Married to the Ring: Black Friday early Bird Registration has officially opened! Its going down in Baltimore, Maryland on May 18th. Plan your trip NOW!
4 Speakers, 8 Young Men in the boxing ring, and a special guest appearance from Talk Show Hosts Married4Real!
We are now accepting applications from young men between the ages of 21-30, who fought to overcome a serious life obstacle. Download the application from https://marriedtothering.com/fight/! Also, we are only accepting 5 Vendors... They will be integrated into our themes!
Married to the Ring is a multi-faceted organization, with a mission to heal, restore, and encourage married, engaged, single, and widowed women and men to openly discuss and resolve relationship issues in a transparent, Spirit-led environment through biblical principles. See you there!!! Learn more at https://marriedtothering.com/fight/. #marriedtothering#singles#baltimoremedia#buildingselfesteem#relationshipcoach#christiansingles#christianmarriages#christianwidows#jesuschristislord
I live on an amazing island: Newfoundland, Canada. And I’m experiencing the biggest windstorm on the planet today. That’s right. The entire planet. Mother Nature told this island to go big or go home!
IG can get so impersonal so I thought this would be an interesting way to show you where I do my coaching from. I can reach out to any of you on this beautiful planet of ours from here, the middle of the North Atlantic, and help you navigate your own windstorms known as bumps in the relationship road. Touch base anytime!
》Most people are waiting to win the success lottery. .
》That one thing they accidentally stumble into or falls into their laps ans turns into instant success.
. 》And sometimes we even assume and build other peoples success up in our minds because it appears that's how it happened to them too. .
》That's not how it works. 99% of people who have success that we are inspired by, crave, or maybe even envy, worked towards that success every single day. .
》It's the behind the scenes, insignificant seeming daily tasks, habits, decisions, efforts, failures they do every day that leads up to it.
. 》They show up every day when no one is paying attention or showing up for them. .
》They speak their truths and share their hearts even when no one is listening to them .
》They choose every day to make a scary decision to step towards their goals.
. 》They fail every day, and choose to get up and try again. .
》 They learn to love the process and push instant gratification to the side. .
》And every day those choices, the showing up, the speaking up, the steps forward, the hard work, it all adds up. .
》What choices are you making today that are adding up to your success? Are you showing up? Sharing your heart? Choosing to accept failure as a part of the journey? Learning to enjoy the journey?
Many of us are looking for someone to complete us, but forget that we need to be whole first. Singleness is a space to truly find who you are in God. When we forgo that step and put our validation in another person, we’re always going to depend on them. And since they’re not Jesus and they’re not perfect, it’s a system that’s bound create problems. @iammiketodd
To watch the rest of this message, “Single, Not Alone”, visit Mighty Pursuit (link in bio)
Emotions aren’t logical. Your mind and your intuition know things that your heart wishes to ignore. Sometimes we love blindly and that can cause pain and heartbreak. Give yourself some time and be gentle with yourself while your heart catches up to your mind.
It’s here: the eight day countdown until Thanksgiving. (Sorry!) Cue the gift frenzy, the out-of-town family visits, and the hectic schedule. For many of us, it can wind up being the most stressful time of year. But what if we told you it’s actually an opportunity to have a little … fun? 🙌⠀
This time of year offers a golden opportunity for everyone to slow down, savor time with family, honor traditions, and take a break. HG Co-Founder & Chairwoman @laurenzander_coach discusses the 3 types of stress we all have and how to embrace them in this week’s blog → [ link in bio ]⠀
In all relationships your goal should be to give. Give your time, Give love, Give joy, Give yourself, Give support. Give anything and everything the other person needs. If both people always give the relationship will overflow and there will always be an abundance for the taking in times of need.
Feeling fearful? Fear is only False evidence appearing real. Having patience in fear is giving God time to let His perfect love drive out that fear. The word of God says it is a sin to fear. There are moments when the darkness appears to be bigger than the light in you. Its not. You must remember God choose you and you are protected. God wants you to keep focused on Him and you will be successful. 😊
Check out my new course on "Fear vs Faith" to get new customers ⤴
If you want to talk to someone who has been through the fire and back again, it's me.
At times in my life, I've been used, abused, cheated on, abandoned, betrayed, laughed at, bullied, wanted dead and so much more.
I don't share these things lightly. The reason I share these things is to tell you THIS: If I can make it through all that junk, so can YOU.
When you're in the middle of the fire, it seems like you'll never find your way out. But I'm here to tell you that THERE IS HOPE, THERE IS AN END to it, THERE IS LIGHT at the end of the tunnel. Just keep going. Just keep pushing.
It's never easy, but just keep putting one foot in front of the other and reach out for help when you need it. You are not alone. I'm living proof that you can go through the hardest of things and come out on the other side with MORE JOY and MORE LOVE and MORE PURPOSE than you've ever experienced in your entire life!
It may not seem like it right now, but YOU CAN DO HARD THINGS. YOU CAN MAKE IT THROUGH HARD THINGS!
DM me if you need a place to talk and not feel judged. 1)Being in community, 2)knowing you are not alone, and 3)knowing there is hope are EVERYTHING. ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
📝Creativity is defined as the ability to create or the quality of being creative... With that being said... .
The reality you desire is within you! Take some time and let your creative side flow❣️#GetCreative#ChangeYourLife
QUICK TIPS FOR MOVING THROUGH RESENTMENTS:
•Decide, right now, that you want to live a life of FREEDOM and forgiveness.
•IDENTIFY the exact trait you are resenting someone for. What is the exact judgement if you could narrow it down to one sentence?
•Get CLEAR on how this seemingly negative experience has served you, helped you to grow, transformed you into a more beautiful You. What good has come out of this difficult experience? Even if the light was hard to see at first.
•Look at the experience with objectivity and OWN your role in this outcome. How did you contribute to this experience? As I believe it, it always takes two to Tango.
The sooner I take ownership and radical self-responsibility for my life, the sooner I take back the power to create.
Each day I wake up and I have a CHOICE- will I be a Victim of my Circumstances? Or a Creator of my Life?
(See my first EVER blog post for more on this- link in bio)
Clearing resentments is something I work through with my clients at Relationship Badass.
These questions are catalysts of a thorough process and deep-inner look at oneself.
This process absolutely moved me and shifted my perspective when I cleared resentment towards my ex-boyfriend for cheating on me and leaving the relationship.
Because nothing (I repeat, NOTHING) spoils intimacy like a dirty old bag of past resentments sitting in the middle of your connection.
By clearing resentments- I can see people with more compassion, understanding and LOVE.
I feel more FREE, OPEN and ALIVE.
Have you ever hosted a resentment and it began to effect your life? 👇🏼👇🏼
Tell me about it! I want to hear YOU stories ❤️❤️
If the solution to your current problem were inside your comfort zone….it wouldn’t be a “problem” because you would just solve it.
By DESIGN, the solution you seek is outside your current comfort zone.
So that you will “stretch” yourself to go get the solution, leave your current comfort zone for your next one and GROW!
Problems are the way we GROW.
Don’t be afraid to try something new and think outside the box. When you get a life coach like me whether it’s helping you with relationships were helping your children with self-esteem and confidence I will be the coach to help you go to the level you want to achieve in your life. #TryAndThursday#LifeCoach#RelationshipCoach#Self -esteemCoach #ConfidenceCoach
We can get blindsided by what we want to be true so badly that we don’t give ourselves the distance to see life as is. We all need to see, experience, and understand other things, other perspectives, other people.
Oh, yeah. You heard me: it's not your partner's responsibility to make you orgasm. So what are *you* doing to make it happen? What kind of role are *you* playing in your sexcapades?
Are you just laying there like a blob hoping they guess correctly? Hoping that one of these days they'll figure out that the upper left quadrant of your clitoris is *the* spot? Do you even *know* that it's the upper left quadrant? Do you explore your own body to know what feels good? And if so, are you able to communicate what feels good to your partner(s)?
Or, are you so in your head that you can't relax during sex? 'Cause if your mind is anywhere but right there in the moment it's gonna be pretty damn hard to feel much pleasure let alone reach orgasm, if that's your goal (it shouldn't be but we'll save that for another day). That means taking control of your mind, your stress, your anxieties, your insecurities, and so on, is imperative.
Do you now see how much YOU play a role in your ability to achieve orgasm and experience any sexual pleasure? You, my dear, are the starring role. Not your partner(s). So please, for the love of cheese (fresh mozz or cashew if you're vegan), act accordingly. 😘
➕Yes, you can create positive change in your relationship all by yourself - even if your partner shows no interest, has shut down, is stonewalling, or has completely walked away from you. This is not an easy process, but with the right help, you CAN save your marriage, get your partner’s attention again, and create a beautiful relationship. Private message me if you’d like help.➕
Your boundaries are there to support and ELEVATE you and DRAW in the empowered masculine and feminine.
There’s a DIRECT correlation between your boundaries and your ability to receive love, money, clients, etc., and the amount of happiness, fulfillment, joy and peace you feel on a consistent basis.
Boundaries = Masculine
Receiving = Feminine
If you’re struggling, feeling burned out, or overwhelmed... #
If you’re working hard and not seeing the results from your efforts you know are possible...
It’s a boundary thing.
It’s an energy thing.
If you don’t have strong, supportive boundaries, you’ll attract the wounded masculine and feminine energies... and you’ll live in survival mode.
Most women worry they’re going to push people away by having strong boundaries... #
(I’m worried about pushing this situation I don’t want away from me. 🤔🤔🤦♀️)
Your boundaries MAGNETIZE the empowered energies TO you.
The most loving thing you can do for yourself and others is allow your boundaries to do the work... which is to support and elevate you.
Boundaries are ALWAYS a win/win.
I go over this in-depth in Feminine Energy Secrets. We start tomorrow!!! (Link in bio!)
⚡⚡STOP HALF-ASSING LIFE⚡⚡ Developing my commitment muscle is an every day challenge that continues to yield fulfillment.
I now understand that when something is valuable - acquiring and keeping it is not easy, however being committed will always yield the end result I want.
It therefore makes more sense to commit to my goals in every aspect of my life and eliminate the things/people and habits that attempt to take away from my invaluable time bank.
Where in your life have you truly wanted something but chose to give up, procrastinate or allow someone else to choose for you?
Get in the driver seat of your life//Get on the court and play a stellar game.
Win because you choose to Win!
Men who did not grow up with their mothers or with a loving mother figure must be loved differently. There may be a time that your maternal side is required for him. Yes that means possibly being part mother and part lover.
I have coached some strong, hard-working, intelligent men who have a difficult time in relationships because they were never actually taught what love is.
They’ve never been nurtured by a woman and showed unconditional love and acceptance. When they became adults they used women and kept them at a distance.
When they were finally ready for a long-term commitment it was a real struggle. This kind of man can’t just be with anybody, it has to be a woman who can except the role and make him better...with his help.
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What’s most important in a relationship? The man, the myth, the legend @stephanspeaks answered that question and many more during a recent podcast interview we had with him..
Check out what he had to say and watch the full clip on YouTube at link in his bio @sir_rigsby #relationshipgoals#realrecognizesreal#stephanspeaks#kowalskianalysis
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Tune in tomorrow for my live Q&A:
Time : 10:30 am EST
Topic: Break-Ups & Getting the proper support to get through them.
Let me know if you have any questions you would like me to address!