelo contrário! A maioria vai te criticar e te julgar. Não porque não gostam de você, mas por duas coisas:
- Não faz sentido para eles
- Eles vão se sentir deixados para trás
Se sentirão inferiorizados, por você priorizar sua vida, versus à dele.
“Como assim ele escolhe a missão dele, ao invés de mim? O que é isso?”...
E aí sabe o que vão fazer? Vão lhe criticar!
Quando destravo isso na mente de meus clientes tudo fica mais fácil...
A vida entra em um ritmo que eles até ficam espantados, aí eu tenho espaço para entrar com estratégias e técnicas...
(Eu mesmo me surpreendo até hoje com a velocidade que eles crescem na carreira, nos negócios e mesmo como mudam seus relacionamentos conjugais ou em qualquer outro relacionamento). O QUE É IMPORTANTE PARA VOCÊ?...
Se você focar no que você está potencialmente perdendo ou que nunca mais vai ter de volta, você só conseguirá ter sucesso em uma coisa: tristeza e baixa estima. Porque a gente não sabe exatamente o que é a realidade. Pois você sente aquilo que você prioriza.
A maioria das pessoas não tem ideia da gigantesca capacidade que podem comandar, quando reordenam e realinham a importância das coisas na sua mente. Literalmente, destrava tudo.
GRATITUDE IS THE ATTITUDE!
I have a confession:
I don't have it as together as it may seem.
At times i become a slave to my own mind... incessant thoughts, judgements, criticisms, self-pity, laziness, anger, hopelessness takes the reins and steers me into a funk.
I used to easily get out of a funk when i had all the solo time in the world and enjoyed a very solid #yoga practice, but this past year i've been living entirely for Addie, keeping her happy, tending to her needs, her everything first.
It's become a pattern when i have free time instead of tending to me and doing yoga, i'm frantically cleaning or doing laundry or something to "keep up" on things so chaos doesn't consume my life.
Truthfully... my state of mind directly causes this chaos. racing around depletes me on all levels and i fall out of alignment. When i'm in #harmony with myself everything flows, i'm happy, sweet, affectionate, caring, hopeful, full of energy and my entire body doesn't ache.
So i've been seeking balance, it's more so REMEMBERING to seek balance. i know what i need to do but still fall back into poor habits and so i've literally been writing notes and leaving them around to see.
One thing i've found is if i am grateful for what i have it's easier to find peace and restore balance.
Also another HUGE ONE: spending time in a nature has been the ultimate game changer. i challenge myself up a hill when my mind won't stop and expend some of the pent up energy that would turn to anger if left unchecked.
So perhaps you get in a funk and can't get out, sit staring at a screen when you know you shouldn't be, or you're getting mad at loved ones and in turn hurt even more after...
GET O U T S I D E !!!!!
Go anywhere, do anything, get your legs moving, heart pumping and give your mind something else to focus on.
WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS
DESIGNED TO BE IN NATURE!!!
🌿🌝✨no more excuses..
Let's make it a daily practice & the days you miss out don't beat yourself up. life is hard enough as it is. be your own friend and remember GRATITUDE focus on the beauty in your life and you'll notice it all around you.
My baby is not a baby anymore😩😩😩😩! She’s officially 20 🎂🎂she’s my baby 🦄 , my BEST FRIEND 💖💞💕 a great daughter, young black entrepreneur 💰, college student💻, working woman💸 and great friend with beauty 💋, brains, strength 💪🏽 courage, endurance, faith, focus, goals and the soul of a fighter! 🔥 the true definition of the perfect child (ok minus that attitude) happy birthday baby I love you to infinity. #infinitelove @yourgirltink my 💖
Your life is a reflection of who you are. When you look out into the world you are always only seeing yourself...
Every relationship you have ever been in has been your mirror. Designed to show you the deepest parts of yourself. Your relationships are revealing all of the parts of you that you are hiding and trying to ignore.
The key to having unconditional love and experiencing supernatural connections in your relationships is to live in those spaces of love and connection within yourself...
There is a part of you that knows what you want and knows how to get it - but you are disconnected. Now is the time to reconnect.
Now is when you get to tune into your Sacred Self, and learn to love from your deepest levels. You get to feel infinite love all around you in all of your relationships. You get to see the reflection of the love that lives within you. You get to wrap yourself in the love and care you deserve, and you get to see it when you look out into your life.
This fall I am coaching 20 women on how to reconnect to your Sacred Self and live in infinite, unconditional love. I am teaching you how to create the life you dream about and how to attract the love you deeply desire and deserve. NOW is your time...
Click the link in my bio to reserve your spot and join my Sacred Self coaching program...
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Different stages of the twin flame journey will require different things from you. Some stages will seem contradictory. And they are.
While I’ll be sharing more on the 8 stages of the twin flame journey, know this.
One of the final phases for divine feminines involves releasing the following:
🔥 Any remaining ideologies about being “swept off your feet” and rescued by your twin
🔥 Any notion your twin flame will save you or complete you <-- “You complete me” isn’t love. YOU complete you. When you’re whole, you can truly love another without your wounds screaming for attention.
🔥 Waiting for a message from your twin flame
🔥 Any shred of self-worth you still have tied up in them
🔥 Reliance on any outside source for confirmation of the truth of your connection, or what will happen in the future your connection
🔥 Take care of any remaining hurt in your heart
Your work is to release all of this. Pray. Meditate. Connect to the archangels, the ascended masters, the light beings and the goddesses. Move your body. Make changes your called to make.
What happens after that? Magic. You’ll see 😉
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