He #stole the #money I did have then filed for #divorce multiple times. He kept “our money” in accounts I didn’t even know were open. He spent that money constantly while trying to #convince me to put any money I made once I found a job into a “fun” fund. Bills needed to be paid but “there is not enough money for them all” he said. I stressed trying to figure out how to make ends meet (I am blessed to have had my mom & gramma’s house for a roof over my head) while he spent money I didn’t know was available. When I told him he was #wrong , he #berated me & #exploded . Then a few days later, I’d receive a very #thoughtful & #expensive#gift . 🧐 But no money for all of the bills? Or my necessary medical treatments? 🚩
I had to #cashout my #retirement (thank God I had that) the first time he filed for divorce. That divorce I didn’t know about until I saw an ACH transfer of $3,000.00 to our joint account that was then transferred straight to a #lawyer . That money would have been nice for those bills we could “not afford”!! Or my medical treatments!! 🙋♀️😷
The second time he filed, I was again #blindsided . I told him a few weeks prior I was going to file but had to wait until I found a new job. It was important to me that I filed to protect myself from the added emotional hardship his #rejection would cause me. I had learned by then if there was a #boundary he would #bulldoze it. Thus, I made sure to add if he couldn’t respect my request to please at least wait to file until I had a job. He did not respect my request. He also did not wait. He filed anyway. Again. I had to scramble... again.
I was fighting a #drug#resistant#infection . He knew this. I could not afford the medical treatments necessary to #heal . He knew this. I had to put any money I scrounged up to my lawyer instead of my needed medical treatments. A lawyer my ex husband insisted I did not need because I “could #trust him.” 🤨
#Illness , stress, no positive self anything, & #desperation#consumed me. I had to keep going, though. I had to be divorced by the end of that go round. I was #done . I did it. I #freed myself. Thank #God for my son’s #love . I never would have #survived without him. @noblenav
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