@brianheadwelch appeared on the Blind Tiger Record Club Podcast Season One. Check out his new movie tomorrow on Showtime.
#Repost @brianheadwelch with @get_repost
#Repost @loudkrazylove with @get_repost
LOUD KRAZY LOVE will have its Showtime premiere on December 14th at 10 PM ET.
Brian "Head" Welch pioneered a sound with KoRn in the early ‘90s provided identity to a generation of misfits, making him a global rock star. However, Brian's life takes a turn when he walks out on a $23M record deal in order to become a good father to his daughter.
Nothing has ever made me happier than sensing him know more all the time just how much I love him and witnessing the impact it has on who he is and how he feels as he becomes more consciously aware through his cognitive development...truly the best thing ever 🙏🏽
The day our first son was born and my husband held him in his arms, my heart broke open! The love in the room that day was insane and I cannot wait to feel that for the 3rd time this February! 💗
Dad's are SO important in a baby's life! Dad's interact differently, play differently, respond differently, and all of that is a good thing! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Too many #newmoms overly micromanage their husbands (trust me, I do this too) out of anxiety and fear, but when you step back and let your husband find his groove with your baby, magic happens!
My husband was very involved with both of our sons from the very beginning because I worked hard to make room for him. Sure, I had my controlling moments and overstepped boundaries at times, but giving him the freedom to be alone with our first son in those early days was the best thing I could have done for our marriage and our children! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Today my husband is a wonderful, capable, confident, loving, super-involved father who enjoys having alone time with our boys because he gets to play, enjoy, and do things his way. He isn't afraid or anxious. He trusts his instincts, knows their schedules, and most importantly, he figures things out when I'm not around! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you're a new mom, it's important to take a step back and make room for Dad. Let things get a little messy with your husband and the baby in order for him to establish his own rhythm. Try to hold in your "feedback" and allow your husband to figure things out on his own. I promise if you can do this, life will be so much better down the road for all of you! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
#Repost @beleafmel ・・・
If you go on any platform on the internet you will find content for kids. It's the 3rd most viewed category (54.8 Billion views in 2017), right behind Music & Entertainment. Close to none of the channels (with exception of the few) cater to black children.
Why does this matter?
Because it does!
As a Black Father I care about the content that my children consume, identity is something I’ve always struggled with when I was a kid I would see my favorite characters on t.v. and they were all white. Unfortunately, it turned to me wanting to BE white. I've since then discovered all the beauty that is BLACK and I am confident in who God has created me to be but, I feel like a lot of those feelings stemmed from those images I saw.
On YouTube it’s the same thing there is a scarcity of good content for our young people. Honestly I’m fed up and I decided to be the change, but I need your help! I’ve been creating content on my own channel Beleaf In Fatherhood for 3 years, and in that time it’s become a fulltime gig that has brought my wife home from work. Now I want to branch out and create High Quality Educational Content That Inspires Children through the use of Puppeteering and HipHop. Frank Puppet has been a project that I have investing in for about a year. I have tried to do it alone and I have failed. In order to make the content that I believe will speak to the Black and Minority children who are granted access to Youtube, I'm raising $75,000 to hire the team, to build sets and to make at least 50 episodes of high-quality educational entertainment for the minority community. Think Mr. Rogers Meets, Dr. Suess' meets Black Thought with Timbaland on Production.
Ini adalah foto dulu, jadi bukan baru moto terus update.
Iseng aja, karena ini memosting dengan jadwal, dipikir-pikir ya udah lah mending foto-foto menyenangkan saja.
Kadang aku khawatir, keseharianku itu hanya berada di radius 800 meteran (ini aku sampe googling maps dulu loh biar tau jaraknya), itu adalah jarak dari rumah ke tempat kerja (konveksi kaos), jadi kadang karena jarak yang begitu dekat, garis batas antara bekerja dan ngga bekerja menjadi kabur, kadang di kantor kepikiran rumah tapi ngga jarang juga ada di rumah tapi masih mikirin kerjaan di kantor.
Saat kesibukan bertambah, batas yang kabur tadi jadi semakin hampir nggak keliatan, sekali-kali bukan terpaksa tapi memang karena polanya sudah terbentuk begitu.
Ngeliat foto ini aku jadi diingetin lagi untuk menebalkan kembali garis batas tadi yang kumaksud, inget ngga? itu yang di atas! ya udah baca lagi deh dari atas, kalo udah sampe kalimat ini lagi kasih tau aku, kita lanjut ngobrolnya.
Tengkyu Kakang sudah bantu Appa nebelin garis.
#fatherhood#workingclass#bat#h &m #ciparay#bojongbungur
Be REAL - Resilient Engaged Authentic Loyal
Are your days dominated by daily congestion of thoughts, time, tasks, relationships or health issues? Finding yourself in an emotional gridlock that leaves you feeling empty, numb, unappreciated or frustrated?
These are the warning signs that your mind, body and spirit have been idling for too long, pressure is building and you may be on the path to significant problems.
How do you change "lanes" to connect with the journey to living a balanced and authentic lifestyle? Each person's dreams, passions, priorities, needs and circumstances are different. They provide direction, guidance, individuality, challenges and solutions for one's daily journey.
Changing "lanes" to prioritise living a balanced and authentic lifestyle on your own terms, while also effectively managing one's responsibilities and circumstances, may seem easy to say but difficult to do, at first. Change of this nature requires planning, passion, courage, commitment, resilience, learning, creativity and focus all at the same time.
Embracing the process of change is a personal process. My guides for this process are:
1. Reflection - on dreams, priorities, goal setting, identification and articulation of elements in current lifestyle that are productive / non-productive, needs and non-essentials, strengths and barriers, review of financial, material and relationship status and priorities.
2. Realignment - of goals, thinking processes, words and actions to be congruent with dreams, priorities and goals, commitment to engaging in learning through networking, mentoring, research and personal development, nurturing a growth and solution based mindset.
3. Reset - actions, routines, attitudes, relationships, financial, work and family commitments to align with goals and balanced lifestyle choices.
4. Re-energise - Inclusion of regular proactive processes that generate and maintain mental and physical wellbeing, mindfulness, connected relationships and rest. Acknowledge and celebrate milestones and progress in achievement of steps in the change process.
The change process is personal. The positive outcomes of changing "lanes" are massive.