I’ve justified a lot of shit in my mind over the years by thinking it’s ok because that person ‘deserved it’ or because they ‘did something first.’
In reality, this is bullshit.
It’s retaliation to placate my ego and make me feel better.
When the chips are down, the only thing we can completely control is our actions.
As such, this is the only thing we should be judged against.
So don’t let someone else’s decision to be a shitty person make you a shitty person in turn.
Trust me, I’ve been there, and there’s only more pain.
Instead, be grateful.
Grateful that you can control your actions.
Grateful that you’re not going to give in to fear.
Grateful that you’re lucky enough to be given this test to overcome and help you become a stronger person.
Unfuckwithable Pro Tip:
You can’t feel grateful and hateful at the same time.
Have an awesome Monday night everyone!!
SONANDO ENVUELTA. Somos capaces de abrazar, somos capaces de sentir incluso somos capaces de perdonar cuando una melodía eriza la piel.
@ego_proteam @egomachines @viking_inks @nuclearwhiteink @bluebird_needle_cartridges @novatintatattoo @pureworks_company
"Everything you do to overcome or rid yourself of ego is egotistical in nature.
Befriend it instead,
Watch it come bearing gifts
That you left buried in shame.
Like the African proverb said,
'When there is no enemy within,
The enemy outside can do us no harm,'
When the ego becomes your friend,
It no longer blocks your path.
In other words, you get out of your own way.
And the connection to Self is made.
Let me point out that even though
The line is sometimes paper thin
Between foe and friend,
Both still deserve compassion and respect.
Reminds me of that saying in Nahuatl
In 'Lak'ech Ala K'in'
It means I am another you,
And you are another me.
But I digress
The ego is much more a part of you
Than you might be willing to admit.
Try as you may to overcome;
There will be no such triumphance.
There is only temporary submission
With a promise of endless strife.
Thus it is best to seek communion within.
Peace instead of constant conflict
With the parts of ourselves that we reject inside;
Transmutation of the Psyche, or the Soul
Pure gold derived from lead."
- Professor Strange
Na segunda feira reflexiva de hoje falamos sobre algo muito importante para cada indivíduo: a autogestão.
A autogestão nada mais é do que desenvolver atitudes proativas, enfrentando possíveis adversidades da vida com resiliência e assim, crescer e se autoconhecer. Esta prática é muito importante para alcançarmos o autoconhecimento e realização pessoal.
Antes de mais nada é preciso que o indivíduo entenda que possui todos os recursos internos para transformar seus sonhos em realidade e para tal, basta investir em si próprio, estabelecendo hábitos e potencialidades que vão se transformar em motivação para alcançar o objetivo.
Quando analisamos os nossos pensamentos e os direcionamos fica bem mais fácil de visualizar e entender para onde queremos ir e se sentir energizado para avançar cada vez mais. Logo, o primeiro passo é entender que a responsabilidade pela construção do seu caminho é inteiramente sua e só acontecerá de acordo com suas escolhas.
Segundo Robert Steven Kaplan, professor de Harvard, "o sucesso depende de um processo corajoso de conhecimento pessoal". Logo, entendemos que para"sair do lugar" e realizar mudanças é preciso coragem para enfrentar nós mesmos.
Saber se autogerenciar é conseguir as respostas para suas perguntas dentro de você mesmo, o que acaba sendo chave para resolver as principais questões que vão surgindo ao longo da vida.
Psicóloga Luana Pereira Moreira
I was watching children play in the park just now and I felt...
that we’ve fallen a long way guys. Amidst the trials of life, we’ve lost the tactile connection we once so freely shared with each other. I feel this particularly for males, and it’s deeply regrettable. Yet I feel it’s possible to reclaim the beauty of a connection that’s free of ego, gender roles and sexuality. I think this starts with us looking deeply into the narratives we embody, and acknowledging the tragic impact of patriarchy on males too, and then us actively working to reestablish a new paradigm that honours our brotherhood, and most fundamentally, our humanness. .
🖤Помимо красивых бровей, можно побаловать себя окрашиванием ресниц🖤
В каких случаях рекомендуется красить реснички девочкам:
🖤если реснички светлые густые и длинные👌🏼эффект будет наиболее заметен
🖤если собираетесь на море 🌊 обычно на отдыхе не хочется тратить время на макияж
🖤если по каким-то причинам не красите глаза тушью
🖤если любите иногда походить без макияжа#ego#egopinsk#pinskgram#brows#browbar#profhenna #
So hard to believe I am where I am with myself right now. Every day is a new path, a new discovery and a new level of love and understanding that I didn’t have the day before. I’m excited for what is to come with my health and my connection to my body with this new lifestyle 🌲🐄🐓❤️ and a big thank you to @healyourselfwithnature for making this process a million times easier with her meal plans and advice 👯❤️
'Other people's opinions of you are none of your business.' this was an amazing statement that I heard earlier this afternoon, which I have desperately needed to hear and take into consideration for a few months now. So what if someone else has some twisted idea of who you are in their heads? Or bears hatred or anger towards you? They brought that with them, it's nothing you can control and certainly isn't even worth trying to change. The other thing I heard today is 'hurt people hurt people'. This is true in so many ways. Some people cannot deal with their own ego in a healthy way, and project their hurt onto others. It's hard and it's unfair, and the only thing to do is walk the fuck away. #keepfuckinggoing#ego#opinions#odaat#serenity#peace#movemountainsnotpeople
Only if you can clear the mind and #understand self, before you love another. #Loving someone can tear you at your steams, steal your #energy to the point you feel #damaged , #twisted with a spiraling #mind of wonder. The brain is a tricky subject as it comes to #realtionships of letting people in. They judge you knowing they had great lives and you sit down hurt and angry as the story thickens. But true therapy lies within your #conscious mind and #unconscious mind. As your #awake to the time you are asleep. But are you really sleeping is the real question.. Where do we go when we fall in a DEEP sleep trace. What If our #minds wonder off to others in another #dream#analysis and they continue our work in different time zones. Helping us endure our true #feelings set aloud. Why do you think music is so #powerful with true emotion, as it makes you feel all #emotions when your alone in your bed at night or with a friend having a sleepover or even at the #bar on a saturday night. May the #music , the tv shows the art you see everyday. Let it try to inspire you to become better than you were yesturday. Maybe they are trying to awaken your senses to the point it is time to speak aloud of your ture feelings of your #hurt#ego . Know damn well sure bullying has kept us in a #depression#sprial of harmful acts of #self -harm.
✌🏻 It’s been a while. WHATS UP? ✌🏻⠀⠀
[ 🇺🇸 & 🇩🇪 ]⠀⠀
Did I miss anything? No? That’s what I expected haha 😄⠀⠀
You know what’s hard? Seeing people punishing themselves having to post every day IN TIME, to keep up with comments and dms IN TIME, to edit photos IN TIME, to like stuff IN TIME .. just to be updated IN TIME⠀⠀
BUT when you let go of all this IN TIME you realize you really haven’t missed ANYTHING .. and do you know what you’ve gained? Some time for more important things and much more life quality without being on your phone for 24/7 🙏🏻 that’s my recognition from the past months .. This EVERYDAY IN TIME - mentality really makes me sick rn and makes me forgetting WHO I REALLY AM. We’re not measured by time (actually time as we know it doesn’t even EXIST!! how pathetic ..)⠀⠀
❓Any thoughts on this❓⠀⠀
🇩🇪 Hab ich was verpasst? Nein? Das ist das, was ist erwartet habe haha 😄⠀⠀
Wisst ihr was hart ist? Leute zu sehen, die sich damit bestrafen, jeden Tag RECHTZEITIG posten zu müssen, RECHTZEITIG kommentieren und Nachrichten beantworten zu müssen, RECHTZEITIG Fotos bearbeiten zu müssen, RECHTZEITIG Bilder liken zu müssen ... nur um RECHTZEITIG aktualisiert zu sein⠀⠀
Aber wenn du all das RECHTZEITIG loslässt, merkst du, dass du wirklich NICHTS verpasst hast ... und weißt du, was du gewonnen hast? Mehr Zeit für wichtigere Dinge und viel mehr Lebensqualität, ohne 24/7 an deinem Handy zu hängen - das ist meine Erkenntnis der letzten 2 Monate. Diese Rechtzeitig - Mentalität macht mich momentan wirklich krank und lässt mich vergessen WER ICH WIRKLICH BIN . Wir sind nicht an Zeit gemessen (eigentlich existiert Zeit so wie wir sie kennen nicht mal !! wie erbärmlich ..)⠀⠀
❓Eure Gedanken zu diesem Thema❓⠀
Cuenta tus bendiciones no tus problemas.
Decir gracias es una cortesía automática, pero ¿cuantas veces agradecemos desde un nivel de conciencia superior?.
La gratitud, nos hace más felices,más empaticos, más amables y más enérgicos, disminuye el estrés, las preocupaciones, la depresion y la sensacion de soledad. Básicamente es un Super poder qué esta al alcance de todos 💥💪🏾.
La vida, y tu relación con ella es subjetiva, puede ser hermosa o puede ser muy triste, todo dependera de tu propio enfoque. Una vida feliz no depende de, las posesiones materiales, ni de un estatus civil, tampoco de un título, si así fuera, no habrían millonarios en tratamientos antidepresivos, no habría personas solteras o en relaciones tratando de reconstruirse, y todos los profesionales del mundo poseyeran la felicidad absoluta en el momento de entregarles su título.
Cuenta tus bendiciones y serás inmensamente feliz, muy a pesar de las dificultades que debes experimentar en pro de la evolución espiritual. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Es lunes de #YAL ¿y tu ya agradeciste?.
Part 2 of 2
When you voice your needs, she makes you feel like a bad person for it. A lot of users, particularly after they get access to what they want, try to avoid doing anything they don't want to do. If your needs are not being met because of that avoidance, users will often turn your own needs against you. So, if you haven't had sex in a while, she may say, "It's always about sex with you," or "Stop being perverted." If you're low on money, she may say, "Why can't you provide for me?" She keeps you away from her friends and family, too. When women are interested in a guy, they want to flaunt them. If she's not flaunting you, it's often a sign she's just using you for one thing or another. The longer you're with her, the more likely this is to be true. It's all about what she wants to do, never what you want.
Last weekend, you took her shopping and sent her to the spa. The weekend before that, you took her to her favorite restaurant and shopping again. If this sounds like your love life, it's likely that she's using you as a way to cut her "fun time" bills down to zero.
A healthy relationship will be fun for both of you. If this isn't true on your end, you need to rethink things. Lastly, you should assume she's using you if she makes plans without you or causes drama to justify her making plans. Or shows you her true colors when you try do something caring for her. If you feel she is lying to you and you confront her about it and she gets defensive or causes a fight, chances are not only is she lying to you, she’s using you.
So again, The question is, why would you put up with that? AE/OT
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Part 1 of 2
Society has a major problem, specifically, users. People tend to use people like stepping stones; and the worst thing about this is how common it is in the dating scene. We've all heard of men using women for sex, and women using men for money, status, and connections. If you're a guy, you're probably terrified of the possibility of being used. Speaking as someone who's been there, here are the signs she's using you that you need to be aware of. Do you feel like you're doing all the work? Do your gestures seem appreciated, but never really returned? If you were to just stop paying for everything, are you certain she'd pick up the slack? If these questions make you uneasy, it's likely that you have a very uneven relationship dynamic. While this isn't always a sign she's using you, it is a sign that something is very wrong. Ask yourself if you're feeling overburdened and under appreciated. If it's an uneven partnership, it's likely she's a user. Unless you have serious trauma dealing with relationships or self-esteem, your gut is right, more often than not.
She dangles "carrots" that can only be given if you do something she wants you to do.
More often than not, the "carrot" is commitment, affection, or sex. If you find yourself giving way more than you should for any of these three things, you're being manipulated and used. AE/OT
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