'We need to start looking beyond the exterior of woman and we need to start looking at her for what she's doing, who she is.
Create a safe space for woman in your lives, for women to be who they are,not hide themselves because of what they're not.
Never let anybody tell you "No."
Never let anybody tell you, you can't.
Be YOUR favourite kind of woman.
Be YOUR OWN ROLEMODEL!
Don't let anybody take that job.' ❤️👭👭❤️ This is the exact reason why I’ve designed my upcoming event ‘ Awaken Your Divine Feminine’ to create this safe space for women, to connect with themselves, connect with each other, release the BS stories and allow their soul to guide them.
If you haven’t got your Early Bird tickets yet, link is in the bio. Purchase them before they are gone, you really don’t want to miss this event. It’s going to be a transformational day in every way 😉❤️ #AwakenYourDivineFeminine
Do you see this smile on my face? It will be on my face for weeks. So excited that my children have the opportunity to be immersed in this amazing summer camp program. 😀😃😄😁😆🙂🙃😉😊☺️ “Train up a child in the way he should go [teaching him to seek God’s wisdom and will for his abilities and talents], Even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
PROVERBS 22:6 AMP
Things to smile about this Monday morning 👇
1. I spent a rainy weekend with my family which was much needed.
2. It's a brand new week and you get to decide what that's going to look like.
3. You can still grab a place at the Elite Retreat for $200 off the original price (Check my Story for more info!)
Happy Monday, hope you have a great start to the week! 💕
👑 3 DAYS AWAY!!!!! YOU DON’T WANT TO MISS THE EXPERIENCE!!! ONLY 6 OPENINGS LEFT!!! HOPE TO SEE YOU THERE❤️ #share#justmii#healingcharlottenc
What’s the mission:
Whether in a long term relationship , no relationship, just dating, or not looking at all black women and men are coming together to heal and build! We are working on bettering ourselves for ourselves and those around us. Attempting to correct the things we do consciously and unconsciously which leads to a lot of unnecessarness in life personal and otherwise. We are here to understand that our actions and attitudes effect everything and everyone around us. Last but not least understand we are each others strength not weakness and by one anothers side we belong. 👑
How often do we feel alone? Like it’s no one to talk to. Feeling like no one could possibly be going through what we are. That couldn’t be further from the truth! As the days pass we get further and further from the Black Man let’s figure out how we can get back beside him! Sisters come out to join this unique session where we gather and actually try to come up with solutions rather than continue doing what hasn’t been working in the past. Let’s come together, build, grow, heal and be the change we wish to see! Black Women are the mothers of civilization therefore change must begin with US!!! Small sessions where everyone talks, everyone listens, and everyone learns!
Host: Misty The Love Maven
Hyatt Place Airport Tyvola Rd
2950 Oak Lake Blvd
Charlotte NC 28208
July 26th 2018
7-9pm $20 per person
Only 20 openings available
CashApp: $MistyMccollie ❤️BLACK 🖤WOMEN 💚ONLY
Solution Sessions 2-4 Coming Soon (each one is completely different so you don’t want to miss one)
#blackwomanhealing#blacklove#solutionsession#build#growth#relationshipcoach#solutions#change#past#future#thelovemaven#letstalk#blackwomenonly#necessaryreform#lovemaven#charlotte#nc ❌Only 6 openings available don’t miss out❌lets come together to heal and build ❌ light refreshments and snacks will be served❌ Healing Charlotte QC and surrounding areas one session at a time❌Feel the experience
It really amazes me to say the least that after almost 16 years I have the relationship and the man that I do! I know I’m mentally ill because after all we been through, all I put him through, and all the experiences that could have broken most up but made us closer he is still and has always been a man of character! Never wavering in his loyalty or morals!!! Tested time and time again and still did right and treated me like his Queen!!!! Y is it so hard to accept it Misty Mccollie? Because in a world full of fakes and dishonest people it’s so hard to believe that Mii Misty actually got a good one! One who restored my faith in Black Men because he shows me daily there are good men and there are good men who want to be just that GOOD MEN!! I said all this to say TODAY I RELEASE THE DISBELIEF AND I ACCEPT IT FOR WAT IT IS! I APOLOGIZE FOR QUESTIONING HIM WEN HE HAS SHOWED ME NOTHING BUT LOYALTY AND LOVE!! I too am on the path of healing which comes with acceptance of the blessings that have been given! Stop waiting for a person to fukk up! If u got a good one and they show u nothing but that, over time of course, take it for wat it is!!! I give thanks! Thanks for your patience, guidance, unconditional love, teachings, allowing and pushing Mii to be Mii, loyalty, friendship, and support! I know who u are and I’ll never question that again hell thanks for even being understanding in that!!! 🙏🏾 #justmii#mrspositivity#thelovemaven#lovemaven#relationshipcoach#solutionsession#love#mistymccollie#misty#positivity#mistythelovemaven#raw#real#smilebitch#life#justmisty#idontownhimbutthatsallmiitho#livingmybestlife#share#blacklove#winwinwinwin#weallwegot#feeltheexperience#thehealingexperience#iammybrand#blessed #❤️🖤💚 #blackcouples#blacklove#understanding
When strangers become friends.....Our very first conversation flowed like the strokes of oil paint on a canvas so of course it lead to me creating some rather intimate pieces.... then the friendship became objective as did the rest of what was to come and I was okay to leave it where it was . . . .
Good morning world 💕
Do better ! Be better & find the light in everyone. Leave the subjectivity to the right operator, your heart, your soul instead of the mind & the ego
Taking breaks to watch the sunset✨
Sometimes you just have to stop & smell the roses!
Thank you to everyone who has been a strong support for me these days. You know who you all are. So grateful ❤️
I’m helping out as much as I can at home right now, working 1:1 with clients & doing readings!✨
I’m staying present on this journey & taking things one step at a time.
I’ll also be taking up a new course at the same time to level myself up for all you who will be working with me in the future. I only want to be the best version of myself to serve you💖
I pray that you take time everyday to stop & smell the roses, watch the #sunset , have a cup of #coffee at your balcony during #sunrise , and constantly love yourself no matter what you go through.
So much faith, love & peace to you!💕
Blessed be, my beautiful friends
It’s just another #MarriageMonday woahhhhh woahhhhh!! Today I want to just ask that we all TRY on living from an OPEN heart. This means remembering that our partners are PARTNERS not opponents.
This pic is from our honeymoon in Hawaii where we had the most magical time!! And it’s one of the memories I call on when I’m in a funk!
This is a great tool for upleveling your happiness. When you feel low, contemplate a memory that makes your heart smile. Sit in that memory, feeling it for at least 17 seconds to allow other like thoughts to join in an uplevel your whole vibration!
We are complex beings - so we can be many things - all at the same time <3
Come and join me in my private FB Group Rewrite Your Relationship Story - for strategies and advice as well as regular Q & A Sessions - link for the group is in the bio @debbicarberry
Im Debbi Carberry a Relationship Coach and Ive been helping women and couples for over a decade to have the relationships they long for.
🔸Angela came to me because she deeply longed to be in a healthy, loving, and vibrant relationship.
But every time she would get close and feel the intimacy build between herself and the person she was dating she would pull away through fear of losing herself.
Angela came from a home where her mother was very judgmental and controlling. And her father was very compliant and didn’t speak up much for his feelings and needs.
As a result Angela had developed a very resistant part of herself that would push against being told what to do in order to maintain her sense of self.
Angela believed that the only way to keep herself emotionally safe and free was through resisting the requests or demands of others.
Or to just go along half heartedly giving up on what she wanted to get the love she desired. *But resistance only creates more resistance in ourselves and with others and moves us further away from our true desires.
I worked with Angela to help her develop a stronger part of herself that would be able to set boundaries on giving herself up and set limits on behaviour that wasn’t loving to her.
I worked with Angela to heal the limiting beliefs that prevented her from showing up in love for all parts of herself instead of making others responsible for her.
As a result Angela was willing to risk opening her heart fully to experience the intimacy she truly desired.
In our work together rather than choosing methods that hurt her and blocked the depth of love she wanted to experience.
Angela had learned new ways of creating inner safety by loving and supporting herself in the relationship.
After doing the courageous work of going deep and confronting what she was running from,
Angela is now enjoying a beautiful and committed relationship with her partner and it’s thriving. (Name changed for privacy) 🔹When you know how to love yourself you can absolutely attract and create the relationship you truly deserve.
You don’t have to let your past rob you of your present joy and the family you want to build.
You don’t have to make the fear of being alone with no one to experience real love with your reality.
( more in comments 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾)
One thing I've realised the older I get is that making NEW friends can be hard. Why? Because putting yourself out there in a 'friend' way... well, THERE'S NO FUCKING RULE BOOK FOR THAT. Is there? When was the last time you made a NEW friend? For real?
Making NEW friends needn't mean those in your life lose their value or become less important to you? Your besties will ALWAYS be your besties #ForLife but it’s so important to have great friends. They provide SO MUCH esteem for us (if we pick the right ones 😂)
So I think we should allow ourselves to make NEW connections because then we end up having MORE incredible people in our lives who we can vibe with, ride with and SLAY LIFE WITH. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Dobro jutro, vjerujem da ste primjetili kako neki ljudi uvijek odgovaraju sa ne znam na vaša pitanja o nečemu ili nekome i onda vas na taj način "natjeraju" da donesete odluke umjesto njih.
Ako je odluka nekim slučajem bila pogrešna oni su sveci i nisu krivi za ništa, ali ako je odluka bila dobra, rado će participirati u uspjehu.
Da se razumijemo, nisu oni tako krhki ili neodlučni, znaju što žele ali ne žele preuzeti odgovornost pa nalaze "žrtve", one koji imaju potrebu zaštiti nekoga da im odrade odluke kako bi oni mogli i dalje biti fini i dobri a netko drugi loš (npr.vi jer ste odlučili umjesto njih u nekoj situaciji).
Maknite to od sebe, za vaše dobro!
Kada se takvi pojave, samo im recite: ok, razumijem, kada odlučiš javi se.
I napravite onda po svom, iznenaditi ćete se kako će se brzo predomisliti i donijeti odluke. 😉
Za sva pitanja o ovoj i svim ostalim temama, slobodno me kontaktirajte.
S ljubavlju, Adela