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We feel the need to explain ourselves over and over and make threats about what will happen if we continue to be disrespected.
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This teaches others that we are basically all shit. That we don't have the assertiveness or authenticity to follow through.
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Start with the small things. Start walking that talk.
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Reteach, repreach and respect πŸ’―
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We feel the need to explain ourselves over and over and make threats about what will happen if we continue to be disrespected. .... This teaches others that we are basically all shit. That we don't have the assertiveness or authenticity to follow through. .... Start with the small things. Start walking that talk. .... Reteach, repreach and respect πŸ’― .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #respect  #responsibility  #healthelayers  #reiki  #rosequartz  #bedohave  #lookinside  #communication  #hearttruth  #heartsong  #walkyourtalk  #beingmeinthisworld  #raisethemstrong  #wordsmatter  #powermove  #questions  #bedifferent  #assertive  #clearenergy  #acceptance  #action  #integrity  #breakups  #adultingishard  #custodybattle  #familylaw  #justadulting  #consciousliving  #spiritualgangster 
When we look at things like there is no right or wrong, it becomes about cause and effect. Every action we take has an effect. Observe, don't react, and respond.πŸ’–
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So we are increasingly finding ourselves in situations with people that we may not generally choose to be around as we head into the festive season. And we may find ourselves feeling a sense of "duty calls". πŸ€”
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So how do we ensure that we can remain grounded and during times when our own cups are rather empty we don't come from a place of ego?πŸ™
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Ask better questions. The right questions give us a certainty to act.❀️
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When we look at things like there is no right or wrong, it becomes about cause and effect. Every action we take has an effect. Observe, don't react, and respond.πŸ’– .... So we are increasingly finding ourselves in situations with people that we may not generally choose to be around as we head into the festive season. And we may find ourselves feeling a sense of "duty calls". πŸ€” ..... So how do we ensure that we can remain grounded and during times when our own cups are rather empty we don't come from a place of ego?πŸ™ .... Ask better questions. The right questions give us a certainty to act.❀️ .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #qotd  #questiontime  #asking  #askbetterquestions  #effectivecommunication  #beingmeinthisworld  #transformations  #mumlife  #waikato  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #whoareyou  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #selflove  #innerwork  #integrity  #biggerpicture  #innervoice  #innerbeauty  #innerchild 
We don't know what we don't know. And not knowing what we don't know can often lead us overwhelm and anxiety. Because how can we know what to do when we don't understand?
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If we can figure out in which area we are lacking support we can then get resourceful and find the support we require to move to the next step.
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We don't know what we don't know. And not knowing what we don't know can often lead us overwhelm and anxiety. Because how can we know what to do when we don't understand? .... If we can figure out in which area we are lacking support we can then get resourceful and find the support we require to move to the next step. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #supportsystem  #questions  #qotd  #questiontime  #asking  #askbetterquestions  #effectivecommunication  #beingmeinthisworld  #powermove  #readyaimfire  #relationshipgoals  #realtalk  #loveyourself  #reflection  #compassion  #thelessons  #thejourney  #thewindowtothesoul  #angermanagement  #unhappiness  #discontent  #infidelity  #betrayal  #brokenfamilies  #hearttruth  #healingjourney  #transform  #selfdiscovery  #intuition 
So where do we start when we start to hear those word "practise self love". And what if we don't have the time or PATIENCE? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
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I'm here to tell you it's simple. In thier times of need, we offer our friends and family a simple cuppa. And we sit with them either in a mutual silence or we listen while they offload and make sense of thier jumbled emotions. We listen with no judgement and we do not try to fix thingsβ˜•
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Do that for yourself. Make yourself a cuppa. And write down all your jumbled emotions and make no judgements. No solutions. No doing your hair. No waiting for the perfect MOMENT. πŸ’‡
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Steal a moment. Let yourself be.❀️
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So where do we start when we start to hear those word "practise self love". And what if we don't have the time or PATIENCE? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ .... I'm here to tell you it's simple. In thier times of need, we offer our friends and family a simple cuppa. And we sit with them either in a mutual silence or we listen while they offload and make sense of thier jumbled emotions. We listen with no judgement and we do not try to fix thingsβ˜• . . ... Do that for yourself. Make yourself a cuppa. And write down all your jumbled emotions and make no judgements. No solutions. No doing your hair. No waiting for the perfect MOMENT. πŸ’‡ .... Steal a moment. Let yourself be.❀️ .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #lovenotes  #cupoverfloweth  #beingmeinthisworld  #cuppatea  #shouldertocryon  #teaandscones  #respect  #responsibility  #healthelayers  #reiki  #rosequartz  #bedohave  #lookinside  #beyou  #lovelife  #findyourfreedom  #supportyourfriends  #bekindtoyourself  #onlinecoaching  #makeamove  #whoareyou  #questioneverything  #learn  #leadershipdevelopment  #vulnerable  #beyouffs  #beauthentic  #dontunderestimateme 
When we faced with  adversity, our logical brain is taken over by our emotional brain. Brain studies are really fascinating.
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It's not that we are Brigg silly, or over reacting or that we are crazy!
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Our emotional brain demands to feel safe first. Only once that has been satisfied will it allow our logical brain to have a turn.
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This explains why sometimes we have a whinge. Because we want to be seen, heard and understood so we can feel safe.
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So what is one thing you can do? Ask yourself. What is one thing I can do to allow myself to feel safe?
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When we faced with adversity, our logical brain is taken over by our emotional brain. Brain studies are really fascinating. .... It's not that we are Brigg silly, or over reacting or that we are crazy! .... Our emotional brain demands to feel safe first. Only once that has been satisfied will it allow our logical brain to have a turn. .... This explains why sometimes we have a whinge. Because we want to be seen, heard and understood so we can feel safe. .... So what is one thing you can do? Ask yourself. What is one thing I can do to allow myself to feel safe? .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #innerturmoil  #fearbased  #subconscious  #consciousliving  #breakups  #adultingishard  #beauthentic  #hearttruth  #healingjourney  #brain  #humanbrain  #emotionalintelligence  #seeme  #hearme  #understandme  #lovethyself  #selfgrowth  #selfdiscovery  #selfloveisthebestlove  #guidance  #questionyourself  #logical  #risingstrong  #getup  #empathy 
When tragedy, grief or shock arise, humans tend to show their true operating colours.
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We choose to move through our hearts, or through our egos.
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The heart is very allowing, accepting and understanding and tends to shy away from who's right and who's wrong. She's a soft feeling. ❀️
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The ego is about control, hiding the pain and tends to be bold, loud and brass. It needs to be done like this. I'm the one who is in charge.πŸ‘
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This is how people fall out all too often. But what if we asked ourselves, am I making this about me? And chose instead to focus on the people this is TRUELY about, and served them in a way that supports them, but also does not empty our own cups.🍸
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When tragedy, grief or shock arise, humans tend to show their true operating colours. .... We choose to move through our hearts, or through our egos. ... The heart is very allowing, accepting and understanding and tends to shy away from who's right and who's wrong. She's a soft feeling. ❀️ ... The ego is about control, hiding the pain and tends to be bold, loud and brass. It needs to be done like this. I'm the one who is in charge.πŸ‘ ... This is how people fall out all too often. But what if we asked ourselves, am I making this about me? And chose instead to focus on the people this is TRUELY about, and served them in a way that supports them, but also does not empty our own cups.🍸 .... #qotd  #questionoftheday  #questions  #askbetterquestions  #askyourself  #egovsheart  #beingmeinthisworld  #hearttruth  #healingjourney  #makeachange  #consciousliving  #communication  #unconditional  #cupoverfloweth  #respect  #responsibility  #healthelayers  #supportsystem  #vulnerability  #saveoursouls  #familyfirst  #takeresponsibility  #girlinthemirrorseries  #letgoandletgod  #namaste  #forgiveness  #fouragreements 
YOLO. You only live once. It's too short to sit around whinging about the things we don't want to do, yet do anyway. ....
So let's identify some of those things, so we can then explore other ways of these things getting done, or ways to make it more fun. ....
Step 1. Admit we hate doing it.
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YOLO. You only live once. It's too short to sit around whinging about the things we don't want to do, yet do anyway. .... So let's identify some of those things, so we can then explore other ways of these things getting done, or ways to make it more fun. .... Step 1. Admit we hate doing it. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #parenting101  #reflection  #mirrorwork  #lovethyself  #selfgrowth  #selfdiscovery  #selfloveisthebestlove  #songoftheweek  #singtoyou  #consciousliving  #spiritualgangster  #girlinthemirrorseries  #girlinthemirror  #selfgrowth 
When we are faced with alot of adversity and heartache, and things seem. To progressively get worse, we can choose.
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Are we going to allow ourselves to let go of the control and surrender to the break down, or are we going to continue to try to control the uncontrollable?
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When we are faced with alot of adversity and heartache, and things seem. To progressively get worse, we can choose. .... Are we going to allow ourselves to let go of the control and surrender to the break down, or are we going to continue to try to control the uncontrollable? .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #thegirlinthemirrorcoach  #beingmeinthisworld  #coachnotatherapist  #relationshipgoals  #standards  #boundaries  #assertive  #communication  #unconditional  #onlinecoaching  #innerchild  #consciousliving  #confidenceiskey  #practicepracticepractice  #hearttruth  #breakupshurt  #infidelity  #betrayal  #giftoflife  #giftofemotions  #empathy  #speakup  #respectyourself  #selfloveiskey  #honesty 
We say I don't know as an easy excuse to not have to speak out loud, or acknowledge what we do know.
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It's a mask. We have enough knowledge to make a move. Acknowledging this to be true generally means we have to take action.
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Sowething we often are not ready for.
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Do it anyway 🌹❀️
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We say I don't know as an easy excuse to not have to speak out loud, or acknowledge what we do know. .... It's a mask. We have enough knowledge to make a move. Acknowledging this to be true generally means we have to take action. .... Sowething we often are not ready for. .... Do it anyway 🌹❀️ .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #lovenotes  #questions  #relationshipgoals  #makeamove  #takeaction  #truthbetold  #hearttruth  #communicate  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #whoareyou  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #selflove  #selfforgiveness  #healthyemotions  #innerwork  #healingjourney  #angrypeople  #newzealand  #hamilton  #waikato  #nzcoach 
We bite our tongues, we squint our eyes and we swallow our words.
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And they remain inside. Until maybe we have an emotional flip out. A crazy moment. A moment where we seem to regurgitate a whole lot of filth and no one hears a word we say because of the way in which it's delivered.
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We have to let those words out. In a safe manner. In a way where its not damaging other people.
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How do you do it? Journalling? A confidant? A coach, therapist or counsellor? Poetry? A fuck you letter? What's a healthy way to get them out?
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We have to release the past energy and thoughts to allow way for new patterns of thinking, feeling and being.
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Drop me DM if you are unsure.
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We bite our tongues, we squint our eyes and we swallow our words. ... And they remain inside. Until maybe we have an emotional flip out. A crazy moment. A moment where we seem to regurgitate a whole lot of filth and no one hears a word we say because of the way in which it's delivered. .... We have to let those words out. In a safe manner. In a way where its not damaging other people. .... How do you do it? Journalling? A confidant? A coach, therapist or counsellor? Poetry? A fuck you letter? What's a healthy way to get them out? .... We have to release the past energy and thoughts to allow way for new patterns of thinking, feeling and being. .... Drop me DM if you are unsure. .... #journalling  #girlinthemirrorseries  #poetry  #fuckyouletter  #therapy  #coaching  #counselling  #writing  #journal  #naturephotography  #theriver  #beingmeinthisworld  #thelessons  #thejourney  #thewindowtothesoul  #girlinthemirrorseries  #mirrorwork  #intuitivemanifesting  #girlinthemirror  #purging  #cleansing  #releasingemotions  #healingjourney  #transform  #selfdiscovery 
How often do we ask ourselves this question? Consciously, in rawness and full honestly?
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If we left that job. If we left our cheating husband or wife. If we moved out of the house with the shit neighbours. Of we quit the team. If we moved out of home with our over controlling parents?
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Do we believe that things can improve?
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If the answer is no, then we have some real work to do. Where there is no hope, there is no life.
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How often do we ask ourselves this question? Consciously, in rawness and full honestly? .... How about a better perspective. Do we beleive that things can improve if we removed ourselves from the current situation. .... If we left that job. If we left our cheating husband or wife. If we moved out of the house with the shit neighbours. Of we quit the team. If we moved out of home with our over controlling parents? .... Do we believe that things can improve? .... If the answer is no, then we have some real work to do. Where there is no hope, there is no life. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #parenting101  #reflection  #mirrorwork  #mumlife  #mamalife  #beyou  #drummingitin  #growth  #beingmeinthisworld  #raisethemstrong  #wordsmatter  #powermove  #readyaimfire  #feminineenergy  #perspective  #affairs  #infidelity  #betrayal  #brokenfamilies  #hearttruth  #healingjourney  #transform  #selfdiscovery  #intuition  #control  #assertive  #clearenergy 
We project outwards so much. Always analysing others, judging, justifying and forgiving others.
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What we don't realise alot is that it's us that we must first forgive.
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Forgive ourselves for not being there for ourselves. Forgive ourselves for not having boundaries and kindness. Forgive ourselves for informing our ituition.
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We project outwards so much. Always analysing others, judging, justifying and forgiving others. .... What we don't realise alot is that it's us that we must first forgive. .... Forgive ourselves for not being there for ourselves. Forgive ourselves for not having boundaries and kindness. Forgive ourselves for informing our ituition. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #girlinthemirror  #alchemy  #forgiveness  #reflection  #innerwork  #lightworkers  #beingmeinthisworld  #truthbetold  #hearttruth  #communicate  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #whoareyou  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #selflove  #selfforgiveness  #healthyemotions  #innerwork  #healingjourney  #angrypeople  #newzealand  #hamilton 
Alot of people aren't sure how to flirt. How to get into thier light, playful feminine energy. 🍍
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If this is you, pay attention to what stops you from being able to flirt. 🌹
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Alot of people aren't sure how to flirt. How to get into thier light, playful feminine energy. 🍍 .... If this is you, pay attention to what stops you from being able to flirt. 🌹 .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #girlinthemirror  #beingmeinthisworld  #truthbetold  #hearttruth  #communicate  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #whoareyou  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #selflove  #selfforgiveness  #healthyemotions  #innerwork  #healingjourney  #angrypeople  #newzealand  #flirt  #feminineenergy 
Do you know your truth?
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If your answer is no, book a free discovery call and let's see what we can uncover. (slide into my DMs) ....
I love guiding people towards figuring out what is true for then and what is not.
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Do you know your truth? ... If your answer is no, book a free discovery call and let's see what we can uncover. (slide into my DMs) .... I love guiding people towards figuring out what is true for then and what is not. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #girlinthemirror  #beingmeinthisworld  #truthbetold  #hearttruth  #communicate  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #whoareyou  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #selflove  #selfforgiveness  #healthyemotions  #innerwork  #healingjourney  #angrypeople  #newzealand  #hamilton 
I mean what is self love anyway? What does it look like? How can be practise self love.🎨
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Self love is when you love in actions and in feelings. It is the art of filling your own cup.🍸
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It looks like doing the things for yourself that you often do to show others you love them. Or the things you wish others would do for you.🌹
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I'm going to share some of the ways I give myself love. And the first is my favourite. Sing love songs to yourself.πŸ’–
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I mean what is self love anyway? What does it look like? How can be practise self love.🎨 .... Self love is when you love in actions and in feelings. It is the art of filling your own cup.🍸 .... It looks like doing the things for yourself that you often do to show others you love them. Or the things you wish others would do for you.🌹 .... I'm going to share some of the ways I give myself love. And the first is my favourite. Sing love songs to yourself.πŸ’– .... #selfloveiskey  #selfgrowth  #girlinthemirrorseries  #girlinthemirror  #beingmeinthisworld  #selflovetools  #selflovecoach  #cupoverfloweth  #emotionalintelligence  #divorcerecovery  #buildyourselfup  #selfworthcoach  #emptyinside  #affairrecovery  #infidelityrecovery  #hearttruth  #communicate  #lifecycle  #bethechange  #bepatient  #singlovesongs  #lovethyself  #trustyourstruggle  #trustyourjourney  #getonyourownteam  #bekindtoyourself 
It's not new, the girl in the mirror concept. Babies don't shy away from themselves, in fact they are usually fascinated by thier reflections.
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Miss Addison at exactly 5 months old.
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It's not new, the girl in the mirror concept. Babies don't shy away from themselves, in fact they are usually fascinated by thier reflections. .... Miss Addison at exactly 5 months old. ..... #girlinthemirrorseries  #parenting101  #reflection  #mirrorwork  #mumlife  #mamalife  #mummydaughter  #mirrorselfie  #throwback  #thelessons  #thejourney  #thewindowtothesoul  #thegirlinthemirror  #thiskid  #theboyinthemirror  #memories  #thechildrenarethefuture  #thegirlinthemirrorcoach  #guide  #intuitive  #intuition  #5monthsold  #childrenof_instagram  #selfreflection  #selfdiscovery  #selfloveisthebestlove 
Unconditional love does not mean we have to a accept shitty behaviour. From anyone.
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Just because we don't like the way someone is treating us, and we put a boundary up, doesn't mean we stop loving.
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Just because someone puts a boundary up and doesn't like our behaviour and may even call it shitty behaviour... Doesn't mean they don't love us.
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Love is not relationships. Love is love. Relationships are relationships.
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Unconditional love does not mean we have to a accept shitty behaviour. From anyone. .... Just because we don't like the way someone is treating us, and we put a boundary up, doesn't mean we stop loving. .... Just because someone puts a boundary up and doesn't like our behaviour and may even call it shitty behaviour... Doesn't mean they don't love us. .... Love is not relationships. Love is love. Relationships are relationships. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #parenting101  #boundaries  #behavioranalysis  #behaviour  #lovelouder  #naturephotography  #qotd  #quotesaboutlife  #raisingkids  #riseup  #familyadventures  #selfless  #assertive  #clearenergy  #guidelines  #acceptance  #partnership  #relationshipgoals  #thiskid  #mygirl  #mummydaughter  #mumlife  #waikatoriver  #naturephotos  #beingmeinthisworld 
Asking is a question. Hinting, insinuation, body language, silence.. Those are not questions.
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We too often think we are asking by hinting. Its cold. Instead of, can you please do the window up. I'm scared. Instead of, please can you come over. I'm thirsty. Instead of, can we go and get a drink together?
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We then blame the other person for not knowing us well enough to offer help. Often times forgetting thier profession is not that of a psychic.  Or caretaker. And that we are no longer I'll equipped without a voice.
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So tell me, do you ask for what you desire? Need?
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Asking is a question. Hinting, insinuation, body language, silence.. Those are not questions. .... We too often think we are asking by hinting. Its cold. Instead of, can you please do the window up. I'm scared. Instead of, please can you come over. I'm thirsty. Instead of, can we go and get a drink together? .... We then blame the other person for not knowing us well enough to offer help. Often times forgetting thier profession is not that of a psychic. Or caretaker. And that we are no longer I'll equipped without a voice. .... So tell me, do you ask for what you desire? Need? .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #parenting101  #consciousparenting  #empatheticparenting  #empatheticoach  #bethechange  #spiritualgangster  #spiritualhygiene  #familyfirst  #thislittlelightofmine  #thiskid  #mygirl  #mummydaughter  #mumlife  #daughterlove  #hearttruth  #unconditionallove  #qualityoflife  #expressive  #communication  #connection  #skills  ##speakup  #questions  #questiontime  #asking  #askbetterquestions  #effectivecommunication  #beingmeinthisworld  #gofirst 
I'm conflicted in this one. I mean, I loved my child before I even saw her. I mean it. I did in a way I never knew existed.🌟
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But how can we love someone we don't know? Is thier such a thing as soul mates romantically? I've done the twin flame thing my god that's like.. Woah.πŸ”₯
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What say ye? Can we fall in love with someone we don't know, or is that lust? πŸ’œ
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I'm conflicted in this one. I mean, I loved my child before I even saw her. I mean it. I did in a way I never knew existed.🌟 .... But how can we love someone we don't know? Is thier such a thing as soul mates romantically? I've done the twin flame thing my god that's like.. Woah.πŸ”₯ .... What say ye? Can we fall in love with someone we don't know, or is that lust? πŸ’œ .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #lovenotes  #loveatfirstsight  #loveletters  #romance  #soulmates  #relationshipgoals  #romancelives  #lovedoesnthurt  #truelove  #truecolours  #iamworthy  #worththewait  #hopelessromantic  #womenwhowrite  #boundaries  #iknowwhoiam  #earnit  #questioneverything  #musings  #ponder  #meaningoflife  #questioning  #beingmeinthisworld  #nzcoaching  #onlinecoaching  #eyeswideopen  #unconditional  #lustislust 
Stop looking for answers in alternative places. Your gods word and your intuition, inner wisdom is all you need. Let others only be messengers to guide you to your light.
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Well fuck me if I aren't turning all preach it sister on ya. It was a very clear message when I woke today. Celibacy brings clarity. Share this message. So as a good little daughter of faith here it is.
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Let it land. I dare you too.
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Stop looking for answers in alternative places. Your gods word and your intuition, inner wisdom is all you need. Let others only be messengers to guide you to your light. .... Well fuck me if I aren't turning all preach it sister on ya. It was a very clear message when I woke today. Celibacy brings clarity. Share this message. So as a good little daughter of faith here it is. .... Let it land. I dare you too. .... #bibleverses  #bibkeisthebible  #instagramismedia  #messenger  #guidance  #wayshower  #lightattheendofthetunnel  #hearttruth  #healingenergy  #lookwithin  #receive  #heartchakra  #throatchakra  #godswork  #walkinginfaith  #stepbystep  #letgoandletgod  #surrender  #girlinthemirrorseries  #reflection  #truthordare  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #intuition  #notetoself 
Why expect yourself to get it right the first time? Missing people, recovering from heartache, heartbreak, navigating guilt, bullying... It all takes practise.
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Take the pressure off yourself.
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Why expect yourself to get it right the first time? Missing people, recovering from heartache, heartbreak, navigating guilt, bullying... It all takes practise. .... Take the pressure off yourself. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #parenting101  #consciousparenting  #empatheticparenting  #beingmeinthisworld  #raisethemstrong  #wordsmatter  #powermove  #readyaimfire  #feminineenergy  #mumlife  #warriorwoman  #questions  #relationshipgoals  #romancelives  #chivilry  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #relationshipproblems  #divorce  #breakups  #humanmind  #lovedoesnthurt  #coaching  #mindset  #selflove  #patience  #kindnessmatters  #selfreflection 
Behind the scenes. Ever wondered what an intuitive guidance intention session can look like?
Well, here is mine πŸ™ŒπŸ’–
I intuitively use pastas, have no idea what I'm drawing or doing. I just be and let the guidance take over. It's very gentle and natural.
The fact that I'm sharing/recording this is intuitively requested also.
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Behind the scenes. Ever wondered what an intuitive guidance intention session can look like? Well, here is mine πŸ™ŒπŸ’– I intuitively use pastas, have no idea what I'm drawing or doing. I just be and let the guidance take over. It's very gentle and natural. The fact that I'm sharing/recording this is intuitively requested also. πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’– .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #intuition  #spiritualawakening  #creativity  #trust  #hearttruth  #intuitive  #intuitivecoaching  #intutivedrawing  #intuitivemanifesting  #faithoutloud  #beingmeinthisworld  #divinestubborness  #girlpower  #compassionate  #mummydaughter  #mumlife  #askandyoushallreceive  #hopelessromantic  #womenwhowrite  #boundaries  #iknowwhoiam  #earnit 
Do you really think that's what matters? If your washing basket is empty and the dishes are polished? If the oven is sparkling and the mirrors are shiny? πŸ₯„
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Ahah. What he cares about is kindness, compassion. Forgiveness and loyalty. Love and respect. Honour and faith 🌹
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God's work is not being a perfect housewife. God's work always leads back to connection with fellow humans, or connection with mama earth.πŸ’«
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Prioritiesβœ”οΈ
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Do you really think that's what matters? If your washing basket is empty and the dishes are polished? If the oven is sparkling and the mirrors are shiny? πŸ₯„ .... Ahah. What he cares about is kindness, compassion. Forgiveness and loyalty. Love and respect. Honour and faith 🌹 .... God's work is not being a perfect housewife. God's work always leads back to connection with fellow humans, or connection with mama earth.πŸ’« .... Prioritiesβœ”οΈ .... #checkyourselfbeforeyouwreckyourself  #beingmeinthisworld  #girlinthemirrorseries  #motherhoodinspired  #mumlife  #heartfelt  #expressive  #godstiming  #godswork  #faithquotes  #loyaltyiseverything  #connection  #intimacy  #housewife  #heartspace  #humanity  #healingjourney  #hearttruth  #mumlife  #wifelife  #divine  #whoareyou  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #selflove  #selfforgiveness 
The girl In the mirror is about using the power of music and the mirror to connect back in with your inner child. To change the language of our inner mean girl. To allow our heart to speak to our heads.

To connect back into our souls.

The girl in the mirror isn't mine, I am but the birth mother that is bringing her into the world. ....
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The girl In the mirror is about using the power of music and the mirror to connect back in with your inner child. To change the language of our inner mean girl. To allow our heart to speak to our heads. To connect back into our souls. The girl in the mirror isn't mine, I am but the birth mother that is bringing her into the world. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #girlinthemirror  #beingmeinthisworld  #raisethemstrong  #wordsmatter  #powermove  #questions  #bedifferent  #selfgrowth  #selfdiscovery  #releasingemotions  #angermanagement  #forgiveness  #nzcoaching  #onlinecoaching  #mumlife  #mamalife  #mummydaughter  #NewZealand  #nzwomen  #raisethemstrong  #teachyourkids  #learningathome  #kidsplay  #kidlife  #parenting101  #prayerwarrior 
Don't tell me how much money you make, tell me when the last time you put a peg on your nose was? Tell me when was the last time you sang a kids song was? Tell me when was the last time you squashed your kid because they wouldn't move.
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You either have kids or you don't yet. But if i can say one thing it's this. Whilst you are finding you're groove, finding your passion, finding who you are, never ever ever get so fukn drunk on freedom that you forget what matters most.
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The time will pass. You won't be able to physically carry your sleeping child. The cartoons will change. The toddler will become a teenager.πŸ’–
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Never get so busy buying life that you forget to be with the children. Give your kids a fright. Sleep in the lounge with them. Teach them that you don't always like what they do, but you always love them. πŸ’–
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I hope you are not a perfect parent. I hope that sometimes you get mum guilt. I hope that sometimes you wanna ring them at school (even though you can't), to tell them sorry I love you.πŸ’–
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I hope that you smile at them on the daily. I hope you look deep into thier eyes. I hope you ignore them when they won't shut up. I hope you say No just coz ya can. I hope you notice how they adore you. πŸ’–
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I hope you are just winging it like the rest of us.
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And rembember, you can ask them. Ask them if they feel loved. Ask them how to love them. Ask them what they want from you. Ask them what a perfect day looks like to them.πŸ’–
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Take responsibility for your little humans. πŸ™
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Don't tell me how much money you make, tell me when the last time you put a peg on your nose was? Tell me when was the last time you sang a kids song was? Tell me when was the last time you squashed your kid because they wouldn't move. ... You either have kids or you don't yet. But if i can say one thing it's this. Whilst you are finding you're groove, finding your passion, finding who you are, never ever ever get so fukn drunk on freedom that you forget what matters most. .... The time will pass. You won't be able to physically carry your sleeping child. The cartoons will change. The toddler will become a teenager.πŸ’– .... Never get so busy buying life that you forget to be with the children. Give your kids a fright. Sleep in the lounge with them. Teach them that you don't always like what they do, but you always love them. πŸ’– .... I hope you are not a perfect parent. I hope that sometimes you get mum guilt. I hope that sometimes you wanna ring them at school (even though you can't), to tell them sorry I love you.πŸ’– .... I hope that you smile at them on the daily. I hope you look deep into thier eyes. I hope you ignore them when they won't shut up. I hope you say No just coz ya can. I hope you notice how they adore you. πŸ’– .... I hope you are just winging it like the rest of us. .... And rembember, you can ask them. Ask them if they feel loved. Ask them how to love them. Ask them what they want from you. Ask them what a perfect day looks like to them.πŸ’– .... Take responsibility for your little humans. πŸ™ .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #parenting101  #consciousparenting  #empatheticparenting  #empatheticoach  #bethechange  #spiritualgangster  #sundaybreakfast  #familyadventures  #selfless  #helpmehelpyou  #godwilling  #leadershipdevelopment  #vulnerable  #beyouffs  #beauthentic  #livelifehappy  #solomun  #motherhoodinspired  #mumlife  #heartfelt  #expressive  #beingmeinthisworld  #raisethebar  #raiseawareness  #stepup  #laughalittle  #nzwomen 
Chakra dancing. No idea what the fuck my body is doing.. But she's doing it her way. That is the true gift of chakra dancing. Starting with the primal root chakra (connection with mama earth) and working up to the crown chakra (connection with spirit).
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Notice how even at 7, Addison is already unsure how to let go and let her body take over.
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Full vid and all chakras, mire of me looking like a dick in IGTV ....
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Chakra dancing. No idea what the fuck my body is doing.. But she's doing it her way. That is the true gift of chakra dancing. Starting with the primal root chakra (connection with mama earth) and working up to the crown chakra (connection with spirit). .... Notice how even at 7, Addison is already unsure how to let go and let her body take over. .... Full vid and all chakras, mire of me looking like a dick in IGTV .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #chakrahealing  #chakra  #chakrabalancing  #beingmeinthisworld  #intuition  #trustyourintuition  #moveyourbody  #letgoandletgod  #primalenergy  #rootchakra  #kundalini  #kundaliniawakening  #musicheals  #musicforlife  #mindsoulbody  #earthing  #connection  #mummydaughter  #mumlife  #nzkids  #onlinecoaching  #innerchild  #threes  #consciousliving  #spiritualgangster  #makeamove  #learnthroughthejourney  #learnthroughplay  #imagination 
Step into the nothingness with me my child and I will show you which way to step.πŸ’«
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I get that it feels like I don't know what I'm doing, but child, you have never let me before guide you.πŸ’«
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You do not yet know me. How can you judge me so? You do not yet know the way, this is why it appears so dark.πŸ’«
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But don't you see my loved one, that I placed a light at the end to guide us home?πŸ’«
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Let us begin. We have much work to do together.πŸ’«
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Will you take my hand? Will you let go and let God? Will you now let me show you unconditional? πŸ™πŸ’«
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Step into the nothingness with me my child and I will show you which way to step.πŸ’« .... I get that it feels like I don't know what I'm doing, but child, you have never let me before guide you.πŸ’« .... You do not yet know me. How can you judge me so? You do not yet know the way, this is why it appears so dark.πŸ’« .... But don't you see my loved one, that I placed a light at the end to guide us home?πŸ’« .... Let us begin. We have much work to do together.πŸ’« .... Will you take my hand? Will you let go and let God? Will you now let me show you unconditional? πŸ™πŸ’« .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #lovenotes  #faithfulness  #letgoandletgod  #surrender  #mychild  #ourfather  #unconditional  #universe  #feminineenergy  #blossoming  #walkwithme  #namasteasfuck  #spiritualhygiene  #spiritualcleansing  #energycleaning  #goodvibesonly  #beingmeinthisworld  #lightattheendofthetunnel  #askandyoushallreceive  #takemyhand  #godstiming  #trustyourjourney  #trustyourstruggle  #bethechange  #innerguidance  #loveispure  #selfdiscovery  #inspirehope 
Unfortunately there are times when mistrust and or abuse arises in relationships. During these times I tell my people to go inwards. How could you do this to me, needs to be asked inwards. Is this going to stop, ask inwards.
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We TRUELY have all the answers within. I know. I stayed in limbo longer than any sane person should. It started to change when I turned inwards.
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It's a process and its worth it.
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Unfortunately there are times when mistrust and or abuse arises in relationships. During these times I tell my people to go inwards. How could you do this to me, needs to be asked inwards. Is this going to stop, ask inwards. .... We TRUELY have all the answers within. I know. I stayed in limbo longer than any sane person should. It started to change when I turned inwards. .... It's a process and its worth it. .... #relationshipgoals  #limbo  #divorce  #scaredtolove  #whatislove  #whatslovegottodowithit  breakups #marriage  #infidelityhurts  #brokenfamilies  #hearttruth  #healingjourney  #transform  #selfdiscovery  #intuition  #expectations  #domesticviolence  #lovenotes  #futurehusband  #romanceme  #mindbodysoul  #mindsoulbody  #loverequirements  #loveletters  #woome  #wineanddine  #beingmeinthisworld  #girlinthemirrorseries 
Pays to leave books laying about. She says to me after reading out loud for fifteen minutes, "if I was an adult I'd read this book all day because I like it." onto the four agreements next haha.
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Pays to leave books laying about. She says to me after reading out loud for fifteen minutes, "if I was an adult I'd read this book all day because I like it." onto the four agreements next haha. .... #lovelanguage  #booktime  #bedtimestories  #starseeds  #instabooks  #kidsofinsta  #myboo  #girlinthemirrorseries  #bookworm  #bewhoyouare  #inspirationalchildren  #childrensnooks  #startemyoung  #wordsmatter  #marriage  #divorce  #mumlife  #adulting  #childcustody  #divorce  #custody  #integrity  #breakups  #adultingishard  #custodybattle  #familylaw  #justadulting  Powered
I got no idea what happened here or the outcome..but what I do know is that life is not guaranteed. Thier life. Let them know how you feel so you can live with a clean heart, so they can live with more love. Don't let things be too late. Love out loud.❀️
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I got no idea what happened here or the outcome..but what I do know is that life is not guaranteed. Thier life. Let them know how you feel so you can live with a clean heart, so they can live with more love. Don't let things be too late. Love out loud.❀️ .... #carcrash  #lifeanddeath  #girlinthemirrorseries  y#parenting101  #consciousparenting  #empatheticparenting  #empatheticoach  #bethechange  #spiritualgangster  #sundaybreakfast  #familyadventures  #selfless  #helpmehelpyou  #godwilling  #leadershipdevelopment  #vulnerable  #beyouffs  #beauthentic  #livelifehappy  #solomun  #motherhoodinspired  #mumlife  #heartfelt  #expressive  #beingmeinthisworld  #raisethebar 
There is so much beauty in life when we choose evolve to a point where we can value our own worth. Take responsibility for our own happiness. And understand what we require.
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No longer am I scared to love. No longer am I worried what sort of person I may attract. No longer am I pointing outwards.
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There is so much beauty inside myself that when I look into the mirror and ask myself, how? How we gonna do this girl? The answer is simple.
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Keep your cup full and let it overflow with love and kindness, respect and acceptance, responsibility and fun, assertiveness and romance. Be the person you would fall in love with. And be it now.
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There is so much beauty in life, if only we looked in the right places. πŸ’–
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There is so much beauty in life when we choose evolve to a point where we can value our own worth. Take responsibility for our own happiness. And understand what we require. .... No longer am I scared to love. No longer am I worried what sort of person I may attract. No longer am I pointing outwards. .... There is so much beauty inside myself that when I look into the mirror and ask myself, how? How we gonna do this girl? The answer is simple. .... Keep your cup full and let it overflow with love and kindness, respect and acceptance, responsibility and fun, assertiveness and romance. Be the person you would fall in love with. And be it now. .... There is so much beauty in life, if only we looked in the right places. πŸ’– .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #lovenotes  #notestomyfuturehusband  #loverequirements  #wontsettle  #manifestation  #loveislouder  #beingmeinthisworld  #beauthentic  #beautifulworld  #wonderful  #cupoverfloweth  #respect  #responsibility  #healthelayers  #reiki  #rosequartz  #bedohave  #lookinside  #beyou  #lonliness  #onlinecoaching  #coachyourself  #reflection  #tenderness  #lover  #worththewait 
It's intriguing what people will do to keep their comfort zones. Their safety nets. What they have always known, or what will always be their for them.
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Please don't confuse that with them valuing you as a human. Please dont confuse that with them respecting you. You can love and leave a person in the name of self love. πŸ˜•
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Remember, love is never a fight. You ought not be fought for, you ought more to be in peace. ✌️
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Eye on the prize, you are the prize πŸ’–πŸ‘οΈ
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It's intriguing what people will do to keep their comfort zones. Their safety nets. What they have always known, or what will always be their for them. .... Please don't confuse that with them valuing you as a human. Please dont confuse that with them respecting you. You can love and leave a person in the name of self love. πŸ˜• .... Remember, love is never a fight. You ought not be fought for, you ought more to be in peace. ✌️ .... Eye on the prize, you are the prize πŸ’–πŸ‘οΈ .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #lovenotes  #notestomyfuturehusband  #loverequirements  #wontsettle  #manifestation  #loveislouder  #beingmeinthisworld  #raisethemstrong  #wordsmatter  #powermove  #readyaimfire  #feminineenergy  #mumlife  #warriorwoman  #questions  #relationshipgoals  #romancelives  #chivilry  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #relationshipproblems  #divorce  #breakups  #humanmind  #lovedoesnthurt 
We can agree that child abuse, domestic violence, the environment, politicians, racism, equalism and all the issues in the world are really not under control, right?β›“οΈπŸ”«
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Have you ever wondered what little ole you could do to contribute to the betterment of the world? Or do you just Bury  your head in the sand because the reality of it would hurt too much?πŸ€”
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I have a dream. That one by one we shed our layers, masks and fears and become who we were born to be. Be it a mother of 1 and a housewife or be it the next prime minister. Be it a soccer coach or a labourer at the local rubbish tip.πŸ™ŒπŸ—Ύ
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We each have our parts to play, and as long as we are playing other people's parts I beleive the world won't be able to balance herself out.πŸ’–
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What if we all just learnt to work inwards on ourselves, to become ourselves. What if we loved ourselves and could love others because our cup over floweth?🍹🍸
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The Lukas of the world, they are asking us to please, for the love of God, please be who you are. And be it now. πŸ™
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We can agree that child abuse, domestic violence, the environment, politicians, racism, equalism and all the issues in the world are really not under control, right?β›“οΈπŸ”« .... Have you ever wondered what little ole you could do to contribute to the betterment of the world? Or do you just Bury your head in the sand because the reality of it would hurt too much?πŸ€” .... I have a dream. That one by one we shed our layers, masks and fears and become who we were born to be. Be it a mother of 1 and a housewife or be it the next prime minister. Be it a soccer coach or a labourer at the local rubbish tip.πŸ™ŒπŸ—Ύ .... We each have our parts to play, and as long as we are playing other people's parts I beleive the world won't be able to balance herself out.πŸ’– .... What if we all just learnt to work inwards on ourselves, to become ourselves. What if we loved ourselves and could love others because our cup over floweth?🍹🍸 .... The Lukas of the world, they are asking us to please, for the love of God, please be who you are. And be it now. πŸ™ .... #bethechange  #beingmeinthisworld  #beyouffs  #beauthentic  #hearttruth  #healtheworld  #lovelouder  #lovethyself  #selfgrowth  #selfdiscovery  #humanrace  #thisislife  #mummydaughter  #mumlife  #humanitarian  #humanity  #playyourpart  #startswithyou  #stageoflife  #girlinthemirrorseries  #mirrorwork  ##environment  #childabuse  #racist  #sexist  #lifepurpose  #byourself  #please 
It's quite important, communication especially in the written form can easily be misinterpreted. But what if you are known to say what you mean, and mean what you say?
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That to me would be being responsible and not having to feel bad for another's assumptions. Because let's face it, it's not easy to dismiss when someone is upset with you, but this makes it far easier to accept thier perspective and remain not only in your lane, but congruent to yourself and boundaries.
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So, are you clear with your communication? Do you even know what you mean?
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Coaching programme can be found on my bio.
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It's quite important, communication especially in the written form can easily be misinterpreted. But what if you are known to say what you mean, and mean what you say? ..... That to me would be being responsible and not having to feel bad for another's assumptions. Because let's face it, it's not easy to dismiss when someone is upset with you, but this makes it far easier to accept thier perspective and remain not only in your lane, but congruent to yourself and boundaries. .... So, are you clear with your communication? Do you even know what you mean? .... Coaching programme can be found on my bio. .... #friendshipquotes  #friendzoned  #fallinlove  #lovenotes  #warmfuzzies  #requirements  #futurehusband  #girlpower  #girlsinthemirror  #loveisnotaposession  #lovefeelslike  #exhiliration  #bonus  #letsdothis  #iamme  #youareyou  #justbeyou  #futurewifey  #excitedforthefuture  #girlinthemirrorseries  #mirrorwork  #beingmeinthisworld  #dontunderestimateme  #nzdiamond  #standards  #romanceme  #lovelanguage  #dearfuturehusband  #futurediary 
About last night. See the thing is, some times all we need is to take a mate for a kanikani and to go  people watching. To provide them the safe space to let thier hair down and be free for a night while you keep watch. While you let them dance off the ick and listen to the soft hearttruth as they let go.
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We allll got issues. And we all gotta take our turns being the girl in the front, and being the girl in the back.
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Open. Hearttruth. Play. Responsible. Beingme. Love. Safety. ....
My top relationship values. We got that, we can make it work. We got not that, it ain't gonna work.
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About last night. See the thing is, some times all we need is to take a mate for a kanikani and to go people watching. To provide them the safe space to let thier hair down and be free for a night while you keep watch. While you let them dance off the ick and listen to the soft hearttruth as they let go. ..... We allll got issues. And we all gotta take our turns being the girl in the front, and being the girl in the back. .... Open. Hearttruth. Play. Responsible. Beingme. Love. Safety. .... My top relationship values. We got that, we can make it work. We got not that, it ain't gonna work. .... #friendshipquotes  #friendzoned  #fallinlove  #lovenotes  #warmfuzzies  #requirements  #futurehusband  #girlpower  #girlsinthemirror  #loveisnotaposession  #lovefeelslike  #exhiliration  #bonus  #letsdothis  #iamme  #youareyou  #justbeyou  #futurewifey  #excitedforthefuture  #girlinthemirrorseries  #mirrorwork  #beingmeinthisworld  #dontunderestimateme  #nzdiamond  #standards  #romanceme  #lovelanguage  #dearfuturehusband  #futurediary  .... @maileash
I get talking about emotions feels scary but it's responsifuckenble!
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I feel used. I feel confused. I feel neglected. I'm terrified. πŸ˜–πŸ€―
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Now that's being responsible for your own shit and expressing the basics of what the emotion is.
... I dont like how YOU do this. I think YOU have the wrong beliefs. I don't like how YOU think this about... I need you to choose between me and...... You embarrassed me. YOU don't care about me. You make me feel... .... But let's just clarify one thing right now. You ain't never getting that dream best life version of you relationships, if YOU gonna keep projecting outwards. πŸ’”πŸ’£
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2)Learn to voice what your requirements are. 3)Learn what you contribute to each situation. It takes 2 hands to make a clap. πŸ‘
4)Heal your child hood hurts ....
You can NOT change others by words or demands. Even if you deserve them to treqt you better. It would be fake actions. Incongruent to who they are. Humans may appease but that is not a contribution to true lasting love relationships. βš‘β„οΈ
.... Oh. And as Kenny Rogers says..
"He said, "If you're gonna play the game, boy
You gotta learn to play it right
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run
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Free 30 minute discovery calls for those who wanna learn to play it right. DM to book.
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I get talking about emotions feels scary but it's responsifuckenble! .... I feel used. I feel confused. I feel neglected. I'm terrified. πŸ˜–πŸ€― .... Now that's being responsible for your own shit and expressing the basics of what the emotion is. ... I dont like how YOU do this. I think YOU have the wrong beliefs. I don't like how YOU think this about... I need you to choose between me and...... You embarrassed me. YOU don't care about me. You make me feel... .... But let's just clarify one thing right now. You ain't never getting that dream best life version of you relationships, if YOU gonna keep projecting outwards. πŸ’”πŸ’£ .... 1)Learn to identify and name your emotions. 2)Learn to voice what your requirements are. 3)Learn what you contribute to each situation. It takes 2 hands to make a clap. πŸ‘ 4)Heal your child hood hurts .... You can NOT change others by words or demands. Even if you deserve them to treqt you better. It would be fake actions. Incongruent to who they are. Humans may appease but that is not a contribution to true lasting love relationships. βš‘β„οΈ .... Oh. And as Kenny Rogers says.. "He said, "If you're gonna play the game, boy You gotta learn to play it right You've got to know when to hold 'em Know when to fold 'em Know when to walk away And know when to run .... πŸƒπŸŒŸπŸ’―πŸ€Ήβ€β™‚οΈπŸ€Έβ€β™‚οΈπŸ‹οΈβ€β™‚οΈπŸ§˜β€β™€οΈπŸ’– ... Free 30 minute discovery calls for those who wanna learn to play it right. DM to book. .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #onlinecoaching  #makeamove  #whoareyou  #questioneverything  #responsibility  #dontunderestimateme  #nzdiamond  #standards  #bethechange  #actionsoverwords  #truecolours  #iamworthy  #thegambler  #relationshipgoals  #lookingforlove  #breakupshurt  #relationshipproblems  #marriage  #divorce  #singlegirls  #singleboys  #manifestyourpartner  #healthyemotions  #healingjourney  #iamme 
To venture back into childhood to find where you left her, to meet her and discover what she was about, who she wanted to be, who she was, what stopped her becoming.. To know her.. To merge into her... You are her. πŸ’–πŸ™Œ
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To venture back into childhood to find where you left her, to meet her and discover what she was about, who she wanted to be, who she was, what stopped her becoming.. To know her.. To merge into her... You are her. πŸ’–πŸ™Œ .... .... #childlikeeyes  #learnthroughplay  #imagination  #creativity  #whoareyou  #innervoice  #innerbeauty  #innerchild  #girlinthemirrorseries  #littlegirls  #loveislouder  #nurture  #beinghuman  #mindbodyconnection  #dreamlife  #littlekid  #mumblog  #mamasita  #dreamtime  #thiskid  #notestoself  #healingenergy  #healingjourney  #journeyoflife  #mumlife  #mummydaughter 
πŸŒŸπŸ’•I am a diamond in the rough however, I am not a possession to own, more like an experience of a lifetime.
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If love is only a desire to own, it is not love.πŸ”₯
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πŸŒŸπŸ’•I am a diamond in the rough however, I am not a possession to own, more like an experience of a lifetime. .... If love is only a desire to own, it is not love.πŸ”₯ .... .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #lovenotes  #notestomyfuturehusband  #loverequirements  #wontsettle  #wontsettle  #lovelanguage  #lovelikethis  #truelove  #truecolours  #iamworthy  #worththewait  #hopelessromantic  #womenwhowrite  #boundaries  #iknowwhoiam  #earnit  #respectwomen  #myheart  #homeiswheretheheartis  #relationshipgoals  #romancelives  #chivilry  #unconditional  #confidenceiskey  #beingmeinthisworld  #girlinthemirrorseries  #quotesandsayings 
This is what purpose feels like. We all love the fire, yet we know it could burn us. This is what it feels like. Exhilarating and scary at the same time. Manage the fire at a rate you can fan its flames, feed it wood and never let the rain put it out.🌱
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You will know your purpose when she rises. It's a knowing second to none.πŸ”₯πŸ”₯
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Keep asking. Ask to be shown the way, and then trust your hot mess. 🌟
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Dm to book a free half hour guidance session πŸ™Œ
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This is what purpose feels like. We all love the fire, yet we know it could burn us. This is what it feels like. Exhilarating and scary at the same time. Manage the fire at a rate you can fan its flames, feed it wood and never let the rain put it out.🌱 .... You will know your purpose when she rises. It's a knowing second to none.πŸ”₯πŸ”₯ .... Keep asking. Ask to be shown the way, and then trust your hot mess. 🌟 .... Dm to book a free half hour guidance session πŸ™Œ .... #lifepurpose  #beingmeinthisworld  #godsend  #godswork  #expressive  #stepbystep  #soundingboard  #strongertogether  #puzzlepeices  #turnitup  #beyouffs  #beauthentic  #girlinthemirrorseries  #findyourself  #whoareyou  #whatmakesushuman  #whatdoyoustandfor  #digdeep  #dailyguidance  #youknowwhoyouare  #selfdiscovery  #selfdevelopment  #selflove  #confidenceiskey  #shownottell  #imagination  #unconditional 
What's love got to do with it? Takes more than love to make a marriage last and not just last but to be fulfilling and rewarding. To be a safe haven and exciting. To have passion and routine. So, what the fuck is love?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
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Many people will tell you that love hurts. They know, they felt when thier hearts broke and shattered.πŸ’”
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And what is the foundational requirement for building a new relationship? Or repairing an existing one? What do we need to work on right now, so that we can be Not a statistic. So we can have intimacy and safety in love?🌟
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Let's start with love, and what it is.. And maybe what it is not you can figure out and let me know! πŸ’–
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Full video on the IGTV or fb page. If you are looking to discover what your beliefs in love and life are, who you truly are underneath the masks. If you aspire to have a love relationship that is to die for, coaching packages are in my link in the bio.
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Free discovery calls if you have a heart, have loved and lost and are willing to do the work it takes to make the world a better place for my kid πŸ˜‹πŸ˜˜ the world needs more love.
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What's love got to do with it? Takes more than love to make a marriage last and not just last but to be fulfilling and rewarding. To be a safe haven and exciting. To have passion and routine. So, what the fuck is love?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ .... Many people will tell you that love hurts. They know, they felt when thier hearts broke and shattered.πŸ’” .... And what is the foundational requirement for building a new relationship? Or repairing an existing one? What do we need to work on right now, so that we can be Not a statistic. So we can have intimacy and safety in love?🌟 .... Let's start with love, and what it is.. And maybe what it is not you can figure out and let me know! πŸ’– .... Full video on the IGTV or fb page. If you are looking to discover what your beliefs in love and life are, who you truly are underneath the masks. If you aspire to have a love relationship that is to die for, coaching packages are in my link in the bio. .... Free discovery calls if you have a heart, have loved and lost and are willing to do the work it takes to make the world a better place for my kid πŸ˜‹πŸ˜˜ the world needs more love. .... #relationshipproblems  #conditionalrelationships  #ubconditionallove  #loveispure  #narriageadvice  #relationshipgoals  #lookingforlove  #breakupshurt  #girlinthemirrorseries  #freedomtoexpress  #lovehurts  #egotalk  #divorce  #scaredtolove  #whatislove  #whatslovegottodowithit  #heartvsego  #breakups  #girlinthemirrorseries  #infidelity  #beingmeinthisworld  #limitingbeleifs  #beleiveinlove  #reflection  #lookinside  #beyou  #whoareyou 
What's love got to do with it? Takes more than love to make a marriage last and not just last but to be fulfilling and rewarding. To be a safe haven and exciting. To have passion and routine. So, what the fuck is love?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
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Many people will tell you that love hurts. They know, they felt when thier hearts broke and shattered.πŸ’”
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And what is the foundational requirement for building a new relationship? Or repairing an existing one? What do we need to work on right now, so that we can be Not a statistic. So we can have intimacy and safety in love?🌟
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Let's start with love, and what it is.. And maybe what it is not you can figure out and let me know! πŸ’–
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Full video on the IGTV or fb page. If you are looking to discover what your beliefs in love and life are, who you truly are underneath the masks. If you aspire to have a love relationship that is to die for, coaching packages are in my link in the bio.
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Free discovery calls if you have a heart, have loved and lost and are willing to do the work it takes to make the world a better place for my kid πŸ˜‹πŸ˜˜ the world needs more love.
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What's love got to do with it? Takes more than love to make a marriage last and not just last but to be fulfilling and rewarding. To be a safe haven and exciting. To have passion and routine. So, what the fuck is love?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ .... Many people will tell you that love hurts. They know, they felt when thier hearts broke and shattered.πŸ’” .... And what is the foundational requirement for building a new relationship? Or repairing an existing one? What do we need to work on right now, so that we can be Not a statistic. So we can have intimacy and safety in love?🌟 .... Let's start with love, and what it is.. And maybe what it is not you can figure out and let me know! πŸ’– .... Full video on the IGTV or fb page. If you are looking to discover what your beliefs in love and life are, who you truly are underneath the masks. If you aspire to have a love relationship that is to die for, coaching packages are in my link in the bio. .... Free discovery calls if you have a heart, have loved and lost and are willing to do the work it takes to make the world a better place for my kid πŸ˜‹πŸ˜˜ the world needs more love. .... #relationshipproblems  #conditionalrelationships  #ubconditionallove  #loveispure  #narriageadvice  #relationshipgoals  #lookingforlove  #breakupshurt  #girlinthemirrorseries  #freedomtoexpress  #lovehurts  #egotalk  #divorce  #scaredtolove  #whatislove  #whatslovegottodowithit  #heartvsego  #breakups  #girlinthemirrorseries  #infidelity  #beingmeinthisworld  #limitingbeleifs  #beleiveinlove  #reflection  #lookinside  #beyou  #whoareyou 
Too fat! At 19/20 I went from 60kg to 65kg. And I thought I was fat. Too fat. From then on, I have never been satisfied with my body weight for longer than say 2 months at a time.⌚
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I look back at photos like these and there is no fat. For fuck sakes! A 5 month old baby and no fat. 62kg actually.πŸ’”
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Man it's so ridiculous to stay in a loop of never being satisfied with our bodies. The amount of energy we spend trying to change it. Lose weight so we can still not be happy. Well fuck that man.
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This past year is the heaviest I've ever been and I joke that I'm the fat freind. Yet in all seriousness, I feel so comfortable in my skin now. I may not always like the way I look but confidence is an inside job. Being satisfied is an inside job. No number on the scales can ever be the difference.
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Remember that next time you diet. Health is the objective, not fat loss. ⭐
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Too fat! At 19/20 I went from 60kg to 65kg. And I thought I was fat. Too fat. From then on, I have never been satisfied with my body weight for longer than say 2 months at a time.⌚ .... I look back at photos like these and there is no fat. For fuck sakes! A 5 month old baby and no fat. 62kg actually.πŸ’” .... Man it's so ridiculous to stay in a loop of never being satisfied with our bodies. The amount of energy we spend trying to change it. Lose weight so we can still not be happy. Well fuck that man. .... This past year is the heaviest I've ever been and I joke that I'm the fat freind. Yet in all seriousness, I feel so comfortable in my skin now. I may not always like the way I look but confidence is an inside job. Being satisfied is an inside job. No number on the scales can ever be the difference. .... Remember that next time you diet. Health is the objective, not fat loss. ⭐ .... .... #girlinthemirrorseries  #mirrorwork  #toofat  #bodyimage  #hearttruth  #mumlife  #healthyeating  #bestronger  #insidejob  #bethechange  #leadtheway  #fatfriend  #toohardonourselves  #beautifulskin  #becomfortable  #tooskinny  #peacefulwarrior  #parenting101  #consciousparenting  #empatheticparenting  #empatheticoach  #bethechange  #innerguidance  #fallinlovewithyourself  #beyou  #lovelife  #findyourfreedom  #soloparenting  ##waikato  #nzcoach  #selfgrowth 
Just be you! πŸ’–πŸ™ŒπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
Just be you! πŸ’–πŸ™ŒπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
There are gifts in everything. Once we come through the hard times we consciously evaluate what is and isn't important. With a blank canvas we get to choose what our experience is going to be next. And how we will Co-create with others and especially our young uns.🎁
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I choose to get involved. I choose to be a dick. I choose to play, laugh and giggle. I choose to allow her to express herself, even when I do not like what she's feeling or how she's doing it. And I choose to learn from every "mum guilt" "dad guilt" moment and move forward.πŸ’«
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I am lucky that Addison is creative like me. She loves the play, the video, the camera like me. She loves love. She is confident in orange instead of red stockings because she knows what's important and it ain't looks. She is confident that she is loved and she knows she is capable.πŸ’–
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But, I'm gonna claim it, I have spent her entire life researching and practising Empathetic parenting. How to not yell. (my weakness). How to raise her into her confidence. How to fill her mind with positive talk. How to allow her to be Addison. Amd note I said practise. Try, try, try again. πŸ™Œ
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And I'm gonna say, that although some mum days suck shit and I need time out.. There are these moments. And these moments are what unconditional love is all about. πŸ‘‘πŸ’Ž
There are gifts in everything. Once we come through the hard times we consciously evaluate what is and isn't important. With a blank canvas we get to choose what our experience is going to be next. And how we will Co-create with others and especially our young uns.🎁 .... I choose to get involved. I choose to be a dick. I choose to play, laugh and giggle. I choose to allow her to express herself, even when I do not like what she's feeling or how she's doing it. And I choose to learn from every "mum guilt" "dad guilt" moment and move forward.πŸ’« .... I am lucky that Addison is creative like me. She loves the play, the video, the camera like me. She loves love. She is confident in orange instead of red stockings because she knows what's important and it ain't looks. She is confident that she is loved and she knows she is capable.πŸ’– .... But, I'm gonna claim it, I have spent her entire life researching and practising Empathetic parenting. How to not yell. (my weakness). How to raise her into her confidence. How to fill her mind with positive talk. How to allow her to be Addison. Amd note I said practise. Try, try, try again. πŸ™Œ .... And I'm gonna say, that although some mum days suck shit and I need time out.. There are these moments. And these moments are what unconditional love is all about. πŸ‘‘πŸ’Ž
I don't believe life should be hard. But I do believe we need to reach high sometimes, stand on tippy toes and persevere. I believe a good challenge is good for the soul πŸ’–
I don't believe life should be hard. But I do believe we need to reach high sometimes, stand on tippy toes and persevere. I believe a good challenge is good for the soul πŸ’–
It's the process that matters most. Translated that means life. It's life that matters most. πŸ—ΎπŸ’―
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It's the process that matters most. Translated that means life. It's life that matters most. πŸ—ΎπŸ’― .... #girlinthemirrorseries