This picture isn’t how things ended. Last night was so special with the friendly #communityovercompetition comp, celebrating H1’s upcoming birthday, and spending time with old and new friends. At the end of the night, H2 was awarded 1st place in the women’s division. WHAT?!?!? That’s awesome kid! (See, the scoring was honor system and other competitors signs off that you finished a route.) Anyway, H2 came running up to me saying,”I think there was a mistake. I think my card was marked incorrectly.” “Ok, go find the J and figure out what you can do.” (At this point, I wasn’t listening and didn’t know what was going on). I later found out that H2 felt like something wasn’t right and that she was awarded more points then she earned. She told the J that she hadn’t finished a hard route and that she shouldn’t have been awarded those points even though it was marked off that she did. It was a mistake. It changed the rankings, to H2 taking 3rd and everyone else being bumped up in rank. Wow! No one questioned her about her card, no one confronted her about her placement. She did this all on her own. She felt something wasn’t right and wanted to make it right. Again, I’m not sure what we did right, but she makes me a proud mommy. She was so proud of her 3rd place finish. She felt so proud that she earned that placement. #sheamazesme and I will continue to pray that G-d will always guide and bless this one! #honestyisthebestpolicy#icouldntbemoreproud#raisingawesomehumans#3hkimsisters#kimgirlslivingthelife#alwaysanadventure#climbingisfun#desertrocksindoorclimbinggym
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Getting closer to that time of the year where we go broke trying to show people how much we care by buying gifts. I think this time of the year should be a period where family get together and just chill not this unnecessary pressure of spending money. . . .
I remember being a kid and stressing my mum for expensive gifts, not realising that her raising 5 kids on her own was the best gift we could ever have. This is the time of the year where so many people suffer Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), also known as ‘winter depression’. So many of us feel inadequate around this period, we feel like we are not good enough. . . .
The media often scaremonger us with gangs/drill music etc when in reality you are 7 times more likely to kill yourself in the UK than you are to be murdered, and no, this is not the trauma Olympics but you get my point. I tell you what's really weird, I'm a victim of this too, spending more money on your potential partner/partner than your parents at Xmas. . . .
The most annoying part about Xmas is when someone who you had no intention of buying a gift for tells you they've bought you one 😩😩😩😩😩. Abeg , if you've bought me a Xmas gift in anticipation of getting one back, you better just take it back. It's around Xmas time when you really know where you stand with your partner/person, second Xmas and still no invite to the family dinner, it's okay, some people were Born to be back up dancers.
But all jokes aside, it’s only one day, take it easy.
Have a fannytastic Christmas.
1000% Truth !!! Everyone isn’t good at everything and that is just fine. BE HONEST UPFRONT!!! #AlbanyGA#HonestyIsTheBestPolicy Honesty is better than messing up the project and having to issue a Refund or have an upset Customer.
I would have to say in my experience with my husband this is true 💘 💍 ⠀
Do you remember the first time you and your partner had this chat? Maybe it was awkward, uncomfortable, hilarious? And how great does it feel after to be totally open and honest about this fascinating function? ⠀
Pooping is such an important bodily function and it holds SO much information about the health of our insides. It’s a totally natural thing and I think we should be talking about it more. A good poo is something worth celebrating! 💩 Can I get an amen? ⠀
Check out this fun article on how the happiest couples are ones who are comfortable talking about poo. There’s even tips on how to bring up this topic with your partner for the first time, to have the “poop conversation” and ultimately come out stronger and closer than before 💋 ⠀
Link in profile 💕 ⠀
Snippets of a big vid I did! This part is about honesty
A wise woman once said to me when we were both teenagers so technically a wise #maiden said to me during a fucking horrible situation that it's better to tell a bad truth then a lie.... So I've been working hard to be as honest as possible ever since. 🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏 @elliotgrace93
Honesty Is The Best Policy!
2 weeks ago, I got "the question"...No, not "that" question...I got the "is Santa real" question
We have a rule in our house..NO LIES, NO SECRETS
So when Emma asked for the truth, is there a Santa...I told her the truth...she is 7 and a half I felt she was prepared to know the truth
Well, she was not impressed. She got upset so whem I went to talk to her about it, I told her not to tell her brother (which totally goes against the rule haha) and
She turns to me and says...."mom, stop lying, there is a Santa"... she thought I was pranking her
Id say by the photo she is still a believer
yes I look the same in person, but no you might not see me out da house 😘. yes I look young but no bitch i’m gonna be the big eighteen in seven months 🥳. yes I am single, but no you might not have a chance 😭. yes I am picky but I won’t play you 🙂. if you’re wondering anything else ask me sumn, i’ll answer ya with nun but da truth slime 😌💯. #honestyisthebestpolicy#livebyitnow
And this is why people either love me or love to hate me - because I see right through BS and cut the cords to old stories that you’re telling yourself that are keeping you stuck.
It’s a gift, what can I say? 🤷♀️ And the reason I am this way is because I called myself out on all my own BS first - ain’t no other way!
And this is why @jameskuszphotography tells me I am relentless on the regular. 🤣 I hold myself to a high standard and do the same for others.
You deserve MORE. So if you’re sick and tired of feeling stuck and you’re ready to stop settling, I’m your girl! 🙌🏼✨
Coming at you again from my bedroom floor, aka my gym to say hello. 👋🏼 But honestly, I just want to get real with you which in turn, I’m just getting real with myself. #honestyisthebestpolicy
I had Addison 4.5 months ago, and there are days that I am still cringing at the sight of my postpartum body. Yes, I’m really proud of myself for how far I’ve come. I’ve made some progress, BUT if I’m being honest, I haven’t made as much as I’d like.
There’s a momma I follow on social media, who had her daughter not long before I had Addison and she looks killer. Like, abs already at five months postpartum. And she had a freakin’ c-section and I’m over here looking at my stretch marks and tummy folds wondering what I’m doing wrong. 🤷🏼♀️ But the thing is, I know I’m not really doing anything wrong. Our journey’s are SO different from each other’s. We each have our HARD.
Comparison my friends, is the thief of joy.
So today, I’m vowing to you that I’m going to do the things that I know are going to yield me better results. I’m going to STICK to a program, drink my superfoods daily 🌿 and only treat myself once a week, not once a day 🤦🏼♀️. I have the tools, I have the support and accountability to get me moving in the right direction. I’ll be 25 on Sunday, and I’m dedicated to making this my healthiest year yet!
Now I challenge you, to find a momma and tell them they’re killing their journey. We’re all just a walking hot mess 😘
And the drawn out emotional pain. Be honest. I know it is difficult in certain situations. I know that the majority of people do not want to hurt other people’s feelings, but you end up causing a lot of unnecessary damage when you lie.
NOTE: If you are dealing with any type of narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath, forget EVER expecting the truth. And don’t @ me about how yours does. Because they don’t for the right reasons or on a consistent basis.
Headed back to the City yesterday for just one day to do some Christmas shopping and it made me realise how much I miss home, my family and my friends. Only a week until I’m back for an early Christmas but everything is just changing this year and change is difficult idk what this rant was I’m just feeling homesick and lonely that I’m missing Christmas for the first time
Being an adult sucks
Got this cute little orchid plant with a thankyou card n some $$, for tracking the owner and having returned the Samsung S9 phone, which my boy found in the park while playing 😊 !! The owner couple were almost in tears when they came to pick it !! Brought back my memory, when I forgot my hard earned first smart phone in a taxi close to mid night and the taxi driver was kind enough to return it after his dinner in Dubai !! #whenudogoodugetgood#memoriessavedinphone#kindnessmatters#honestyisthebestpolicy