I don’t love the phrase self care. It feels a bit condescending, really. What I do really love is the concept of balance. I find it to be a bit more helpful in all of the chaos that life is. I think that it’s also more simple. Balance means satiating ourselves in all of the ways we’re hungry. I think it also gives us permission for a powerful case of what my therapist calls, “the radical fuck-its.” As in giving ourselves permission to do what we need when we need to do it. As in yeah I probably *should* do my laundry, but my heart would rather paint right now so fuck it, imma do that.
Could this be caused by Science? I hypothesize that the molecules become excited! This creates the force pushing each other around. As the molecules equilibrate, the balance is shifted yeilding motion. Of course, these are my educated guesses. Perhaps, a physicist can elaborate or wipe my entire hypothesis out the water?!
The face of commenting on someones photo and fucking up and just not caring enough to fix it. Also again i really should post more things then my face on here. But my life she is a boring. #fuckme#ihonestlydontknow