I strive to be a gentleman.
Gentleman - verb, noun.
Respectful of others, treats all as equals. Upholding of women, gentle with children, respectful to elders.
Deadly to enemies, loyal to friends. A force to be reckoned with. Observes more than speaks, listens to advice, weighs decisions carefully. Helpful and kind, resourceful and wise, clever and mean. Will fight for what he loves, who he loves and the values he upholds.
Nearly everything that is wrong with the world is the fault of men not doing their jobs. Men hurt their children, because they were hurt by their fathers, because they were hurt by their fathers, etc. Men. Do you damn job.