Shout out to the REAL women!! It's not that there's a “perfect standard” out there. Oh no, instead, there's many different versions of it to narrow them down to a single version of “perfect.” Why? Because “perfect” isn't even a thing. But it turns out that perfectionism can be a serious handicap. Those with the trait of attaining perfection (parent, boss, body size, boyfriend, child, girlfriend, role model etc.) are often frustrated and internally unhappy; thus making life difficult for themselves and for those around them. There isn’t ANYthing we can do in this life that meets the definition of perfect: “being entirely without fault or defect.” So its pretty much impossible. Instead it is much more I important to learn to be satisfied with the results that can come from giving our best efforts. Some days your best effort is 110%, while other days 13% is your best effort. Cool- just keep moving forward! What helps you jump from 13% to 110%?