WHY A FREE MAN IS THE MOST TERRIFYING THING FOR A WOMAN.
A free man is one of the most terrifying things for a woman.
Because once a man becomes free,
He cannot be trained
He cannot be moulded
He cannot be controlled
He cannot manipulated into who we want him to be.
We complain that our men aren’t strong enough
They don’t fuck us hard enough, well enough or frequently enough
They aren’t strong or passionate or exciting or masculine enough
We say we want a King whose established and mature.
But what we aren’t getting is the very thing that would make this man all of that and more…
Is also the very thing that when it truly shows up, will threaten to completely destroy all our Disney princess fantasies and religiously conditioned matrimonies that are keeping it alive.
And that shit is terrifying.
A man who isn’t dependent on momma’s love,
So starving for her nourishment and so scared of it’s withdrawal that he will do anything to keep it on tap.
A man who tentatively puts all his desires and needs aside for yours
The strings of your purse tightening around his balls with every ‘yes dear’
A free mans integrity is more important to him than his need for your approval.
He loves you, but loves himself more.
A free man says no when he means no and yes when he means yes.
And he’s 100 percent committed to living his truth and his path whether you choose to walk with him or not.
That kind of man is terrifying because it puts us women in a certain kind of position.
Where our tried and tested hooks no longer work.
No longer can we control with our feminine emotional sexual super powers and tricks that have worked on every other man since we became daddies girl. Those parts that know precisely all his weak spots and how to trigger, seduce, overwhelm, entice and frustrate him to get exactly what you want and keep him there.
When a man becomes free – No longer can we use him for our own sense of security, safety and holding
And suddenly those things become our own responsibility
we are pushed into having our own discernment, to walking our own path and finding our own truth and fullness.
You want him to embrace and love your wildness don’t you? (Comments 👇)
Another #GolfArt poster is ready to be published on my official gallery 👏👍 This piece have a special significance for me - very deep and very emotional. Dedicated to one exceptional lady I discover many years ago : Princess Militza (Knjaginja Milica). She was the founder of the very first #GolfClub on Balkan.
In Cetinje (Montenegro) 1906 Princess Militza made the first shot with the golf club that is being kept in the museum today.
112 years later, my beautiful Montenegro still do not have any golf course. Our kids grow up without the best game ever ... and this make me very sad.
On the other side - I am more than proud what I done for the golf game and the whole golf society with my #GolfArt 🙏 I dedicated my professional life to Golf Art and this become my big #passion .
Not easy to make some people here to understand how golf is important - not only like a great addition to amazing tourist offer Montenegro already have, but also like a way that whole #society learn the proper values and kids grow with a game where #honesty , #integrity and #courtesy are basic elements.
This piece of Art is dedicated to one great but also SMART AND BRAVE lady.
Hope that will be lucky to find people who will recognize and support my intention to #BringBackGolfToMontenegro
Thanks to my great friends from all around the globe and their enormous support, I am sure that we can make something very special here in Montenegro.
For sure, the proper and the best start will be with #BirdieBall - the best practice golf ball ever. This awesome invention by @birdieballgolf and Breaker family is something that allow us to create small golf courses and multi-functional driving ranges 😊👍💪⛳️ One day, this beautiful GolfArt will be on the main wall at the house of the the first Olivera Golf Facility 🙌
Recorded a really honest episode of the Podcast yesterday . If you’re an artist- or just a human being on a journey- this one is for you. “What Do You Do When Everything Sucks” the newest episode of “The Elisabeth Experience” with my good friend @chrisdanielsart 💎Find it on @anchor.fm @spotify and everywhere else you listen to podcasts 😘 #selfdoubt#honesty#podcast#artistjourney#creatives#freelance
Aleksandrs. Viņa spēks ir visa ģimene, kas stāv aiz biezās “Dārznieka” muguras. Viens no Cēsniekiem, ar kuriem lepojamies! Ja jūs zinātu, kā man patīk tas, ko es daru! Vai nu man ir “māmiņu hormoni”, vai kas, bet es burtiski kaifoju ar kameru rokās!!!! Un vēl man ir ticis tik superīgs projekts, ar kuru tā vien nevaru sagaidīt dalīties!
Vispār pie vainas var būt arī tas Chardonnay, ar kuru ceru izdzīvot bilžapstrādes nakti :) #honesty
I posted on my business Facebook page an article that a friend passed along this morning. The article touches on difficult topics such as postpartum illnesses, why mothers are more anxious now then ever and the pressure moms feel to be “perfect” because of social media posts. Gosh, motherhood is super hard. And I guess I just want to say, I’ve been feeling this lately - I want it to feel magical like it does on Instagram but most of the time it’s constant taking care of a needy human, not having time to take care of myself, sickness, crying (both me and my toddler) and things covered in peanut butter or poop. The article is in my profile and I encourage you to read it. For some reason women’s mental health has not been a priority and it needs to be - so know you aren’t alone and if you need help, there are resources from therapists who focus on PPD and other illnesses, breastfeeding and mother support groups, hotlines to call. You don’t have to have it all together and let’s all be a little more honest about that. Oh and lastly, just because you feel this way sometimes (or a lot) doesn’t mean you aren’t thankful for what you have or you are a bad mom. Take that pressure off of yourself. (Sweatshirt from @thebeeandthefox).
Sometimes we’re stuck. Our body might hurt, our hearts might hurt, and we may not even know why – especially if everything looks great from the outside! Or perhaps we know where we’re stuck, but we’re at a loss of what to do about it. That’s where Christine comes in. As a Reiki Master Teacher in the Usui/Tibetan tradition of Reiki, she knows there’s much more to a person than meets the eye – and that this muchness often runs the show! Using Reiki, guided meditation, and a variety of other techniques, Christine works with her clients to bring clarity to confusion and transform challenge into joyful learning, leaving them empowered to transform their lives.
Come empower yourself November 10, 2018 10am-6:30pm at a beautiful private location on the top of Mt. Tam! .
PBA WEDNESDAYS [#pbawellness ]
Has the idea of self care started to feel like an obligation? Everywhere we turn we are bombarded with the concept. Even our brand is built on supporting self care. But what happens when it becomes a chore, another thing to stress about, or something that feels out of your budget? When it gets to this point, we need to take it back to the basics and stop overthinking it. Self care truly is simple. All you need to do is spend some time doing whatever makes you feel truly good – healthy, replenished and peaceful. Sometimes that is simply a great night’s sleep. Enjoying a tasty and nutritious meal. Taking extra long in a hot shower and using your favorite body oil. People are suffering from self care burnout as we try to one up each other on how extravagant, luxurious and decadent we can do it. It feeds right into the comparison matrix that is social media. We move away from the actual purpose of self care which is to care for yourself. Often times the most restorative self care is free – you just have to make the time. Scheduling the time is one of the biggest challenges for many people but just remember, you cannot pour from an empty cup. You have to make time to refill your cup because you serve others from the excess.