“If he hasn’t had any interest in meeting your mother relationship or not leave him alone. If you’ve never met one family member of his or anyone important to him leave him alone. If he has no intent to ever be your king yet he’s entering your temple as if it belongs to him leave him alone. If he doesn’t stimulate your mind soul or feed you with jewels of wisdom and give you something valuable that can elevate you internally and mentally or elevate your life leave him alone. If he doesn’t support your ideas, dreams, goals, and anything important to you if he doesn’t put you on or put you in position to build with him and be great together leave him alone. If he doesn’t sit back and admire and adore you and hold you after sex leave him alone. And last but not least my queens if he’s not making you CUM LEAVE HIM ALONE. Whether he’s your man or not if you’re fucking him at least get SOMETHING out of it. Something substantial and worth it. Sex is great yes but it gets boring when there’s nothing else being brought to your life. I am completely unbothered and uninterested in a man who has all of these traits. You are important. You are worthy. And you are special. If he doesn’t see that you need to look in the mirror. You are not meant to be put on the side until later. Stop doing wife shit for men who don’t do husband shit for you.”-ME. #photography#photooftheday#artoftheday#art#artist#artwork#artpop#artporn#selfie#artphotography#artvisuals#artofvisuals#bodyart#mua#singer#songwriter#painter#music#producer#melanin#blackisbeautiful#blackart#blackbeauty#jamaican#queen#makeupartist#neonlights#tokyo#blackwomen#photographer
Shoutout to Husband of the Year for making sure my champagne glass was always full and my smile never left my face 😘✨
Also Thank you to all my friends and family for the birthday wishes 🎉
🗣Once again @colgate is you ready or nah?🙃
🗣 On a serious note I've been thinking about a few things. I had a conversation with my mom that led to her saying, "Ife you are free now. " I didn't know why those words liberated me the way it did, but I repeated them 20 times after stated. I am so inspired by the words and actions of freedom. I was so closed off emotionally, spiritually, sexually, creatively, and in more places. So giving myself permission to live life the way I want and with whom I want fearlessly and unapologetically confirmed and honored pieces of me I once choose to ignore. Being Care Free and BLACK is a part of my commitment to self love and freedom. On this amazing #juneteenth love on yourself, others, and ancestors. Bring your light to the function and dance. Free yourself and encourage someone to free themselves. It's a wonderful time to be Black. Sincerely, Aishat🖤
Remember the power of appreciating the present moment, try not to live in regret or anticipation, there are a lot of sides to listen to, but take some time to put your own body and mind at the top of the list.
Hello BGIM Family! Happy Juneteenth! What better way to celebrate than to shoutout a first for black women! We want to shoutout Tiffany Haddish for being the first black woman to host the MTV Movie and TV awards. Let’s just say that she was definitely worth the watch! #BGIM#mtvmovieandtvawards2018
Episode #3 is ALL about dealing with the unexpected. If you’re like me, you already have all areas of your life planned out to the T. But as we all know nothing in life goes how we expect or plan for it to. It’s all a process! But how are we dealing with such “process”? Or are we letting it deal with us? I share some advice that has helped me get through moments in my life that just didn’t go the way I expected it to. Enjoy. As always the link is in my bio 😘