"You didn't breastfeed?" "Pacifiers are bad for her teeth" "Why don't you vaccinate her?" "You smoke weed, you aren't a good parent" "You're too young to have 2 kids" "You not going to college is not securing a future or setting an example for your kids" "She's bigger now so why can't you do this?" "Don't let her do that she's gonna get hurt" "You're spoiling her" ..... These are all statements I've been told by people. "Mom Guilt" is so real & so stupid. I wish Non-Parents could put themselves in our shoes for a day to really see what it's like. Being a Mom is special, it's rough, & beautiful all at the same time. I use to cry cry cry because of all those statements, but now IDGAF & neither should all parents!! 👋🏼😎 #momlife#momproblems#parenting#fuckyou#fuckopinions#fuckjudgments#coolmoms#loveyourmom#mommies
Two days ago, I changed my life for the better. I became a Muslim. This is hard for me to share, because I fear judgement from others, but I know in my heart no one has a right to judge me but God.
I have been reading the Quran for 4 months now, it has given me such joy. The first time I opened it was like the first time i had ever found peace, that I could let myself give Allah my struggles knowing he loves me and all of us.
I didn’t think I would be confident enough to share my journey with all of you, even though I don’t know you all personally either. As my oldest brother told me, fuck what other people think, they have no right to judge until they walk in our shoes.
I share more about my mental health now, so why not share about the faith I found that helps my mental illness. When my mind is racing I can turn to Allah, when I feel suicidal I even have an answer for that in the Quran “Oh Allah, let me live as long as life is better for me and take my life if death is better for me”
I am still the person I was but better now, happier ♥️ as for the wearing the head dress, I am still shy and I don’t wear it out. However it makes me feel less dehumanized and less sexualized. Growing up in this society, you begin to be sexualized at such a young age, that it’s nice feel confident being modest and feel like I am seen for more than my body parts.
Salam alaikum ♥️#nervous#sharing#proudtobemuslim#salamalaikum#fuckopinions#happy
My pigeon pose isn’t perfect yet but practice makes perfect‼️ remember “Every expert was once a beginner” So don’t be afraid to fails,loose,look stupid or whatever they say, just do it and get better‼️💪 #fuckopinions
World Breastfeeding Week ❤️
Although I only breastfed for a small 4 months - I still gave it my all. It was my choice to stop. There are so many mothers out there who are thrown guilt at because they stop. They either get sick and are unable too, or it simply isn’t for them or there bub. Everyone’s different and every baby is different. I chose to stop for my own reasons. I don’t need to explain them to anyone and Mother’s shouldn’t feel like they have to explain themselves either to opinionated people. Maybe It’ll be easier for me when the time comes that I have another little cherub ❤️❤️Do what’s best for you, and your little one 👶🏼
Sooo, I didn’t conceal ALL of my post acne marks because ... I didn’t feel like it!! I’ve definitely felt the pressure to cover up and mask my skin because of everyone else’s stupid/ insensitive opinions but, not anymore. It’s taken me years to love my imperfect skin, and I wish I loved it sooner! Also, I created this worn- in Smokey, smudged cat liner look using my fave @sigmabeauty long Wear Eyeliner Pencil. Made my liner kind of imperfect too and I’m also LOVING IT! Sigma do some incredible liners FYI ..use my code ‘ rubygolani ‘ for 💸💸💸💸 off. Now for a Break down of products used.
✨ @itcosmetics CC Cream in ‘Fair’ and ‘Ligh’ mixed together in equal parts.
✨ @bobbibrown Instant Full Cover Concealer In ‘sand’ under my eyes.
✨ @maccosmeticsaustralia ‘Soft Ochre’ paint pot to prime my lids.
✨@marcbeauty Coconut Bronzer In my eye socket and under my cheekbones to contour.
✨ @sigmabeauty Long Wear Eye Pencil ✨@ctilburymakeup Iconic Nude Lip Pencil
✨@diormakeup Dior Addict Lip Glow #1#acnescars#acne#acneproblems#selflove#selfcare#fuckopinions#makeupoftheday#motd
WE ARE HUMANS. WE ARE PEOPLE. WE HAVE A LIFE. WE HAVE A FAMILY. WE DESERVE BETTER. WE BLEED THE EXACT SAME COLOUR, ALL OF US. WE MAY SPEAK IN DIFFERENT TONGUES, BUT OUR HEARTS. THEY BEAT AS ONE. STOP THE HATE. LOVE IS LOVE AND I AM WHO I AM. YOU GOT A PROBLEM WITH THAT, THEN GUESS WE GONNA HAVE A RIOT. 💪We are all brothers