When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.
And that I found it in my dearest Tata @vhsisilia 😘
I can’t take the fabulousness! Drag and Down syndrome collide and it’s sooo damn amazing! 👸💄 Look up Drag Syndrome in YouTube to see what I mean. We need this in LA now! #fierce#queens#dragsyndrome#cometoLA @dragsyndrome
We all have insecurities but, focus on the qualities that make you SPECIAL ....
Be proud and true to yourself ❤️ ———What is one quality you ❤️ about yourself???? The one quality that makes me special is that, I am FIERCELY LOYAL!!!
———Tag someone who needs to be reminded of this!!!!!
Us women now live in a generation where beauty is mostly consumed by what the social media say to us. Every Instagram post and how many followers/likes we have already define who we are. And not to mention the bashers and trolls who constantly throw shady comments against you and your appearance.
But personally, I have to remind myself that there's no way I should entertain these comments and conformity. It's time to be #StrongerNow .
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I talk a lot about my ‘Soul’ journey in my e-book, but I haven’t said much about my soul journey. That is, until now. ✨
I’m 31 years old, and I just found out how truly fucking awesome I am not too long ago. It took me so many years to give myself the respect that I know now I deserve, but hey, it’s hard. We compare ourselves to everyone: classmates, siblings, friends, co-workers, sometimes even significant others. And, because I’m a woman the stakes are even higher. And then, I’m a woman of color on top of that! Even harder. How in the world do we learn to love ourselves the right way with all this “noise”? I needed time, and I needed life to test me and show me what I could handle. I was programmed to think that I had to prove myself to demonstrate my worth. As I dive deeper into my 30’s, I now know that I am ENOUGH and I don’t have to test myself (and to any male suitor that tries to ‘test’ me🖕🏽). So, how did I change my mindset? I learned to let go. I let go of so much that just did not serve me: the things I couldn’t control, the fact that I was now an Indian divorcée, and the toxic people that plagued my life. It was not an easy process, but learning to just let it be has brought me so much inner peace and happiness that I wouldn’t have it any other way. I learned to trust myself and the process, and although rolling with the punches hurt sometimes, it was essential for me to grow into a better person.
When life brings you to your knees, it’s up to you if you want to stay on the ground or get up. You always have a choice. When I stood up, my attitude towards life evolved. That box that I used to hide myself in had vanished, and all I saw around me was endless possibilities. The limit did not exist and I was free to just be. 💙 #SoulPartner#SoulGifted
Life is Unpredictable and very often puts us in to situations where we feel uncomfortable. But it does make sure to make us capable of facing those situations or finding ways out of it.
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Problem in relationships mostly arise because of misunderstanding. Listening would help to understand the issues.
Yes sometimes saying it would make other person understand the issues but in that case issues will get resolved only if other person listens.
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