Do desespero das esperas.
Estes últimos tempos têm sido sempre à espera.
À espera de saber que está tudo bem, à espera que se resolva o que está mal, à espera para saber como correu, à espera para que fique tudo bem, à espera para ir, à espera para ficar, à espera para ver. À espera.
E sim, as esperas valem a pena, mas eu estou farta de estar sempre à espera! Descobri uma nova forma de estar que oscila entre a capacidade de esperar na certeza de que vai ficar tudo bem e o desespero total para que o tempo passe e devolva as coisas aos seus lugares certos!
Afinal, queremos congelar o tempo ou queremos que ele passe mais depressa?
À espera da Vitória... das esperas que valeram tanto a pena!
From the despair of waiting.
These last times have been of waiting, all the time.
Waiting to know that everything is fine, waiting to be ok what was wrong, waiting to know how it went, waiting for everything to be fine, waiting to go, waiting to stay, waiting to see. Waiting.
And yes, the wait is worth it, but I'm tired of being always waiting! I have discovered a new way of being that goes between the ability to wait in the certainty that everything is going to be okay and the utter desperation for the time to pass by faster and bring the things to their right places!
After all, do we want to freeze time or do we want it to go by faster?
Expecting for Vitória... from the wait that was worth so much!
I can’t quite believe it. I am marrying this annoying but amazing man on Saturday and it’s only just starting to feel real! I will be a wife... (the best one you’ll ever meet!😏) With me working now and planning our wedding, it’s been completely manic. James has gone above and beyond for our family and we appreciate it so much! The girls and I adore you!❤️ I couldn’t be happier (that’s a lie, I will be happier when we finally get to the church and exchange vows😘) but you get the drift! I love you James, I can’t wait to be your wife!👰🏽 #wife#wedding#octoberwedding#bride#groom#family#winterwedding#arewethereyet#love
Now that I am an adult there are many things that I look back on from my childhood.
One of those things are traditions.
I didn’t think all the much about it as a kid but doing things year after year and remembering them now, are some of my favorite memories. .
Easter egg hunts at my great grandparents house, Fourth of July cookouts with tons of cousins and swimming, or even Sunday lunches at my grandmas house every week, these are my childhood memories that I LOVE so much. .
It makes me a little sad that my kids don’t get to experience the exact joys I had growing up. I than realized that they will have their own childhood memories. They will have their own joys they they think about as an adult.
I can’t wait to hear their stories with their own words years from now.
Do you have some traditions that you do now as a family or even some as a kid that are your fondest memories? ☺️❤️
This pic is my oldest being taught some of the #Korean dishes from her #grandma#traditons#gabawho
There is nothing quite like a bond between a son and father. To believe in your child is the one of the best gifts you can give your child, son or daughter.
Children often take their cues about how they should feel about themselves and develop their self-talk from how we express our feelings about them and how we talk to them and about them.
Parenenting is tough and for me it's usually only after I let out a long, frustration filled sigh over a cup of spilled milk that I realize I've hurt my sons heart over something so trival, at least in the grand scheme of things.
I'm not perfect and I wish I could say I let the 'little things' roll off like water but truth is its often the little things that add up and wear me out. I don't think its as important to be freaking Mary Poppins all the time as much as it is to stop, regroup and apologize.
Our kids need to see us apologizing more than they need to see us being 'mom of the year'. Today, im going to strive to just be real with my kids. Hang I. There sweet mamas and dads. We're in this together today for their tomorrow. 💖
What do you get when you have 3 cuties who don’t all want to look at you at the same time?? You get 3 images combined together to make this one shot!! Totally worth it!! 😍