Mental & Emotional health matters.
It's ok to feel overwhelmed.
It's ok to ask for help.
It's ok to get guidance on how to cope.
What's wrong, is to deprive yourself of happiness.
What's wrong, is to hurt others from neglecting to deal with your demons.
Be kind to yourself, forgive yourself for being human.
Emotions are meant to be experienced not engulfing.
Thoughts should inspire change not hinder it.
If you are feeling stuck, hopeless, angry, sad, unworthy, confused, overwhelmed, or even numb from all of such.
If past hurt, negative thoughts, or anger still lingers on your heart.... Please, muster the strength to love yourself enough to make a change and if it's to hard to figure out on your own, get help.
Doesnt make you crazy. Its make you READY TO START LIVING AGAIN!
Let's make this DAY 1 together!
I love you 💋
... And then I’m the One laughing.
I’m tired, and I’m not going to keep correcting your behavior towards me. I’ll gladly communicate how I’d like to be treated once, after that you’re a Dub. Take Heed the FIRST time. #fuckboyfree
Good things come to those who… hold out. You ask the universe for someone awesome to fill the role of lover, team player, or power broker. You ask for a change of scenery. And then something close enough happens. And you do the cosmic shrug and think, “Well, close enough.” It’s new. It’s different. But…new and different are not the same as resonant and deeper. You have to hold out for that kind of magic.
Holding out is a stamina of standards. It’s a derivative of faith. You can hold out when you root into the belief that you’re worthy—worthy of the best version of what you want.
Holding out requires a sacred, almost superhuman degree of focus—mystical muther freaking prowess.
It’s so damn easy to settle, to just take the first good offer, to roll with it sooner rather than later. Particularly when you’re hungry. Especially when you’re in pain. And definitely after you have been very, very patient.
You know in your bones when it’s a bad idea to cave in. You knowww. But listen, you can have doubts about the future, but still have faith. You can be at peace with not being at peace with where things were at.
Hold out, love. Be alone. Keep doing the work. Go without. Let the space you want to be filled stay open and clear. It requires more strength but as it turns out, holding out is seriously efficient. You won’t have to untangle as much, or backtrack, or extricate yourself from all the things that you could have compromised on.
You’re worth the wait.