I'm reading the epistle of Timothy right now and this commentary by Tozer on what the apostle Paul said is great. See people know by their conscious that sleeping with another person spouse is not okay. But they still do it because they love the pleasure it brings them. It's not until you're truly broken and realize something is not right and you can't change on your own and cry out to God for help, that's when God steps in and can start working on you. Through his HOLY SPIRIT you start seeing why the sin is wrong and you start to hate it. A person that is born again is not happy in sin at all. It's a miserable thing to sin because you know what it cost our Lord Jesus to cleanse us. This is why when a Christian falls to sin we are miserable because now we don't love our sin, now we love our GOD. You have to Want to change and then cry out to GOD in repentance. You have to know you're a sinner and need a Savior that came to save sinners. This is why we Christians preach daily and won't shut up about the Gospel. I don't do it Because I feel like I'm righteous and want to show off that I don't drink, smoke weed, and party. It's because I have done those things and my God saved me from the pit of hell and I want to share my happiness with you. You don't have to be in bondage to sin. But until you realize there's a problem and you're sick the physician can't heal you.