Beautiful fast paced brisk hike. Went around 2x today still sweating. But my thoughts for day. Yes I'm trying to lose weight and yes I'm looking for friends and someday love. I am trying to reach a goal i set for self. Never do it to get a partner or anyone else but you. The old saying goes true if you don't accept me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best. We seem to live in an internet world yes i do online dating etc. It has turned into all about image and battle for the most likes. After yrs on internet dating i can honestly say some of the most beautiful people i have talked to aren't perfect on the outside. Extra weight, moles etc just they are down on themselves for unimportant reasons. Yet i could talk to them and they are so beautiful to me they just radiate perfection. Some of the most beautiful people on outside end up just being ugly to me. Some have it all going on but very few. Do yourself a favor and say screw what others think of your looks. Do everything for you be a good person and you will be beautiful in every way to someone and make new friends and never know maybe the one someday. But if someone only comments on looks not what you write and who you are as a person that person is not worth your time and will be no more than lust not love or friendship. I have found people in my life 1 very recently that looked past my flaws and i am proud to call a friend they mean a lot to me. #inspiration#thoughtsinnature#friendship#love#behappywithyou#iamblessed#goodfriends#Awesomekids#wholenewworld#daretobedifferent#somebodywilllikeyou#singledad
You will never influence the world by trying to be like it.
We are living in a society where people aim high for perfection.
I’ll start by saying, that is so unrealistic. You’ll never be truly happy unless you are happy with yourself and what you have.
It is good to have goals to better yourself of course, but I myself realize everyday how blessed I am with who and what I have in my life. I aim to be a good person, a good mother & a good friend. I have goals, but I never let those goals become unrealistic and something that render me from being the best person I can be.
Another good reminder:
There is only one you. Fearlessly be yourself. ❤️
✨ Be YOU ✨
We can get so afraid of what others are thinking about us so we change the way we act or we don’t show our full interests or beliefs or talents or personalities.
Nobody benefits from that. Especially you.
It’s like me saying I’m going to stop eating healthy like I do because I know a lot of peeps in my life think I’m “too healthy.” Well that doesn’t make an ounce of sense 🤦♀️ Get over what other people are thinking of you and just be yourself!! This world needs more of your love and light, let it shine true! 💜
And as the lovely @msrachelhollis says “other people’s opinions of you are none of your business!” #beyourself
Oh goodness. How often do we have this picture of how life should be in our heads and completely disappointed when things don't feel perfect. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We need to stop creating these insane expectations and realize how amazing what we already have actually is. There is nothing wrong with wanting to go for goals, dream big, or want to make changes. Heck, I LOVE that.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But I really think you have to also remember that this life is incredible on that journey. While you are working on things, don't forget that it is AMAZING right now and we are so blessed!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Have a great day and take in the beauty of what we have!
Smangat pagi sahabat, smoga tetap berlimpah kesehatan dan kebahagiaan.
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