When you create meaning around others’ actions or judge others who don’t provide what you need, chances are you’re really just compensating for a hole within yourself. We have a hole within us when we look to others for validation, love or praise and then get hurt when we observe what we believe is criticism, judgment or rudeness from them instead. But remember, you’re in control of filling the hole within. When you plug this hole within yourself and stop demanding that others fill it for you, you will improve the chances of having the kind of great relationships you long for. There is nothing more attractive than a person who loves themselves so deeply that their positive energy and love spill over to others. This is how you know you've gone from hole to whole.
Have you ever made a bad choice before?
I’ve made plenty. Going through life trying to figure out how to reverse and get into the “right” choice that makes me happy.
I’ve made terrible career and job choices.
Tried too hard to make myself look better then what I am, not staying true to who I am i.e being a “people pleaser”
You need to listen to yourself, others opinions about something you believe in, someone that you are is going to get in your way of believing in you.
I’ve worked so much to where, I would be miserable and complain everyday. I would be mean and terrible to those close to me.
I’ve let go of friends because I’m so focused on my own growth and people don’t always catch up to me—and I’m also a homebody.
Some choices you make in life make a huge impact in your life like your career path. Even if something makes a big impact, know that you create your life. If something doesn’t make you happy you can change. Life gives us success but it also gives us mistakes. Mistakes that we learn from, grow and enjoy the journey along the way.
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"I N T I M A C Y: When You Let Your Hair Down Too Soon, You End Up With A Messed Up Head"
We can become so emotionally charged by a person that we allow ourselves to be intimate before we know who the person really is. When we give our bodies to another being, we are giving them a piece of our souls. We might want to take the time to find out if they deserve it. Sexual activity is not the only way to let someone know we like them. Sharing information, supporting each other’s goals, giving of our time and energy without expectations sends a much stronger message than sex. We must take time to know the other person; understand what they want, where they are going and figure out if we want to be in the same place. When we let down our hair too early in the game we are apt to end up with a messed up head. Choose time over intimacy.