⚡️PEOPLE GET UPSET WITH US WHEN WE WE ARE OUT OF INTEGRITY WITH OURSELVES ⚡️ ⚡️
I’ve noticed a common, age-old theme coming up lately for myself, my friends and my clients: Someone is upset with us and we feel righteous about having done nothing wrong.
We search our memories, ask our closest confidants, and find ourselves to be innocent.
It’s definitely not our fault, and this person is 💯 responsible for their own reactions and projections, so until they figure their sh*t out, we won’t be engaging with them.
This is especially prevalent among those of us who have done a lot of work on ourselves and take extreme care to be good people who do the right things.
It gets tricky, because technically we didn’t do anything wrong to this person, and their anger seems both mystifying and detached from reality. ⚡️
What I’ve realized over the years is that there is, in fact, one specific thing we’ve done to create the situation entirely. ⚡️
I have found this to be true every time:
What we did was that we acted out of integrity with ourselves in some way, agreeing to something we weren’t a full yes to, saying no to something we truly wanted, or ignoring the little nagging whisper of our intuition that wanted us to take a different path. ⚡️
In doing so, we went against the grain of the universe. ⚡️
We didn’t feel quite right about it, and the decisions we made or the words we shared from that place set off a series of misaligned events that negatively impacted the feelings of those around us.
This person got roped into our web of self deception, which pulled them away from their own sense of truth. This felt “off” to them and spawned their reaction. ⚡️
We were and are entirely responsible after all. ⚡️
This is not to say that we have to choose to engage with those who are reactive and irresponsible in the face of this - we definitely do not! ⚡️
But we CAN free ourselves from the web by coming back to our own deeper truth. ⚡️
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GEMINI AUGUST 2018
There is an imbalance in your life or an unfair situation going on. You feel things are unjustified at present. Negotiations, commitments, or judgements may not be in your favor or are being delayed. This may be a confusing or stressful time for you, but likely to be unemotional. There may be no feelings involved in a situation that needs clarity.
Mentally, you're confused or unsure of what is right. You're unfocused, not clear in your thoughts. There is a situation that must be seen for what it is. You must analyze a partnership, relationship or situation that requires balance. A choice may need to be made, or has already been decided. This could also have to do with a Libra in your life with the Two of Swords and Justice reversed.
When you're clear on the matter and make that decision, there will be much love, happiness and abundance. The emotions will come rolling back in, and relationships, friendships and family matters will be joyful and satisfactory. There is success, and a completion of a cycle in your life that has brought you much happiness. A very loving and abundant atmosphere.
So get clear on your thoughts and make the right decision for yourself. You may have been unsure of something but you will become aware of what needs to be done. If you follow through with clarity and balance of thought within action, you will be satisfied with the results.
Some people got boats others sleep on benches. Sometimes they #build stuff and sometimes they take stuff apart and sometimes they do both at the same time. Thich Minh Huu said “rich or poor, I don’t care”. I see what he meant. We don’t discriminate in this way. Everyone deserves the great #compassion . #Richpeople are sad too. They are confused too. Their #sadness and #confusion has big influence tho on the lives of us poor people. #Poorpeople are sad too and they are also confused. We are just #hungry and #homeless . But being #poor does not necessarily make you wise. Being poor doesn’t necessarily mean you will be more #compassionate either. We all gotta keep striving together to hold these #vibes dowwwwwwwwwwn
Happy Talk-at-You Tuesday! 😆
Are you experiencing a bit of confusion and lack of clarity around how to proceed in a certain area of your life?
You’re not alone! There’s a reason for this.
As individuals within a collective, we are all experiencing such drastic changes to ourselves and our lives.
So much has been stirred up and removed from our energies that we need to take some time to allow the dust to settle before we can see things clearly. -
So if you’re not clear on how to handle something right now, just give it time. -
Everything will eventually clarify.
What is most uncomfortable about confusion? It is the disorder. It is the feeling that one is out of control. Those who seek tend to see this feeling, which is natural, and say “I should not be feeling off-balanced; I should be clear.” But “should” is not an helpful word. The way one should be is the way one is. We do not mean to split hairs, but to take one word out of the language would be perhaps rewarding to those moving through change, and this word is “should.” The heart has a wisdom concerning time which the mind lacks. Thusly, it is well to let the heart choose what form of comfort it may appropriately and skillfully take to bolster the endurance while going through transformation...
Intrinsic to the process are two things: the willingness to endure through discomfort, and the faith that invokes unlimited patience. For the time of change is, in spiritual terms, timeless. Yet, that instant which in time/space exists for so long, being fully potentiated to come into manifestation in space/time, occupies a variable amount of space/time in the experience of one in incarnation. Thusly, there is not a standard waiting period, and patience needs to be given without limit.
-Q’uo -The Law Of One
@confusion_hk 位於上環，在這區域來說，他們的定價算是不錯，店面雖然不大，可算是舒適的，而且食物種類蠻多的，味道也不錯。最喜歡的是炸豆腐條還有炒蛋，炸物配的醬都非常好吃（像是自家調的）。 溫馨提示，炸物和素肉還是盡量不要太常吃，有時候去嚐鮮過過口癮還是可以啦 😊
Confusion Plant Based Kitchen is located in Sheungwan, their pricing is pretty good compare to those restaurants in this area, although the store is not big, but still quite comfortable, and the food has quite a lot of variety, the taste is pretty good as well. My favorite one is fried tofu and scrambled eggs, and the sauces are very delicious (seems like they make their own sauces). Warmly reminder, try not to have fried and mock meat too often, but sometimes it’s OK to try something new.
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